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NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Her husband no complain. Bad belle people everywhere.

eterisan:
abi.... She try... But she is completely delusional... Just look at her signature. She want to grad with first class.... In real life she must really be a frustrated depressed girl. Just seeking for relevance and attention online. Smh.... I'm wasting my time her.... It's Saturday I'm out abeg.

Amakababe:
did you just call me a prostitute?
The reason I wouldn't exchange words with you is because you're frustrated , bitter, like a rusted leaf waiting for the rain to bend it completely.

Oh yes, your previous posts on that thread shows you've been heartbroken severally, so you're calling me a prostitute to compensate. You forgot that I wasn't the one who broke you like a pencil.

Goodluck

jessca048:
had a good laugh reading through this thread

eterisan:
abi.... She try... But she is completely delusional... Just look at her signature. She want to grad with first class.... In real life she must really be a frustrated depressed girl. Just seeking for relevance and attention online. Smh.... I'm wasting my time her.... It's Saturday I'm out abeg.

davidif:
And why would you call her a prostitute? Do you even know her?

eterisan:
With 0.2 cgpa... Them go soon pursue your for school then you go concentrate for your olosho business.

Mimimile93 come see them

gbenyi:
We have been learning how to act romantic since the year 1900 but the truth is, we are never getting any better. Every now and then, we get mauled by our women for our poor sense of romance. But the fault is not entirely ours. So many factors add up to why African men are not so romantic

1. No one ever taught us how to be romantic

Where I grew up, it is near impossible to stumble on a sight of two adults holding hands on a romantic walk. It's uncultural and in some cases a taboo to kiss or show a partner affection publicly. This has become out way of life. When you grow up in a society that abhors close relations between the genders, it inadvertently becomes a part of you.

2. Lets shove some blame to our women

Chofam interviewed and asked 50 women in Nigeria if they would kiss a man in public. 68% said they would not for varied reasons. 12% said they would, 20% said they would but only if it was absolutely necessary. In any case, it takes two to tango. If really the most romantic men were on high demand, more men would learn to be more romantic. But then, African woman value more of strength and ruggedness as opposed to caring, calm or meekness. Guys who indulge in romantic overtures are seen by the women to be less manly or weak.

https://chofam.com/2018/07/why-african-men-are-not-so-romantic/

Donshaga:
Many guys think that a woman wants a man with loads of money, Brad Pitt looks but that's not the whole story.
You need to understand the PSYCHOLOGY OF ATTRACTION & what women intensively look for in a man.

My name is Chris Uzor & today we will talk about the 5 Psychological Tricks to get a girl to like you.

Before we get started, also check out my previous post on how to approach women I've revealed lots of sects on how to smoothly approach women & get her number.

Alright let's roll...

[/b]#1 PRE-SELECTION :-
Preselection is whereby a woman sees you with lots of other women, she'll more likely to become attracted to you & will be curious of why other girls are interested in you. This shows that you have qualities other women desire.

One way to do this is to go out with your female friends to clubs,social environment etc , if you don't have female friends, arrive there early chat with some groups of girls & be friend them, when other women arrive, they'll see that you're hanging out with other girls and become more interested.

You'll be a lot more noticeable if you're with other women than just being alone or with your guy friends.

Another way to do this is to casually mention other women in your life throughout the conversation but don't overdo this or you might come off as a player.

[b]#2 DON'T ALWAYS BE AVAILABLE:-

The journal of applied psychology found that humans place higher value on objects that are scarce & lower value on object that are abundant.

Base on the same principle, don't always be available at any moment, have other things going on in your life & make to have standards beyond her looks, one way to convey this is to ask her a qualification question such as [i][/i]"Besides, your pretty looks, tell me one interesting thing about you?
This tells her that you have standards and won't date her based on her looks alone.

[/b]#3The Extended look :

Studies shows that two people in conversation normally make eye contact to 30% -60% of the time.
Couple who are in love however look each other 75% of the time or more.

When you look at a girl you like maintain strong eye contact with her about 75% or more. This establish intimacy. It also shows you're a relaxed, confident guy & women find that attractive.

[b]#4Proud Face:-

Show emotional expression of HAPPINESS, PRIDE & SHAME compared to neutral face. Too much smiling perceived as feminine or shy.

So when you're talking to a chick, smile but don't overdo it.
Women find men with a proud face as high status & are comfortable around girls.
So when you approach women you like recall something you're proud of & start the conversation while gliming with pride.

[/b]#5 Instant Status Signal :-

When you dress high status women will assume you're high status man, so wear quality clothes that are not yet old or worn out. And also make sure they're well tailored because women will notice this & that's one way they detect your status.

[b]#6Open Body language:-

Men with closed body language come of as less attractive, less confident & less persuasive.
So always display open body language by standing tall,confident and take up space.

[b][/b]#7Leadership:-

A leader in a group trends to have the highest status.Women like and prefer men that take charge, make decisions & leads her/group. Create plan for the night, decide where to go & what to do.

And if you like what you've learnt this is just a scratch of the surface.

On 16th of July, I'll be launching my new book called "The Rapid Seduction Secrets" to help you get transformational results more faster. So don't miss out on this.

Till next time,
Your man,
Chris Uzor

searchcorp:
I bet you are married.

ImaIma1:
Both of you are just deceiving yourselves.
You are both in an distance unserious open relationship.

ImaIma1:
Just free yourself and not be too uptight.
Don't expect too much from people...anticipate their let down
Don't take yourself too seriously so that you can be approachable.
You will be fine

Greatzeus:
Personally,i think cheating is a concept accurately applicable to the Married Couples and those Engaged only.why? because you are bound to him or her by a legal or religious oath.Unlike Bf/Gf relationships,So why keep a promise you never made by being faithful?
Now i am not here to encourage cheating please but to discourage it

Now to the Married and Engaged,have you ever being tempted to cheat on your partner? Probably yes, it goes beyond the actual act of sex most times, to include mesmerizing about a "hot" colleague or neighbor,sending obscene pictures of yourself to another person,to sex chatting,viewing pornography content without your spouse etc.

My question to the Married and Engaged is, is it worth it cheating on your spouse? to those who have one time or another cheated before,is it worth it,really? be sincere with yourself,would you go back to correct your mistake if you can? It takes the grace of God yes,but we should also have checks and balances in our lives that makes it easier for us to overcome certain things.
Whenever you are tempted to cheat on your spouse,in your matrimonial home, at your work place, while on a journey far from the comfort and caress of your wife or while on a business trip outside the country,just try as much to think about the following:

1. Think about the day you proposed to her,the desperation you had and all you went through to make her say yes. Its a golden memory, dont throw it down the mud by cheating.

2. Think about the Oath you took in the presence of God on your wedding day,either in church/Mosque or Court to stay faithful to her alone

3. Think about disappointing those who spent their time and money( transport and gifts) just to attend your wedding,when they hear your marriage has crashed because you cheated.

4. Think about your kids,who will grow up with the sad knowledge that their parents divorced because their dad or mum cheated.

5. Think about the guilt that will permeate your whole being after cheating on your spouse( for those who still have conscience

6. Think about the fact that your attraction to your wife decreased,not because she is no longer beautiful,but because of familiarity. And your attraction to the new lady is due to initial infatuation.

7. Think about the minutes you will spend having sex,like is it really worth throwing everything you have(Happy home) away for?

thebosstrevor:
now if you understood what i wrote

i don't always blame women for the inability of their men to fulfilled their potentials

it means women are not always to be blame for men not fullfilling their potentials but the men,they need to take responsiblity

if you dont understand that phrase,i am done typing

thebosstrevor:
i hope you understood what i wrote,did i blame the woman in my post,in directly,i wrote men are the cause of their failures

thebosstrevor:
i know where you are getting to but i wont always blame the woman for the man inability to fulfill his potential,i will blame the men

i have friends that when they have gf,they ex you,if they doing a sport they leave the sport to concentrate on the girl affection

but i call them weak men

strong men follow their dreams no matter what

Keluong:
I really want to know. I am 20 and will soon be 21. I am keeping afro of 4months which i usually shape and trim My dad is always complaining about my hair but I will pretend as if I will cut it. But I don't want to cut it and will eventually not cut it. Sometimes I feel that at least, don't I have a right of my own to choose the hairstyle I want? He just said that whether l like it or not, I am cutting it this weekend. I am getting annoyed, but I don't want to do what I will regret. I think I am old enough to decide that I want to keep my hair, so what is the age I can say that I don't want to cut my hair and it won't look bad?

Edit.
4 yrs after, little boy has grown beards and keeps it cool. Now on a trademark fade with a good shave. Moved out of home last year for life in the West. Now a part breadwinner to my siblings. Life tho. Moves quite fast... Dad remained stubborn, still drove me to the salon the final day I was leaving the house. Thanks to my parents for the lessons, but still shouldn't force me to cut my hair. I liked it.

thebosstrevor:
so basically what killed that potential?

thebosstrevor:
so basically what killed that potential?