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sirBLUNT:
akwaaba!

sirBLUNT:
lol not surprise in that way but surprise that he has such an amazing woman with so many attritudes...that alot of men will wish they where him

sirBLUNT:
sure i will never be disappointed i will just be surprise!

ubunja:
nice answer. gives me a lot of food for thought. especially the points on Eve and the fact that more females are churchgoers than males.
i guess its the same reason why 80% of shopping is by women and why 90% of all advertising is aimed at women. female impressionability.

learning from one's mistake is not a bad thing generally.but men have a big problem with it when it comes to women. not that men have double standards or anything. but becoz women's bodies tend to "show" those mistakes like "scars".
a gal may waste her youth whorin and repent of her actions by 30.its OK.but her body would have taken a beating from the wild days. sagging boobs.borehole pvssy.fatherless kids. thats the thing men have a problem with that women seem unable to get.
u may say boys dont sag boobs.but guys dont believe it.and are not prepared to listen.
mistakes do happen.but sometimes they leave their mark.
can u even imagine how it would have been if the Biblical Prodigal Son was a Daughter? and did all the things the boy did before coming to her senses?

sirBLUNT:
cant wait to see who is the lucky dude!

ubunja:
so its a case of " i learnt from my mistake"
the same gospel repeated by every woman on every topic.
another question: why do women insist on making a mistake themselves instead of learning from another's mistake and choosing a different path altogether?

ubunja:
misjoy let me gatecrash your convo.
maybe u can answer me a question i've been thinking on for quiet a while
why do women give more respect to their boss than their husband?or value their pastor's word above their man's?

your words " the man should not be the ruler" reminded me.

sirBLUNT:
i envy the guy that will marry you...
goodmoney!

Jupxter:
Trust me, many financially independent ladies are those words you don't like hearing.


I like your stance on equality in relationships. If relationship is healthy, it's more than enough, but the desire to control, manipulate and put the man at a point they can manipulate at will is what destroys relationships. These ladies want to control men, and domineer them ! It's a bragging right, i can do anything for myself, i don't need you, hence, i can bail out on a marriage at any point....How many men can cope in such an unhealthy climate, not just survive, how many human beings can thrive under such unhealthy conditions?

Jupxter:
Lol @ I only believe in fairness and respect of our individual differences.

Many ladies now want and demand equality, and when they get it, they discover equality isn't enough and they want even more, absolute domineering of a man. Relationship has been reduced to a power tussle, where one is trying to avoid being controlled, but wants to control the other one. What good can come out of such ....outta ere

kingofcasting:
I swear. That post reeks of wisdom. I'm impressed

sirBLUNT:
oh my bad..i will tell you in private...i just have alot in mine...

Sapiosexuality:
Here we go again. Smh.

sirBLUNT:
will it really change if you know why?

sirBLUNT:
you're very smart no doubt..but i wont tell you "why" here

CorGier:
Thank you. Everything else before that doesn't matter.
A sapiosexual person is someone who finds intelligence and the human mind to be the most sexually attractive feature in the opposite sex.
- UD.

sirBLUNT:
i know you wont say them here and i know why..dont ask me how i know..

sirBLUNT:
yea but on a different level..some are kind of extreme to a point insensitve..whats your's?

ReinaFarine:
Chai...
See the trend of guys and their answer to a simple question... Why doesn't nowadays relationship last?
- People are too much in a rush to get into one they are not matured enough to fight for one: , Everybody thinks a relationship is the true source of happiness. And even though we are not matured enough to be independent, We think relationship is going to grow us up. And relationship is more of I need someone to give me #20,000 monthly, I need a pretty gal on my arm, I need someone to call me at night and I need a bii for the social media. All the perceived glamour of relationship doesn't tell you it is truly about being able to make your spouse a better.person than he/she was when they met you.

You think girls ate ugly, tell her about beauty schools, exercise routine, facial and skin treatment, make up tips and tricks. You think guys ate broke, tell him about investment opportunities, savings, job opportunities and creation options, skill acquisitions, professional and academic courses. Until a relationship is more than candy, flowers and barney entertainment, the couple are just dating and not yet in a relationship.

If you can't tell your partner when he or she is in the wrong, then you don't actually love that person enough to make him/her a better version of their current state.

I am in love with an amazing man right now and I can say love is compatibility and comfortability. You ate compatible enough to give him what he needs in the way he wants it.

Relationship.don't last because people date for sex and social media rather than for comfort and mutual growth.

A relationship can never be at its best without feminism... I know little boys will not understand. A woman will never be able to express her opinion (a times smarter than the common notion) if she's not allowed a say in the home. A man can never realise his full potential if he doesn't allow his partner that knows all.of his strength and weakness tell him where and how he can build on himself.

But delude yourself into comparing one night stand, friends with benefits, and babymamaism with the true pleasures of having completion in your partner...

You think Bill gates will be a better person without Melinda... Barrack without his Michelle, hell Good luck without his Patience... Then I suggest you have a rethink.... But when you keep picking your choice of partner of physical things like beauty, money, and sexual appeal rather than, intellect, character, maturity and dreams, you will continue ending up with amateur wannabe Kardashians. So to each his or her own.

You can't go to the market to buy bitter kola and complain every thing in the market is bitter... Did you ask for honey?

I know ladies are more pressured into marriage and family than the guys...

sirBLUNT:
yea all bulls are crazy its a natural something..got a deal breaker?

sirBLUNT:
hahaha..you're damn crazy...

sirBLUNT:
how do i tell him when you dont even know what you want?

WHAT DO YOU WANT?

BenShammer:
I know everyone is different, that's exactly the point I was trying to make, that you can't lump an entire gender as a bunch of snitches. It depends on maturity as you said. That act of coming online to say trash about me really hurt me. Its OK to have preferences and dislikes, but publicly ridiculing a job somebody works hard at and saying its not good enough for her etc and enjoining others to see reason why I'm not worth dating, that was a very low blow. There are no saints in either gender, only immature people.

sirBLUNT:
hahaha...you better take a deep breath..it takes two to tango you know

CorGier:
nah, men ain't driven by emotions. I like the way you think tho, maybe I should start pushing this sapiosexual thingy about too.

CorGier:
nah, men ain't driven by emotions. I like the way you think tho, maybe I should start pushing this sapiosexual thingy about too.

sirBLUNT:
you're trying me oo go away joor!

sirBLUNT:
of course i know where you can find him he is everywhere just look arround joy...he is probably thinking about you right now...

CorGier:
Well, you asked who were the people putting women on pedestals, hence my reply and why.


If you recall, I stated earlier that in dealing with women, they best be treated as kids. That way you get to accept them the way they are and not get stuck in the "anger phase", perpetually blaming and hating on women after every heartbreak.
All women are biologically and evolutionarily wired to behave/act in a certain way under certain circumstances.
Once a man realises this; beefing some ex-lover over what she did or failed to do years ago, becomes futile. I'm not saying being hurt by that special should hurt any less though, no, but you get to realize that she's first of all a woman, then your soulmate.
I think I've tried, Ma.

sirBLUNT:
if been "selective" is term as been a perfectionist then am afriad am guilty too but unfortunately there is a big disparity so am not guilty..but dont you think you're been hard on guys?mayb you should try and be a little bit soft...and give a chance to a "perfect gentleman" and nt a "perfect man"

BenShammer:
That's funny, you girls are always so paranoid of having your privacy exposed, but you're the ones that can't keep your mouths shut. My ex was also paranoid about " anything happening and me uploading stuff to disgrace her" but she single handedly exposed private details of our relationship online. Not only that, she even went as far as discussing my job, detailing my flaws, telling everybody who cared to listen how ashamed she was of what I did for a living etc. She summed it up by saying I wasn't good enough for her and she just wanted other people to support her. She disgraced me online because she wanted the approval of others to dump me. So don't feel too high and mighty, because when it comes to bringing unnecessary stuff online girls are still very much in the lead.

ubunja:
thats like saying a husband and wife must not be called husband and wife coz any moment they can divorce.