Romance › Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by MissJoy29(f): 12:24pm On Feb 12, 2018 |
veraiyke: An act of goodwill. But the lady is under no obligation whatsoever to accept marriage proposal. We could have called her names if the kidney donation was done on agreement of marriage and afterward she backed out. And I too would have called the guy names for trying to corner her into marriage just because of condition. That would no longer be love. They both exercised their freewill. God bless them Exactly! Just what I have been trying to say. |
Romance › Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by MissJoy29(f): 12:23pm On Feb 12, 2018 |
carolndidi: @ the emboldened, please read the comments made by boiz2men, and the analogy about Jesus dying for a sinner, and re-consider your statement if she owes the guy her life or not. See dear, I'm not blaming anyone here. And I'm not ready to start. If you read my comments you will see I was mainly trying to tell myself what I would have done if I were in her shoes. As for my earlier comment you wrote in bold letters, I still maintain my stand. She doesn't owe him anything. What a lot of you here are doing is to make it look like the guy attached a condition to his kidney donation to her. He didn't. From his tone you would see that. He still offered to be her friend. And dont forget he offered to do what he did willingly and not under duress. Same thing JESUS did. That's love without conditions. We are the ones making the girl look bad. She has the right to know what she wants. She may have reasons we don't know about(since we haven't heard from her) for turning him down. Now, that's for her. As for me, if I were the one, just like someone said earlier, after his sacrifice, he deserves to have ALL OF ME. Cos I couldn't have found a better partner. |
Romance › Re: Lady Rejects Man’s Marriage Proposal After Giving Her A Kidney by MissJoy29(f): 8:30am On Feb 12, 2018 |
Funny enough, when I saw this thread, I didn't want to comment initially. Until I was discussing with a friend offline about it. He even drew my attention to what a lot of people were saying about it. Now I'm pushed to write what I told him about this.
"I will marry him o. God help me not to be stupid about this kind of thing because that kind love & devotion no dey two abeg. It's Divine!
The guy's love is outta this world. My lips will be better twisted if I call him a fool. That's love. In it's Divine, purest and selfless form. It's priceless. And the guy is still gracious enough to want to remain friends with her. That man is God-sent to her. Yes, she doesn't owe him marriage or accepting his proposal because they weren't dating before. I agree. But they were best friends. And i thought people who marry as best friends make the best couple. Even if I'm wrong, all i'm thinking now is, who else could she find that will be better than he is? What else will she say she's looking for in a man that the guy doesn't have?"
Well, the lady asked for time. Maybe she will change her mind. I Pray she does. |
Education › Re: UNIABUJA Law Graduate Dies After A Brief Illness (Photos) by MissJoy29(f): 2:10pm On Feb 08, 2018 |
Na wah o! Is the language used for this post really that hard? Even though the news isn't totally true , the poster didn't tell us she died few weeks after a brief illness. The news said she died few weeks to her wedding. Ib other words, the "few weeks" in the story is referring to the upcoming wedding and not the brief illness. With all due respect to Liscolites. And sorry for your loss. Cc nwakibie3 namdeenero johnnyn1 nwakibie3: Dorcas who celebrated her birthday on the 6th of february, 2018. After dancing and shouting the day she got engaged in the hostel lost her life to the hands of death after a brief illness few weeks to her wedding
OP which kind news be this na
she celebrated her birthday two days ago and died few week later... |
Phones › Re: Any Bluetooth Speaker Specialist Should Get In Here by MissJoy29(f): 10:01pm On Feb 06, 2018 |
For 5k, I'd recommend a Zealot product. It's multifunctional: bluetooth speaker, mp3 playee radio, powerbank and torchlight. It also supports SD card. It's sooooo reliable. I have been using it for like 7/8 months. As at that time, I bought it for 5k. Infact, 4900 to be exact. It comes in different colours too. Hope this helps.
Oh, FYI, that's jumia website.
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Business › Re: Are you on steemit??....let's Meet Here... by MissJoy29(f): 8:51pm On Feb 06, 2018 |
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Family › Re: Dad’s Incredible Reaction To News 14-year-old Son Is Not His by MissJoy29(f): 8:27am On Feb 06, 2018 |
You see why it's necessary for one to be careful about their choice of life partners? A lot of evil go on in this world now.
God help us. And may I never be this cruel, selfish and secretive to my husband.
And may we never turn each other to monsters & start competing for who will be more heartless. |
TV/Movies › Re: How Different People Watch Bbnaija by MissJoy29(f): 6:30pm On Feb 05, 2018 |
Drniyi4u: 5. The ones that get their update on social media because no time Team number 5. But mine isn't just cos of time but cos I'm not interested. |
TV/Movies › Re: How Different People Watch Bbnaija by MissJoy29(f): 6:29pm On Feb 05, 2018 |
NextGovernor: Me have never watched any of the scene for once. I knew all the contestant and how they do their stuff here on nairaland.
If people that watch is talking and I contribute they will think I watch A-Z not knowing I neva even open that station once.. Exactly! Same here |
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Why I'll Always Collect Money After Sex. by MissJoy29(f): 11:50am On Feb 04, 2018 |
Ebios: it shouldnt be bc i dont av any ulterior motive apart from sharing linguistic and pedagogical knowledge. So pls do so. I didn't say you have. The others before you really spoilt things. So.... Happy Sunday |
Celebrities › Re: Olumide Aderinokun's Infidelity: Chats With Yolanda Ayemo Nifise Leaked by MissJoy29(f): 7:58pm On Feb 03, 2018 |
Blackfyre: That's true though, especially the defensive and aggressive part. In my case, I often have terrible dreams eapecially a certain uneasiness/on edge feeling about them but I fail to take a cue and bolt. Learned my lessons though.
I only became so recently oh for the most part online interactions. It's a new found place that things I ignore before I grasp them instantly now. No time to compromise...
That is very true though, but that strong spirit can go either way, some are evil some are good. I know a case of a dude who was attacked for having malicious intent to a female. The girl barely made a move to him but everyone went at the dudes throat. Funny thing is, the girl was herself a devil's spawn. Whenever I think back on it, I am just marveled. What was more funny is that, from an instant I knew the guy was bad news even before he revealed himself, just sounded too perfect and quickly swung into action to meet the girl. Little did I know, na evil dey play ping pong with each other.
As for the good peeps, theirs tend to be much slower to happen and it will really not have the hand of anybody involved. You will know for a fact, that it is God punishing the person for certain misdeeds.
In my own case, mine tend to happen much much later that I would have forgot sef, then something will just bring it into remembrance what that person did or I said to that person a long time ago and it often times turn out brutal. For the first part, I also have Revelations (that's what they are & not just dreams). Before or after that, I will be having this feeling of dread that all's not well with this person. I will be very uneasy like you said & troubled. After that, it doesn't take time before the person is shown for who he/she is. And like you too, I fail to heed the warning most times. I always wish & hope for change...Some lessons are bitter sha. Yes, some spirits are evil while some are good. That's why we all have to be careful who we hurt. Some people don't need to open their mouth and curse you when you hurt them intentionally. Depending on the level of hurt & how they feel it, their tears alone is enough to speak on their behalf. |
Celebrities › Re: Olumide Aderinokun's Infidelity: Chats With Yolanda Ayemo Nifise Leaked by MissJoy29(f): 3:58pm On Feb 03, 2018 |
Blackfyre: Relationship rightness, it's a type of OCD. I am terribly paranoid about people I pick a love interest in. It's often suffocating for them and even for me, because in as much I may tell them I love them, I will badger them with things to see how true of a person they are. It began after I met God, I saw how treacherous people can get. How very fickle life and humans can get. So I find it hard to trust anyone except God gives me assurance. Then my mind will be at rest. If he hasn't, I won't be able to stay still.
@emboldened very very true. I mean take this true story that I saw with my own eyes God revealed. This man had cheated serially with various women on his wife. The wife out of spite did some jazz to him and his business went down. The wife actually put an egg in a bottle, and when God called the wife forward. The woman confessed to it and asked that he forgive the man. Do you know that was how the man got delivered? If you see the wife? The woman is damn beautiful for her age, well endowed in every place, I just open mouth say wetin this man dey find again?
Or this one the wife substituted her husbands destiny to use for her own wish. The man became dirt poor. Come and see how a grown ass man was crying like a baby? God kept asking him if there is any point of the story he told a lie? The man said no, it is exactly how God narrated everything. The man, husband, head of a home doing gateman for his wife?
Mehn, as I dey so, I no trust anybody oh. Na only God I look up to. If God gimme permission, na then I go begin treat you well. Hmmmm...I thought I was the only one. How do I bring this out? I get highly sceptical too about love interests. Reason why I put on hold so many things regarding love relationships. I get paranoid too. Not cos I have skeletons in my cupboard but cos I know how heartless and wicked human beings can be. It's getting increasingly difficult nowadays to find genuinely good people. Coupled with the fact that I have OCD, I'm a melancholic and a perfectionist, you really have your work cut out for you if I pick an interest in you and you in me. I have come to realize something however. Apart from God leading me, I have come to understand that the ones who fidget, freak out, hyperventilate, get defensive and aggressive when being tested(in the right way), have lots of skeletons in their closets. They reek of insincerity, deceit, lies & dishonesty. You don't need God to speak to you in this case. Just take a walk. I'm highly observant & sensitive Spiritually by God's Grace. It's often a source of worry & frustration for most people who come near me. Won't elaborate more. But if I get to know you and get closer to you, and I stay like 1 month without getting confirmation from The Holy Spirit that you are a bad person, I relax. If not,.... A lot of people who cheat on their partners do so without knowing the consequences of what they do to the other person. And most importantly, without knowing WHO they do it to. There are people you hurt brazenly and you will never recover from it until you repent and confess. I'm talking about people who have strong Spirits and are God's own no matter what. That's why I am scared of hurting people intentionally. You don't know who is who. I'm a case in study and also a living witness. |
Celebrities › Re: Olumide Aderinokun's Infidelity: Chats With Yolanda Ayemo Nifise Leaked by MissJoy29(f): 11:45am On Feb 03, 2018 |
Blackfyre: So I decided to read the chat, the flows were quite smooth, the babe was quite eager tho. But na wah oh, the reputation of men has been bastardized beyond the point wey guy even fit carry shoulder up... Na wah oh....
Even at that, it still doesn't matter. No matter how careful an individual can be in the choice of spouse, ask all the questions, dig deep as you can into the persons life, if the grace of God is not there or his involvement, you will find out in the end you made the wrong choice. I have personally experienced it twice, only God knows the heart of man and the end from the beginning. No man can tell another mans heart, only God can.
Whatever anyone does is in the 'hope' that it goes well if he/she excludes God. It more or less a gamble no certainty whatsoever. For someone like me, my OCD will reach crescendo. Exactly! One can never be too careful. It's only God that knows the heart of man (men and women alike). So through HIS guidance, we know as well. God is still in the business of revealing things to us. If only we will heed to it. (Even though sometimes, we ignore God's leading & walk straight into the fire especially in relationships). But with marriage, it should be a different thing. From what is happening now & the level of immorality, wickedness and selfishness prevalent in this generation, anyone doing anything with anyone for long term purposes(business deals, & most especially, marital relationship) without involving God is only asking for trouble. Btw, you have OCD? And what do you mean by your OCD will reach cresendo? |
Business › Re: Tokkida Semlek: Man Refunds N800k Paid To His GTBank Account By Mistake (Photos) by MissJoy29(f): 1:07pm On Jan 31, 2018 |
agarawu23: Even if you don't go to the back to tell them, it will be debited once the error is noticed. If you spend the money, u will be tracked and jailed. thats the fear of most Nigerians and not integrity Nigerians! How have we lost so much faith in ourselves? |
Politics › Re: Ugochi Ihezue Meets Rochas Okorocha (Photos) by MissJoy29(f): 9:52am On Jan 31, 2018*. Modified: 10:36am On Jan 31, 2018 |
Osyabj: [b]Okorocha meets Miss Nigeria, says she is a good example of what a youth should be
Governor Rochas Okorocha, on Tuesday met with the Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria (MISS NIGERIA), Miss Ugochi Ihezue....
He described Miss Ihezue as a good example of what a youth should be, adding that her status as MISS NIGERIA....
His words “I am proud that my daughter is the most beautiful girl in Nigeria. We are proud of you./ I don't understand OP. Please don't confuse us o. Miss Nigeria beauty peagant is different from Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria(MBGN). And MBGN is more prestigious. So OP, Miss Ihezue is MBGN not Miss Nigeria. Please take note. |
TV/Movies › Re: Ladies, Which Of The BBNaija Male Contestants Would You Hit On? (Photos) by MissJoy29(f): 9:34am On Jan 31, 2018 |
I choose Cherry & Red Velvet.
But Cherry looks like a player. Red Velvet on the other hand looks like the most responsible there but looks can be deceiving. Most times, the responsible-looking ones are more dangerous and deceitful.
Aside all these, give me Red Velvet any time, any day!!!!! He's my spec. |
TV/Movies › Re: Ladies, Which Of The BBNaija Male Contestants Would You Hit On? (Photos) by MissJoy29(f): 9:25am On Jan 31, 2018 |
prettyjo: red velvet in the morning and cherry at night  Exactly! You just spoke my mind  |
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Why I'll Always Collect Money After Sex. by MissJoy29(f): 7:28pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
Ebios: fellow linguist,u have not done what l said... Why? It's complicated dear. |
Romance › Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by MissJoy29(f): 4:17pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
Mynd44: Did you say "just"?
Will she still be married if she goes to seduce her husband's friend in the middle of the night?
Truth is in this situation, her husband does not only not love her, he has no self respect and he has no respect for his wife or his marriage.
This is the type of story you see in Nollywood movies when the husband has been cursed not real life because it is too crazy.
This woman is not married, she just has a flatmate………… Thank you |
Business › Re: Are you on steemit??....let's Meet Here... by MissJoy29(f): 3:14pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
sirBLUNT: missjoy29...how you doing? come and learn I have seen it dear. I'm learning. I'm good & you? A lovely afternoon to you |
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Why I'll Always Collect Money After Sex. by MissJoy29(f): 2:03pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
EOOJ: If ur speechless... I just wonder wat i will say.... Hmmm You don't even need to say anything. |
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Why I'll Always Collect Money After Sex. by MissJoy29(f): 1:44pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
BCISLTD: U see ur fellow woman I dey see o. |
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Why I'll Always Collect Money After Sex. by MissJoy29(f): 9:09pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
Jamariwolf4: 3 minutes read.
So a female romancelander opened a thread this evening, and as usual, the brokers started shouting and calling her ashawo etcetera.
Well imma be honest with you: I collect money after sex, and that ain't ending anytime soon.
I AM NOT A OLOSHO OR PROSTITUTE.
I work for my money, but you must still pay me.
Take note and read carefully before you start insulting all the females (gone, alive, and yet to be born) in your family
Reasons why I'll always collect money after sex
1. Sex is difficult : Oh yeah, it is! But you wouldn't know, would you? When you're just dicking down and going, you take 90% pleasure and me takes 10%. In my sexually active years, I can count with one hand the number of sex I actually really enjoyed. If fellow females won't be honest, You can ask bobrisky and other faqqots who take dicks up their orifice, the receiver passes through pains!!
2. I'm a woman with needs: I mean, I need to take a hot bath, change into something Hanes and eat good food, so pay up.
3. I'll get slut shamed anyway : How many of y'all can swear on your life that you haven't bragged to your guys how you nailed that 'hoe' Why not be a complete slut when I know I will still be tagged one, whether I collect cash or not?
4. Did you expect to leave like that? So if i didn't ask, you'll just go? Smh!!!!
5. It's the right thing to do: Before you type that trash, remember your Bible or quran condemns Fornication. If you can't pay my bills, find some cheap young naive bitch.
6. It's a man's world: Women have no say or opinion, right? Well, in bed, we do!
7. I'd never fück a fuckboy ever : I'll soon open a thread on how to identify fvckboys, but in details, they want to eat without giving anything in return. I can smell their stench from miles and I activate my ignore button, so I don't need to argue for money like a prostitute after sex.
Real men pay up without you asking,
whether you decide to go au naturel or sans naturel, pls pay your woman and treat her with respect.
Thanks. Na wah o! Speechless!! |
Romance › Re: Name One Food You Can't Stop Eating Even When You Become A Millionaire. by MissJoy29(f): 12:05pm On Jan 25, 2018 |
For me it's moi-moi "oka'. I love that food like crazy. Another one is those small small pears. We call it "ube mgba" in my language. Then finally, abacha(African salad). Give me those things anytime. |
Romance › Re: Tired Of Being Called Broke? Use Your Mb To Change Your Life by MissJoy29(f): 10:56pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
sirBLUNT: cc: missjoy29 Wow...thanks dear. Here to learn. |
Education › Re: "Words Or Names" If Spelling Is Reverse Stil Gives Same Meaning & Spelling by MissJoy29(f): 10:51pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Ebios: Ok....are u teaching too? Yes...I am |
Education › Re: "Words Or Names" If Spelling Is Reverse Stil Gives Same Meaning & Spelling by MissJoy29(f): 10:50pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
sirBLUNT: sure you do..the "taurean queen"  |
Education › Re: "Words Or Names" If Spelling Is Reverse Stil Gives Same Meaning & Spelling by MissJoy29(f): 10:02pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
sirBLUNT: you taught me well... Awwww....I trust myself |
Education › Re: "Words Or Names" If Spelling Is Reverse Stil Gives Same Meaning & Spelling by MissJoy29(f): 10:02pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Ebios: Lol... So,what did u study it with? Did u do education also? Yeah....English Language in Education |
Education › Re: "Words Or Names" If Spelling Is Reverse Stil Gives Same Meaning & Spelling by MissJoy29(f): 9:58pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
sirBLUNT: redivider,noon,radar,civic,reviver Good...you are a good student. |
Education › Re: "Words Or Names" If Spelling Is Reverse Stil Gives Same Meaning & Spelling by MissJoy29(f): 9:09pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Ebios: Nice meeting u too.l have also been looking forward to meeting guys like u.
It is English/Literature in Education... I like English more and m even writing a text on it. Jeez! English /Literature in Education? Never heard of it. I comot cap for you. I hated my courses in literature in school. They were hard for me! |
Education › Re: "Words Or Names" If Spelling Is Reverse Stil Gives Same Meaning & Spelling by MissJoy29(f): 7:04pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Ebios: Woow...it is my field.l studied English and l have taught it in class.
It is called a palindrome(ask google for confirmation).lt could also be a phrase,clause or even a number.Here are more examples...
1.16461 2.12321 3.Was it a car or a cat l saw? 4.Don't nod. 5.Won't l panic in a pit now? 6.Refer I feel good meeting my course mates....tell me, did you study English Language, Education / English Language or English and Literature? |