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ExpertEDITOR:
This is the problem when we preach redpill. Most simple men think redguys are angry guys (I won't say some ain't tho). But the basis of redpill is to expose you to game and make you a better man while relating with women without hating them.

Op, to be real with you, you lost this game. It might not seem like a game to you but to every girl, relationship is a game especially when the honeymoon period in relationship is over.

Subconsciously, she will continue to test and measure you against her potential sexmates... It is natural. That doesn't meant she is worst than other females. As a matter of fact, most ladies you quoted on ur former thread will do worst if given a chance like that. Women are very pragmatic and selfish than men. They take decisions as it comes notwithstanding how u feel about it. They don't really care as long as it serves their objectives and that of their immediate family.

Now, don't wish that girl bad. She did what she did in her best interests. You only lost cos you are not game. I understand you may like to be straight with women, but I assure you, being straight is the best way to always lose with women cos they are always playing games.

You said you were not doing bad for yourself, but still, I think you should have p1mped that girl and get whatever you want (connections, money or travel deals). She won't feel used as long as she thinks you allow her. It would have been a win win on both sides.

Lastly, women are not the angels you wish they are..... They are smart and dangerous and you have to be just like them or even better to win while with them.

Count your loss. Wish her well (you can even send her a best wishes message to open that communication line back).

Then going forward always play your game right, that is the only way to win!

This was my thought too. I would've encouraged her. In short, I would've pimped her. Op, take this. Lesson one. Whenever you notice your girl having interest in a guy wealthier than you, or have something important that you don't have, encourage her so that she can do it openly else she would do it behind your back. Lesson two: immediately your girl tells you "we are just friends", "I just want to eat his money" etc, start looking for a replacement. Lesson three: never let a girl know her true position in your heart.

The headline is very misleading. The words "How" and "becoming " should not be in a sentence about ritual killings in the SW. It has always been just like the act of Cannibalism in the SE.

FarahAideed:
LNG that has not been able to remit 1 billion dollars to FGN since it was created ?

are you for real! Maybe its time you do a small research about this topic. In this regime alone LNG has remitted more than that! I can remember Vividly when you wailers were wailing about who collected the LNG dividend sometime ago whether it was GEJ or Buhari . Now to the story proper.the other day, we heard the FG wanted to invest in Proforce and Innoson. As usual Igbo bigots were against it saying it was a means to take over the company. Now the Story has changed.

akajesus1020:
In this video, the leader of the Indigenous People of Biafra, Mazi Nnamdi Kanu speaks revealing some truth on issues that matters.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VxXjghB5Lxo

what truth did he reveal? rubbish. Kanu is Chief spin doctor. he spins things out of their context and his gullible followers never fail to disappoint.

if at all he made the statement, in what context did he make it? this is why I say most of those commenting on nairaland are dumb and tending towards imbecility. when you read the statement, he is talking about a state or region being subversive towards the FG and the FG is still allotting funds to the said region. what it means is that this man is a tyrant who can punish a state or region if they are not in his good books.

MunchHouse:
You dey contradict yourself o.

No Bible class today?


The fifth would have been unaffected if an English team didn't win. An English team winning the finals qualifies it as winners spot then four teams to follow Sir.

you are wrong . EPL has 4 spots and nothing more. a fifth spot is only guaranteed when the winner of the UCL has not qualified through those 4 slots. therefore is Chelsea had not qualified through the 4 slots but won the UCL then a fifth spot would have been guaranteed.

DJ Cuppy has a disease called attention seeking disorder. na only you attend? why all this rubbish. ya papa get money person no go rest again! idiot. nobody go pay for that ya toto.

And please note, Attahiru was not doing us any favours though it is a service that brings out patriotism, loyalty, integrity and commitment to service, he was being paid for it. Also, so many policemen and other officers have been beheaded by ESN in the SE. not even a C of Police attended their burial talkless of wreath laying. you guys should stop this rubbish. it brings disunity to the armed forces. Attahiru is not different from the corporal at the war front. the president has given him his dues by flying flags at half mast. let it end at that.

Curious345:
I asked for a favour first .

Please unwrite it.

I will do so when you stop the trash. it is not good for anyone's health.

Curious345:
Can you do us a favour?

Please unwrite this. Wawuuuu

maybe you should do us a favour by stopping trash writing on the net.

SEasternVictory:
Donald Trump called Buhari LIFELESS.

Buhari is hardly seen outside his bedroom even when the sky is falling down. He may make a 10 minute video recorded message once a year to further threaten the country instead of sowing for peace, but that’s about it.

Buhari is not intellectually equipped to rule Nigeria and coupled with his Jihadist tendencies he is totally unfit to rule Nigeria

From my personal observation he is suffering from some type of dementia which is why his speeches are very short and he is constantly going for medical check-ups.

I don't hate him, I loathe him.

loathe him all you want. he is still the President and c in c. you accuse a man of dementia but it is you that sounds demented. please check yourself properly.

SEasternVictory:
They are not defending my father land, they are the enemy. When they use their tanks, ak47 guns and aircraft to slaughter unarmed Igbos, they are not defending me, they are fighting against me. So they are my enemy.

Further, the Chief of Army is a rank of national importance and for Buhari to miss his burial shows a lack of awareness of what is going on or a nonchalant attitude.

you said it yourself. you are not Nigerian. so why interfere in matters of a country that does not concern you? don't you think you will spew trash?

Curious345:
Yeah your veiws are respected. But on a neutral , are you saying it's fine for Buhari not to have attended the burial of his service chief? He must not attend:Yes or he must attend:no

it is his prerogative to attend or not. Attending sets a precedence, soon you'll hear he attended that of a Muslim but refused that of a Christian or that that he is selective, he only attends that of the army etc. all sorts of rubbish. Nigeria is a very diverse country where it is difficult to please everyone or anyone. so, it is better not to start what you cannot end. attending will not bring the man back.

SEasternVictory:
Donald Trump called Buhari LIFELESS.

Buhari is hardly seen outside his bedroom even when the sky is falling down. He may make a 10 minute video recorded message once a year to further threaten the country instead of sowing for peace, but that’s about it.

Buhari is not intellectually equipped to rule Nigeria and coupled with his Jihadist tendencies he is totally unfit to rule Nigeria

From my personal observation he is suffering from some type of dementia which is why his speeches are very short and he is constantly going for medical check-ups.

I don't hate him, I loathe him.

I ask you this. what's the difference between a soldier that died in sambisa forest and one that died through plane crash? are both not fighting for the father land? what's special about Attahiru? if Buhari attends his burial then it means henceforth he has to attend all burial ceremonies of soldiers. like i said before, what's good for one is good for all.

Luckydubby7:
Buhari style of leadership is the worst Nigerians ever witnessed in their entire life.

this is how we know IPOB terrorist slaves. "the bandwagon effect" they say things without reasoning. they just jump in because they've been told to do so. idiot.

SEasternVictory:
In my opinion Buhari is mentally incapacitated.

you are the one that is mentally incapacitated. you cannot think beyond what's placed in front of you even if it is shit. what's good for one is good for all. Nigerian soldiers have been dying since time immemorial. so many have died in the hands of boko haram, what is the difference now? is it because Attahiru is a general? or is he the first general to die? like I said in another thread, you people should stop this rubbish of foolish comparison that has no meaning. we know you guys hate Buhari and he is giving you serious headache. but that doesn't mean you should be brainless and stupid at the same time.

orion7:
It defies common logic for buhari not to attend coas funeral. Even Osinbajo that flew thousands of miles for a mumu journey could not drive 20mins to honor attahiru.

This is a lesson to fools that want to die for Nigeria, your lives are just as worthless as a road kill

you people like comparing rubbish. Everyone must not do the same thing. We should be judged for our actions and not based on what others do. Or maybe we should judge the OP for his father being poor and miserable, stupid.

yanabasee1:
Always revolving around the midget.....



Bad news and bad things becomes his portion....




What sort of man is that?

you really need help mr stalker. try getting a job or do something positive to help yourself. El rufai no get your time

Aadeniyi092:
I see a brava man, but some individuals see wicked man.
This man is to me a perfect ideal man for Nigeria peculiarity.
Unfortunately, in this present generation, all i see is kids with irrational reasons

you said it all. any state that lives from hand to mouth is doomed. these irritants will be the first to insult a governor that cannot pay salary but they are here speaking from both side of the mouth.

D6thSense:
The north have run out of ideas on leadership (they never had anyway), wealth creation and security of their people. There is currently no Think Tank in the entire north except for 'Divide and Rule'. They spent years sowing discord within their southern neighbours forgetting to attend to theirs.

Leadership is not a static interpretation of an idea but a continuous learning process of adaptability in impacting the lives of people positively. Change is constant but not all change are expedient. There is a time and season for everything under heaven and a leader who understands the times, timing, and empathy will minimize the effects of Newton's 3rd law ("to every action there is an equal and opposite reaction" on every of his intentions.

Where is this coming from, how does it relate to the topic at hand. if you insist it is then you are on a long thing. Now on the topic, the governor is doing the right thing. it is not healthy for any government to use up to 70% of its revenue on recurrent expenditure. there is need for diversification. also the North have always had leaders and leadership with focus. it is the South that has been lacking. if you compare the North and South over the last 20years you will see that the North has it far more than the South.

anthonyuncle:
i sick and tired of nigerians abroad complaining of how living over there is very expensive.

these guys that complain are the worst type of hypocrites.
they are always complaining and putting up posts to discourage others from seeking greener pastures abroad but they will refuse to return to Nigeria

i pity people that take their words to heart.

life is expensive there - yes, but the standard of living is way more better.

they earn enough to cover these expenses and still enjoy life. yet they use posts like the above to discourage others.

rubbish

before you use the word rubbish investigate thoroughly. most of these guys live on the streets. they don't have where to lay their heads. it is the lucky ones that you see complaining. the unlucky ones don't even have access to basic amenities. ask around you will know. some live 20 in a small cramped room like someone in ikoyi prison. they cannot come out even to beg talkless of to work. they come out in the night to commit all sorts of atrocities. the only way to make this your comparison is if you have your papers.

smallsmall:
Shut your 'self-induced', ignorant mouth!

There are enough land in the North, to accommodate all the Cattle Herdsmen in this world, they should not come to the South.
Southern Nigeria occupies just 27% of Nigeria's landmass, the Fulani herdsmen should use their money or take a Bank loan and buy land in the North, to do Ranching.

Who will not hate these Terrorists Fulani Herdsmen that kidnap people, kill even elderly farmers, rape pregnant Women, old Widows and kill Children?

Another idiot on the loose. check what you wrote and try to relate it with the topic or my comment, if you are not a fool or very stupid you will see that you are off point.

Nuzo1:
See entitlement mentality!

A foreigner wants to be allotted 5million hectres of land that belong to Hausa, Kanuris, Jukuns, Berom, Tivs etc to a few million people that migrated to Nigeria.

Ahn ahn!

Nigerian government don spoil una finish.

maybe you should try to read and understand before spewing trash all over. these grazing reserves like forest reserves are already in existence. what the secretary is saying is that they should be reactivated with incentives to encourage herders in the south to move to the north. I don't know how you people do it. how can you hate someone you barely know? this is serious.

The way I see it, government Wants to create their Unknown Gunmen Unit. One that is slippery as a snake.

Chachamiliano:
Is the first comment actually necessary

yes. it is an adage. everyone has an asshole. likewise everyone has an opinion. so we should respect each others opinion because it is our right.

Chachamiliano:
I remembered in 2015, a carton of 3crown milk of 48pieces was sold for 4,100naira. My salary was around 85k monthly. 6 years later a slate of 3crown of 24pieces is sold at 4,300naira this is about 105% increase. And my salary Your guess is as good as mine. Raw material cost still remains the same. Only that the naira is too weak to compete. If you compare an average american standard of living to that of Nigerian, it is equivalent with what is obtainable at places like Ikeja and Island. So lets not compare. And if I am not mistaking, we have more naturally resources than most of these countries. We have less natural desasters than all these countries. Lets not even talk about cost of living cos over here in Nigeria, we are not living, we are surviving

Opinion is like an asshole. Everybody has one. To me, I would rather stay in Nigeria earning 250-300k a month than become a Slave abroad for $2,000 a month.

TheAlchemist:
If only AJ was not cursed with a glass jaw, this would have been one of the most intriguing heavyweight fight of all time. Sentiment apart Tyson fury is a technically more gifted fighter than Anthony Joshua , with a marvellous Marvin haggler like Chin,
Whoever arranged this Suicide match for AJ is “WICKED”.

There's nothing like Patriotism in saying the truth. you have said the truth, Joshua is in deep shit unless he learns how to dance around on the floor else he will be used for target practice.

overdrive:
Anthony joshua will kill this man.

in your dreams, Joshua does not have the skills to go six rounds with this guy

deepwater:
Charlie, stop decieving people biko - You earn before you purchase! Tell them the earning power of the NGN first abeg!!!



That guy above has only sold some half-truth to you and that is very poisonous and misleading.
The NGN has no value period!

He told you about purchasing power, what he did not tell you is that you have to earn the currency before you can use it to purchase anything.
Did you know that average minimum wage in USA is circa $2,000 p/m (= NGN 960,000) while the average minimum wage in Nigeria is NGN 30,000 p/m =($63).

Place these values on the same table to see how far apart they are

(a) USD 2,000 to USD 63

(b) NGN 960,000 to NGN 30,000

Whichever way you find yourself, you will lose with the NGN!

Bitter truth is that the average minimum wage earner in Nigeria takes about 3 years to earn what his counterpart earns in a month in the USA.

Next time anybody tells you NGN500 will buy you water, meatpie, eegroll, malt, akara and moi moi - just tell him all those stuff are substandard and poorly made food. NGN 500 would never get you a healthy meal,
e get why Heineken cost pass Goldberg but all na Lager

well, the guy above yo said the truth. it is not about the value of the currency but the cost of living. maybe you should ask people over there how they spend that $2,000. If they even have anything left after expenses. now, most of you talk about minimum wage as if it is what you are paid. FYI, over 70% of those that do something for a living in Nigeria earn far above #50,000 per month. Even those that collect the 30K/month have side hustle. You see a gate man in the Ministry owning house and driving big cars. Nigeria has its own perculiar way of Sharing wealth.

ityP:
That's because na that minister go get access to the NIN and he is a terrorist. America would not appoint terrorists as ministers

So you think only the minister can have access to the NIN! hmm, you people are so funny. you go to the bank, your NIN is requested by a common teller or customer care and you are here talking about Minister. Even in Nimc, low level staffs will play with your NIN talkless of a Minister. Rubbish.

Another idiot on the loose. Just because you hate a minister of government, you want to disobey government policy? Can an American say "I hate this minister therefore I would reject the social security number!" Aisha Yesu fu is going mad.

The man has no right what so ever to request that you pay the money, but know this. he has every right to sieze your dad's property. So you decide. your dad's property or you pay the money