₦airaland Forum

monimekaz:
Just at this situation now ....women like u attract abusive men

Not exactly,you rather say women with such statements bring out the beast in a man,a gentleman can be pushed to the walls.
I just pray such ill-mannered mouth don't make them add up to the list of women who lost their lives in DV.
Many must have forgotten what happened few weeks back when Chris Rock made a joke or verbally abused(in this context of argument) the LovePeddler of a wife to Will smith, most women were clapping their hands with their biased and manipulative nature on how Will slapped Chris as a retaliation on the incident,they said that's is how real men defend their women and family,bla bla bla but are playing double standard now when a man defends his honour by not taking shit from a verbally abusive woman who talks ill about his image or his person.
Please,in every situation,let's not be biased in our judgement, anything A deserve from his or action in same scenario,B also deserves it.
SAY NO TO ANY FORM OF VIOLENT.

TONYE001:
In truth, there are wives like this and this is bad, very bad, in fact. Simply, they lack wisdom and should be urged to study their Bibles closely.

But please, can I ask a question? Are there men that would refuse to help their wives in the kitchen but would hastily cook for their girlfriends (what they call "side chicks" ) ? Are there men that would not wash their wives' clothes but would wash their girlfriends' clothes just because of sex? Of course, there are!

You see? It goes both ways.

Honestly, we have to learn to look at this issue without gender bias. Both genders have their faults and we must learn to address these faults together.

I have read through your write ups till this point,I give you Kudos to your vast knowledge and patience when answering questions thrown at you,but I don't think a woman,pastor and a man,side chick are good analogy to describe what you both are trying to debate on.
Men naturally are ego (alpha)filled(positive either negative) while women are (beta) known to be the passive beings.
It's common seeing women idolising their pastors ahead of their husbands when compared to men washing plates or undies for their side chicks.
A man in his right senses won't wash a woman's undies or plates(apart from probably when his wife is pregnant or sick or any other woman he loves genuinely) and this is even temporary but a woman who places the pastor above her husband will rightfully tell you she does so from religious point of view,on how the pastor is her spiritual father and all other bla bla.

Kingzchinedum:
bross no matter what a lady does to you.. that does not give u any right to touch her..

Please can you explain what you meant by NO MATTER WHAT?

Randy100:
you are right. The most painful aspect, is that most men don't believe that men can suffer from domestic violence.

We are the enemies of ourselves most times,the stereotype thoughts of men are stronger physically and mentally,thereby allowing yourself to be a subject of physical and mental violence.
Any form of violence is bad from both genders,be it beating to pulp or use of abusive words,everyone has the right to exercise a boundary to what they take and don't from people.
I have seen useless men beat up their wives to a pulp for stupid reasons and I have equally seen useless women nag the hell outa their husband or sometimes physical domestic violence on their husband and hell gets loose and the man retaliates with what he calls his own strength (physical beating),in such scenario,the woman quickly rush to form the victim cos she knows there are numerous emotional and hormonal imbalance men out there that will always believe women are the weaker vessel.
Things have changed now,all thanks to technology,if a woman ever raises her nagging voice at you or physically assault you,just have a good record of her shits,then deal with her in your own measures,if she cries and form victim,show evidence of why you dealt with her rightfully.

Men are victims of many shits.
It's time to make use of the internet for our advantage too

It goes both ways Mr investor,every sensible man should look out for who he puts in his D into,if she's the useless type,she will milk you dry and make sure she drops the cup on you.

Mr Obi,stop looking for who will give you presidency on a platter of gold.
Stop forming a victim here,everyone or zone has the right to contest,Nigerians has the right to decide who the winner will be.
Not like the south east have not been contesting ever since,even when the north and other part of South were emerging as winners.
Go through the right channel by winning your party ticket bearer first man.

You say?
Make them hypnotise Buhari for us now
Make I sharperly enter Aso rock,make one or two policies on behalf of Nigerians

Ojukwu blood never dies

You must be joking if you think this government will cough out that kind of money to you

Winningbot:
How will a sane person willingly choose to give up his freedom for Christ sake. naija prison for that matter, how much they wan pay me?

You say who?,if it's the same prison where they do beauty pageant and give award to most beautiful,who wouldn't collect big huge some of money for that,not like the outside world (Nigeria in this term) is any better at the moment.
They made us believe Naija prison yard is a place no one will want to be in but the recent news made us realise it's otherwise.

So true
He has always played a diplomat with the whole bandit issue,thereby questioning his stands on them being called terrorists.

No man go want a damaged woman like you,any man wey come,just know it's for the cruise like you have stated already.
Men ain't damage control expertise,we sef want better thing for our lives.

That is a myopic fallacy
Only your hand work, character and destiny can bring either kind of luck your way
Shey you were luckiless before you met her ni ?

They must be so stupid,the funny thing is that I did mine sometimes ago for all my lines which I was sent congratulatory messages afterwards,but take a look now,my lines have been barred.
Incompetent network providers.

Despite the dripping swag

When you are filled with greed and jealousy,there is no length you can't go to achieve your evil desires

This Efcc with their witch-hunts

minasu190:
Marriage is good if you marry the right,understanding and caring person. Marriage bring forth children,wealth,and harmony. Marriage gives new life compared to singleness,lastly marriage is sweet if you trust your spouse. God bless all the married men and women out there.

Marriage brings wealth in what sense,like you get married and gboooom!,you start seeing dolls in your aza or your hustle will start doubling in pay cos you are married compared to when you are single?

Leo10000:
Omo,na to visit there go order for 3 bottles of odekwu and afang soup.
Kudos to the man of God
Seriously,how long can he continue this gesture cos I know either it's been hijacked by political massacre or lazy People taking advantage of this act by bringing all their family members to eat 5 square meal a day

Badt guy

The least preferred child usually end up being the most successful,this happens often time due to the tough love received while growing up,you achieve most of things you want in life with little or no help,it helps you become independent early. On the other hand,if not managed properly,such kids tend to be rebellious,an outcast with no life bearing which comes with long lasting depression.

Divoc19:
That's an indirect way of telling a man that he should not rely on her money.
Men as head of the family are supposed to be natural providers

Are women artificial providers ?

Hunter has been hunted

Totilopussylick:
Why are you defending the guy now


Were you not aware of he's rants about Naija music

Shattered Wale should do the needful before hunger destroy his mama

Don't worry,I did justice to that. My first paragraph is for him ranting his mouth towards Naija and my second paragraph is from my intellectual point of view on the matter.

I said it too earlier,it's just insensitive for her to even participate in the first place,it's a slap to the face of those who seek justice.
If she has not been convicted yet as many are using that as her defense mechanism,then she shouldn't have contested,come on!,how can someone whose case is still in the court of law to prove her innocency be involve in an event with those who are sentenced already,
Let's assume the case goes in her favour and she gets acquainted,does the award still stands?
Please don't tell me a prison yard is not the end of life,how it's a correctional centre and all other bla bla bla...The prison yard is not a place you go for vacation either,what message are they passing to the society,that it is okay to pass a knife through my nearest neighbour's neck with any little provocation from him or her?sebi kpatakpata,if I get sentenced,I will only be restricted behind four walls without missing out on life generally.
With the current situation in Nigeria,an average citizen can't even see a 3 square meal per day,so tell me,why won't such person see the prison yard as the next saving route,since life is better in there.let me just wotowoto small bullet for your body and I will be sent on an honey moon in the prison yard.
If we all have that ideology about the prison yard,then you and I are not safe either.
Who gives a shit anyway about the mental and emotional health of a convicted murderer who unjustly took the life of another,by all standards,such convict should be living in sorrow everyday of his or her life in prison.
Such rehabilitation programs should be made only for those with mild crimes,those with short jail term or those who are close to being freed.

Clout chasing,anything to embarrass your son Wale is welcome
Not like she lacks food and shelter,but of course as Wale's mum,she thought she deserves what other artist give to their mum,a car,house in banana island

That is shit, not all fame comes with wealth but how come the female folks are paid higher,abi is my eyes paining me.

Nenzeey479:
really!

Uh uh!

If he had succeeded and sold those computers,next thing is to attribute his overnight riches to God and telling the world,what God cannot do does not exist

Baba don chop bolly no wan pay
He should be sued

Nenzeey479:
capital NO capital NO

Funny you,that NO of yours should be on a placard while protesting on the street : and not here.