₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
More reason I don’t listen to men when they tell women to go fight against bride price. Women never asked them to pay in the first place. They decided amongst themselves to start it. Some of them even brag that their women are expensive unlike some tribes that dash out their daughters. They are the problem and they must pay to themselves. Na man dey do man…

"In patrilineal systems, brideprice is essentially an obligatory tax on young men, payable to older men".....😆😆😆

The physical cash has its significance.

funshint:
He'll just be approving what he doesn't understand. This man's presidency is a disaster #BAT2023

When did you begin to realize it was a disaster?🤣🤣😆

Tinubuadvocate:
Why not.

Why hasn't he?

Plan my exit.

ganisucks:
Udom is behaving like a baby, who candy has been taken out of its mouth. So what, Tinubu called you a boy; is that such a bad thing. Tinubu is an elder, and to him, Udom and everyone of Udom's peer group is a child. What's the big deal in that.

Can Tinubu dare call a Governor from the core Northern States, like those of Zamfara and Borno who are both younger than Udom in age, a boy?🤔

Brendaniel:
No Nigerian has won this marathon since it started, Lagos is just dashing money to Kenya and Ethiopia...

Nigerians can't win it, the nearest attempt will be from runners from Plateau, Adamawa and Taraba who have undergone years of rigorous trainings.

Time for Kenyans and Ethiopians to cash out as usual.

"“Up till now, there are many states, especially in northern Nigeria, where local governments have no single bank,” the former Kano governor said and in some areas, even the local government headquarters is well over 100km away and it becomes extremely difficult for them to take their money".......I keep responding to the bragging that the North is far ahead and masters when it comes to politics........what is the point of being ahead in politics when it does not translate to human capital and infrastructural development?

How can there not be a single bank in a local government?

Shouldn't it have been their people in government over the years, who should have been in the fore front for the deployment of mobile banking where one can use a basic phone without internet access to execute financial transactions, payment of bills, receiving and transferring money, even receiving international transfers from the likes of Western Union, MoneyGram etc without leaving their villages....That is what Kenya got right with their M-pesa, as long as your phone can receive sms, you are included in the world's financial network.

I worked in one of the far flung areas in Kenya, which can pass for a very rural area in Zamfara State. I financially survived on a very basic phone without internet, as my bank accounts was accessed through it and was receiving my western union through it without having to visit the nearest physical bank branch that was almost a 45mins drive away.

"only the All Progressives Congress (APC) has a genuine interest in advancing the course of humanity and also lifts the country economy to an appreciable height"....8 years after.

Hendrixky:
Wetin dey 14 year old girl body ehnnn.

What's wrong with we men?

As at today the number of women is far more than that of men

Walk the street in the evening especially around 6pm to 7pm and see alot of single matured girls coming back from work

The coming census will shock you 🤣🤣

Commendable.

peepydelano:
I don’t have time for blind men like you. Check the images out and access your repackaged fraud Obi with an unbiased judgement

I engaged you and rather than responding line by line, you are posting someone's screenshot that reflects her personal view, just as they were other Ndi Anambra who within that time frame have Nairaland posts highlighting the positives of the then Obi's administration.....so don't operate from a kindergarten level, engage me, responding why it is okay for others to support their candidates without being tagged as bigots.

If a place is a rural setting,.it justified the constant killings?

peepydelano:
All I know is that Peter Obi will come fourth in this upcoming election. See the real Peter Obi in the image below, check the topic out and see for yourself and not this fake repackaged corrupt fraud they want to sell to Nigerians due to ethnicity. Obidients are nothing but tribal bigots.

After you tried to convince them not to "waste" their votes but should vote for Atiku, since you couldn't get through them, they became tribal bigots!😆😆😆😆

Yorubas who are voting for Tinubu are not tribal bigots.😆😆😆😆

Core Northerners who are voting for Atiku based on tribal affiliation or religious sentiments are not bigots 😆😆😆

But Obidients who choose to vote for Obi are the tribal bigots.😆😆😆

You need psychiatric evaluation! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Tinubuadvocate:
Nawah ooo why lied on your academic record? After all your secondary school certificate qualified you for the position you are going for.

E wan form University graduate.😆😆😆

Ireportlive:
And he would chase you out if lagos

Same Tinubu that migrated to Lagos, like millions of other Nigerians?🤣🤣🤣

Or can you mention Tinubu's biological father's name?😆😆😆

Ireportlive:
You are too old for all this

Grow up

Too old to know that Tinubu is ancestrally from Osun State and moved to Lagos for better opportunities like millions of other Nigerians?

Growing up means acknowledging reality, not air brushing it nor diverting attention.😆😆😆

There are more honourable ways before God and man, to earn your keep.....that is growing up.

Reality setting in

AnayoDivine:
Thank you so much, I'm already working towards it, I really appreciate all the smart advice compared to what I've seen others receive

You write well for your age.

While still awaiting University admission, you can learn online on how to improve on what comes easily to you... writing, and how to earn from it. Also look into transcribing, there are lots of free resources on it.

During my undergrad days, $$$ earned from transcription projects helped pay my bills.

Let her ask the husband for divorce, then the man should grant her that as he removes the name of the child from the building ownership, he should also ask the court to grant him financial compensation for all he has spent on the child and his soon to be ex-wife.

It proves the borders up North are porous.

Soludo is not promoting his party's candidate but has eyes on another.🤣🤣🤣

nicerod:
You are a simp bro


Ya mum was there before u met ur wife.


Is she sending money to ur parents like you used to send to her mama?


Family first before any stranger bro.

His mum is supposed to be there before he met his wife, just as his mother-in-law was there for her daughter before she met her husband.

As a married man, his wife is not a stranger but she and their children comes first before his birth family.

Kobojunkie:
and she will be billing who for the visits? She can't take care of the kid herself and she is probably not fending for herself as is. So, who would she be billing for the visits she is requesting at this point?

She is a full blown adult and should earn her fare and related expenses that such visits would gulp because it is not enough missing her child and wants to visit, if she is not earning.

She must have to work extra in the village and save for such visits, else she shouldn't disrupt the child who doesn't need inconsistency in her young life.

Kobojunkie:
Your hopelessness has little to do with what they did but the fact that you chose to have a child without first making sure you had the wherewithal to provide for yourself first, and then the child is order to protecting it. So the opening to all this was created by you and not your sister and her husband. So you need to begin using your head at this time, if you haven't already begun to.

Reality on ground is that she is going to be 20 while the child's father will be 19 this year and have been sent back to the village, like she was based on her thread 2 years ago. They had their baby when they were 17 and 16 respectively and still yet to get their footing, to provide for the child though it does not discount the fact that they are the child's parents.

She needs to get someone to mediate between she and her sister, work out how she can spend some time with her daughter while she straightens her life.

Ngozey:
To be honest I don't really know how I will manage with her but God will provide 🙏

You have no means of providing care for the child for now, your sister stepping in the prevailing situation is the best for the child for now as presently you are yet to establish direction in your life and bringing in a child into that uncertainty will be cruel, so you need to have that talk with your sister, about visitations.

Ngozey:
1. I will be 20 this year
2. No I haven't completed secondary school due to the pregnancy
3. I just started learning fashion design

OK. Should you get custody of your child now, what is the arrangement for the child's upkeep e,g feeding, clothing, medication, care in your absence when you go to where you are learning fashion designing etc?

Ngozey:
1. I was 17
2. Yes he is my sister husband brother
3. Baby daddy and I were living with my sister and her husband

You were a minor when you had the baby and a dependent of your sister and her husband. You should be about 19 now, did you get to finish your secondary school education before having the baby? While in the village, have you been able to learn a skill or a trade?

And what has APC achieved in 8 years?

Were you above 18, when you had the baby?

The father of your child is the brother to your sister's husband, on what ground is your child in your sister's custody?

The dog is not liable.

DaddyCK:
but why they sittin on the floor like goat traders?.....they dont have chair in that palace? (no ofeinse)

When you have interest in multiculturalism and have an idea of what is culturally appropriate to certain people, such question won't come up.