₦airaland Forum

cococandy:
I know where this thread is coming from

From Lagos-Sagamu expressway?

APC is unadulterated scam, what is Tinubu going to tell Nigerians with the mess Buhari has made out of Nigeria, a Presidency he marketed to Nigerians for the sole purpose of being his "placeholder", while he counted the days towards 2023, how Buhari messed up Nigeria was least of his worries while he plotted for 2023.

And some deluded beings have been saying he is not part of Buhari's government, can they swear that Tinubu never forwarded names of some of his loyalists to Buhari for appointment as head of ministries and parastatals and "appreciations" were not coming his way?

For me, it is about marrying for the right reasons or you remain single for the right reasons and if one has chosen to be celibate for religious reasons (Catholic Priests, Reverend Sisters etc), stick to it for the right reasons.

Realist12:
It's a symbol of continuum, and that's to let you know how ideological Tinubu is. We all can see the continuum progress in Lagos . Just as Tinubu laid the foundation of a new Lagos, we need a new Nigeria with a new blueprint that can be developed on by successive administrations . We truly need Tinubu to move Nigeria out of these stagnant state.

Stagnant state? By the same presidency he marketed to Nigerians?

Take a walk in a quiet area and when indoors plug into audio with rain sounds as it has a way of calming the mind.

Take a walk in a quiet area and when indoors plug into audio with rain sounds as it has a way of calming the mind.

In intimate relationships, you don't stop violence with violence.....you stop it by cutting yourself off the toxic partner as it is cheaper to end the relationship/marriage than ending up being killed or ending up in jail.

No one is indispensable.

A legend!

And I think they are also part of Enugu and Anambra states

Sonofgoodness:
The girl's husband sister has been pressuring her and convincing her to take the guy back, while the brother wants her to date a yahoo rich guy. And this now happening. She is a very good girl. I can belt she loves me so much

Let her tell that brother of hers, to go with her to get her things.

I will suggest you step back from the relationship and let her sort her self out first.

Sonofgoodness:
She doesn't live with me. She can't get male relative except her friends which are girls but I don't fancy her girlfriend going with her. What if I allow her go with her girlfriend?

Her girlfriend can't do much should violence erupt. Untill she gets an older male relative, she should forget her things for the meantime.

Should anything happen to her there, Nigerian Police have no issues with putting you "behind counter" in the "course" of investigation.

Sad

superCleanworks:
When there was abundance and a man could afford to feed 50 children.
Try it now. Just try.

Some men are still breeding like rats.

vikiphy89:
Wanted to be a marine engineer
Studied Physics
Currently working as a security.

But better days ahead......
Flight dispatcher I will be soon

Those who studied Physics Education are needed here in the UK because there is a huge shortage of Physics teachers!

zionstaar75:
what is the population of Kenya that makes Nigeria richer than her ?

Google search their population.

Born and raised in Lagos, Nigeria and have lived, schooled and worked in Nairobi.....so my position is based on lived experience.

Is she living with you?

If she must get her things from her ex, let her go with an older male relative as I believe she has family.

N30,000? And still expect a teacher to give his or her best? While Kenya, a country Nigeria is richer than, is paying her public primary school teachers about an equivalent of $200 monthly.

That strongly reflects the depression on ground but APC even being a scam are so convinced that Nigerians are enjoying the "dividends of democracy" under their watch.

Ollymama:
This is scary with this kind of bad review for UWL, please how is ARU- Anglia Ruskin University review. Do we have anyone studying there presently before someone jump into fire all in the name of schooling.

Go on with ARU, that's is my Uni. Which course did you apply for?

I see nothing wrong in that where it is culturally appropriate.

Childhood ambition: Chartered accountant
Studied: Accountancy, went back to school studied counselling psychology then clinical child psychology
Present Occupation: Clinical Child Psychologist.

Things are really hard for overwhelming majority.

Deep

emmanuelbrown26:
Their business, their cross. When my own cross comes I will carry but before I do that, they person should get ready to plaster all her face, u can't give me unrest without receiving war from me

Cool.

emmanuelbrown26:
At d bolded, who am I to change ur narrative? I don't make people to change their opinion on issues, but d raw truth still remains that women deserves some beating before they will know who's wife and who's husband

Who am i to change your belief on the "appropriate" conflict resolution between a husband and his wife, while beating your wife/baby mama just make sure she doesn't end up dead like the wife of that politician in Nnewi who is said to have a history of beating his wife and was relieved of his position by Soludo and now in Police custody.

I hope you will be showing up for his court hearings to give him moral support.

emmanuelbrown26:
Life goes on, u ladies keep supporting evil and that's why d rate of divorce and domestic violence is increasing, d very day ladies start saying d truth I believe that's d day violence would denifitepy reduce.
So dis is d only thing u were able to grab,uu didn't even comment on d wife' behaviour in d public and how insultive she has being to d husband, but it was when d husband jacked her up that u woke from sleep to comment.

Will life really go on for the man without being arrested by the police and jailed by the courts?

I picked what I wanted to focus on and you cannot change that.

You think it is another gender "war". If that woman had died, whatever she might have done to him before her death becomes inconsequential in court.

The man had the option of ending that toxic marriage especially when the wife stabbed him in the chest in the past but he continued with the marriage with a spouse that's deranged. That the woman now "respects" the husband after the incident is pure delusion, such women who are sick in the head, always have something "brewing' .

Violence is only going to reduce in relationships/marriages when partners recognize their self-worth and give no room to be an enabler of their partner's personality disorders.


In all, learn to walk away from toxic relationships and marriages and don't wait till "ladies start saying the truth".

Blessedmercy8:
Eh.. she brought it upon herself now. When a woman will be doing more than herself.

She had once used scissors to stab this man on the chest and the man ran out of the house bleeding because she just newly put to bed and he didn't want to touch her. Still, it continued until the man revenged. That day, no body even tried to separate them except for one guy that just came to the compound newly but when she threw gas cylinder into the air, my guy jakpa. Everybody was just watching them cos her own was too much.

if the woman had died, I strongly believe the man would dare not say "she brought it upon herself" to the presiding magistrate, you and I know that would increase his years in prison.

Now based on their history as you shared, while working in the prisons, I have severally asked men and women who ended up there for killing their intimate partners most times unintentionally, why they remained in the relationship after their deceased spouse/partner first attempted to kill them.

I ask again, his wife has once stabbed him in the chest with a scissors and they are still living under the same roof?

It seems violence generates orgasmic pleasure in their marriage..........it is just a matter of time as one of them is going to end up being killed by the other, the perpetrator get jailed while their chiildren get shared out.

Blessedmercy8:
See, this advice is good. As in very good but one downside of it is that with such women, this can't work because that is when they'll see you as a weak man and the next thing they'll come hit you first.

Ive witnessed this kind of scenario before that's why I'm sounding this way.

A woman in my former compound, because the man is always avoiding hitting her, she now grew from verbally abusing and insulting the man to hitting him first. Still the man was like, 'I don't want kill this woman" until people in the compound started insulting this man that you that can't handle your wife want to talk to me. The day this man jack her up by the neck and smashed her against the wall that everybody thought she had crashed, that was the day she started respecting the man; Since after 15yrs of marriage.

Before I left that compound, if the man is talking, she'll just be walking far.

If she had died, what would have happened to the man and their children (if any)?

At the end of the day, no one will be prosecuted....so the probe is meaningless.

Those close to midnight calls......there is likelihood they would become sexual partners.

Stallionhorse:
Leave the marriage but first get her pregnant so your money nd efforts wouldn't be a waste.. Peace of mind is the best gift in this world and if your wife can't give you that run for your life.
If nah me she for dey hospital now.. Push my mum to the floor.. Lol.. That's where the marriage ends I'll beat the bride price I paid out of her that night then bundle her injured body to her family house.

Impregnating a woman you no longer want in your life, does that make sense to you? If he fathers their child, he will continue to be liinked to her for life through that child.

If you impregnate a woman, you can't force her to carry it to term ....she has the final decision or will you get the police to arrest her when she says she has had a "miscarriage"?

After thoroughly beating her, you bundle her to her family...see mouth, your type would be looking so sober when paraded by the police wearing only boxers.

It seemed he just sniffed some substance.