Politics › Re: Ernest Ezeajughi Re-Elected Mayor In London (Photos) by Mindlog: 11:13am On Sep 21, 2020 |
Nice one. |
Crime › Re: Family Accuses FCT SARS Of Raping, Killing Daughter, Petitions IG (photo) by Mindlog: 10:44am On Sep 21, 2020 |
Traumatic. |
Business › Re: Femi Otedola Dances With His Daughters, DJ Cuppy And Temi (Video) by Mindlog: 8:37am On Sep 21, 2020 |
So free spirited around his daughters. |
Travel › Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by Mindlog: 8:04am On Sep 21, 2020 |
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Celebrities › Re: Chima Ojukwu, Remarries, Weds Oluchi by Mindlog: 11:28am On Sep 20, 2020 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: . by Mindlog: 7:20am On Sep 20, 2020 |
The OP, who is a scammer has been exposed thus cancelling the thread title and deleting his original post!  |
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Politics › Re: Samai’la Adamu Burga To Farmers: Don’t Rush To Sell Your Produce by Mindlog: 5:40am On Sep 20, 2020 |
They need the money for their immediate needs. |
Travel › Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 4 by Mindlog: 4:43am On Sep 20, 2020 |
LagosismyHome: Please do you know which of these school accept 2.2 for social works .... the ones I checked I think I saw 2.1 as the entry requirements University of Sheffield accepts 2.2 if applicant can prove he/she has a lot of relevant work experience (paid or voluntary). Some schools do accept if the person has relevant postgraduate studies. |
Family › Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by Mindlog: 6:55pm On Sep 19, 2020*. Modified: 3:08am On Sep 21, 2020 |
Froshloaded: Ikr..
There is this bible saying "Honour thy father and Mother, so your days shall be long"
He should not commit a sin because of his parents.. You honour fathers and mothers who honour their God given responsibility to care and nurture children they brought into this world. There is no sin in not enabling dead beat parenting. So you think it is okay to do away with parental responsibilities/obligations over a child and be rewarded with "Honour thy father and Mother"? |
Family › Re: What Will You Do If You Have My Kind Of Parents? by Mindlog: 5:35pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Both parents are yet to acknowledge that they did wrong, dismissing the wrong they did to their child. No mea culpa but feel entitled to assistance from a son they deliberately abandoned to experience a traumatic childhood.
This is not just about forgiving or not but are you capable of accommodating their toxicity? Uninvolved parenting tends to have adverse effect on an individual up to adulthood as most tend to have difficulties forming attachments. |
Family › Re: ..... by Mindlog: 4:32am On Sep 19, 2020*. Modified: 8:17am On Sep 19, 2020 |
Reality is that, we tend to live in denial that a 5 year old can't be having suicidal ideations. The child is certainly depressed and it is very important to immediately let the parents (if father is in the picture) know and advise them to promptly seek the professional help of a child psychologist (if possible, one that also has certification in play therapy). |
Crime › Re: Man Arrested For Killing His 2 Children And His Aged Mother In Anambra (Graphic) by Mindlog: 6:28pm On Sep 18, 2020 |
Mentally sick and certainly hearing voices in his head.....schizophrenic. |
Family › Re: 3 Months Pregnancy by Mindlog: 4:07pm On Sep 18, 2020 |
masss: pls i need more contributions towards the abortion, your inputs are important. Pls back off the "don't abort it crew" You already made up your mind, why bring it here when you don't want to read posts from the "don't abort it crew"? |
Politics › Re: Lagos State Government Disowns Viral Video Of Sale Of Branded Waste Baskets by Mindlog: 5:46am On Sep 18, 2020 |
When they get arrested, they will blame the devil. |
Crime › Re: Naval Officer Fights With Lagos Task Force Over BRT Lane (video) by Mindlog: 3:31pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Mentally deranged person in Naval uniform. |
Family › Re: Is Joint Account Good For Married Couples by Mindlog: 2:13pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Each relationship is unique. |
Crime › Re: Wife Of Lascatter Accuses Him Of Defiling Their 5-Month-Old Baby. He Reacts by Mindlog: 1:35pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Hmm...It should be properly investigated. |
Properties › Re: NERC: A Landlord's outstanding Electricity Bills Cannot Be Enforced On A Tenant by Mindlog: 4:47am On Sep 17, 2020 |
So wrong for a Landlord to insist on a new tenant to pay for outstanding bill. |
Politics › Re: Femi Fani-Kayode & Wife, Precious Chikwendu Have Separated - Kemi Olunloyo, SDK by Mindlog: 8:15pm On Sep 16, 2020*. Modified: 7:58am On Sep 17, 2020 |
Hmm.....there is need to seek mental health care. |
Politics › Re: US Imposed Visa Restrictions On Nigerians Undermining Electoral Processes by Mindlog: 5:11am On Sep 15, 2020 |
DMerciful: Trump needs to win 2020 election to ensure sanity in Nigeria 2023 elections   |
Family › Re: Man Gives His Dead Dog 'Judas' Befitting Burial (photos) by Mindlog: 3:13am On Sep 15, 2020 |
We grieve and seek closure over loss, differently. |
Romance › Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by Mindlog: 3:13pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Bernice4ozodo: if this was done to you or your sister how would you feel.... I think you got it mixed up, the guy I quoted was implying that it is smarter to relocate the lady to Nigeria all in the name of marriage, so the OP would have an "upper hand" in the marriage |
Romance › Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by Mindlog: 2:31pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
gaius01: Arrrrrrrh
First, how old are you ? You are still in Medical school? If you are too wife her, wife her in Nigeria not abroad cause. If not any small chaos Na police, you are vulnerable bro and you know she's OK, in the sense she's well to do so marrying her is not like a favour just that she need children and companion. Also know female are favour in court case outside.
I will advise you'd wife her here in Nigeria since she's a Nigerian. Wife her in Nigeria, as in after the wedding she stays in Nigeria permanently? Will living in Nigeria make her lose her American citizenship and the protection it confers? |
Romance › Re: What Are Advantages & Disadvantages Of Marrying Nigerian Girl Born In America? by Mindlog: 2:30pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Reading comments.  |
Family › Re: My Family Is Starving, Please Anybody Who Can Help Us Out by Mindlog: 1:26pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Another scammer. |
Family › Re: Can You Help Me Out Of This Dark Place? Anyone? by Mindlog: 11:56am On Sep 14, 2020*. Modified: 12:16pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Cutting of self, kind of create a sense of having control over emotional pain for some people who are living with some forms of mental health issues though it is self-harming but makes them "feel good" for the meantime as it makes them feel numbed to their emotional pain. Cutting of self is an indication of an underlying mental health issue and an unhealthy coping skill.
OP, I will encourage you to share what you are going through with your father though he may not be understanding but you need his support.
You need to see a psychotherapist and from your first session, if there is an indication of clinical depression then there is need for referral to a psychiatrist who would diagnose and prescribe medication. Whether there is need for medication or not, make sure you are engaged in talk therapy sessions.
Please make sure you on antiretroviral medication and highly adhere to it |
Education › Re: JAMB: How A Lost Sim Has Put My Brother In Jeopardy by Mindlog: 10:15am On Sep 14, 2020 |
Hmm....the risk of buying pre-registered sim even unknowingly. |
Nairaland General › Re: Best Man Of The Groom Who Died 3 Days After Wedding Breaks Silence by Mindlog: 10:05am On Sep 14, 2020 |
Sad. |
Family › Re: Shamed By A Journalist, But Look At The Kindness Shown To Them By Strangers by Mindlog: 9:56am On Sep 14, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Edo 2020 Debate: Ize-Iyamu Rattles Obaseki On Performance by Mindlog: 5:28am On Sep 14, 2020 |
Yawns. |