₦airaland Forum

Newnas:
I'll get a second wife, it's as simple as that.
I can't be a part-time bachelor for a "your money is our money, my money is my money" woman.

Moreover, woman that doesn't have time for her husband at her youthful age, is she the one that will have time for him when he's old?!

She can't leave her career because of me, so also I can't leave my wellbeing because of her. I'll get a second wife ASAP!

You don't need a second wife, you need to divorce your doctor wife and then marry one or even more that would be 100% devoted to you with no career distractions.

Bribri:
When they wont ask relevant questions when dating or scrutinize actions. Nasoso picture and awwwn treatment. wo if you enter finish bear am.

If she enter finish and no be wetin she expect, she no need to bear am.....she can leave as marriage no be one chance, men and women should leave when it is not worth fighting for.

Newnas:
So, asking my wife not to work night shifts makes me a bad husband?!

Before marrying a doctor or a nurse, didn't you know about night shifts? Why didn't you focus on marrying a lady whose occupation have nothing to do with working at night?

You should also say that asking your medical doctor wife not to follow up with her postgraduate studies dies not make you a bad husband.

Look for girls who just finished secondary school and marry from the lot, she would sit wherever you place her as career issues would less likely be an issue in your marriage.

iammo:
You talk as if the man isn't tolerating her bad behaviors too or she's perfect

From the story up there am sure the man has several reasons for his actions, and he is the only one in best position to throw more light

"Several reasons" for hindering the career growth of a medical doctor, who happens to be his wife?

I am wondering how the doctor wife, haven studied psychiatry and personality disorders in medical school, allowed the man in his psychosis to mess her up!

Eyah

Hmmm ..

Na government suppose make sure there is functional water supply system in the city.

Pass.

Maize247:
Politics apart Obi needs urgent psychological examination. Obi that's always very neat now turning into something else. His dressing now looking unpresidential and this particular has probably not been changed in the last four days.

My advice, if Obi insists on wearing only black, at least, Obidents should be able to afford as many as possible.

I am offering you a free mental status examination (neurocognitive testing), so we can achieve diagnosis of deficits then develop treatment plan.....I won't collect shishi from you. 😂😂😂😂

Larryndelaw:
Oni dey play with OBI tail. Just call a mad man the husband of a beautiful lady so that the mad man can allow the village to rest, that's exactly what Oni is doing to Obi

In your little mind, you don become Psychologist but you can't differentiate between admiration and sycophancy.😂😂😂😂

iammo:
Defense Mechanism ?!🤭😁

Tinubu is the President, campaign is far over till 2026 when we will talk about his achievements of Renewed hope Manifesto

As we are presently talking about Buhari's achievements of Change.😂😂😂😂

iammo:
My brother write your own book and mention your biological father and your childhood education

This same rhetorics don bore us🙏😌

You can also ask Obi and Atiku to write a book to teach their supporters how to loose an election

See rationalization as your defense mechanism.😂😂😂😂😂

iammo:



Tinubu must write a book.... He is an enigma



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A book that would not certainly not mention his biological father's name nor his early childhood education.😂😂😂😂😂

yarimo:
Obi is there to snap pictures with VIPs nobody invite him.

While your invitation is limited to Nairaland to snap pictures with emojis! 😂😂

lhordspy:
Tsunami of IPOB.

This is just mere embellishment. It is very common in yoruba land. It is some kinda false glorification, adornment, or adorement given to a loser, so as to prevent them from crying or falling into further depression, a consequence of their woeful performance.

A 'Tsunami' that failed to have 25% in 5 out of 6 Southwestern states.
- Couldnt even make 10% in the entire NorthEastern States, his party wasnt even included in the presidential result sheet from the region.
- Was nowhere to be found in NorthWest.
- Non existent in Kogi, Niger, Kwara in Northcentral.

The only tsunami he caused was the division of Muslims and Christians.
What a Tsunami !

Dissertation on top of the Ooni's hailing of Obi as the Tsunami.....In as much as Obi's name triggers you, just make sure you don't skip your antipsychotic medication before you sleep.😂😂😂

Ay least, she wore clothes.

DownTime44:
That will be so difficult. My mum will not support depriving him food or shelter. I don't think she can watch him or anyone else go hungry when there's food.

I wish i could disappear out of this world. I'm tired.

You are not your elder brother's father neither are you his therapist.

Focus on your life and let your mother continue to hustle to feed her first son.... develop a thick skin against her emotional blackmail, you are already experiencing fatigue as you are overwhelmed.

Flangelo12:
If you divorce her she can't get half of anything.

Half of what? There is nothing in the first place! The man is a student doing 20hrs weekly night security job and the wife probably into warehouse or care job....they are barely managing with children in the mix.

[quote author=kawasng post=123296020][/quote]Are you in Lagos?

Post the images of your products and their prices.

Islandboi:
Peter Obi abeg wear something else nah. This black is becoming annoying. Imagine this great event happening today at ibeju and I saw Obi wearing black. Is it a funeral event?

When the colour of what another man wears is annoying you, e mean say there is problem.😂😂😂

Maybe Kwankwaso who needs the compensation, who even went to France to negotiate but certainly not Obi.😂😎

DennisEche:
The Catholic Church are good with Managing Schools and Hospitals

While in Nairobi, I knew many Nigerian Reverend Sisters and Priests who were studying Education related courses at the Catholic University of East Africa, after graduation they go back to Nigeria to go manage schools while another set head to Nairobi.

Sad.

Those girls at QRC sabi know book.😊

Obi's investment in education in Anambra state as a Governor is still being felt.

Japa007:
You're hopeless pig, skull harvesting is not new in south-waste nah

In as much as you are yet to be admitted into a psychiatric facility, less use of an Internet enabled phone would do you a world of good!😂😂😂

iammo:



Obi likes twisting his own words

You didn't request 7 weeks from court

However you said you witness would be ready in 7 weeks time to present their evidence

UK immigration detained him for several hours

He went ahead to change the narrative that he was simply delayed with respect and asked questions on his impersonation



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Why didn't you add that he was also deported from the UK as your fellow choirboys were singing.😂😂😂😂

Japa007:
Maybe, someone has strangulated him with intent to harvest the skull later

##Harvesters don cash out##

Very insensitive of you! I guess when you die, it will be okay to make jokes out of your death.

Delightsome2023:
it doesn't work bro.

It does because I had a Nigerian who someone needed me to help get an accomodation before his arrival in the UK for a teaching job. He was a Physics teacher back in Nigeria.

Delightsome2023:
na scam boss, you and clockwisereport should not be deceived.
E no dey work

What is scam?

PoliteActivist:
Real congrats to her for not sleeping for 100hrs. Not easy AT ALL!!!

(Notice I said nothing about cooking)

I understand as you come from a setting where your women don't sleep for 100hrs doing what they know how to do best.

(Notice I said nothing about cooking)😂😂😂

Nice one.

If your intention is to relocate abroad, focus on doing your research. Watch videos of Nigerians and other African migrants who are already there in your intending destination and general videos on the city/town you want to settle in.

For example, before I moved to Cambridge for studies, I had already gotten a good knowledge of what living and moving around Cambridge was like way before I got the admission. I used google street map to virtually walk around the different neighbourhoods in Cambridge. From videos and blogs, I got to know the going house rents in different postcodes and which is nearer to my University.

I went as far as severally watching YouTube videos on train travel from London where I would be landing to Cambridge. Most things were not new to me when I arrived because I had already seen them before arrival.

Don't discard all info given by Nigerians already there, sieve information given as there are some of their lived experience that would help you not to repeat some of their mistakes.