₦airaland Forum

Failed presidency that benefited few.

You are not skilled to help her, it is beyond you as you can not administer nor score suicidal ideation scales and develop the treatment plan needed afterwards, which would be a combination of medication and talk therapy.

Encourage her to seek out a psychiatrist or a clinical psychologist......she needs professional intervention.

madridguy:
DSS, Soldiers and Mopol full ground. Do anyhow and receive woto woto.

Now that militants are also supporting the president elect, some people blood pressure go double.

God bless Asiwaju Jagaban.

Overwhelming majority of Nigerians' blood pressure has already been spiked by APC and Buhari's 8 years.....no one else longer has the capacity to double it.... Buhari has already peaked it, nothing new!😂😂😂

pocohantasgspot:
Congrats to Kukah!!


Shi-shi, Bishop Kukah you no go get from Obasanjo and also Obi side

Bishop Kukah no be hungry man.

jahsharon:
What is bordering you there?

No be only bordering, na boundaring.😂😂😂

Dem dey FEAR NORTH.

pretydiva:
She needs beating first before seeing a medical professional

So medieval!😂😂😂

What you advocate was actually part of the dark ages of Psychology, which is taught when studying psychopathology as then even Europeans believed that mental illness was caused by witchcraft, sufferers are being possessed by demons as they did spiritualized mental illness. In those days, they even used to crack open a part of the skulls of those who suffered depression as they believed the blood that came out was the "bad blood" that caused depression, which over the centuries have proven to be sheer ignorance.

Beating a person struggling with mental disorder(s) is not a treatment plan....it is criminal.

You pay taxes in the states you live in, you are counted in the state you live...you WILL vote in the state you live in. End of discussion!😂😂😂

pretydiva:
Are you sure she's not suffering bipolar disorder?

Na to arrange soldiers lock her for guard room beat Shege and the demons comot from her body, then her body go cool down

A person struggling with mental disorders do not the barbaric intervention of Nigerian soldiers but mental health professionals, even if it bipolar disorder, it got nothing to do with demons nor can it be beaten out.

Sighs...

Kobojunkie:
Her or him? Seems the girl goes out of her way to avoid him on occasion so how sure are you that she alone needs help in this?

The knife ......It starts with her then as a family, family therapy sessions.

You don't need to get thugs rather get your parents to have her undergo psychological assessment.....there are mental health issues your narration alludes.

seguno2:
…….. with the deposit box between her legs, for foolish simps to come in with their money

I guess you are talking from experience as you women in your family have deposit box between their legs.😂😂😂😂

She will go places.

That is really huge for Odeluwa.

"The living almighty God that answered Asiwaju prayer of Emilokan, I plead to you, it is my turn to become the next successful entrepreneur in Africa. Let your favour and grace locate me in my steadfastness, undertaking and endeavour. Emilokan in Jesus name"......e reach to laugh!😂😂😂😂

Killerbag36:
Bhla..
Show me a man wen never beat beat woman b4
Nd
Show me a woman wen never follow man fight b4
Talk its cheap🥱🥱🥱

That you struggle to keep your hands to yourself is not ra eason to project it on others.

I guess the normalization is as a result of you observing such within the setting you grew up in and the male authority figures around you did beat up their wives to assert headship, reason is a non-issue to you

Killerbag36:
Bhla..

Lalu would be your chorus when you start fanning the president in the section of the prison that would house you....all your gra gra go finally end when they use you as rag in there

Killerbag36:
Probably she was caught cheating

I guess if you beat up your wife to this extent, you will tell the judge she cheated on you thus the beating then the judge will clap for you for being a man and all charges against you will
be dropped, telling you to go home as a free man.

First, is to get her out of that house.. marriage haff ended.

[quote author=DenreleDave post=123364671][/quote]You are welcome.😂😂😂

DenreleDave:
Season of tears..


Happy tearsgiving

Tears say I follow suffer Buhari's 8 scorching years or I will, in the coming years have Nigeria decide my life?😂😂😂

Bros, I am unavailable....APC no go see me as dem no see me for the past 8 years....we chilling in Cambridge and dropping lines on Nairaland.😎🍷

DenreleDave:


Obidients always cause problems and choas anywhere they are.... They are called Nzogbu Nzogbu headless mob for a reason...


The guy is among the gullible woke Yorùbá that is supporting the failed Obituary Giringory that is looking for his lost manhood while his wife is collecting another person manhood in his absence


Peter Obi go UK, he was disgraced, deported and defeated.... He will never step to UK in his life again..

Obidients UK don spoil Nigerian chances in going to UK


1.....2......3.......Attack!!!!!

As a good son of a thousand fathers, talk to your mother to stop collecting from every Dick and Harry as it is high time she retires as you are old enough to provide for her as against her having to continually be on her back in order to feed you.😂😂😂😂

Hmm...

The pursuit of greener pasture.

What is sad about it?

Came4amod:
You people are stupid .. how did he loose this election ?? Abeg .. ?? Who ever was declared by inec won .. same way he won in 2015 .. people and nonsense technicalities.. Abi is it not clear enough.. someone said blood of baboons will flow ... This guy is a general in the army do you expect his terminologies be the same as .. someone who is just .. omg .. people should stop listening to nonsense because it's in favour of your candidate ...

You are the one who have exhibited stupidity.

EmmaxKeys:
Congrats. Anyways, get ready to split your net worth into half and share with your wife, in the coming years, and pay for child support.

Mostly,na guys whey neva see chop, dey always rush to give this kind of unsolicited advice!😂😂😂😂

felong:
Sometimes if you don't treat women this way, they won't be submissive and take you for granted. Once you install fear in her, she won't behave anyhow.

Not be only install fear in her, na download fear into her!

Weak minds who are scared of strength.

fyzaila:
How do you know is low self esteem? Are you a woman or have you studied women in such situations to come to that conclusion?

She will condone the beating because of the deep love she has for him and keep hoping that he'll change or stop one day.

I have studied such women academically and worked with them severally in therapy sessions.

She condones the beatings not out of love but from the learned helplessness that she can't get anyone better than her abuser, who has conditioned her to have low sense of self.

Most times it goes on till the abuser is arrested, becomes incapacitated or someday, the victim snaps and kills the abuser....I have worked with female prisoners who killed their abusive intimate partners, the pattern is almost the same.

fyzaila:
See op, forget the fact that you messed up big time, but fact still remain that a woman who has been deeply inlove with you will never leave you no matter what. Even though you're beating her.

A woman who stays despite being continually beaten by her man is not being deeply in love but deeply struggling with very low self worth and esteem as her mind keeps rationalizing that her abuser is the best for her.

Newnas:
If she wants a divorce, the door is opened.

Better, so she can see road Japa without marital burden, go where she would live with less stress and meet better people. 😂😂😂