₦airaland Forum

FarahAideed:
Many members of you family already insult Buhari , you don't even like him yourself but just the self centered benefits you get as long as he is in power

Newsmic:
Big Brother Naija star, Nengi, who turned 23 in January has joined the viral #at23 trend on Twitter as she listed some of her achievements, IgbereTV reports.

She wrote:


https://twitter.com/nengiofficial/status/1392554939214442497?s=20

The hashtag #at23, is a trend that encourages Twitter users to list out some of the wins they accomplished at the age of 23.

https://igberetvnews.com/1389870/bbnaijas-nengi-lists-achievements-23/

Draslo:
For most couples, infidelity marks the end of the relationship. I have noticed that it's easier for women to forgive an unfaithful partner than for men to do the same. As a matter of fact, men who do are considered weaklings while women are encouraged to forgive.

Now to the main issue, does having sex with someone other than your current partner mean you love them less? Less discuss, maturely like adults, please.

Draslo:
For most couples, infidelity marks the end of the relationship. I have noticed that it's easier for women to forgive an unfaithful partner than for men to do the same. As a matter of fact, men who do are considered weaklings while women are encouraged to forgive.

Now to the main issue, does having sex with someone other than your current partner mean you love them less? Less discuss, maturely like adults, please.

Seniorwriter:
Nonsense!
So you think hardworking or busy Igbos/Ibos should attack and destroy places they don't have investment?
Mehn what kind of stupid excuse is this clueless igbo/ibo made leader trying to put afore!?

SMH

Deep Quote
Wisdom is not measured by age.

@Seniorwriter

BluntCrazeMan:
The best era of Electronic-Voting would be the time when we can vote remotely with our phones without physically having to go to the Polling-units..

And that is: starting with the scanning of the bar-codes on our Voter's Card with our phones, then do fingerprint identification and authentication with our phones, and then vote with our phones, and finally submit our votes online with our phones too..

Nevertheless, this wouldn't stop the manual voting methods at the Polling-units for the sake of those who might not have access to the use of high-end phones, but then, Accreditation and transmission of the results from these Polling-units must both be done electronically by the trained Election Officials.

With these methods properly put in place, the Nigerian Elections can have turnouts as high as 98%, because this would avail a lot of citizens the opportunity to vote from home.

(My Opinion Though...)
(So, what is your own opinion on this??)

#StayingAwayFromViolence#
#SafeAndSaneVoting

Reference:
So how will the students be released to their families. That is the real matter. That is the evidence of the non settlement principle. Or are you advocating the sacrifice, the slaughter of those kids just to prove a point.

The US similarly does not negotiate with criminal elements but it is committed never to leave anyone behind. It rescued captives from our soil months back as a proof of this principle.

So theories without plans or proofs are just useless. If you are not going to do the former you must be dedicated to doing the latter. If you are not going to negotiate then you MUST rescue.

And this has a short window because they can all be slaughtered in desperation by their captors and then your principle will put you in serious trouble.

Johnrake69:
Privileged idiot... When him dey cry dem mama him no remember say him go work. Scumbag

Armaggedon:
funny dudes. Thought you said unknown gunmen were ESN? how can you arrest people and they remain unknown?

staged stuff

Mixedfruit:
No more going to Lagos to board my flight to US
God is good

Caleb17:
Oga read your comment again and judge yourself. I have encountered pregnant women and heard some of their wired behaviours but I didn't hear that their husbands had to be bloodly bruised and attacked brutally before 9 months. Nawa oh, people giving their fellow humans advice that they themselves cannot take. Nonsense and Buhari

udoji2021:
Life is sweet generally but can be cruel to others.

I was once a happy guy with a bright future but marriage is practically killing me. It all started when I become sick and was admitted in a hospital. my aged mother was the person staying with me and was responsible for my everything. inside the ward, another patient was with this very beautiful girl that was very hard working, my condition was critical that my mother will have to bath me sometimes, this girl now started helping my mother and to a point, my mother will leave her to be taking care of me and go home.

I become close to her, but i use to think that she just pity my condition and wanted to help so I did not think of having any relationship with her. I was later discharge and went home but since we exchange our contacts earlier, we use to talk often. I asked her one day to visit me which she agreed. To my surprise, this girl brought some provision for me and slept over in my house. she continue visiting till one day, I told her that if i was strong and capable, I would have loved to date her. she confessed instantly that she was really interested in me and did not care about my condition. According to her, she was born in a poor family and can handle the pressure of been broke, that she will be the happiest person if I love her back the way she loves me. I was moved with her words and to cut the story short, we started dating.

Her parents were highly against the relationship initially but when they become tired of us, they allow us to do our thing but never involve them if something happened. fast to December last year, we got married. I was not even able to pay 1h to her parents. she just pack her things and join me in my house. we were the happiest couple on Earth till things started going north.

First, we agreed to do many things in the farm against hunger next year, we started with melon farm, then groundnut and yams. we were still on this and I must confess that she is hard working but pregnancy came and this girl started misbehaving, she will not follow me to the farm again and will not even cook for me. I dare not complain cos she will insult me seriously. sometimes, I will tell my sister to cook but this girl will not eat it because the food is bad.

One night, she sent me out of the room in the night that I must get bananas for her to eat. I suffered that night till I got it from one woman on credit cos I was not having money on me. last month, she was sick and visited one private clinic, I was to give her 10k for her treatment but did not have the money so I told her to give me 4days to look for it, there was no insult I did not receive that night. I have to sell my yam seeds and pay. infact, I'm tired of this life presently cos i use to think that she will help me but the reverse is the case now.

Please I need advice on the way forward, I want to run away from home but she is pregnant, her people refused to help us too cos they warned her before.

pls advice me

KidDarkness:
You are complaining over nothing. Ten times daily is still small sef

Bawal:
Straight to the point: Truly marrying a beautiful/sexy wife has its own challenges. My wife is to beautiful and sexy that we have se.x almost on daily basis or interval of two days and I don't like such. Bedides,she is too good in bed as well as love se.x. One may ask ,does it mean I(we) can't control myself (ourselves), definitely I try as much as I can but to no avail. Her facial look,sexy fair complexion body, let alone wearing mini skirt, boxers,or seeing her unclothedness will drive me to irresistible urge that no matter how I quench my manhood, it is out of control.

Several times I tried to stay away from her and hold myself but several time it failed. It's too much on me and that's not how it suppose to be and takes more of my focus.Se.x is not food. Even if we have misunderstanding atimes the way couple may have and I will use that opportunity and vow that I won't make love with her for some time, unfortunately even that same day I made such decision is same day we will make love. Atimes I will reason should we stay apart to reduce this kind urge.

Please I need advise on how I can reduce the rate of this frequent love making.

Grace456:
I'm a single mother in my early thirties, my daughter is just 2year old and the father is not ready to marry me or take any responsibility on her but still hiding me and his secret wife and won't let me go but I have decided to leave becos he's no adding any value to my life n my daughter's either.

Fast forward
I met a guy online who claims he lives in the US and I discovered I like him since I've met him and now he said we should settle down and marry. I own a duplex in a choice area in Lagos, completed though still small loan I'm paying on it. I agreed to settle down with him but since I told him he can't stay in my house that he needs to get a house, he started acting funny.

The second one, I asked him to show me proof of ID or his work ID, for me to be sure he's who claimed he is, he changed it for me. I tried to let him know that I'm just trying to be careful, don't want to fall prey again but he won't listen to me. He stopped calling and when I call him, he will return my call after like 5hours.

Pls advise me, is it polite for a man to marry and come stay in a woman's house because he said he will soon travel back? This is someone I like to support to get another apartment somewhere else but I haven't told him that. He has really changed in days.

No insult pls...pls ignore rather than insult me pls.

Draslo:
Yeah man. Feel free to jump off any bridge of your choice.

Draslo:
I'll be 30 by June next year so I guess I can relate a bit.

Dating in my early 20s was more fun. Dating older women in their early or mid-30s seem to come with different baggages like a truckload of exes, financial constraints in managing house rent, car maintenance, family obligations, etc

Do you agree?

MrIcredible:
Ọdẹ
Go marry the girl nau if e pain u

GodHatesBigots:
Lol, he died a useless death.

Nigeria is not a nation , we are not brothers, there is nothing that binds us together .

Nigeria is a British business centre with multiple nationalities who have been coerced to work together against their own will.

bastardmod:
Islam has been a violent religion that hates and fights with everyone including itself...Shia vs sunni, sunni vs ahmadiya, Iran Iraq, Saudi Yemen...etc.... No meaningful development from that religion. Christianity gave the world civilization including the handset you are using to type

NoSentiment:
Continue to endear Pantami the more into the hearts of northerners. Talk of giving ur enemy cheap publicity.

Pierocash:
What is the Anti biotic for? But it still doesn't kill if she decides to take it. Let the guy forget about her and accept the ring back. It has shown how unruly,and insurbodinate she will be after marriage.

Antibiotic is not ritual. God just saved that guy

ChizzyBuna:
Also her madam, my neighbor is so strict with her and shouts at her.
So she doesn't get that much chance to have fun and go out.

Parrot69:
Like how much do you think the Guy has payed her she cannot afford ?

...you people in this forum and awkward sense of reasoning

donstan18:
They both look decent, happy, clean and fresh.

Congratulations to the guy as he successfully defeat and avoid some set of liability in human form.

Congratulations to the lady as he successfully marry from a country with the most caring men in the world.

opsyswagger:
After serving what next


Open pos center



This country sef

DSC7:
I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....