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diamond68:If you possess in-demand skills and legally resident abroad, the sailing will be way smoother and by the way, how many people don build house for Nigeria when the Nigeria's banking data reflects that about 99% of the bank accounts holders in Nigeria get N500K and below in their accounts? |
Hope she is found safe. |
jesusjnr2020:Did you first ask her, if she is okay with you preaching about Jesus to her even though she earlier sang with you? Learn boundaries as you go about your preaching. Singing Gospel songs with you, may have invoked happy memories in her and your going ahead to preach, triggered memories of dark moments in her life. If I was her and had experienced sexual abuse or other forms of abuse from a Preacher, who the world sees as an upright man, would it be out of place disassociating from your peaching? Don't preach to me when seated next to me, if I have not given you the go-ahead as personal space should be respected. |
ironheart:A firm here in the UK. |
SoNature:There was a drowning in Lagos last Wednesday and the body was recovered Friday on the shores of Ibeshe beach in Lagos. |
ironheart:I and my colleagues at my workplace were made to undergo CPR training during induction and a refresher, every 6 months. |
okoro:And the day he would certainly arrive in the UK, I guess you will end it all as you will not like to look foolish....so begin to prepare. ![]() |
Jewessgratitud3:You don't need to "have done something" to a narcissist before he/she uses demeaning words on you because saying those demeaning words "helps" them achieve the high a drug addict gets from abusing drugs. They lack empathy and OP's mother is hiding under the cloak of religion do display hers....when her type ends up being admitted into a psychiatric hospital, they rarely get visits from their children! |
Caleb15:Since you already heard of sniper, why not try it and then tell us what you experienced. |
You allowed yourself to continue being your mother's toy, poked whenever she feels like experiencing a rush in the head. She messed you up to the extent that you developed dependency on her toxicity thus always feeling stuck and then guilty, when you question your reality. Your mother is a religious narcissist , applying religious guilt as explained thus: "A powerful tool in the hands of religious narcissistic parents is religious guilt. They deftly use religious doctrine to guilt their kids into obeying or to shame them into apologizing for voicing their own opinions or challenging parental authority. Children suffer from an oppressive sense of duty and internal conflict as a result of being divided between their own needs and the expectations placed on them".. Your mother has some psychological issues that needs the help of a professional therapist to process, the spiritual gaslighting she takes pride in, would be her end. Move out of that house but I doubt you would. You need the shift into freedom, make it happen. |
They have been radicalized, |
Cashmadam:Not just any job, a sponsored job. |
helinues:Picking your mind as you define "matured opposition" when every human in Nigeria during APC's opposition days observed how they went about their Wizardry and Witchcraft.....make we laugh, we will all be stone cold dead someday. ![]() |
helinues:I guess you were writing with the belief that Nigerians were hibernating when APC was in opposition and were not aware of the kind of opposition politics they played. ![]() In the words of our Gen Zs, that is delulu. ![]() |
helinues:Then Tinubu and co were at the peak of their Wizardry and Witchcraft when he and his co-travellers were trumpeting that Jonathan's government was nothing to write home and used all sorts to campaign against Jonathan.....you see how your brain works...short attention span, forgetting so easily! ![]() |
Psycho. |
FreshBrandJob:Person whey wan truly japa, no dey listen to most of those sob videos of how UK hard pass Nigeria. ![]() |
dani2fun:Ones feeding UK, shey u don chop belleful,? |
Private efforts. |
FRANCISTOWN:Clarify what "to mend his kid" means. |
FRANCISTOWN:A father has the obligation to raise his children right and it starts with him being a positive role model to them. |
BLIVESHEALTH:You were doing fine but that lump sum was your trigger that led to your relapse. Fact is that you would gamble more after resolving this present loan, seek professional help so you can get engaged in cognitive behavioral therapy and also join a self-help group of recovering gamblers though the relapse rate is very high. |
femi4:Honor your father and your mother.....then Ephesians 5:33 says: So again I say, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband. |
Your mother knowing you are a gambling addict, still went ahead to get a loan and handed the money to you? ![]() She was living in denial of your addiction as many mothers whose children are gamblers do.....I hope she has learnt her lessons, don't enable a gambler! |
femi4:Wife respect your husband, a parent's honour can never be transferred to a spouse....a husband is the head of his home, while the wife's father will always be her father, her root. |
SadiqBabaSani:$51 |
“Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land that the Lord your God is giving you” (Exodus 20:12). Na respect your wife owe you no be honour, na her parents get dat one. ![]() |
Prepared something similar days ago but used chicken drumsticks, unsmoked bacon, frozen chopped Okra, frozen spinach, black pepper, Ose Nsukka, Tomato & Herb Pasta Sauce, Maggi cubes, then prepared wheat for swallow. . |
DeepSight:And him saying Nigeria is where life has more value, is extremely laughable. |
FRANCISTOWN:You as a husband and father has the obligation to do right before your wife and children, you can intimidate them to fear you but not to love nor bond with you. "Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord".....Ephesians 6:4 |
FreeStuffsNG:Uncle, how many assassins, cannibals, serial killers, ritualists, necrophiles, pyromaniacs etc in Nigeria, have been executed? ![]() |
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