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Safe distance!

Awol1:
"No violence", "No vandalism", "No Stealing".

Marley really knows Marlians.

He's warning them ahead. Lol

He knows their personalities.

Attention seeker.

All these tales by moonlight on social media but on a lighter note, why was the man not prayerful enough to avert the jazz working on him before investing emotions and resources in that relationship?

Depressed111:
This phase is too tough, too many big ideas on my head but no money to get started to fillful this ideas, the ideas are just wasting away

Those big ideas, which of them is the most realistic to implement with the resources presently available to you?

Mere words.

Nice development.

Saving face.

Characteristic of him!

dingbang:
I just finished watching a Nigerian movie whereby the mother in law was calling the wife a witch for not being able to give birth after seven years of marriage. Starring


Ngozi Ezeonu as the Mother In law

Tony umez as the husband.

Tony Umez!

It is transactional, the married man feels there is nothing wrong in being adulterous as variety is the spice of life and willing to pay for the extra marital affair even at the expense of his wife and children, while the lady he cheats with, is there for the money.

Smart people while their foot soldiers and online warriors are busy insulting each other's ancestors!

mariahAngel:
You're from there?

My mum.

mariahAngel:
Jishi ike.
Owu nga a ga kpo ya, ya za!

Eshigbote content!

This is Mbano!

That was expected.

Cigbojugha:
Check Northumbria. I got admission with waec of over 17yrs.

I know someone whose WAEC is 1995, though in 2017 she went back to do another bachelors degree and finished in April this year and left for Leeds last week for her Masters.

BigDick70inch:
Well I everythin I typed on here is from experience bro..

Stay in Abule egba side of Lagos..

A divorce issue once happened to one of relatives sometimes ago..infact cousin to be precise..

Parent got separated through divorce..but then the kids were in custody of their dad while they were granted the chance to spend vacations with their mum..

Believe me bro..
Those kids really suffered ehn..the man re-married and left the kids to the new wife..cos he was always busy with work..

So the woman enough opportunity to maltreat the kids..

Nigeria woman..cant just seem to treat kid not birthed by them nicely..

Well..i dont know if the had changed now tho..

I recall back in one of my undergraduate courses-Marriage and Family Therapy, where the issue of women maltreating children from their husband's previous marriage/relationship was analyzed and how the fathers of these kids opt to become silent witness of the abuse in exchange for the external validation.

They are rarely very vocal about the abuse as he does not want the society to perceive him weak in protecting his children against the wickedness of the woman who he has made the society to believe is better than his ex-wife likewise the shame of not getting it right the second time, so these step-mothers cash in on these irrational beliefs which serves as an enabler and these kids suffer for this.

majesterial:
Yes o. But you can always confirm by going to the said department to confirm the doctor whose name and signature is on it.

So the pharmacy would send someone to the hospital to confirm........am learning!

pocohantas:
You no well!!
Leave Kelechi o, he will sweet-talk you before you know what is happening. I wonder what his therapy sessions will look like.




E suppose support am na. Businessman wey no fit show you way for im business, always running to the Red Sea where he is hiding from other rogue businessmen. How can he see anything wrong in this?

You don't need to hear or see what goes on in therapy sessions! Your job is to listen to what is not being said. I brought up the issue of therapy and he said he never had one and does not need it!

majesterial:
In Nigeria or in the US?
The signature is there, and the name of hospital and department is there.

So you mean anyone can use a Microsoft package to design a replica of the prescription note, print it out and have it filled it out with a pen and go present it at a Pharmacy and it is sold to him or her?

majesterial:
You call this prescription outdated?

Don't the Psychiatrists in UPTH stamp their prescriptions? Because I know a prescription without medical stamp should be considered illegal and any pharmacist/pharmacy that dispenses it should be held liable.

BigDick70inch:
My Oga..

Men like dat wont let the kids be in custody of their estranged wife even after separation/divorce..

Infact..they had rather allow the kids suffer with them than releasing them to the wife..

Except..the kids are old enough to decide who they want to be with in court..

Maybe..the court might grant the mum the chance to check on once in while..while they remain with their father..

As far it is Lagos state, it is not about the nan letting the ex-wife having custody or checking on the kids once in a while at his discretion. Attached is a scenario I posted in August

You should use the username you are well known with on Nairaland to solicit rather than creating a new account for it

BigDick70inch:
Better u don't even think of divorce..

Cos..while u r gone he will marry another woman..

Then your kids automatic become slaves or housemaids in their father's house..

If separation and eventual divorce will be of the best interest to her and their kids, then that should be it.

The man should be free to remarry while she has custody of the 2 kids and that shouldn't stop the man to be actively involved in his children' lives while they co-parent.

The belief that once the man remarries, the kids would automatically live with him and their step-mother is false because the family court favours biological mothers unless the man can proof beyond reasonable doubt that the children would be at risk living with their biological mother.

DenreleDave:


I don't want the questioning of see this guy with guy picture but female on his profile.

Questions like are u a hermaphrodite

It is not funny but clear intent to misrepresent.

DenreleDave:
Some might think I was the one aving accomodation issue... They might think I am using my frnd as a cover up.. That is why I changed it to male so as to be clear that it is a lady frnd

Why switch back to being female if you don't want readers to think you are the one having the accommodation issue?

DenreleDave:
Lemme send u a pm..

Pls check ur mail

You know you are not who you claim you are! Switching genders and someone called you out yesterday because of it and you claimed male, now you have switched back to being female!

JONNYSPUTE:
....The truth of this matter is that this guy is not sick.
He has a relative who is a psychiatric patient and has been taking advantage of that to scam people.
From the way he writes so coherently and his non challant attitude towards showing remorse,it is easy to findout.
People,hear me,this guy is not sick but has a psychiatric patient he is using to scam others.
Be wise.

If one can use information gotten from a family member or a friend who is undergoing psychiatric care to make money then that person also is mentally sick to go to that length and needs to be locked up in the prison section of the psychiatric hospital (if Nigeria has such)

majesterial:
I never reached that point. My issues cannot be dealt with by talking.
All of my symptoms that have reversed completely disappeared when I used high doses of said drugs.
I research drug interactions, lethal doses, side effects, therapeutic dosage, and studies that go above the therapeutic range, before I take any drug. Even paracetamol.

The biopsychosocial model is the most effective treatment model being applied in psychiatric facilities because it recognizes the role of the psychiatrist, the therapist and the family in dealing with mental health issues.

It is not about reaching that point because psychotherapy ought to be mandatory for you as the patient and also with your family (family therapy) as it has to go hand in hand with the medications, reason you see nothing risky in swinging the dosage and feel there is no side-effects in prescription drug misuse

majesterial:
The dosage given never worked at all. Doctors were reluctant to change dose or change drugs.
The symptoms I had then were very severe. I couldn't study as a student. Days, weeks, semesters passed yet no improvement. Since I noticed that I responded immediately to a higher dose, why should I wait for months, bagging carryovers, becaus of a resident who clearly didn't know what he was doing, or just didn't care.
Furthermore the doctors had no understanding whatsoever of my symptoms. Most of my most severe symptoms were discarded in the original diagnosis.
I don't need to be a doctor to know that 200mg sertraline or 300mg amitriptyline is safe. I researched.

If you didn't have confidence in the residents, did you make efforts to see any of the consultants? In as much as the internet is there for research, it is not wise to up one's dosage based on the contents there. Were you offered psychotherapy?

majesterial:
Please sir view this post.
We both needed help that. It was a case of mistaken identity.
Lekan was looking for 5k, I was looking for 80k, why would run away with 5k.
https://www.nairaland.com/6153095/beware-fraudster-squillaci-lovenkreaand-evangkatsoulis/1#94502877

You have received funds from people who have no obligations towards you and it is clear to all that you have not been honest but the tragedy of it all is that you convince yourself, you have done nothing wrong.

Those drugs you have mentioned are well known to me because I work in a psychiatric facility and like someone has noted earlier, non adherence to dosage should not be what a patient should gamble with.

DenreleDave:
U av said it all... Thanks... I appreciate....

Her family are in PH...


I pray God help sha

No job, no accommodation.....advise her to go back to her family in PH and while there, be following up leads on getting a job and possible relatives in Lagos.

I still ponder how people still feel comfortable requesting to be housed (when it is not airbnb) by a total stranger in this era of debauchery, missing persons and ritual killings, is it that one's sense of self-preservation has switched off?