₦airaland Forum

DWJOBScom:
They are Islamic scholars since they are of the Islamic faith.
Government also have trained professionals for the sisters and they will prescribe the type of therapy required.
This is very very sad and pathetic.

Which type of trained professionals?

Racoon:
This is a negligible number compared to the current population of Nigerian children. However, Nigeria must strive to attain the WHO acceptable level of compliance for childhood vaccination.

Even one child is not negligible.

Extortion PLC.

Lagos State Government is the Chairman while MC Oluomo, the CEO.

Sad. May her soul rest in peace.

Congratulations to her.

Good. Sadly, It still will not deter online fraudsters.

Reno and Dino should face the 5 Governors.

There is likelihood of a history of sexual perversion in your family that is enabling the pervert thus your father can't act because he was involved.

ViolaO:
Hello how do I reach you to change Naira to KES. I want to send Money to Nigeria, I am in Nairobi.

Which part of Nairobi?

emmanuelbrown26:
Just go and ask elderly women in your family or around u, they will definitely educate u on that. This is something that has being in existence since d days of John d Baptist, my dear sister, Africa nwere untapped things ohhhh.

I grew up knowing that alongside other many childcare myths but my clinical experience is retaining some and disposing a whole lot even if it started in the days of Adam and Eve!

When Nigerian researchers come come up with peer reviewed papers on positive impact of Ngwo on breast milk production and infants brain development would I accept that. If during the interviews of mothers of children with cognitive impairment, I do ask them if they consumed alcohol during pregnancy and while breastfeeding, will I still advocate for a mother to take palm wine?

That elderly women in my family are used to some certain beliefs and way of doing things, does not mean I will not subject it
to interrogation.

Sighs......

Kobojunkie:
How did the boy make it into JSS2 abeg?

And with all you highlighted, why are you convinced he needs someone to advice him? He probably needs professional psychiatric help to help you, his parent better understand what the boy may be going through.

From what the mother has shared so far, the slow down in his academics is just only a reflection of some unresolved deeper issues going on in his mind and him seeing a clinical psychologist for Psychological Assessment would really help him and his mother, most of the assessment will be paper based tests then talk therapy.

Arab money loading...

sukkot:
ever since peter obi planted his flag in Tanzania that place has turned to catastrophe . mountain ranges catching fire and planes dropping from the sky

I guess the economic downturn in Nigeria is also Peter Obi's fault.

Nice one, even in adulthood such teachers are not easily forgotten.

Where I work, it is the HR Manager (HRM) that is the first point of contact when it comes to payroll management.

Eagba:
no man can easily rape a girl without an enabler.
A determine girl is incredibly strong. Even if you restrict her hands, legs will kick and push, her teeth can cut you, her lungs can scream and she have kilo ton of pelvic muscle to break your penis. Try it on a medium lady and see.

And you think a rapist only applies physical force?

Reno and Dino should reply Ortom.

juman:
Don't use nylon anymore but tin can.
Nylon is not good for your health.
Can of peak milk is desirable.

Can of peak milk is not even safe for your health as the inner coating has already been exposed, not to talk about the emerging rusts.

Eagba:
the sisters need not to complain. He should train the sisters and also have strong deputies amongst them. Most molesters are strong people untill they meet their equal especially a younger person that will shock them to their bone marrow.
The girls should be able to scream, and harm him badly if he tries it again. Those kind of training, defend the girl different potential rapists.

I once had a female friend that told me that a guy rape her, and I responded," no man can rape a woman by himself alone. It's quite difficult and close to impossible. You were an enabler" the said girl later agreed with me but Sha said," I told him to stop".

Are you serious?

azraeljaheel:
And she didn't tell you to go back to your family. What was the story you told this your good samaritan. You mum is sick thanks to you and your sister. I would advice you reach out to them.

This life sef. Me I am here wishing for a family someone is there running away from theirs

Okay o

Anyways incase you are interested in shared apartment kindly send a pm

The mother is "sick" because her drug of choice which happens to be her stepdaughter she abuses, have been taken away from her.

When one is no longer safe within the family....run.

MeaslesMumpsRub:
Ordinary men do not make great changes,
Malcolm x, mahatma ghandi, Maria Curie, Jesus Son of Mary, Moses the Egyptian, The Wright Brothers, Ghadaffi of Libya, mubarak of Egypt, Yakubu Gowon, wole soyinka, Even Ojukwu was a renowned Mad Man.


Why do you pride yourself in been sane ?

Being "sane" is required in my working with people with psychiatric disorders, so I have to take pride in it.

Deborah200299:
Here is the story

https://www.nairaland.com/6944608/want-report-mum-human-rights#109469994

Ok. Does your half-sister have contacts of any of her late mother's relative?

From your earlier thread your family is based in Uyo, get in touch with FIDA, it is an international organization of female lawyers, I worked with their office in Nairobi, Kenya and they intervene in such cases.

Office Address: Room 39B, Ministry of Justice, State Secretariat, Uyo.
Phone No: 08033022895, 08032606289
E-mail Address: lovedybassey@yahoo.com, mfonobong.uduak@gmail.com

Deborah200299:
She is the product of my dad infidelity.We share the same dad , different mum her bio mum is late

Ok. Where is your Dad in all these? In what way(s) had your 2 younger brothers abused her?

MeaslesMumpsRub:
Why do you think or say so.
I am a Youth who believes in a visionary Leader like tinubu not false statistics and empty promises like Peter obi. As for atiku in dubai, he will be retired permanently to the Middle East come February.

Your post looks like what someone who is mentally disorded typed and God does not run errands for mortals.

"I am her only daughter among 4 boys"....who is the biological mother of the 13 year old?

MeaslesMumpsRub:
God will punish anybody that votes for Peter Obi, that will be like taking Nigeria back 15 years and then remaining stagnant throughout Peter Obis would be tenure.

God forbid adaObi.
He was crying yesterday when ordinary Cry Cry Dino was pressing his neck in public.

Your life is already a punishment.

emmanuelbrown26:
What type of palm wine were u able to buy then, I know Nsukka palm wine very well, so dear lady, tell me d type of palm wine

Both Ngwo and Nkwu Enu, always keen to make sure saccharine has not been added to it

Naijatask:
My mom fears her marriage will crash if she were to take an action.

As such, taking the matter to the police station might just cause the same issues she's trying to avoid.

Thank you, I've definitely decided on how to handle the situation

I guess her marriage is more important than the sexual abuse her daughters are going through right under their parents' roof.

The fact is your parents and uncle sees nothing wrong in incest nor sexual abuse in general, reason for their lame approach to the pervert who is allowed to continue to stay in the house.

"The next morning, I told my mom about the incident, and she told me that my baby sister (an 8 year old) do complain to her sometimes about sharp pains in her private part".....The molester is having penetrative sex with an 8 year old right under her father's roof and she complains to her mother but the mother chooses to be "helpless" because she wants to protect her marriage!

In saner climes, all adults in that house would have been arrested and prosecuted for being enablers of sexual abuses, that predator arrested and probably cooling off behind confinement while those girls taken away and placed in the Looked After Children system!

emmanuelbrown26:
My dear sister, u are right on that, but do u hv verified facts on palm wine being used by breastfeeding mothers? I'm telling u with facts not hear-say. Anytime u come down to Nigeria, just go to rural areas and ask, I'm an elder, it's always recommended for breastfeeding mothers or if u hv an aunty here in Nigeria not city aunty ohhhhhh, ask her.
There are things that oyibo made us believe which are not true.
In my lineage, there's no woman that breastfeed a child without NGWUUU (Ngwuu is for women and breastfeeding mothers) by her side, and it's being working till infinity.

I know Palm wine very as I used to go buy from the popular Palm wine market at Obinagu Udi (Enugu state).

No pediatrician would ever tell a nursing mother to take palm wine to increase milk production because it is just a myth no matter how much we "believe", it works. Have you observed that babies whose mothers consumed palm wine while breastfeeding tend to sleep longer hours and that is not safe.

A pregnant woman who consumes alcohol during pregnancy exposes the baby to FASD( Fetal Alcoholic Syndrome Disorder) and you just not want to see the lifelong side effects on the child. During breastfeeding, a nursing mother is advised to keep away from anything ethanol/alcohol as you don't even have an idea what the baby is already predisposed to.

emmanuelbrown26:
What we call alcohol is just ethanol. D one for breastfeeding mother does not and it doesn't intoxicated, that's why it's strictly for women.

Don't forget, 'all ethanol is alcohol".

A baby is safer during pregnancy and breastfeeding when the mother keeps away from ethanol/alcohol.

It is just a myth with no medical proof.

emmanuelbrown26:
My dear sister, say what u know and what u dont know about palm wine.
In d world of palm wine, we hv 2 types of palm wine and palm treet. We hv 2 colours of palm wine, abeg mak una no dey talk waiting una no no. uU are a learned lady, but my dear we cant know it all.

And the 2 types, have no alcoholic content?