₦airaland Forum

Smile4mee01:
Hmnnn…well said.
Sometimes I think polygamy was in place initially to allow every woman an opportunity to be a wife and a mother to children.

But women see it different, they think the other woman is taking from what she ought to have to herself.

someone needs to research if women in the Middle East predisposed to polygamy at happier than western women?

Better question is

Will women rather be 50, no husband and no child than be 50, married as a second wife with kids?

oldienavie:
Your arguement is devoid of logic but awash with emotions.

Sometimes, it seems the rush to imbibe western culture prevents the black man from reasoning . This is something I really respect the Asians for, I had an Indian friend who is a top tech lead in one of the popular North American firms, he didnt see anything wrong in having his parents find a wife for him despite his exposure, look at Rishi Sunak and majority of Asians, despite the exposure, you can tell they are still culturally connected to their roots.

Now to bring it home, look at what is happening in our society, I have more than 10 ladies, well to do who are above 35years old on my neck for marriage.
I really feel sorry for them, a lot of men are just tossing them around, go to churches, look around you, its heart breaking if you hear these ladies stories.

Women have now become the vulnerable and even those who manage to get married are having to endure abuse cos of the no husband thing that monogamy has caused.

When you put emotions aside and analyse the reality, you will agree that majority of women are suffering...

LocalStandard1:
Let's not deceive ourselves, to truly care for a child is to give him a real standard home, I despise that "baby daddy/mama" phenomena. But I understand your rationale, you are a "sophisticated, liberal, new world, globalist, woke feminist". We are of a different world view.

jeromestarks:
Don't pay bride price and sponsor wedding ceremony just to have a woman who was fvcked by another man with just two eggs and indomie. Only a fool would do that. Are you a fool?


Fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage find a virgin woman and marry. Only her deserves your love and devotion.

LocalStandard1:
Supporting Children born out of wedlock eh? Don't do that, you are a social scientist, you should know.

spiritedtete:
It is just a mere threat.. however you can still take a snap shot to show the school management because if you Do not.. you will be the biggest loser later. Just like the what the OP posted

LocalStandard1:
Miss you are a funny person.

Let me tell you how poor society survives.
In the absence of economic viability if you tell the people to marry and have children you are literally pushing the Society to extinction. You see, numbers is the only chance of a poor society for survival and even it's road to growth.

Many Western countries today are encouraging their citizens to marry and have more children cos without which we are seeing a struggling and dying country and society, most "developed" society are beginning to have that issue.

Yes marriage is important, miss, you should know that you are a social science student. Drop your pride woman.

chloedogie:
Start with his first line calling a child troublesome can lead the child into a mental breakdown or affect the child's esteem in life permanently. Does he know the implication of that? Some people who claim to know everything know nothing. Let him or her just go and teach for two hours and come back to share his experience in that UK class. Lol.

spiritedtete:
Spot the most troublesome of the kids and praise him or her... how beautiful she is and you know he will be very brave... use that logic to extend to the trouble makers of the class. There are others ways.

Like the monkey thing written on the board the first thing to Do is to be silent.. mean eyes.. walk to the board and take snap shot.. and tell them how you will tell the whole world about There behaviour it will be in the news and the culprit will be disgraced... this is for kids in like grade 4 or 5. There are many ways to shut them up. Just build up a certain mechanism.

My kids are the only black in their school... sometimes I get lots of complaints from them. And I told them what to do everytime and it worked. They even started doing too much I had to caution them.

spiritedtete:
The example shared is just like a normal happenings... there are worse things that happened. However learn more about reversed psychology. Read more on how to get white kids attention. Also note that their parents are the main instigator, they speak horrible things about blacks to their children in their homes. Nevertheless many white parents are as Dumb as zombies. They just want to feel superior when they see blacks. Like I said reversed psychology is their weakness. They are not so smart.

oldienavie:
The irony of the issue is that, it is the women that have suffered most in this dispensation of monogamy.
Go to churches, you see ladies in their 40s unmarried, and without a hope of where a husband will come from.
Single mothers littering everywhere, if polygamy was not frowned at, these women will be settled and have some direction.

Some people like to delude themselves by saying marriage is not everything, very misleading thing to say.
Even abroad, oyinbos take marriage very seriously talkless of Africa, if marriage was not important, why do women keep singing the carry me dey go song.

The summary of it is, westernization has made the life of an average woman worse , but we are not ready yet for this discussion.

ASAPFERG:
if sabinus ever step his feet into Lagos again, accident will claim his life

LocalStandard1:
At least we agree polygamy isn't the problem right? A man having "side chicks" outside is a sin that should be rejected. But when he is willing and capable of having a second wife it's non of our business.

chisomfavourudo:
Tomorrow now, she will wake up and told him dah she isn't ready for marriage... Some of my gender shah...

God bless him richly and make his sacrifice worth it.�

stuffs2002:
IPOB and Insults are 5&6

I asked a simple question and true to type, IPOB quickly resorted to Insults

stuffs2002:
That is not mimicking someone. He was ridiculing Tinubu.


Sabinus only showed his BIGOTRY because he is IGBO

Switinthemiddle:
shey u dey whine me ni. all d money 4 baby food and all her billz whuch person i go bill bk

Switinthemiddle:
Yeai we don dy collect proposal for dowry

TemmyWon:
Attention seeker. Why didn't your husband continue the programme in his second term.

Just trying to stay afloat for the Senate dream

Garrieveryday:
This one get husband so?

Akwamkpuruamu:
Men no get respect ooh! Imagine your grand daughter calling you Dim Oma! Pukes

GOFRONT:
Its no Wonder why some men of my Generation preferred to Knack their fiancee belle before they proceed to marry her!!!

It is "No pregnancy, No Wedding"..........The best approach to a Fertile marriage.