seborrhic:

And you also believe she has been sacked because she tore your letter?If sacking someone is that easy,even in the private sector,then half of all employees would be changed on a yearly basis.
They didn't call you to testify,they didn't call her,witnesses of the event and vroom your mighty letter got her sacked
Even if she molested you,getting an employee sacked under the civil service is not done at the whims and caprices of one overlord sitting down somewhere,so don't start deluding yourself.

How are u so sure someone has not reported her for one case of the other, or she has not had series of queries before!

Just 'waking up oo' let me kick start this express entry entry of a thing.

sacx:


Since you are willing to help, why not take her to a teaching hospital near you with competent professionals. Let a proper examination be done on her legs and establish whether there is nerve damage of some sort which could be the cause of the problem. It doesn't cost too much to make consultation.

God bless you my brother! Many of us wait until something is big before we try hospital.

Some are still proposing church to her, might be they didn't read where she said they have taken her to different churches.

Auntie!! Go hospital, hospital!!

okeniti:
Every joke has an element of truth to it - A former collegue.

If I had seen his tweet then, I would have joke those guy being killed are not Nigerian.
which is the most reason they disgraced their stateman in Germany.

autofreak2020:


Yeah, Sad Reality.

You guys are saying it is the truth! Right!
What if another person joke that the so called Igbos being killed there are not Nigerian! But BIAFRA! Will you call it a good joke too??


See, at this time, we are trying to be United to be able to fight with those people, its not the right time for this.

Spectrumzeee:

This is not a licence to cheat.Besides sex,there are emotional attachments u share with a woman.

My wife and I slept on d same bed everyday for seven years until she traveled and suddenly am alone.All to myself and my wife is just concerned about her life in Australia.

No expression of emotions or anything close.
Not all about sex please.

God will give u the strength to carry on, there is no need to ignite ur ex girlfriend relationship again. Since ur wife is coming next year (2020), why not try to endure till then.

Sanu.

Spectrumzeee:
I am a 40 year old guy,married with two kids.My wife,36,left Nigeria for Australia to further her study as a Nurse.

While she was leaving in May,2017,we planned that our kids and I will join her after three months to remain as a couple and as a family,but unfortunately when she got there,we discovered that certain amendments had been made in d immigration policies for students bringing in dependents(family members),unless she is done by April 2020,get a job and go thru some immigration processes before the kids and I will be allowed to join her.

So,we had no choice but to face d reality that she will ve to remain there to study,while d kids and I stay back until she is done with her course of study.

Though,my wife has visited Nigeria three times at different times in the last two years plus.

I did my best to remain faithful to her until February,2018,but as a man,I was emotionally and sex starved that I had to get a girlfriend whom we had sexual relationship 2gether until January 2019 that I had to end the relationship.

I ended d relationship b'cos;

1)I felt very guilty for cheating on my wife as am sure my wife has been faithful.

2)She didn't allow me concentrate in taking care of my kids as she always wanted me to spend time with her.

3)I had started developing strong feelings for her to d extent that I was considering marrying her as she seemed to ve filled d vaccum my wife left and she loves me too and wanted me around always.

Though this ex side chick of mine still want us back but I ve resisted every of her attempts and persuasion to ensure I remain faithful to my wife,but d challenge I ve now is that am psychologically devastated as I am sex starved and need a woman in my life to relate with.Married guys here will understand me better.

Am suffering from chronic emotional boredom and at d same time,do not want to betray my wife again.

But what is most discouraging about d situation is that whenever I express how I feel to my wife on phone,she accuses me of discussing unnecessary issues with her and say am disturbing her.

That am not d first husband that his wife would travel out for that long and so many discouraging words that tend to push me into d hands of my ex side chick or any other girl.

It is not easy for a married man who has been sexually
active for seven years to stay alone without his wife or a woman for over two years and at the same time gets no encouragement from d said wife.

So,am thinking of going back to my ex side chick to get comfort, peharps until she is done with her activities in Australia for us to join her,hoping that I don't get lost in d arms of another woman till then.

Am just emotionally and psychologically frustrated.

Just an excuse to cheat! Go back to her and enjoy yourself! Do you think ur wife doesn't feel the same way?

If you really want to be faithful, u can without bringing these excuses!

Do you want us to validate 'cheat' for you so that u won't feel guilty anymore?

Isabellah:
Michael Jackson songs are playing on every radio station. Today is his birthday.

The World has refused to forget him.

Wow! Reason its good to leave a legacy behind

pinkPUSSY:

Channel your frustrations to impromptu Salah celebration that will take place next month in Saudi Arabia using the names your Yoruba brother's below as ingredients..


Adeniyi Adebayo Zikri

Tunde Ibrahim

Jimoh Idhola Lawal

Lolo Babatunde

Sulaiman Tunde

Idris Adewuumi Adepoju

Abdul Raimi Awela Ajibola

Yusuf Makeen Ajiboye

Adam Idris Abubakar

Saka Zakaria

Biola Lawal

Isa Abubakar Adam

Ibrahim Chiroma

Hafis Amosu

Aliu Muhammad

Funmilayo Omoyemi Bishi

Mistura Yekini

Amina Ajoke Alobi

Kuburat Ibrahim

Alaja Olufunke Alalaoe Abdulqadir

Fawsat Balagun Alabi

Aisha Muhammad Amira

Adebayo Zakariya




Meanwhile when is Sowore going to stop eating watery beans in prison?

Where is Adeyinka Grandson?

Yeye! All these wil happen at the back of your backyard abi??

Your source! Oni ro oshi!

Abfinest007:
women with fish brain

Not at all, it's not about fish brain! It's really absurd today the fact! Do you know there are some things women do purposely Tom make the husband get angry? In such case, the so called husband will still be buying gift for her.

You know women like men that can say 'NO' when it's necessary or 'DON'T DO IT' as the case may be?

midolian:
This is the kinda revolution I am talking about and will partake in...

This is why I love the Yeebows

Fellow Nigerians, if there is anything to learn here, it is the fact that we have been sleeping. Before we blame Buhari for every problem of ours as a country, what have done to those we have chosen to represent us at the local, state and federal level? Have we ever confronted them as a people to ask them to give account of stewardship? If Yes, what have we been doing to those who have failed to represent us well? Truth is, if we have been beating failed leaders from the outset like Ekweremadu just witnessed, we won't be so far from the promised land as we are now.

The video up there is a summary of the solution to our problems as a people. Not Biafra, not Oduduwa, not Arewa kingdom, Never a divided Nigeria!

You are on point

kenex4ever:
when they murder your children then you can be in his shoes

Did they go to his house and murder his children!

I beg oo, I need one too ooo. same things applies to me.

infortech:
Thanks for that, because that what am thinking to do first.

See oga! It's simple! Just don't lay ur hands on her. She won't definitely stab!

Temmygold600:


Am not a fool and I know what I want.
The fact that I don't have feelings for someone doesn't mean I have to force myself whether he is nice or not.
Am not allergic to mistakes.

See! Madam, u don't know what you want! Someone that abuses you anyhow he likes and told ur parents u are a prostitute, called u bastards. Not the first time nor the second, yet u are asking this question. Is it until he starts giving you dark eye before u wise up!

See! Face your studies and leave men alone now!

You guys should go and protest very well for your Biafra! U wil soon get it.

laudate:

There is everything wrong with Kanu's position.
A man who fled Nigeria to avoid facing the full wrath of the law, is now advising someone else to commit infractions, that will lead to the full weight of that law being visited upon that person's head.

Isn't that unfair and wicked on Kanu's part? Why didn't Kanu come back to Nigeria to help Sowore's people organise the protest and participate in it?

Yes na! He thought everyone doesn't use their brains like them! Like whenever we see a placard raised by a Yoruba man or whatsoever, we all should follow and start protesting! We no mumu like them naa.

CrimeKsmart:

You have comprehension problem. Firstly, Yoruba did not support his revolution protest and that's why you see that no sensible Yoruba man takes/took him serious. I hope you were wise as at 2012 when Yoruba led a massive protest against GEJ when fuel subsidy was removed in Lagos. So a protest is never a problem for Yoruba people.

The greatest coward in history was Ojukwu who ran away leaving his armies and 3million igbos to die like chickens.

Chai!!

Cuteify:
I'm a member of this forum but I had to creat this account to express how I feel,Please pardon my errors.

I'm really depressed and most times I feel like ending it all. I have come to realize what people who commit suicide go through. Let's say I have been an unlucky girl. I don't get what's happening anymore to me. I don't know if I'm under a curse or something.

After my NYSC 4 years ago, I haven't been able to secure a good Job, I get invited for interviews yet at the last phase of it, I'm turned down. Same thing happen in my relationship, I give all yet I'm jilted. I'm not the demanding type, I have been able to main Long relationship thinking it would end in marriage yet it ends with no just cause. I'm good looking yet I don't know what the problem is. My elder sister faced the same challenge, infact she had to run off with the guy and got pregnant without being married legally. I don't want such type of marriage,I want everything to be done properly yet it's not working. I'm 27 years, yet I don't have a serious relationship,no Job too. My brothers are graduate yet they can't secure a good job, everyone in my family is teaching because that's the only job available, I refuse to take up one when I see it as a curse.

I had to do some research on my background and I discovered somethings. My uncles are facing same thing, I have aunties 40years and above not married,no job. In a family of 9 children, Just my mum is married. I have prayed and prayed it seems it's not just working.. .

I'm a graduate, intelligent, Good looking yet I can't get married or at least have a good job all because of a family/generational curse. I'm really dying silently, what's the need of living again?

I posted this on romance section but I still need advice, I noticed I can't make any comment on the post

See my dear! It's not a curse or whatsoever, just pray! Any situation we found ourselves that we don't like.

I'm a living witness! At that 27year you are complaining you have never seen a job, that u have graduated 4 years ago, I got admission into University at 27 yeas, with no relationship at all, but I thank God today.

Go outside and make things happen. There are so many short day jobs u can be managing pending when u have a good one.
Talk to people about jobs, not necessarily should be in your line of study. It may not even be B.sc required. God will make away for you.

Sweettwenty8:
Finaly i decided to create an account

What's up Nairaland, Please Pardon my English.

So me and my man been married for a year now but here's the thing he does that pisses me OFF!!! TOTALLY!!!! ehn, every time I cook rice and stew (fried stew/fish/meat) he'd ask me to go outside the estate to go and buy Ewa(beans) (I'm using Ewa because that's how he pronounces it. So I noticed this earlier and I started Cooking beans anytime I cook rice. He'll still request for 'Ewa' the Mama put beans made and sold by the roadside

While we dated he'd even ask me to cook for himself and his friends and if my cooking was bad, I'd have gotten feedback somehow.. how can I serve food and he'll ask me to go get 'Ewa' at Shangisha Outside Magodo Gra to mix his rice even when we have visitors he will send me a whatsapp message to still go get Ewa most times he'll even book uber if i tell him I'm too tired to drive I'm tired of going to buy Ewa!!

How do i get to know what the problem is, because it's definitely not my cooking, 2 of my office buddies they don't buy lunch because i bring enough food for 3 of us everyday and they'd have stopped eating it if it was bad

Anytime he asks you to go and buy ewa, tell him to go by himself.

tooth4tooth:
This one is serious oo. Meanwhile,one woman that have ten children for her husband waited for 3years without any form of communication

It was rumoured in their barracks that her husband was dead but she kept faith and was prayerful.She said her first son had to drop out from Polytechnic to join the army claiming the burden of the children was too much for her to bear.

After 3years 5months her husband returned from Borno,Sambisa forest to be precise.

I don't know why many of our ladies find it difficult to control their libido.They will still be the one saying"You know I don't like sex" ,yet cannot stick to one partner. Very nauseating attitude.

U no even think before u talk sef! Someone born 10children for person, u talk say she dey loyal for almost 3 years, she for carry ten children go give another man naa!

Wetin remain for her after 10 kids??

slimhandsome101:
It is not new that serious importers buy there goods from chinese site that sells cheaper and of good quality which give them good profit, so they decided to buy from 1688.com, taobao.com, etc. Note that this sites are chinese written sites and are specifically made for chinese people, people that are not chinese would have to translate the page to english with the help of google chrome. You will not be able to have full access to the sites without logging in.I found out that so many importers outsource this to people which is not bad but makes you pay more and this made me to bring this solution to importers who want to gain full access to these sites and also be able to find out comprehensive information about products and the sellers.

I can create an account for you and you will have the full access to these two sites. Also if you need to pay your seller i can do that for you. If interested you can drop your email and i will contact you.

Have a nice weekend.

Well done! Please can you help me register on Taobao? I will appreciate sir!

Ritaokafor:
How will their separation be? It's kinda hard. They may not survive it cos even if one survives,may appear bent in posture.

Too much brain u have. Exactly I was thinking!

Next time, don't try such, don't make an Oath with the Holy Book even if you are saying the truth.

If she doesn't believe you, let her do her worse!!

It's not proper for someone you are planning your future with to ask you take an Oath with your life.

"University of Covenant" he asked! Where is that?? chaii

Tunagee:


Wow! I appreciate your advise. But a responsible woman now would want me to divorce her and marry her; the court process, my age 44, having to go through all that marriage procedure and process again, that is, God forbid, I don't end up with someone even much more worse as a wife.

t

You a wise man! Don't mind all these small boys telling you to divorce your wife oo, is either they have not married or they grew up in a broken home. Paraventure u marry another one and she starts misbehaving too? You divorce that too and re-marry.

Is there no room for amendment or repair again! Must I throw everything that is bad away??

Pls sir, try settle your home. May God be with you.

sarrki:
I love Toni Braxton song so much

Especially another sad love song

My best is Breath Again!!

Thief don catch hunter!! sharp girl

davillian:

He has gotten the job before the screening , interviews and test.
To make maters worst with a 3rd class.

Thank God you noticed too.

Orpe7:


35 i guess, i was in SS2 back then

Finished secondary school that year.

Jabioro:
Allahu Akibar is not being shouted... there Christian no be so ? Opnu pora mole..Arindin

I no fit blame you! Shouting Jesus mean someone is a Christian!! Apoóda! Mumudey!

Ginaruby:


If you have alot of money as you stated.

Why not relocate to a more serene environment and enjoy your day sleep.

Then use your present location to rear pigs and raise fowl, with that they will understand how you are feeling now.

Make sure you thank me later.

Seconded!!!