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DopeAngel:
Serious Advice Needed Pls- How Can I Resolve This Impending Doom In My Family

Please nairalanders i kindly need your advice on this family issue. my elder bro met this girl sometime last two years after having too many disappointments in relationship. he said he wants to finally settle down that he is tired of waiting and disappointments.

Now the serious problem is both of them are genotype AS, but my brother does not care, he still wants to go ahead with the marriage. He is saying he has faith and hope in God that nothing will happen. even my parents are not helping matters, my parents are strong church elders and they are even saying my brother should pray that God can change things.

I am so pained with my parents stand on this issue knowing the severe consequence that follows. i was hoping they would outrightly dissolve the relationship but no they are hoping on God. What pains me the most is that the girl herself is a nurse, she knows better than everybody but yet she is not considering that.

Right now i hate the girl because she is coming to ruin the life of bro's unborn children

Since you have advice your brothers and he remains adamant, oga just let the sleeping dog lie and watch as things unfold. That love they think will kill them if they split will. Definitely be their downfall. Paying for medical bills from the day the child is born. Bitterness is what I see in their future. They will say there's God and anything can happen.... Fly wey no hear go follow dead body enter grace.

Just relax and eat pop corn when things start to unfold. You have done your part

jaymejate:
If they will be collecting the NIN slip then no problem. But if they don't, they are indirectly telling people not to go international again because it will take 5years to get the card.

Well I just got my NIN slip yesterday and maybe by the time I born my 2nd child, I go get am. Useless country

The NIMC slip is valid. Banks use as valid id card. It has your NIN number on it. They want your NIN. Its on the slip

Bombiday:
I feel like nobody has issues here as long as Cee C didnt win.

Exactly... I never watched it but the stories I read about that brat was too much and the last one she did where she insulted her father. I prayed she didn't win. Cos if had won that means our society has gone bad and it promotes and accepts the rubbish she did. But no ooooo people have spoken. That babe is toxic. I wonder how her bf dey cope with her. Any man wey marry this one wan die early be that

Thank God that brat didn't win. I didn't watch it ooo but what I have heard about that brat too much na Wetin. Thank you Jesus!!!!!

Please that disrespectful, arrogant and manner less brat should not win ooooo

You know yourself

mamafaith202011:
baba God thank you for your mercy
thank you for bfp
I claim bfp this month too
amen
if He walk on the sea and raise the death
then he can give us more bfp
he will destroy this wicked woman in my husband life and give me bfp amen
kenechukwu Emmanuel your mother is calling come into my womb and complete me

Amen!!! Amen!!!!! Amen!!!! In Jesus Name, Amen!!!!. You shall birth your husbands baby. Every strange woman in your home will be extinct and all the powers holding your bfp have released it in Jesus Name. You shall testify my sister. God of Elijah never fails. The God the heal the crippled man of 38years has intervened in your case.
The Bible says whatever we ask, we shall receive it. You have asked and it shall be so in Jesus Name!!!! Amen!!!!

dustmalik:
I strongly urge everyone to disregard the above comment, unless you want to be frustrated to death by slow internet. The so-called WAWU sim plans are throttled just so you don't enjoy your data. Stay away from it. I regret ever buying into it.

But if you can afford ntel's unlimited plans, then go those ones. They aren't throttled. Not that they are fast anyway

I don't know what you mean by throttled but anyway I have the normal ntel. Sim, the unlimited plan is the best cos there's no. Cap on it compared to other networks unlimited plans but it is freaking expensive. Come on.... It's 17500 every month for what now?

I stopped subscribing until I heard about the Wawu promo it is the best. Just pay 1k for 12 gb and if its not what you expect den don't subscribe again but I tell you, you will. Presently using the 3k plan which is 48gb and its fast and better

If your network is slow. Something is definitely wrong please check. I'd you still have data. myntel.com.ng

daamazing:
Lol. I have 2 wawu Sims and getting a 3rd one next week too. Lol

Good!!!!

phemmyfour:
Sure it will work. No damage whatsoever to the device

Thanks

Please femi when you unlock the modem for swift network for use other networks. Will the swift Sim function in the unlock modem.

Just wanna know

daamazing:
So guys my NTELs data speed is slower than when I insert the Sim on my mobile. Average speed isnt up to 1mb, around 700kbs. But when inserted into my phone, it's up to 4mb per sec.
I've reset multiple times. Same ish, what could be the issue?
Thanks

I hope you are using the ntel. WAWU promo Sim. If not you are really missing. See the plans below

I finally did it. I. Had to change the profile. From swift to ntel. Thanks

phemmyfour:
What did you see? The pix is not clear

It's saying connection failed. Showing profile management. Do I need to change the profile

joanana:
unlock code is 268877456

Oga, na wa for you ooo.

Please femi4 Abeg no vex. After unlocking my swift I saw this and its not browsing what is wrong.

It's saying connection failed with my Ntel sim

saintade01:
I have a situation right now where the younger bullies his older brother.

He is 2 and the older is 4, but because he's almost the same height with the older one and a bit fatter, he uses every opportunity to ride his brother. Though the older is calm and homely, very gentle and highly intelligent, he even takes care of this younger one as a big brother but this boy will forcefully collect foods, drinks, toys and even his bigger bicycle from him.

I sometimes tell the big brother to beat him and stand up to him whenever he comes with his bullying but that most times results into fights and I don't like seeing them in wrestlemania.

Please parents with similar issues how do you tame them?

Op it's very simple.... Power of cane never fails. Don't spare the younger one that doesn't respect his older brother. My nephews used to be like that but the power of cane worked well on the younger one. The mother always tell the elder one not to cry when the younger one bullies him. If he cries to her she will call both of them and ask the younger to apologise to his older brother and tell the younger never to do it again.

But later she will tell the elder to beat the younger if he tries it again and if he ever cried to her she will beat him

Op age is nothing but a number. It is the mutual respect, understanding and love that matters. Aan remains a man irrespective of his age in marriage. If your wife is older and gives time the respect as the man of the house, oga marry her. If she doesn't respect you as the man in the relationship and brings up. Seniority complex whoever you argue. Oga run away.

Unless you wan turn to house boy after marriage

jameyjaggs:
Olodo!!!!!go skool e no gree, dis is wat happen wen u read nd not UNDERSTAND,did u see any word which indicated 90s EWU......''7 all time wrestling legends'' go n read dem again....LANTERN generation

Hahahaha haha

If my statement make you vex. Abeg no vex didn't mean to offend you.

Wow!!!!

jameyjaggs:
dat one na ur own....my all time 7:

JOHN CENA

UNDERTAKER

REY MEYSTERIO

CM PUNK

THE ROCK

RANDY ORTON

EDGE

Indonine generation list nai be this.

The ops list is from the 90s

wowfairy:
Hey mama are u saying you have all these books in soft copies?I will be so happy if u can share with me too. I used to be an avid Reader and i am ready to start again can I pm you.

Scroll up. And you will see the links for all John Grisham

allure5:
Thanks Dr, is hsg and sonohsg realistic enough to diagnose uterine synichiae? Before I went for Hsg, I did tvs and the scan indicated 'fibrous deposits in the anterior wall of the uterine cavity'. So I did castor oil massage and used serrapeptase and clean point tampons. During the next period some tissue like substance fell off. So I later went for Hsg and sonohsg and nothing else was found. The cervical and uterine cavity were declared normal, but I have a thickened endometrial lining. That is why I'm concerned.

Wow!!!! Good news.. I pray that the castor oil therapy removes this seedling of fibriod I saw recently. And AF wey suppose show today never show. Ok ooo make. The seedling follow. The AF come out abeg

Prisca1993:
Mama plz if you don't mind, am interested in the books especially the Sidney Sheldon collection and John Grisham.thanks in anticipation

Link for John Grisham novels
https://drive.google.com/folderview?id=1YNUsjdUIRSeIOfGtk69ykkM37giVj7_L

LuckyG1:
No cause for alarm o. Any serious symptoms?

Just waist pain

LuckyG1:
No cause for alarm o. Any serious symptoms?

Nope. Thnaks

LuckyG1:
Echotexture is homogeneous, means layout on examination is same everyplace on outline.
Nonetheless, it carries at the back part of the womb,a mass of growth between layer of muscles of the womb making it appear bulky. Implication has it as intramural in type.

I no. Still. Understand ooo. Abeg come down to level. All is well abi. No cause for alarm shey. That's what I want to know

Please analyse this lab result.

Prisca1993:
Mama plz if you don't mind, am interested in the books especially the Sidney Sheldon collection and John Grisham.thanks in anticipation

I will post the link for John Grisham. Novels on Monday..
https://drive.google.com/folderview?id=1dJZvupDxSQLgI6Q4KV9GeC9AeSczscLQ

Link for Mary Higgins Clark and Sidney Sheldon novels.

Loisemm:
Missyblissy , Mary Higgins Clark oooooo
My most favourite author.
Pls share link and any additional info we may need like price or if it's free. Thanks.

It's free!!!!

rvpbae:
My dear i don't mind abeg. Pls send to me. I need novels, every kind you can get pls. God bless you.
Thank Kindly notify me so i can take it down.

Please delete your mail address.

https://drive.google.com/folderview?id=1JrJdBOKihk7ttEnH_cml4XddzCosHCgV

Link. For Sidney Sheldon and Mary Higgins Clark novels

@rvpbae
What kind of books do. You need? Novels? I ve got all Sidney Sheldon collection and the recent books they wrote after his death. I have Mary Higgins Clark novels, John Grisham any other collection of books you need
I will look for it in the Internet and send it to you. Gone are the days I buy books. I. Get all my books online. Yes its not easy searching for it.

Congratulations @whyworryph

Omojudy:
So I am going for a third hsg. I promised myself I will only go to prism diagnostics if I ever have to do it a third time after the screaming I did at union diagnostic the second time. Prism cost 30k while union cost 18. Well the 12k difference with the proprietor's experience and efficency the first time is so worth it.

That Union Diagnostic no bi. Am at all. Imagine they wan Tear my vjay when I went there after the wound and what I went through, I didn't it,they said I should i insert catheter... This was before the surgery. I paid 20k. Me m. Not going back there ooo. Looking for. Where to do it. Make. Them. Eat the 20k

Foreignlady:
Na wa o. Please find a more affordable hospital with a good doctor and register. We need to save funds for when our twins and triplets will come

Abi oooo

Foreignlady:
Please allow me to rant cos I’m very pissed right now.

So I registered with a gynecologist late January. Paid for card, consultation and all. The doctor took my history and set out a “plan”. We started with progesterone to induce my period after carrying out a PT test, then when it came i went back to take Premarin and primolut to regulate my cycle, all these medications and test I paid for of course and they were not cheap.

Everything was fine till today. I went back for a follow up since the doctor insisted I must see him today. He saw me and asked if I was taking my meds and I replied yes. He said ok that I will then have to come back at the beginning of the next cycle to take more meds. That’s all he wanted to see me for

I was about leaving when one of the nurses told me I have to pay consultation fee of N7500 I asked her why I have to pay that much since it’s just a follow up, the doctor just wanted to know if I was taking my medications. There was not physical examination, no injections, nothing. The nurse said “that’s how we do it ooo”. I was pissed. My people I had to pay after much arguments with them ooo. I told the nurses they can’t be ripping people off because of TTC. I couldn’t even blame the nurses cos they seemed to understand my plight but couldn’t do anything about it.

This is the reason many TTC women would rather stay at home, pray and believe in God than go to hospitals. These doctors see TTC as an avenue to increase their pocket because they’re desperate and helpless.

I wrote down the name and dosage of the medication I’m supposed to take next cycle and I’m seriously contemplating if I should go back or not since I can find it in the pharmacies. I cannot come and kill myself.

End of rant. Make una no vex jare. Good afternoon.

Mama, don't mind them na so them dey do.. ... I had this stomach ache that comes and goes, whenever I noticed the pain I will take salt and water and after like 30mins the pain go disappear like nothing happen but when the pain come eh, it's unbearable... See me weeping like a baby and asking God for forgiveness and to take the pain away.

So the pain happen again oooo around 5am one Saturday morning ooo I take the usual salt and water....it didnt work... The pain increased oooo this one pass me ooo from 5am to 9am... I was crying like a baby e no work oooo na so I tell dh to take me to the clinic wey I do surgery... I reach there they gave me 2 drips, 2 injections and some drugs. I wanted to leave they said they need to observe me. When the bill came 45000.

I got angry and asked for the break down. For the break down tests 8,000, one injection 13,000, observation 5,000, and other stuff wey I no remember again. Na so I tell the nurse say if na so e bi I will not come here for antenatal ooo even their antenatal na 80k... Minus anything else while delivery na another money
I told her so I have to save like 500k for antenatal and delivery... Una try ooo I am not coming here again ooo. Yes the doc is good but come on... I dey pluck the money for tree