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nikkypearl:
No" 6"tho...replacing memory with another?what make you think the other girl is any better

No '4"...really na wash! abeggi!

Kalatium:
I’m not an attractive guy.
I’m not cool, I’m not suave, I’m not fun, I’m not exciting, and I’m definitely not the Man of her dreams.
I’m not any of these things. In fact, I’m not anything at all.
I’m not saying all this because I want your sympathy. I’m not saying all this because I think I’m worthless.
I’m saying it because I firmly believe that I’m not any of those things because I can never actually be any of these things .
All these labels are simply subjective judgements which are completely specific to the individual.
There is no objective measure of attractive. There is no objective measure of cool. There is no objective measure of fun. Sure, there are things that more people find attractive or fun, but there isn’t one thing that everyone agrees on.
For me to label myself objectively as any of these things is the height of arrogance. By doing so, I’m saying that I know what everyone else is thinking and I can read their minds.
Last time I checked, I could not read minds.
Yes, there are people who find me attractive, but I’m sure there are people who think I’m unattractive. There are people who think I’m cool as I’m sure there are also people who think I’m uncool.
They’re not some kind of objective mould that you can just squeeze yourself into. They’re totally subjective to the person making the judgement.

What is attractive?
Is it tall? Yes, for some.
Is it short? Yes, for others.
Is it skinny? Yes.
Is it curvy? Most definitely.
Is it Brunette? Of course.
Is it blond? Without a doubt.
It’s totally subjective.
In the Solomon Islands, girls over 100kg are considered attractive. If you took Adriana Lima and Miranda Kerr over there, the men would walk away in disgust.
How many times have you seen a girl who your mate thought was a HB10, and you weren’t really that intersted in?
What is cool?
Is it fun and outgoing? Yes.
Is it laidback and aloof? Yes.
Is it tough and strong? Yes.
Is it humble and meek? Yes.
It’s totally subjective.
I’m not cool, just in the same way that I’m not a dork. I’m not attractive in the same way I’m not unattractive. I’m not fun in the same way I’m not boring.
I’m not anything, and neither are you.
Putting these labels around yourself is a great way to cause yourself pain. If you label yourself as attractive then as soon as you encounter a situation where someone finds you unattractive, you’re going to feel shit.
But, if you don’t try and label yourself as attractive, then there’s no issue if she doesn’t find you unattractive. I’m not saying label yourself as unattractive so that you’ll never have a conflict.
I’m saying, don’t label yourself at all.
You don’t know if you’re attractive to her. You also don’t know if you’re unattractive to her. You don’t know anything. You cannot read her mind and you cannot read the minds of anyone else around you.
You know nothing other than how you feel and what you desire.
That’s it.
Nothing else.
So, stop pretending that you do and stop causing yourself unnecessary pain.
You’re not attractive in the same way that you’re not unattractive. You’re just a guy.
You’re not cool in the same way you’re not a dork. You’re just a guy. You’re not fun in the same way you’re not boring. You’re just a guy.
Stop focussing on things you can never, ever know, and start focussing your attention on the only things you can ever know – how you feel and what you want.
If you have a very limited amount of women in your life at the moment it doesn’t mean anything other than you have a very limited amount of women in your life.
You’re not a better or worse person than anyone. You’re just you. All you can ever know is how you feel and what you desire.
If you walk up to a woman and she ignores you, it doesn’t make you anything. It doesn’t make you good with women, it doesn’t make you bad with women. It just means that that particular woman wasn’t receptive to you at that point in time.
Nothing else.
All you can know is how you feel and what you desire.
They’re all subjective judgements.
Some people are going to want to be around you. Others aren’t. You can’t control that.
Sure, you could try and learn more popular things – but are you really willing to do something that you don’t want to just so that people will hang around with you?
And if you do, those kinds of things, do you think it’s going to make you happy?
All you can do is follow your desires and live the life you want. You can fill your life with the things that interest you and the things that fill your life with fun and passion.
If people want to be part of that, great. If people don’t, great to.
So live your life, do what you want, and let the chips fall where they may.

LoGun

Chi59:
As the world sickle cell day approaches in three days time, I think about sickle cell and the impacts on various aspects of my life, especially my love life.

I haven't actually been in a relationship yet. And while I want to think that it has nothing to do with the fact that I'm a sickler, I've noticed a certain trend in the guys I've come to like.

The initial promises, the show of affection, the hesitation, lies and sudden disappearance seems to be a vicious cycle.

So I want to ask, why is that so?
Would you date a sickler if you could?
Why wouldn't you want to date a sickler?

Cc: Lalasticlala, Ishilove

fancy4eve:
I can see u re high on cheap stuff

fancy4eve:
Am not happy cus I don't hv a job @ d moment.

vladhillz:
lol..bro.. I'm good..aint bothered by tiny things..beside,,wouldn't want to get infected.

Chi59:
I don't need your pity, dude.

vladhillz:
either ways,,he or she should chill

Chi59:
Love is the strongest force on earth. It changes people and changes situations too.
It's one of the most basic emotions, that each and every one of us have both experienced and expressed at one time, or another.

Sickle cell, on the other hand, is the world's most common genetic disease. The notable double S gene capable of being inherited from one's parents, that is characterized by frequent bouts of mild to excruciating pain (crisis), anemia and other health challenges.

When sickle cell meets love, it's no longer "your" problem, but "ours".
When sickle cell meets love, pain is turned to passion, purpose and a desire to live
When sickle cell meets love, acceptance is not far away, discrimination is put on the run.
When sickle cell meets love, it infuses courage to face each and every kind of challenge.
When sickle cell meets love, each crisis leaves one with renewed hope and determination, rather than heart-sinking depression.
When sickle cell meets love, it transfuses life and hope into a depressed and suicidal person.

Love conquers all.
Happy World Sickle Cell Day.

vladhillz:
chill,woman..chill..you wouldn't want to be talked to that way if you were going through stuffs,,apply the Golden rule,

AdaAde:
Please, who knows any clean country where I can train my children in the future, so they'll grow up with healthy minds.

This generation is something else.!!!
For crying out loud when will women learn to dress modestly, when will women grow up knowing their worth. How long are we going to keep coming across woman with low IQ?, when will women learn to use their brains and not their private parts to achieve their dreams. It hurts so much

I'm even scared of giving birth to female kids.

Issakendrick:
Two suspected female thieves met their Waterloo, this evening, after stealing the sum of N200k from a boutique at Ekpan, Warri, Delta State.

The duo were caught when they were about leaving. The money was carefully wrapped in a gown they bought. They were subsequently stripped and disgraced before being handed over to the police.

Source:
http://nairaplus.com/2018/07/two-slaymamas-stripped-unclad-after-stealing-n200k-from-a-boutique-in-delta/

Henitan24:
Yes I did willingly but pls no more question regards to that here. You should know my reason. I'm sorry

Henitan24:
I'm not though not proud of that but can't lie. Thanks dearie for wanting me to learn

lenny12:
your Foolishness

Henitan24:
If I knock your head, my hand will enter your skull . i don't have multiple sexual partners ok. How are you?

CAPSLOCKED:
COMING FROM SOMEONE THAT LIVES IN THAILAND.
IT'S LIKE YOU'RE AN ENEMY OF PROGRESS AND DEVELOPMENT.

lenny12:
bastard.....No Worry, You Go Soon Die

Oyindidi:
Short, fat potbellied guy. Free me this night

MrCork:
..I will spray those legs with £15 cash... anyways keep my property ùntil I arrive!

Tessyama1:
From; Amagitesblog.com


Singer Tiwa Savage estranged husband, Teebillz yesterday took to his social media page to share a video from his wild night out with friends.

The video was of him relaxing at a strip club. He has now apologized to anyone his post offended.

He wrote;

"I apologize to anyone I may have offended with my last post.

Truth is it was a lapse in judgement. I haven’t been out in a while now and a few friends suggested I should just go have a little fun.
I truly didn’t see anything wrong in the little fun but a few ppl have contacted me about how these images may come off wrong to ppl who do not know me and are quick to judge.
I take full responsibility for my post but know it was all in good fun.
Back to what is important, finding peace within, daddy duties and creating a better future for them."

Read more here; https://www.amagitesblog.com/2018/07/teebillz-apologizes-for-posting-video-of-himself-at-a-strip-club.html