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killmods:
Twitter people no well.. them done run am meme like this. She should have followed her instincts when she sensed it wasn't okay to video it but guyman still convinced her

What is this,arrow and bow or what?

AntiBMC:
And the stealing continues. The man really used Regina Daniels to get this far. Quite cunning.

Cunny you say,I had say smart
You need to be extremely smart with little crook attitudes here and there to be a billionaire.
He played his game well.

czarr:
Na you done wake up o, look around so many men are easily deceived.

Believe me,men in numbers don wake up to the reality of the female gender,all thanks to the internet,it has helped us share opinions and experiences and we tend to learn from there.
Gone are those days we all assume women are saints,they can't hurt a fly, painting men as always being the deceitful and heartless ones.
Most women don't love genuinely,they are only looking for providers to their needs.
It's the highest bidder for them.

We4all:
Wawu! They feel entitled to your money like you do with their bodies. So stop whining.

What are you saying now sef?
If that is what it is,they should come out and say so now,if na commodity dem body be,e no bad too,we dey game but they should be open with it and not be hiding under we are in a relationship.
They should go to the open market and display themselves there so we can come and bargain and pick anyone of our choice home to do as we wish.
Any time I am tired of the product,I discard it and get a new one.
I don't want to even talk about you yourself as a man that sees sex as the only thing a woman can offer you or only thing you feel a woman can offer you,that's a sign of low self esteem man,do you mean you ain't good enough to be offered other things aside sex?,mind you,sex is a mutual activity.

We4all:
People like you can only last for 0.02 seconds. So, stop bragging.

Sex no be food o but e sure me say any gurl I lash go always come back for more, where problem go dey is if you are among the class of girls I mentioned above,then one month is enough for you to be discarded.
I hate entitlement mentality,no one is an island of being at the recieving end.

I know how to deal with such kind of girls,they are meant to be f.cked and dumped after a month of lovey dovey.
You don't take such kind of girls serious,funny enough,na girls like that plenty for outside these days.
No surprise say the girl wey you just waka pass now dey like that too.
Their almajiri na inbuilt from small,na wetin dem dey teach them for girls guide be that ,how to be a Leech

Earlystar698:
FG should make it criminal offence if someone lash sex worker without paying... I don't know what's wrong with some people, someone decides to use her God given gift to hustle after enjoying her gift you refuse to pay, that's criminal.

So what will govt do to sex workers that don't carry out their service properly well or scam you into paying for bad attitude services.

czarr:
See person future wife.
This one go soon relocate go another state become usher for church, to hook one innocent brother for marriage, after like two years in the marriage you go hear say she done get belle for pastor.

Which future wife?, baba die that talk abeg,as the matterz dey go so,no be all banny go see man marry,the one wey their way pure sef still dey pray,not to talk osho frees.
Na before their game plan dey work for them,them go play away matches with their youthfulness,come dey find one inocent man to tie down in their down time,man don wake up from thy slumbers o

LINSAR:
I understand grabbing boobies.But sucking boobies is just like sucking pure water you didn't cut open.Except a nursing mother sha.

I swears brother,nothing dey that thing like that
Sucking of boobs is exaggerated.

leonard002:
Hit the gym and start working out. In a year you would have built big muscles and a large physique so it will neutralise the big head

Neutralise qwa ?
Shey na acid and base no?

Dynamicboss:
Sure. Unfortunately, you lose your dignity and seen as a love peddler when you welcome another man to your matrimonial bed. Not just in Nigeria or Africa but in overseas countries. Good luck sweetheart , Can you answer the below questions

1) How do you intend to satisfy both men sexually, morally and financially?
2) How would you manage conflicts between them?
3) How do you intend to parent your children?

Added to this,when pregnant for one,how will she satisfy the other ones,or she thinks the other man will wait for 9 months to deliver before he will have sex with her,or she expects a man to have sex with her while pregnant with another man's child?
One thing they should come to terms with is that man and woman can never be the same,they can only try but,God,nature, our different biological anatomy and our mental capacities will always put a reality check on us all.

Zooposki:
In a marriage where there is equal partnership, for example, in the western countries, they are oftentimes happier and more fulfilled. Even African women that marry westerners more often times look happier and well rested.

Compare and contrast to African marriages where the men are filled with ego aka the head of the family, the women are oftentimes miserable and in return make the men miserable.

Imagine escaping from under the rule of your parents, and one small boy under the guise of marriage now come and tell you you must be obey him by fire by force.

If you can't respect the small boy that puts you in his house, who took it as a responsibility to take care of another man's problem all in the name of marriage,then you stay back where ever you are coming from,was there a knife at your neck when he proposed to you or you don't know about the order in a family setting before you accepted the proposal.
The respect you expect the younger ones to give to their senior ones in a family setting is as natural as the respect a woman is expected to give her husband,if you see a problem with that,then you are the problem woman.

siofra:
I need two husbands.

Polyandry is not against the law.

You don't announce it,you go after them,tell them what you want and go see their family for the marriage rites

Susily:
Pls put paragraphs in your write-up. It makes it easier to read. Thanks

Noted comrade!

NamelessOGBENI:
Michael!

Yes sir!

I have always been a crusader of truth and I stand with do anything that rocks your boat as long as it's morally right.

I hardly take online ranting seriously especially from the female gender,but concerning this Yul issue,from my own psychological view,I think most ladies are ranting not because they are faithful themselves,far from that,only few women have the moral standard to be faithful to you if her chips are up, but because it's a taboo for a married woman to cheat with great consequences such as disgrace to family,sent packing from her meal ticket, their inability to be responsible for a man's welfare without beating their chest on that,unlike the other way round (this is rooted from their selfish nature which comes with the only me me me attitude) and most importantly because they know women decline in their beauty with time with child bearing,fat and dropping belle with stretch marks,so they tend not to be attractive for suitors,a woman nature is complex and it's most times to their disadvantage.

A woman will leave and cheat on her struggling, faithful boyfriend whenever there is an opportunity for a better bidder,they are always on the look out for better options while with you in a relationship,they don't give a f.ck about you,they will drop your ass without remorse as soon as a golden boy arrives,not their fault,they lack the moral principle to say no to flashy things,they all grew up with the mindset that women are not meant to suffer.

I am not perfect in this game,but I know about the female psychology to a very good degree,an average woman has this victim inbuilt mentality,they have a motto,which is[b] fight dirty and come out clean[/b], I use this as a weapon against them most time,be a logical man in your dealings,a step ahead of them and they will be confused about your kind of being who is difficult to manipulate.

Like I said,I stand for truth, if ever you meet that rare woman who made lots of selfless sacrifices while being faithful for you to be a made person,I think she deserves your loyalty when you are made too. Until then, a man that was told by the society that he doesn't deserve a woman because he is broke has every right to purchase and own as many women as he desires when he is made,since we are in the woke generation and companionship comes with only when you have money.

Nyascobar1414:
I pity the Ignorant SiMP that will gladly take this Thot..

The problem is that, there is always that one simp that won't mind giving her a try despite her selfish interest that is well printed on her request.
It is okay for her man to elevate her but it's a taboo if she does same.
I can't imagine someone say that to my face and I won't smash and dump such dumb ass.

UCHIHAmask:
I swear on my soul,even the universe itself knows that I would do more than you against anyone that falsely accuse me..
I do not even let simple things go,not because I'm wicked but for the consequences it brings when we let offenders be..

Only when the offenders/false accuser have been duly punished probably in tenfolds would they understand or comprehend your pain.

So true,everyone needs to be accountable for their actions,a mere word from an accused shouldn't be enough to tarnish an innocent person's image,until we critically start looking into all these things,they will continue using false accusations as a meal ticket or clout chasing at the detriment of innocent lives.

fattprince:
I'm not sure we are talking about the same person. The person (dontrulee) I'm talking about came out safe even if he had to sacrifice a little data(for the girl to watch YouTube kid) which was better than being seen wrongly as a pedo. It's has come to the extent anytime a little girl come to play with me my head is always running on how I will play with her in a way it wouldn't be seen as inappropriate in any littlest form. Yes it's gotten to that. Even though I've been harassed sexually by this little bitches, a girl of I think 9/10 once hit my dick playfully and in a very subtle way. I just let it go even though it was in public. Because if I took action most people will still say it was an innocent mistake it me the man(devil) that is just being paranoid and sexualizing it.

I have come across numerous headlines today regarding kids accusing different innocent youthful guys on how they will use false rape accusation as a tool in getting what they want from them which stands as a blackmail,I made my stance on most of them by stating what is right to do as someone upright and who won't take shit for cheap blackmails on my innocent name.
I thought your comment was one of those suggestions too,never knew you were subjective about a particular scenario.
But honestly speaking,in that YouTube scenario,in as much as I think he acted on impulse which was to play safe cos it was strange for a kid to pull up such devilish manipulative act intentionally,using a word as heavy as rape as her defensive line is way too big for her,the best thing to have done is to play her into having an evidence on her through recording since he was holding a phone,thereafter beat the hell out of her,then report her to the parents and quit the relationship you have with them on a high note.
On that note,the girl won him hands down flat and she has realise she can use that as her meal ticket whenever she wants something.
What if after heeding to her demands,she still went ahead to tell the parents that he wanted to rape her while he is still there or even in his absence,you can never tell what might prick the instinct of this kids,who will still believe him since the kid word will still be believed ahead of his anyday anytime,reason why I said such mentality should be kicked out of the door,that is a sign of being weak,such is not here to stay.
In your own case scenario,you can see the extent to which what this things can cause,how long will you keep avoiding girls because they can at anytime shout rape and that will be it.
If we keep running from such and accepting it as a norm because we don't want troubles,one day,it will become so rampant that to even play with your own biological girl child will be frowned at.

fattprince:
They are chatting shit brother. Real shit. As in at that moment save your head which is redpill in the first place. What have these people been learning over 3000+ pages. That they are thinking about how he will rescue other men he prolly doesn't know from manipulation with his own head. He can go and tell the girl's mother later and let her know how she's given her daughter a negative power tool but at that moment he needs to safe his head and that was what he did.
Kudos to you dontrulee

You think he saved his head because the parents didn't press charge against him,the op clearly said they believed her and it spoilt the relationship between him and his aunt,that over years,she still thinks he was a culprit of such before her demise.
The truth is he was just lucky that they didn't press charge against him,maybe because they were families or some other sort of reason but clearly the effect of the accusation is still there which is character defamation.
Caps lock,please stop saying false accusation is here to stay,it's not,only if you allow yourself to be used,you mean we should all be walking on egg shells from now on henceforth with the females around us because any moment they choose to spill out the false rape accusation on you,you will be as good as dead?,if that is what you mean,then I am sorry,that mentality ain't a good one.
What happens to stating it clear to everyone who cares to listen that anyday any unfortunate b.tch accuse you wrongly,remind them there are deadly consequences for that,let them know they can't go away with it.
Reason why you speak so,is because in most cases when a false rape accuser comes open to say the truth after the victim of such accusation must have paid for sins he didn't commit,they often let her go or better still she is been sued for a penny which takes time before such penalty comes into play.
Please don't ever allow weakness make you say a shit is here to stay.
If your name is clean,fight for it aggressively.

I have ever hated anything injustice all my life.
There is something that gives you this kind of heartache pains when you are wrongfully accused of something you stand against and it's even more painful when no one wants to hear you out.
I have always said it and I will continue saying it,anyday anyone male or female accuses me of something as magnanimous as rape,believe me,that unfortunate fellow won't stay alive to tell the rest of the story,I will definitely make your life miserable on earth, spiritually,every think within my capacity will be used in dealing with you.
The after effect of false rape accusation will always be there even after the supposed victim came back to refute the claim as fake,your image, reputations and psychological effect can be draining.
One thing that still baffle me is that,despite some of this false accusations stories which became obvious that they were frame-ups,justice is usually not given to the accused,they tell you to forgive and just admit its one of those things in life,that the said lady was ignorant and all sort of bla bla excuses.
I'm even pissed at some of the false accused victims stories up there,like you were pleading with people around that you were innocent,who does that?
Omo!!!,me I dey vex for shits ooo and I no dey hide am.

Rubbish topic,the question should be why are women forming the weaker gender and running away from responsibilities?

huptin:
How long will it take for the autopsy to be concuded, i thought the law is clear that everyone is considered innocent until proven guilty?

How can a minister be involved in a travesty of justice?

Why is everyone listening to just one narrative, no one has bothered to listen to the man's side of the story! Is it now a crime to be illiterate and be a man?

It's because the victim is a woman,it is clearly stated up there.

CaveAdullam:
In my former place of residence, a 3 year old girl accused a man of 60+ of using a stick to fvck her pvssy. She was just blabbing different nonsense. Single mother daughter.

(There are true occurrences of both male and female molestations but many a times, many accusations are just false or lack proper investigation. And the hate is always on men when the word rape is pronounced).

My rule for those female juveniles: if your mother or father or older relation is not here, you can't be here with me. Only direct siblings (sisters) has their privilege of sleeping or staying under same roof with me. And adult females who I've a good knowledge of.

Womens' last arsenal whether as a tool for offense or defence or manipulations is always sexual. Remove anything sex related and they are powerless. A man must be wise along this path.

Sigh.

Not just powerless,but many are useless as well

CAPSLOCKED:
HERE'S A STORY POSTED BY THE JOURNALIST Chris Kehinde Nwandu (CKN).


I am a medical doctor while my husband is a software developer. We both had good jobs until my husband lost his job and getting another well paid job became difficult, we both decided that I should travel to Canada for a job I got around that time and when I am stabilised, he would join me with the children. We are blessed with 2girls. We continued with our lives.

December 2018, I decided to come to NIGERIA for the festivities and to celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary. When I arrived, I noticed a tensed atmosphere between my daughters and their father. I thought it was the teenager – parent’s issue, so I ignored it. But when I noticed that my daughters would sometimes be rûde to their father, I demanded to know what was going on. This became a matter of concern because, my daughters used to adore their father. I tried several times to get my daughters to speak with me but all they had to say was for me to talk to my husband.

I had to ask my husband what was going on. He told me it was nothing he could not handle and that our daughters were keeping bad company in school and because of this, he decided to disallow them from going out and attending parties. He drops them in school and created time to pick them from school.

I was happy as such strong hand is needed for teenage girls. I then ignored their attitude. Few days to when I was to travel back to Canada. I called my daughters to speak with them. After a long talk, they told me that daddy did not want them to go out because he was having séx with both of them. When my husband came back from the office, I confronted him and they repeated what they told me in his presence. My husband denied vehemently but the girls insisted that it was happening.

I was confused and I sought the counsel of our pastor and his parents. They called our daughters and they said the same thing. I didn’t know who to believe. My husband kept begging me to believe him but I just was not ready to listen because I could not see reason why our children would lie about such. I made arrangement and took my children back to Canada with me despite the loans I had to take, for the extra costs. While I filed for divorce. I raised my children alone for about 3years. Then I heard the news that my now ex husband was getting married to someone else. I mentioned it to the girls and expressed how sad I was that a man that would do that to his daughters went scotfree because there is no evidence to push a case. I bursted out crying while apologizing to my girls about what he put them through. It was there that they confessed that their father did not touch them. That they lied because their father did not give them the freedom to do what they wanted and they wanted to leave NIGERIA.
My world shattered. where do I start from? How do I beg my husband? What do I say? Probably, I should have trusted my husband, but I was just trying to be a good mother.

I lost a good man. How do I get him to forgive his children and I ? Can I still save my home ?
Please help me.


BELIEVE ALL WOMEN AT YOUR OWN DETRIMENT. A FEW YEARS BACK A 3-YEAR-OLD GIRL ACCUSED ME OF TRYING TO ASSAULT HER SEXUALLY. I WAS HOUSING HER MOTHER (MY COUSIN) AT THE TIME. NORMALLY THAT WOULDN'T HAVE HAPPENED BETWEEN I AND AN ADULT FEMALE CUZ ALL MY LIFE I'VE HELD UP MY GUARD LIKE A SPARTAN WHEN IT COMES TO FOLKS FROM THE FEMALE GENDER, BUT TO HAVE A 3-YEAR-OLD COOK UP A STORY LIKE THAT OUT OF THE BLUES, IS JUST GOING TO GO DOWN AS THE ONLY THING THAT EVER LEFT ME LOST AND DUMBFOUNDED IN MY LIFETIME. GUYS YOU SHOULD HAVE SEEN SCENES. HOW SHE LEARNED THAT SCRIPT AND WAS ABLE TO PLAY IT AT AGE 3 SHOULD LEAVE ME CONFUSED BUT HER MOTHER WAS KIND OF THE WORST PERSON ON THE PLANET, AND WITH NO FATHER FIGURE, NO WAY A BABY'S LIFE WON'T BE MERCILESSLY SCREWED FROM THE GET GO.

MOST FEMALES ARE FINDING FALSE ACCUSATIONS AND INFORMATION TO BE USEFUL AS THE PERFECT EQUIPMENT TO RUIN THE LIVES OF MEN. THERE'S NO PERFECT ANGEL OR DISNEY PRINCESSES ANYWHERE. ONCE YOU DROP YOUR GUARD IT'S OVER FOR YOU.

In my own part of the world,you don't accuse me wrongly of something of this magnitude and go Scott free

jahmielbless:
Please someone should kindly summarize, my eyes are paining me.

T for thanks.

N for No

TenQ:
Aren't you making a basic mistake about "your" children!?

The children are not "yours" but BOTH of you. You both have responsibilities over the children. If you have concerns about "your" children, does he also have any concerns?

Have you considered the damage divorce will do to your children? Do you think they hate their father?

Repair your marriage as EVERY marriage in the world have their own different challenge!

When she said her children,she might be right,the children might not be for the man, they might be another product of DNA gone wrong.

phemmyfour:
Poyoyo

The name sef is offside

You mean atutu poyoyo

hatakekakashi:
Also heard Bruno had a minor accident so he might not play.

The best they can hope for with those bunch of average players is a draw.

True for Bruno,heard be had an accident but I think it's a minor one,I won't be surprised if he appears in the line up or bench as I heard he trained with the team thereafter.

I doubt them winning,a draw should be a saving grace for them.
Rolando ain't playing for sure with the recent news about his baby boy been dead.
Man United have no other players that can bring a miracle to the table,not to even talk about the talkative,clueless coach.

ibechris:
Is not about being lucky,if u must succeed in marriage u have to first of all see marriage as business.

Detail what u want at the time both of u are still into relationship and when this is done,u will see everything working out as planned.

When I was dating my wife,I told her about what I intend to achieve before I get to the age of 40. One of which was to have not less than 10 plots of land in two states of the federation. Which today,we are at the 7th plots before I shall get to my target age

And her answer was that,she would help me to achieve my dreams especially the positive ones. We discussed our future children and how many we intend to have as we proceed to getting marrying then.

The fact is what works for Mr. A, may not work for another but the major thing is writing those plan/goals down as it would help u to coordinate your marital ambition beautifully.

Marriage is good especially if come into it with a road map and know who u are marrying, if not,u may be heading downward the hill but if u can do the necessary things requires of u,u will smile at the end.

My brother,there are no formula to this thing called marriage.
You are happily married today still boils down to you having an understanding, matured woman who is truthful in her words and action, which can't be said of many women out there, a lady can paint her self good in your books just to satisfy her desperations, did you guys take an oath while you were making those vows and commitments?,I bet no.
What would you have done if after getting married to her and she suddenly change to a complete stranger,it's a known fact that women can play multifaceted roles just to get what they want from you,when they say someone is manipulative in nature,it means one is cunny in making sure everything is in their favour, don't you think this is one of many traits of manipulative people.