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If na another person matter, na that time he will remember how Jakobu was jilted by Deborah and how Jakobu pray and fasted for 2 months without break and how the man also needs to emulate him to solve the issue but now he killed himself over one pekus wey someone dey nak as his family are crying.

Na Tinubu go Chicago University, na Atiku go dey find missing Certificate for there in order to use it collect another certificate from Tinubu.

Zulum must become president of Nigeria

Admin, permit me to ask once again waitin Biden take Sister Chimamanda letter do? Abi shot put allow for Whitehouse?

No place holding for this season o, City will hold their own place by themselves

Get the message clear, if you are not a Muslim .......pack your things,
just what you can carry before the arrival of the scout.
Go to east, there is an ally of the woods.
Ooops! I thought I'm watching The 100 movie.

XtraFortunes:
Tinubu is a disaster

The drug sniffing vagabond wants to go to war so he can also blame the war for Nigeria's worsening economy.

All eyes on the judiciary


PODATTI is coming

Let's face the reality, PODATTI is not happening till probably next general election. I advise you go to the mountain for prayer so that next election will produce PODATTI

The NYSC law prohibiting her to serve as a minister apart. The question is, if she hasn't had much experience in administration because she is still so young and in fact still a serving corp member what then do we expect her to offer?
This only means that she is considered for a slot and not proficiency and it's safe to assume that there are other slot holders like her. Dear Nigerians, lower your expectations from this government and your BP will stay in a good range.

turmacs:
How i wish someone as rich as this guy can come and marry me like this, heiii God i will sing praises to thee for the rest of my life

You would still sing praises thy Lord if you can think deeper than that.

He is carrying live soup

Too little earnings compare to market price of goods is the cause.

Yet Nigeria accounts for 82% of Africa’s telecom subscriptions – NCC. isn't this contradictory? no be person wey belle full dey use phones?

Really? money dey 9ja

As a parent I will give the school the benefit of a doubt as long as my child is really good by his age and class. Who cars if teacher made any mistake as long as my child is getting the best knowledge he can.

May be we should try All Nose On Judiciary this time around since the ALL EYES ON JUDICARY don fail

Instead of condoms why not pour water?

👁️ Lori Judisiari

Hope this doesn't stop anyone from still shouting Tinubu has no certificate? I just want to know because some people must still say that to lower their BP

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

You should have just pasted the time table. I want to check if it's the same as the one my wife set for me so I can try and ask which society they belong to. Too much talks about what's going on in your family is not easy to read for person in this hustle life.
Anyway, I swear I read more than 2 paragraph it looks exactly like what I would say about my wife. Though, she hasn't pasted a sex time table for me to see but I'm sure as anything she is deliberately keeping distance of days between one round and the next. It's frustrating you know? That's why I love Islam, second wife is allow and it's a good option.

Are you sure they no be Lagos youths?

Tinubu! Tinubu!! Tinubu!!! I'm one of your best supporters but what's happening?!!!!!!

I no yhear well, re what?

Subsidy removed in a country where God blessed us with petrol yet no single working refinery, it's shameful to be a leader in this country.

We can call this show of love and pray someone doesn't get him wounded another time in which case we would say it was an attack

e no cost N1m?

ecolime:
In other countries, states are productive and they all contribute to the centre. For Naija, na for all of them to gather every month dey share money.

All you need is understanding of tax laws. States can contribute to central here too if our laws says so.

Take one part of corn and the other part of cassava
Half a corn is better than none cassava

Whose handiwork is this? How can they not acknowledge the messiah?

People like Sanni can't perform upto 20% of people he is criticising if given the opportunity.

rinzaugustine:
The only Nigerian they respect in Niger is Peter Obi . When he spoke against war they said they would negotiate same day. Most of the menial Labourers in southern Nigeria today are from Niger and not north and most of them were rooting for Obi before the elections. Obi won in almost all the polling units in military installations across the country. Obi is loved openly by most traditional rulers in Nigeria. That’s how you know a leader who the masses’s hearts belong to

You still managed to make it Obi matter despite the man didn't mention Obi in his mindless ranting. Well done, keep it up.

When you dey hear ths billions and you still checked your pocket and still found nothing, how you dey cope to keep staying alive?