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Sagamite: Well, women would tend to treat guys like you as mumu and would not have the simplest contrition.

Not true. I'm speaking for myself and the likes of me, of course.
Saga, we have enough worthless Naija men already . . .Leave the few good ones alone, and don't corrupt them.

They all don't have to be like you. **_{Hides under the pillow} **

y me: you and Missy B believe in change at all?
I still don't think it is right to judge a man based on his loveless childhood life and conclude he is not worth it without giving him a shot
he didn't ask to be brought up in a love forsaken environment or home
This is the highest level of discrimination

Sugar, I'm one person who judges people based on the firsthand experience I've had with them . . .I forget everything else and deal with the individual, so my point isn't ''Do not give him a chance''.

He starts having a chance the first day he meets me . . .Start learning to treat/treating me right from then.
If you wait for me to convince you, by virtue of constant TLC, to treat me right, you never can tell when I'll reach the limit to my endurance and dump your a$$.

y me: I will have to disagree with you partially on the quoted

Ehn hen! See finish!
How dare you disagree with me, omo rhia! There's no elderly woman's potrait in your living room abi? When I cough, you ought to say 'yes ma', and not disagree. . . Omo no sakan!

y me: It is said the only constant thing in life is change
[b]If a woman comes to the way of that man and show him what it feels like to be treated right and like a king
and at this point he has tasted both ways of being treated right and wrong, any sensible man will opt to change [/b]and if possible falls in love and change for the best
but any man who refuses to change and still dwell in the past is because he is yet to encounter a woman who brings the best out of him

It's all ideas, but not realistic. . . .Change is not as simple as people speak of it.
The problem is not accepting being treated as a king, but returning the gesture. It's easy to accept (positive things), giving is where the problem lies, and I find it quite difficult to understand how one can give what he's not got.

I have heard and seen women that put up with some nasty habits of their men, hoping that someday, they will change . . .they never do. Instead, your loving gestures are mistaken for tolerance, and the 'men' get worse.
Take for instance the case of physical abuse . . .These women who are victims, don't they show love to these men?
Who cooks for them, washes for them, keeps them company, tends to their needs, endure their sh@t? With all this 'love' being shown, how many of these men have voluntarily changed for the better?

If a snake is a product of a snake, grows in the midst of snakes, it can never act like a dove.
Only few people are strong enough to modify themselves as time goes . . .Change is not a simple thing.

Sagamite: Moral of the story: Don't go for men who you find out their real identity in a drawer in their study and who did not get love in their childhood.

Stop hating, jelosy!
That reminds me . . . . I'm off to do [i]you-know-wha[/i]t.

A man that has never been treated right, never been taught to treat people right, and has never treated anyone right will never treat you right no matter what you do.
If you're unfortunate to find such a man, you'll spend the whole of your life trying to please him hoping someday he will change, but they never do.

He should not treat you right only after you wash, cook and die for him . . .He ought to treat you right from the start.
See how he relates to other people, see how he treats his mother/sisters, if possible see what kind of home he's from.
You can't give what you don't have.

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False!
I, too, was wondering why Damiete is representing Nigeria at the Miss World pageant. Doubts have been cleared, the reason is below. . .




Silverbird prepares MBGN 1st runner up Diamette Charles for Miss World as MBGN winner Isabella Ayuk goes to Miss Universe.

The management of Silverbird, organisers of the annual Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria and Africa's longest running beauty pageant will be sending MBGN First Runner up, Miss DIAMETTE CHARLES GRANVILLE, to represent the country at the Miss World pageant holding in Mongolia, China in August.
MBGN winner, Miss ISABELLA AGBO AYUK will represent Nigeria at the Miss Universe.
MBGN Second Runner up, Miss IFEOMA UMEOKEKE will be at the Miss Tourism International holding later in the year in China

In a signed statement, the management said the decision was in the best interest of the beauty ambassadors, the company and the country at large.

Official statement from Silverbird Group:
''As we celebrate our 25th anniversary in the world of beauty pageantry, Its our wish not to only raise the bar but replicate the groundbreaking records achieved by Agbani Darego as the first Black Africa's Miss World 2001 as well as some past queens who have achieved remarkable results at some renowned international pageants in the recent past.

While we seek your understanding, we also urge you to pray for their victory at the various global beauty pageants where they will be flying the country's flag"

Signed
GUY MURRAY BRUCE
Group Vice President, Silverbird.


Linda Ikeji adds :

''Isabella Ayuk, the Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria 2012 is not available to go for the Miss World pageant in August for personal reasons, according to sources at Silverbird. She will be representing Nigeria at the Miss Universe pageant later in the year. And contrary to reports making the rounds, Isabella Ayuk has not been dethroned as Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria 2012. Guy Murray Bruce himself told me this''.

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agabaI23: Heels are meant to make woman look sexy and elegant. It is not a height gaining accessory.
So both short are tall can wear it for this purpose.

Gaining of height is an unlicensed use of heels

True . . .[s]even though I use 'em for the second purpose too.[/s]

queensmith: i dont even think her lips are thin? are they? lol, i like her features, i definitely prefer them to miss ethiopia, and she looks much more feminine than miss angola.
she has a better frame (even though i'm not a big fan of grown women looking like children) she's still one of the top candidates from africa in my books, the rest giving a 'girl next door' vibe.

Oya, use my glasses, look again, and repost.

Well, sadly, I guess it's actually true that beauty is subjective.
After Miss Nigeria, I'll consider Ms. Angola. . . Those 2 put the B in beautiful and black. Even though Ms. Naija looks underage.

[quote author=dipo+]I just reported you to the Mods. I'm friggin serious [/quote]Rotfl! #Dead!

queensmith: but ms sudan is 55x better looking than alek imo, as you can see in the photo tpia posted, given the right style ms sudan has enough potential, i can definitely put my money on her.
How far can conventional beauty take you.

I bet that's the best photo of Ms. South Sudan available on the net. The photo Tpia posted isn't better than the previous.
The facial features don't necessarily have to be 'pointed nose' and thin lips, but this chick doesn't do it for me.
It has nothing to do with her complexion or ''lighting'', btw.

bittyend: Can you post ya picture, missy_orangutan?

A hard-on, huh? You don't stand a chance, hop on!

queensmith: the photos are very deceiving, the one you posted of miss angola reveals she is damn fugly as well!

I actually think miss south sudan is ok, given she isnt wearing as much make up as most of them

In the fashion world, almost nothing is natural . . .You're not obligated to use a certain amount of make up neither are you rewarded for appearing like the dog's meal in the name of being natural. So, no excuse can bail her out.
The fundamental rule is - Look your best. If make up does it for you, go for it.

No, I don't think Ms. South Sudan should be there, but that's my opinion.
If Alek Wek can be where she is, beauty certainly isn't the determinant in the fashion world . . .So, Ms. SS stands a chance.

I'm putting my money on Miss Nigeria. The Savoir-faire quality seems to be missing, though.
The Mgbeke spirit will leave, if she's well trained.

figur: Pls I haven't received it my email is cynthia_fh@yahoo.com

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Odunnu: Eyah. No worry, firearm will be released soon.
Those students no fit kill me, I pass them

Make whoever tie am release am kia kia . . .I need money to feed my pikins, as husband don forget us because of politics

Me sef phor crase, if I had to deal with those students, walahi . . .You're strong, I trust you can handle 'em all.

Odunnu: MamaputB. How market? This your siggy make sense. I like am.

Na God we deh look unto oh; as y'all don abandon my kitchen, business nor deh move wella again.
How are you doing? Your students nor deh stress you too much abi?

kollistic: Missyb, I wonder ooo, see me c wahala o

No qualms . . .
For every 10 people that do not or pretend not to understand, there should be, at least, 1 that does.

Could y'all cut Kollistic some slack! If a situation makes you uncomfortable, it's only right to speak out about it.
No one should be misused simply because they are jobless or you're their benefactor.
Plus, at 56, you should move as frequently as possible . . . It is good for your health.
Do all the things you can do yourself. . . .It's called independence, and it's a beautiful virtue.

kollistic: Tnx missy. I have been searching. I guess I will have to intensify my efforts

That's the spirit! In the meantime, take it easy on yourself; it's only a phase that sure will pass.

Maggi (as a seasoning, not maggi as a product), thyme, halved onion, salt, carrots, celery (sometimes), water.
That's all I mostly use.

Get a job or make your presence scarce at home, and watch your problem disappear.

If he's not willing to change, leave him while you're still alive and in one piece.

ZainabMartins: Hi Missy_B,

I created a post on Diamond Pet Food recalls entitled "Diamond Dog Food poisons people etc" it definitely belongs in the food section as I was not able to find a section on animals/pets. However, this is the first time that a Pet food product is poisoning HUMAN BEINGS. I created another topic called: "Have you been poisoned by Diamond Dog Food?", under the food section. In this post I talk about how to protect yourself from the Diamond Salmonella outbreak. I believe this post should go under the Nairaland's Health section. Can I post it in the health section as well?

Thanks

Zainab

Posting a particular message more than once is spamming, and it's against the rules . . .You're already guilty of this offense. The ''Diamond dog food poison'' post has been posted in several section by you already, including the Health section where it rightly belongs.
Here - https://www.nairaland.com/920092/all-vets-abuja-buy-diamond#11126478

If need be, update that thread, and, please, no more spamming the forum, else you may get banned.
I'll just go ahead and delete other similar posts/threads...and, I've granted your request - moved the topic to the Health section, so you don't need to create a like thread again.
https://www.nairaland.com/965871/dog-been-poisoned-diamond-pet

Alhaji, for you

https://i39.tinypic.com/30kdrfc.jpg

alj harem: LOL OAM4J junior, wetin be e name sef

Come to think of it, we're still thinking of what to call him. Any suggestion?

OAM4J: About time to upgrade the kitchen.... Where are our customers?

Come one, come all...Missy B has finished giving birth to my baby o, she is up and doing now

Exactly. You should get them all back. . . Maybe this thread should be on the frontpage again.

Google should be of help.

http://www.bootsnall.com/articles/08-10/10-famous-cocktails-and-where-they-were-born.html

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[quote author=kody-licky]missy pls can i also get a copy of the maggi e-book
bobbles4ever2@yahoo.com ............thanks[/quote]Sent!

[quote author=kody-licky]good work missy B.....[/quote]Many thanks.

alj harem: Love this thread, Missy B you are the best

I know
Where have you been? You'all abandoned my kitchen.

Excuse the late response . . . These people are bent on frustrating me, they have to be coerced into posting. Very soon, anyone that reads without posting will be fined.

Back to the topic, I think everyone knows how to prepare fried meat. Just a few minor dos or don'ts make the taste different:
* Make sure the meat/fish absorbs the broth before you turn off heat and fry. I used to make the mistake of boiling the meat with too much water, that when the meat is done, there's still a lot of broth in the pot, and in order not to make the meat overdone, I turn off the heat with plenty of broth left in the pot and then drain - WRONG. When the meat absorbs all the broth at medium heat temperature, it absorbs all the ingredients too, hence it's tastier.

* Your ingredients play an important role too. You should be able to use the correct quantity of ingredients in proportion to your meat. Too much ingredients, your meat is too tasty and has a 'sharp' taste . . . Not enough ingredients, your meat is poor in taste. Also, use adequate quantities of as many spices as possible.

* Heat the oil on medium heat until it starts popping, (flour the fish on both sides, if you want), cut a large piece of onion into the oil and after some seconds add your meat/fish. Fry and flip often, avoid burnt. When brown, place in a bowl of paper towel to absorb oil.

I hope it helps.