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this is a matter of life and death and all you can do is look for the nicest way to put it. lol i hope u wont wait until she is on ARVs

i bet this was advice coming from a single father

so its okay for a woman to have a job and still cook and clean at home and take care of the kids, but the so-called head of the house is too precious to do the same? nonsense

Zico5:
Some women re just too careless. How can a parents leave a girl as young as five to wander aimlessly, when some re on the mountain praying to God for fruits of the womb. God is too merciful sha, I have a friend that has been looking unto God for the past six years now. It is so pathetic.

and how do you know even if the mother is alive?

Ogbeche77:
There are always cheap flights. OP insisted she wanted August, Search with August lets see the result

op can see the website im sure she can do the rest for herself

walexysos:
thanks, am thinking of changing my status as soon as i find a job

lolz

so someone who works in shoprite will be able to afford this ?

If u google cheap flights you should be able to get somthing

OKLOADEDoCOM:
i want to travel am searching to work/ better job and i really have it in mine to travel oversea for it but i dnt know the country that i will easily see job, please help will country should i travel to
thanks i know i will get help from here

try Syria they are looking for oil people

worry357:
Do you know where Chile is?
Do you know anything about their economy, geography or politics?
Do you speak Spanish or Mapudungun? How will you communicate or get job without local language?
How will you cope with being the only black person?

he wants you to do that for him while he just sits back and chop kolanuts

ideykwum:
My dear, write English! Comprehension is a sum-total of impressions derivable from your submission, and I chose to react to a segment of it! Honestly, Buhari should revive our educational system, a lot of charlatans are being churned out!

Is it conceivable that such an act would hurt no one? Get real!! It's Monday morning and I'm don't want irritants!

thats very true something needs to be done about the quality of education you received, using verbose words in the wrong context does not mean you can comprehend something. FYI i never studied in Nigeria but im glad you saw the need for your education system to be changed

Elbisco:
she's harming them by belittling herself. By done the right thing at the wrong time

so by meeting her sexual needs she is belittling herself, does the same apply when a guy meets his sexual needs?

Ngokafor:
...Nnem cool down,i am on your sideoo...just read my post again..

im so sorry i misread your post i apologise

Nwachiizu:
What more harm can such a person be doing... She is doing harm to the person she cohabits with, to her family at home, to her loved ones, to her husband to be... The list can be endless

how exactly is she harming them? when her future husband is exploring other women who will he be harming?

ideykwum:
So, because it's her body, we should turn our backs on societal ills and say nothing? Fine, let's let drug addicts do their thing, afterall it's their body!!!

you clearly closed your eyes when u got to the part i said so long they are not hurting anyone else, but then i cant be held responsible for what you decide not to comprehend.

Stillfire:
Crying more than the so called bereaved is what they call it.

I repeat African man MUST wash plates!
You must partake in house chores!
If you want your wife to 'strike a balance' between career and family, you must help with the house chores. Hahahaha

Funny thing is these people wash dishes and clean their own toilet every single day but when they come on NL they start forming shakara

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you are the one who wants to go to Chile but you want other people to do the research for you?

Rapmoney:
Who cares? I don't give a fvck about ur opinion!!!

truth hurts

The mordern women are sad, yet you are the ones who spend 80% of your lifetime analysing their lives, if you were happy mordern men would you not spend your time doing something else more profitable than analysing other "sad people's" lives?
NL is getting more and more ridiculous

Rapmoney:
...and so? When has it become the sole duty of a man to eradicate poverty? Can't you as a woman think of ways to eradicate poverty? !!! Except you want to tell me that women's brains work below capacity

i never said its solely a man's duty, but as people who like to call themselves "the heads" you are doing a pretty lousy job at it. This thread, a perfect example

Savvyij:
if u want to praise asian girls, go ahead but comparing dem with nigerian girls is so wrong. If am not wrong am sure ur mum is a nigerian woman. Nawa o.

dont you know his average nigerian sisters are Asian too?

And i am presuming that you are Asian too

Rapmoney:
...and I didn't stop anyone from cohabiting. I only expressed my opinion! This is democracy and there's freedom of speech!!! Whoever that is not comfortable with it should drown himself/herself!!!

this is all our african men have to provide to society... Not even ideas to eliminate porverty or decreasing the unemployment rate in our countries.

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I have never cohabitted because i love my personal space but honestly i dont know cohabiting gives people like the OP sleepless nights firstly its her body, if she wants free regular sex its really her vagina getting it...not yours, your mother's or your sister's.

Everybody has the freedom to live their life in anyway they deem fit, provided that she doesnt harm anyone else in the process

OkikiOluwa1:
I don't v a birth certificate.

where were u born?

Find yourself a 70year old woman to marry, go on K1 visa. Get there, marry her within 90days. Get papers, get a job and live in her house and make sweet love to her

OkikiOluwa1:
I requested 1st!
So honour that to prove you ain't lying

im not your agemate! Post your birth certificate

OkikiOluwa1:
Lmao, you senior me only in lies!
Last Bullet
Show me your birth certificate!

post yours first

Avalon316:
so if it was the man that made most of the money then the woman gets a good part of it?


you are a big joke.

you know the meaning of equal?