₦airaland Forum

Rekhina:
Itshekiri the one attacking us triba-verbally in Delta , I didn't say u are biafran ,but u won't rise against the igbos ,or will u attack us in asaba because fulani asked u to ? And me,
Nevertheless itshekiri is Yoruba migrated to our land in 17century , my uncle told me the history !

Easybela:
There weddings every Saturday either in your area or somewhere else.
There are women that have about 3 or more suitors,each competing to marry her.
As much as our guys are going outside, other men from outside are equally here.
You are entitled to your opinion though but one thing I know is that these women ain't ready to settle yet,they spend much time working on their outward appearance instead of amending their character and until the later is taken care of,they will all attend shilloh at 35.

Systrom:
Please help me

My system has been infected with a virus

I think I got it when I was trying to download something online

The virus has messed up my system and nothing works again

Keyboard doesn’t work

I bought external keyboard, it worked for a while, now the virus has corrupted the external keyboard and it doesn’t work again.

OGA GO FORMAT YOUR SYSTEM

If I click on a file or folder, it opens hundred times till the system screen is covered and the system hangs.

If I wanna install a file, the virus doesn’t allow it. Hence installing a virus remover is very difficult

I have scanned the system endless times with the exiting antivirus that was on the system before and it detects nothing, meaning the virus has a strong persistence

I can’t connect to the internet, connecting to the internet has been disabled.

Mouse doesn’t work again too, I bought external

If I try to open softwares, it crashes and doesn’t open

Many other things I cannot remember

My friend are saying it may not be a virus, that maybe my system is old and I need a change.

But what can cause a system to have all these faults at once if not a virus.

Please help

southpole:
The intention is to grab land give the fulanis then move all fulanis in the west Africa region and any other place to settle in Nigeria. The fulanis will then continue to marry 4 wives have many children and after some years their population in any state of the federation will run in millions. Then the final stage is to declare jihad kill all non fulanis and non Muslims and take over the country and make it a Fulani country. Nigerians be wise and say no to this devilish scheme.

FRESHG:
WE SOUTH WEST MUSLIMS HAVE ALREADY EMBRACED RUGA. GOD BLESS PMB

MYDEBBY:
Mpree Sir,sincerely I suspect this,the girl ask me to go my way that she will find her way too how come the mother is now asking me to go and carry them,I smell something fishy here Mpree.

MYDEBBY:
Dear Nairalander I greet you all.Pls I need candid advice,I have dated my wife for over six years with an issue,and now that we have done traditional rites and about to climax with white wedding she is giving flimsy excuses that she is no longer interested in me.She is currently in final year and has drastically changed in her dressing and attitude towards due to influence of friends in school. Often I do report incidences of her recent poor dressing to her parents after cautioning her she will channel the grievances to me.The recent one made her so angry that she started recanting all my past mistakes which she and her family are aware of and have resolved since now using it as an excuse against me that she is no longer interested. She kept mute for over two weeks due to anger yet I still transferred money twice to her but up till now she did not acknowledged it,only for her to send text that she need money for our daughters school fees.I then decide to visit them off campus where they stay yesterday with lots of provision yet she could not say a common thank you.While I was still making peace with her asking her to forgive me for whatever wrong I have done to her by reporting her to her parents,promising not to do so again,a guy knocked the door,and she went out after the guy I asked a relation who was there who was the guy and he said he is my wife's friend,I quickly followed them on citing me the guy diverted after their discussion about me.when we then entered the house I asked her who was the guy and she said that's not my business. I kept quiet.after a while I called her parents to tell them the situation of things that their daughter said she is no longer interested they now asked us to come down to the village to see them this coming weekend.I know things are not alright somewhere and as such I need straight forward advice on what to do.pls no insult just help out.Thanks

MYDEBBY:
Lalasticlala
Obinoscopy
Mynd44

Pls do the needful for me.

Situation report the mum of my wife called me to ask why I did not send the money of my 4yrs old daughters school fees as my wife demanded this morning,I told her that I will be changing my daughters school,or probably if I will pay will transfer it to the school account directly.
She then said while I am coming for the meeting at the village this weekend I should carry them along in my car,this is what my wife refused when I was suggesting to do so,but now the mum is pleading I come along with them in my ride. Should I adhere? Thanks all.

Wumzygold:
Hi people,
I have a bf who really frustrates me. We have been dating for more than a year now and he get angry at little things...he insults me both privately and publicly whenever we quarrel.

Worst is he smokes sk and doesn't see anything wrong with it...he goes through my phone Everytime and even reply my messages sometimes. I can't have male friends cuz he calls me a prostitute whenever I talk to a guy.

The day I went through his phone I discovered he was asking so many girls out or either ask them for nudes or sexchat. I got angry and broke up with him but my dad had to settle it so I let it go.

The one he did last was when he asked me to come online on WhatsApp and it took me some minutes to do that and when I finally did I saw his messages saying I was busy with another guy which is why it took me long to get online and lots of insults.

I didn't reply to the messages and we didn't speak to each other for a week...he called and texted the next week but I didn't reply to any... I don't love him anymore and I want to break up with him but everyone including my family and his knows about our relationship.

.i can't explain to anyone what happened or they would try to get us back together.
Two months ago I met another guy and we have been going out a lot..he asked me out recently and I haven't replied him yet but I found out he womanize alot .

.I also found out that he has slept with most of the girls I know but when I asked him he said that was his past and he didn't have a gf then... I decided to give some space btw us cuz of his history with girls...

My bf is still calling with different numbers and threatening me since he found out am going out with someone else.

I don't know how to get break up with my bf and get him off my back.. I like the new guy a lot but the girls won't just stop calling him and my friends advised me to go back to my bf and forgive him since there is no perfect guy but I don't love him anymore and I don't want insults either....

Should I give the new guy a chance or let him go?
How do I tell my family and friends about my bf without them getting us back together again.

Please kindly advice
Thanks.

mecury21:
Hi Everyone, I need your help as I feel my girlfriend is really loving another man.

A usual, she denies it. She says she does not like the guy. But I've seen the tone at which they are having a conversation and I know she probably likes the guy.

We've been dating for over 4 years now. And we are planning on getting married in Sept. I have already collected the list. But yesterday I noticed something unusual. I saw her WhatsApp chat and I was shocked at the kind of conversation going on there.

This guy subscribes for her. There is another time she sent him her account number. But that's not the shocking part of the conversation. The guy always says "I love you" I love you dear and that kind of words. There is nowhere she told him that those words were inappropriate.

Surprisingly, on a particular date, she called the guy "Sweetheart" then "how was your day" then "wanted to see your face."

When I asked for an explanation she said the guy called in the dark. She only said those words because she could not see his face. But it does not make sense. She also said there is nothing wrong calling a friend sweetheart.

I know most of you will say IM not married to her yet and I don't take care of her bills. Yes, I do take care of all her bills. I mean everything. She is in school and I take care of everything.
]]For months now she has been against our planned marriage. She requested I shift it till next year[/b]. I refused.
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See, I am not perfect but I know I have been faithful for over a year now. I'm a doctor by profession and I hate being fooled around which is what seems to be happening.

I have intentionally avoided other ladies only for me to find myself in this shit. Right now I can't guarantee the next pu**y that comes around won't be fu*ked.

Being sincere is a choice, and if I feel someone is taking me for granted, being my old self becomes necessary. I need your help cos I've gotten so far and the devil is just tempting me with all options.

Thuglife2020:
Good day Nairalanders,

guy jaapa the baby just wants to use use you.

Please I need advice on what to do about my girlfriend. She used to tell me she love me but my guts is telling me she’s not into me or not into the relationship. Before we started the relationship, she told me no sex would happen between us but I wouldn’t say anything then.

We started dating December 31st last year. She’s in school and I’ve been supportive of her financially. When she finished her exams in school, I invited her and she honored it but something happened throughout her stay at my side. Since the day she arrived, her phone is always on flight mode but the moment we are not together (maybe I go to friend’s place) she will turn on her phone. But I wouldn’t say anything.

I accused her of dating someone else but she denied it. She once put up a quote like that around April this year that says “ask me any question and I will answer sincerely”. This particular guy I accused her of dating dm her and ask “why she’s single” but she told the guy she can’t find someone she can trust and that makes her single ( we’ve been dating then). She showed me to prove to me that she’s not dating the guy, whilst she was showing me her conversations with the guy, she only showed that part where the guy asked “why she’s single” but she wouldn’t let me see the rest of the conversations.

Throughout her stay at my side, we never had sex although I demanded for it but she begged me that I should give her time.

She’s in school but she doesn’t have anyone financing her. Before she left my side, I promised to be there for her and do whatever I think I can do for her but I’m still having some doubts in her.

There was this faithful day we were chatting on WhatsApp and I asked her to put up my pics with her on her WhatsApp display picture (DP) she told me she can’t as I can’t dictate what to do to her (I only asked her to put it up to clear all doubts that she’s into the relationship and she has no one but only but I wouldn’t tell her the reason behind it as she didn’t bother to ask). Although she always want to introduce me to most of her female friends but I used to decline.

Before she came to my side, I used to send her some screenshots and I once sent her two of my pics but when I checked her phone gallery I couldn’t find my pics in her gallery but found those screenshots sent to her. And I can find a lot of different guy’s pics on her phone.

I chose not to say anything when she told me she can’t put up a pics of me and her on her DP. Although when I asked her to do so, she stopped talking to me for some hours and later texted me by saying “Hello my love”. I pretended nothing happened but she wouldn’t know anything.

She’s supposed to be in school by now because she left my side for her friend’s marriage ceremony and since then she has been stuck and finding it very difficult to eat at where she’s staying for now.

I’m thinking of telling her I won’t be able to come up with the money I promised her as I’m impecunious now ( I’m saying this because I’m having some doubts)

Please I need advice. What should I do??

Please, push to front page

Zither:
The bolded is illogical. Did she do the introduction some weeks ago, or you found out some weeks ago that she did introduction (time unspecified but months ago according to her calling off the engagement)?

My advice: she will continue to sleep with the guy - at his place, in hotels, in your bed, and your kids may not really be your kids...in fact, will not be your biological kids. Can you live with that? Your next line of action based on this knowledge is my advice.

Kingosytex:
We already did traditional marriage in her village last weekend.i heard the ex has been sleeping with her once every week till the day of our traditional marriage.
. i saw text between her and ex confirming the time and place even there was one she ask the ex to bring condom and he should pay for two hours

the girl in question is a cheap olosho, marry her at ur peril. her ex will continue bleeping her till thy kingdom come. i will advice u to terminate every relationship u have with her, failure to do so is at ur own risk!!

mykelswa:
This country is doomed. Hausa n fulani will bring our downfall.
Islamization is not and will never be possible.
Fulani is ranked 4th most dangerous terrorist in the world. But 9ja embrace dem.
We will all die together. My part we're ready for war.
Civil war is what 9ja need since islam n fulani doesn't want peace. Una think say na by una plenty. Na science dey work idiots. Just one snap like thanos will wipe una. Ppl are ready for war
If u revoke weapon license hope fulani will follow?

Memberclub:
At your age, I think you should have enough experience on what to do.

anthonyuncle:
sorry bro,
but it's obvious she wants u no more,
look for another

TruthHurts1:
While this story may seem improbable, I've come to realise over the years that anything is possible in Nigerian politics, particularly where a large sum of money is involved.

As for those deluded Warri/Itsekiri and Edo people who have been sold a lie about sharing common cultural ties with Yorubas, I hope this opens your eyes.

Yorubas are a confused lot who have deceived themselves into believing that they are Arabs who came from Mecca. I actually once asked an Arab Professor of History and Antiquities whether or not in the history of Mecca there was ever a group of black Arabs called "Yorubas" and he laughed and said it was all nonsense because the only blacks in Arabia at that time would have been castrated slaves.

Throwback:
Nigeria's constitution does not recognise anything as major tribe.

A minority Ijaw man already became President of this country.

So try again with your disregard for Southern and Northern minorities.

Besides, Buratai is Kanuri, a minority, and there is no rule that says any specific tribe must have a permanent role among the service chiefs.


Educate your ignorance, dispel your arrogance and whittle down on the delusional self entitlement.

Purewatermeji:
When GEJ provoked Muslims by removing the Islamic inscriptions on the centenary notes, did we go to war? When MURIC complained about the favoritism like xmas and new year holidays which Christians enjoy in the country did we go to war? When prof Akintola was pointing out the injustices meted out against Islam, like hijab and Waec time table, did we go to war? I think you Christians need to learn to tolerate like we Muslims.Northern CAN or jerican should know that there is no monopoly of violence. Do not threaten war on peaceful Muslims. Islam is the only unifying and true religion

kmcutez:
Wanting to die for a Jew. Africans and foolishness are like 5 and 6.

Whom Jesus epp?