₦airaland Forum

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djkirkoo2:
this month end I am trying to see how my family with hers would hold a meeting to iron things out then if they refused to give in to my plea then I will take the case to human rights.

Both parties should aim at meeting each other halfway as you both are connected to each for life even after you both have moved on with other people.

djkirkoo2:
yes, someone gave me this advise but I was told that FIDA will tell me to be feeding my child and his mom. I wonder how I will be feeding someone that is not grateful. Another person said that I should visit Human Rights.

Whichever you visit, your son's mother will also be feeding from whatever you send and that is the REALITY and you can not starve your son because of his mother, who is his primary caregiver.

So you both alongside your families, need to hash things out.

AlphaTaikun:
Lol... What audacity from that insidious woman. He had better do a DNA test on his 2 kids in Nigeria.

If the results comes back positive, what next?

pocohantas:
The matter dey always tire me. Now we all have to gather and convince them we can marry men with 20k sef. Else you are not virtuous, would be used for rituals, remain single until 50yrs or end up with an abusive rich man.

God abeg o!!!

See my man’s house attached.

Your man?

That is certainly a Kenyan in his bed sitter, preparing what Kenyans call Uji (more like watery pap) or tea which they consume 24hrs a day, see as mugs dey for table, ready for sharing.

FantasticJ:
I hate emotional blackmail.
This is not an advise oooo. But I will be sending 20K for my child monthly upkeep.

God help you I see my boy one day, that's the last time she will see the boy.

I don't have time for any manipulation.

If you love yourself, don't try that ..... Nigerian Police love such case, part of "settling" the case is you paying for their cost of logistics of tracking you down.

Laughing....

Kagd10:
Another gibberish since the dunceee cant answer my question

If you can't list what was, before 1999.....who else do you expect to do it for you when your deluded mind is convincing you that Victoria Island didn't exist until Tinubu became governor.

Kagd10:
The unintelligible skull cant answer my question Go wail over Calabar and Asaba that were fct too. Yeye dey smell.

My daily bread revolves around being involved with skulls and brains, like I suggested earlier, check in for psychiatric assessment as it would help you reset.

Issues relating to mental health disorders is very sensitive. There are some disorders not hereditary and with proper professional interventions, get the patient living a regular, functional life but for some, no.

Where it runs in the family, one has to really think hard if they would want to contribute their genes to the pool.

cococandy:
Because it’s a sensitive topic. Many people don’t earn 100k and they are being told they can’t marry. E no go end today.

But many sing here that they don't want to marry.

Kagd10:
Another gibberish. I asked you if federal government developed Victoria island but you're yet to answer it?

Victoria Island, Ikeja etc were under the western region under Awolowo while federal government only occupied Lagos island. To tell you that federal government didn't occupy half of a local government.

Meanwhile, you have yet to list what federal government did in Lagos. Mention them or shut your mouth. You dey mad?

During history taking, do make sure you hide nothing from the Psychiatrist as it will really help him/her to come up with the right diagnosis and treatment plan......it will go a long ti reset you, though it seems being mad dey sweet you

Kagd10:
So it was federal government that developed Victoria island which is eti osa? You dey mad? Abi thunder want to fireee you there?

Meanwhile, you have yet list what federal government did in Lagos. You dey mad?

In your mind Tinubu collected his US student visa back then from the US embassy located in Bariga.

Look for 1960s and 1970s documentaries on Vctoria Island, Lagos as your delusioned mind convinces you it came to being from 1999.

I hope you know your way to the Federal Neuropsychiatric hospital in Yaba, you need to drop by.

Kagd10:
I asked you a question, mention what the federal government did or shut up.

And yes. Tinubu developed part of surulere. He had even invited Obasanjo to commission surulere roads and other things..

Before 1999, there was no lekki, Ajah, Victoria Island, banana island, Eko Atlantic etc.. even Ikeja was Awolowo's brain child. So what exactly did the federal government do in Lagos, you dey mad?

And don't forget the fact that the federal government already moved from Lagos in 1991. And the fact that 97% of what became Lagos today was under the Western region supervised by Awolowo. You dey mad?

There was no Victoria Island before 1999?

You are certainly disconnected!

Kagd10:
So these were what developed Lagos? Na ment?

And it was Tinubu who developed surulere. He had invited Obasanjo to commission surulere roads etc. You dey mad?

Federal government only built national theatre, airport, bridges and few governmental houses. That was all fct did in Lagos.

Meanwhile, Lagos' first seaport built by Southwest resources before the amalgamation of Nigeria pumps revenues to the federal government. It's even Lagos who should be feeling unjust here. You dey mad?

I guess between 1966 to 1999 the military held sway and the few years in between that had Jakande, I guess those in charge did nothing until Tinubu.

Tinubu "developed" Surulere! You are the real mad man.

Aurelius1:
Which is the most profitable skill you'd suggest?

It squarely depends on where your strength and interests lies.

Coming closer.

Adelekan40:
This is a good move. Congratulations Nigeria

Congratulations over what?

Kagd10:
Ode, if you've got a brain, you would realise that while only Lagos Island was the federal capital, 97% of Lagos was under Awolowo. This is different from Abuja.


Federal government didn't develop Lekki, Ajah, Victoria Island, banana island, Ikeja etc.

The only place federal government occupied was Lagos Island. Sink that into your patheticcc skull.

Who built the National theatre, National stadium Surulere, developed Festac town etc?

We should always bear in mind of the year regional government ended in Nigeria.

Stay with your family while you await your NYSC, learn digital skills that would earn
you regular online income even if you find yourself in a rural area as long as it has electricity and internet access.

Go to your state of residence's social welfare office and get them to invite the mother of your son, bringing your son along as you all have to work out how to go about co-parenting your son for his best interest.

gozmok1:
Which Lagos?
Is it the same Lagos that was Former Federal Capital?
The same Lagos that has Seat of Power {Dodan Barracks} where the Military once ruled from!
The same Lagos that Tinubu himself did not know how the Airport and Seaport got there!
The same Lagos that Tinubu met the National Stadium, Festac Town, National Theatre, 3rd Mainland Bridge, Teslim Balogun Stadium, University of Lagos, Victoria Island, Ojuelegba, Palmgroove, Mushin-olosa, IKEJA and Ikoyi.
So Which Lagos
Allow this thing�go and rest pls, he's tired.

My father was one of the sub-contractors that handled those 2 highlighted projects back in the 70s during the regimes of Muritala Mohammed and Obasanjo, he supplied blocks he was producing in his then block factory in Ojota with over 30 Ghanaian workers working around the 24hrs shift the block factory operated on.

When I hear some landmark projects attributed to Tinubu, it intend to invoke laughter.

Which Lagos is small Dubai?

Everywhere you go.....very organic.

edoman2016:
I have a cousin who is single at 35. We are age mate and very close since childhood. Her last relationship didn't work out cause her boyfriend was a time waster and irresponsible.

Her parents are pressuring and calling her to get married before december. That she is not getting any younger day by day. Because of that, she is so worried and depressed. I don't even know how to advice her so that she won't be desperate. Cause she is my cousin sister.I need opinions from nairalander. NO INSULTS please.

If she doesn't get married before December, what would happen?

Loveofmylife15:
Thanks...

Well, as you can see from my words...
I didnt blame anyone neither...

Because - yes, we have been separated during the time he wanted to move on....

The only thing I dont like, that he came back to me first and than told me about all this, after I was feeling, that something is wrong.

Before going back into anything with me - he should have told me first...
And also... it surprised me, that he didn't tell me, while we were still not together again...

Well, I dont wish anyone anything bad... Also not her...

I still wonder, why she will put herself into this (although I understand the reasons, like someone taking care of her financially and so on...) - because he told her from day 1 - that he is still with me and the kids and she accepted that he has a intact family abroad. (According to him - thats why he left open for me, to get to know her....but that sounds crazy for me at the moment)

I never supported poligamy and I have always been against it...

But now that my heart is involved, I am trying to check myself very well... if eventually I could come with it... but oh Lord, help me... its so hard form me to know what is the best for everyone... and do the right thing ...

I feel like, I should Set him free for her... because I pity her already.... still, it wouldn't change the fact, that she wouldn't live under one roof with him and so on..

I was getting myself during the 2 years we were not together... but it took me very long to cope with it... still not happy, still loving him and having hope... but at a point not suffering too much anymore, because of missing him..

If we break up again now, after our love has been so sweet again... oh nooooo....

At the same time... I dont want to miss anything...

Because no matter what... I do love him and I know I will never stop loving him.... but that's also exactly the reason why am not really ready to share him...

May God help me to control the Million thoughts in my head and get myself clear - in order to live a happy life again �

You have two options before you, you either embrace being part of the polygamous setup or you officially end the marriage.

Bishop....hmmm.

They were all given an opportunity.

Atarakpa:
do you have any prove to this allegation?. If yes why not direct it to the appropriate authority like icpc and efcc

The "appropriate authority" is the PVC.

Atarakpa:
Lagos state govt from tinubu tenure till date are doing well. Nigerians why not give this man (BAT) a chance to do same to whole federation. Ejoor

After marketing Buhari to Nigerians?

You and I know that part of the revenue generated by the Lagos state government is also ending up in some private pockets to keep the "system" going.

'There was a particular case, we called the man and he said yes, he arranged his death that he needed the money".....Nigeria has become too tough.

I consider it cheap for that price.