₦airaland Forum

@adeoyetayo1
you guys are not sexually compatible and there is NOTHING you can take or do to solve that. accept it! furthermore, this babe is a Nym.pho, and every smart man knows that you cant sexually satisfy a nymph0.

as for what the religious sheep may tell you, forget it and find another babe (possibly "normal" to sample)
suerte!

what i dont understand with such scam is HOW IS IT NOT POSSIBLE TO TRACE WHERE THE MONEY WENT?

chumakk:
My international passport has expired since 2013 but I have lost it. Is it renewal I will do or declared it lost.

Thank you

wouldnt they ask the old one for RENEWAL?
didnt you report the old one MISSING since 2013?!

mrsmith11:
Firstly schengen and eurozone are two different thing

Tourist visa is a short visa between 1-3 months and usually single entry


Now your question:
If you have anyone in Denmark then I think is preferable

Reason:

I hear majority of them speaks English

They have technical school like automobile(mechanic) courses in english and few others
The cost is in range of 3000 euros or there about (google it)

yes, most Scandinavians speak English but you definitely need to speak Danish to have a chance of getting hired anywhere in DK (unless you wanna deliver newspaper at 4am). sadly, Denmark/Norway are also some of the most expensive countries in Europe (rent/food/transport) and if anyone think its easy to rent an apt in any cities in Europe then try Copenhagen to sample its madness (unless you go live way pass the neighborhoods of Nørrebrø or Amagerbrø in some squat). you need a resident permit to rent a home, and as a student with no legal income, nobody will rent you a decent place (by decent, i mean somewhere that even animal could live). Also, you need to have a Danish bank account (possibly at Nordea) to get a job, as the system in Denmark makes EVERY employers pay their employees salaries to the Gov, and the gov pays you your salary (minus taxes)... and guess what? to get any job in DK you need a resident card, as without them, the employer cant pay your salary to the gov, and its with this resident card that you can open a bank account. OH and before i forget, as any Scandinavian country, its VERY COLD in DK from Sept till May, so dont ever forget your winter clothing budget.

source: i lived/worked in Denmark and Norway for a total of 3yrs altogther, and these are some of the worst places in Europe i have seen hustling brothas.

OmichaelO:
Parents have grandkids already.

I'm last on the list.


the devil's advocate mode advice got me thinking though, thinking it rationally you're right .
but then, how will one accomplish the idea of starting and having a family

living apart ?

parents never get tired of grandkids as for the living together, its a progression. after a while, if you truly cant get enough of one another, then its just inevitable.

1st she spends a night sometimes and leave a few stuff (and the needed toothbrush).

2nd, after a few months of heavy dating, she then spends weekends and leave more stuff at your place... thats when she also starts to act like its her own place by cooking, and even cleaning (if she is raised right).

3rd, by then you've been dating for at least a year or more, and you guys are so comfortable together that she is at your place most days of the week. you now trust each other fully and are having unprotected sex, and you finally give her her own keys...

4th, by then, you guys must have had the important MARRIAGE talk, and if you explain it to her properly (and she isnt some religious sheep), then she will understand your point and accept the set up. its all about TRUST and UNDERSTANDING. women need SECURITY and if you can provide that, without having to marry her then its all good.

thats why your 5th and most important move is to ask her the obvious question: hey, why dont you move in OFFICIALLY? (even though she is practically living there). if she does move in, then A) you guys are already living as husband and wife and B) a marriage certificate wont improve what you guys already have...... FACT! its just a matter of time before she get pregnant and your family get bigger.

the few opposition you may have about living together and/or having kids unmarried is:
my parents will disown me... REPLY:"babe, you have to make a decision as to what you want. i am your family now and although i dont believe in marriage, i believe in us (you, I and all our future kids).thats why i want to spend the rest of my life with you, thats why you are here. so you have to make a decision whether you want to be with me OR if you have to go back to your parents and live the life they want you to live (without me). remember that i love you and marriage cant change that. but hey, if YOU gave me reasons why YOU want us to get married, then i will evaluate them, but your parents is not a worthy reason (to me)."

my church is against having a child unmarried... REPLY:"your church is also against having sex before marriage yet we are having fantastic bedroom acrobatics. so pls, dont be an hypocrite."

you can leave me whenever you desire... REPLY:"yes, i can... do you expect me to be with you even if i dont want to? by force? is that what marriage is to you? does it even make sense? if you doubt today the love i have for you then we shouldnt even spend another second together. whether married or not, marriage cant stop a man from leaving you. and if i suddenly die, dont worry i already have a will.

CASE CLOSED!

i wonder why so many are looking down on the GF issue... isnt that man ripe to have a gf?! he is a 20yr old independent single ma,n and a gf would come handy in all his daily needs... aka care/affection/sex/support (cooking etc). isnt this the reason we do get GF/BF? to fill the void in our lives? that gal may also gain a bf who has his own place where she can crash whenever she desire. its a win-win situation for the both of them.

as i said, the gf will be there for CARE/AFFECTION/COMPANIONSHIP/SEX and any possible SUPPORT (yes culinary too) if she is available. no biggie!

OmichaelO:
@MRBrownJ I have not too different view, but then, my parents especially my mother
I Will Have To Learn 4 More Languages To Get Close In Convincing Here.

as soon as there are grandkids, parents soften like butter on a hot plate...

I have some I like though, and I really don't mind getting married to her "if/when" the time comes.

***devil's advocate mode ON***
ok, if you believe that marrying her is the solution then so be it... but before you do, ask yourself the important question: you will date this gal, spend a few months/years then eventually love her to the point of wanting to spend the rest of your natural life with her... so how is "marrying her" gonna change or improve the r/ship you guys already have?

bigass123:
Thanks so much for the response.. To the best of my knowledge he doesn't speak any other language apart from English. Doesn't know anyone Europe, he hasn't been in any part of Europe before. Like i said he is going to hustle and study more and yes he has his first degree.
He's smart not too sure about his street savvyness but he's smart and rugged. This is why he needs advice from more exposed fellas to make a right decision. Before I forget he's going on tourist visa but he's no tourist oh.

as brotha Justwise stated, that person cant study/work in any Schenghen country, and i would certainly never advise anyone to blindly go hustle in Europe. With the Syrian refugee crisis etc, Europe is getting worse and worse for hustle and many end up in the street and/or doing more degrading evil stuff to survive. i suggest that person reconsider his option and get the proper documentation in order to have as much chance in his corner to succeed as possible. as much as its officially summer today, spending the winter in any street of Europe is NO JOKE.
good lucku

sisisioge:
Lol at the always washing dishes after meal part... It is well, may God help us raise our children right.

clearing and cleaning their plates (or put it in the dishwasher), is something every single child should learn to do by the time they are 10yrs old... BUT, listening to AND respecting the words of your parents is something every child should have embedded into their DNA/skull by the time they get to 3yrs old. even if many times i didnt always agree with what my parents ordered me to do, i never ONCE foolishly disobey them.

sisisioge:
Oga! In this age that people are falling dead from slaps alone is when this woman wants to "touch" her child's brain. Iranu! Do not encourage violence in your household. There are several other ways to discipline a child. Violence is a vicious circle, don't even bring it on in the formative years lest it becomes a norm in the future.

BWAAAAAAH... formative years?! this 15yr old is almost an adult and if he hasnt gotten the drill sinked into his brain then he must learn by any means necessary. yes, what the mother did was wrong but that child needed a SOUND WARNING (as i've written) to get the message "loud and clear". i guess, thanks to this unfortunate incident, he will now ALWAYS wash his dishes after every meal.

funarosho:
I met a lady two years ago, we are bout starting a relationship bf I traveled out of the state bt we were still communicating ND I never stopped telling her how I feel bout her,. Last two months she decided to give me a chance bt I asked her bout her relationship which she told me, her guy is not showing her love no matter what she does.

REDFLAG #1
if the gal is in a r/ship and is willing to cheat with you then guess what she will do when she will finally be in a r/ship with you?!

Although he once cheated on the guy, dt makes him not to trust her again bt she's trying her best to show him she no more a player.

REDFLAG #2 AND #3
she cheated on her man, and if she wanted to be with you, she wouldnt care about trying her best to show him that she is a good person now.

i asked her bt u r bout to cheat on him again by hooking up with me, she said her mind is no more in the relationship, and I told her to break up with him, she said she want to see me face to face again so dt we can talk Hart to Hart.

REDFLAG #4
so she now wants to have her cake and eat it too, and keep her options available. i guess 2 BFs is better than 1

But my concern now is dt,

REDFLAG #5
so you had NO concern "yet" about the above madness?!?!

she keeps going to d guys place, although she said d guy is going out of the state, dts why she keep going to help him out bt when ever she wants to go she will tell me ND give me her words dt nothing lik sex will happen. Guys pls do you think she can really put her Hart into any relationship with me even after av gone to see her?

REDFLAG #6
she has already told you that they are STILL together, that she wants to make it up to him and that she wants to see you 1st before she "breaks up" with him... so if they are still in a r/ship then why wont they fukc?! wouldnt you?

wh0res are everywhere, and they are now even bold to tell these donkeys how tostea/defraud others, in order to pamper her lazy self.
WHO ARE THESE DONKEYS THAT ACTUALLY ACCEPT SUCH NONSENSE!!!!

these scripted pictures are just taken to lay these divorce rumours to rest

bigass123:
A friend asked me a question last night and I don't think i have the perfect answer for him and so I thought to share with experts in Nairaland.
He has a scheghen visa offer to enter most of the countries in the Euro zone but he can only choose. He plans to work study and work. Putting certain points like racism, language, labour law into consideration. We are not sure which of the European countries will be suitable.
Experienced folks in house.. Come to our rescue. I chose Austria or Sweden.. He was talking about Netherlands or Norway. Someone please educate my friend and assist him make a good decision.. God bless

here are few questions:
- how did he get an "offer" to go to Europe, if he didnt gave any hints that he wanted to go there?
- if he did gave hints then what were his reasons for wanting to go to Europe?
- is that a tourist or working visa?
- is he trying to hustle his way illegally?
- what language does he speaks apart from English?
- what skills/diplomas does he have?
- has ever been to Europe?
- is he street smart/savvy?
- does he have any friends anywhere in Schenghen Europe?
- does he have any money saved to help him get started with rent/food/transport and winter clothing etc?

WAECFlyer:
“During the interview, he said that his mother gave him a deep cut on his head on Friday because she ordered him to wash plates but he told her to give him more time to study for the practical he will be having the next day.

NONSENSE KIDS!!!!! the above will also get my kids a sound warning (to say the least)... if that deluded kid had time to stop studying to EAT then he certainly has the time to clean his bloody plates after the meal I prepared for him, ungrateful bastard.

have an ex (and also a buddy) who both told me that sPerm was good for the skin too.... as i didnt ask them how they got to know that, to each their own!

OmichaelO:
So, You're Indifferent?
I've Been An Advent Follower Of Your Posts,there Is Always One Or Two Things To Pick From Them. This Is Actually My First Of Quoting You.
Kudos Sir..

bro, i will never get married, and although my parents were married, they lived in a different era where it was "needed" to do so. marriage will bring nothing to my life that i havent already gotten. in this day and age, you can get the wifeys and the kids and dont need that pointless certificate...what is important is to ALWAYS have an updated WILL (even if your only wealth is a pair of shoes). but hey, if anybody believe that they must get married then fair enough.

PresVA:
Why did you bother going to school when you would only get "a piece of paper" at the end of the day?

you need to study for a few yrs and pass exams to get a diploma but there are no requirements to get married, any 2 strangers can do it.

a diploma allows you to be "certified" to work in a certain field, while a marriage certificate can be had by any 2 donkeys out there.

a diploma makes sure you get paid accordingly, after years of studies, while a marriage certificate makes sure that 2 people stay together, even if they dont want to, til death do them part (ask Titi Arowolo, Nike Shonde, Rose sougie or even Mr. Oyelowo).


so with the points above, i can safely say that a marriage certificate has absolutely NO VALUE (apart than within your mind) compared to a diploma

one bullet to the head, no questions asked!

old story, she isnt from SA, she is from NEW JERSEY.

FEEDING ISSUE
when i 1st moved out i was just like you but my issue was that i "missed" my mum's cooking, so she would make soup, jollof rice, fried rice and i woull keep it in the freezer in daily portions, and all i had to do was take it out the freezer and defrost. problem solved!
in your case, you could also get a maid, if you can afford it, or buy frozen food from any proper supermarket (frozen pizzas etc) but it aint cheap... ultimately, get a gf to help in that dept (she doesnt even have to live with you), or LEARN TO COOK!

MOVING BACK HOME ISSUE
imho, dont do it! LIVE YOUR LIFE FULLY and if your brothas aint got your balls/opportunity then that is their problems. why should you have to pay for that? you have already tasted freedom/responsibility etc and you like it, there should be no turning back. sit your parents down and explain to them that as much as you love them, you are a MAN now, and need to live your damn life!

because its just a piece of paper.

uc4uandc:
Guys! Common, we all know what gets outter the body after a hot sweet bang......not every nigger can bang well grin
You know that moment you cum, you are as lazy as hell, but satisfied like heaven. The ladies jes sit back and enjoy a good bang and act like they are doing us a favour. We do the work(as a man) but they take all the glory.
I think we should be paid for every little satisfaction... From romance to Sexing(full stop).

if the women you are fukcing are just sitting back while you do all the work then blame yourself for not knocking some sense into their heads. if she lays flat then direct her on what she should to PARTICIPATE.

(sorry, i quoted you before you deleted your post, lol)

Dabota Lawson for me

you have to be honest with your BF and let him know how uncomfortable you are with this situation, and as much as he wanna help her, she GOTTA GO! dont be afraid to speak your mind, especially in this very strange situation.

criminals/demons in robe defrauding the gullible since the beginning of time!

before you do anything, remember that some phones (mine at least) will automatically add to your gallery pics and videos posted on a Whatsapp/FB group chat... and i do get some weird pics and vids sometimes, that aint mine or remotely anything i am into.

also, unless you are the teen's guardian, i suggest you tell her parents and let them deal with it the best they see fit, not you. if you are the guardian then have the "sex talk" with her asap... and if she trust and confide in you, then let her ask YOU all the questions that are on her mind (and answer them as openly as you can). remember, if this teenager hasnt received the proper "sex talk" by her parents, then it is normal that she is curious about certain sexual acts/issues, and equally not surprising that she is seeking for answers online.

this should remain a discussion/debate between the guardian and the teen, as there isnt much that can be done at this point but accept that she can easily have access to these vids online. its about going with the flow.

btw were the videos about some extreme/unusual sexual acts?!

Odunharry:
I respect and learn a thing or more from your post especially when it comes to romance / relationship..
why don't you go into counselling??
You av wealth of knowledge in that field.
MRBrownJ

thanks man. nah, counselling is a JOB, while NL is fun... i have had my fair share of trials and tribulations when it comes to women/relationships, and i just wanna share my opinion, and hopefully if it can help (even 1 person) then i am happy with that. actually, there was a NLer who contacted me to write on his blog about romantic/relationship issues, and although i gave it a shot, i didnt get the drive to continue writing.

may i ask: the price of this boat NEW is around €130K, (which is about ₦35/45M).... do you really think that now in Nigeria it should cost 3-4 times that?

xendra:
I taught we were talking about the rich men marrying young women.... if you want to make it about the women then you are getting me wrong cos a man who beats her surely wont be what she wants

i cant be an hypocrite and look down on these grandpas actions while not putting 50% of the blame on these women who foolishly men 30yrs older (or more) for money/status. they are both part of the problem here, and thinking that only the sugar daddies are to blame is like saying if there was no customers then prostitution wouldnt exist. doesnt work this way.

Odunharry:
Lol.. he's one poster whose opinion I respect alot though there are times I don't totally agree.

bro, much respect back to u.... we do have very similar views on many issues as i sometimes see your posts and think this is what i was about to write, but its also understandable to disagree on a few issues, as we are all from different walks of life bringing different points to these discussions.

misspicy:
mrbrownJ doing what he loves

you mean having a discussion, right? lol

byvan03:
Parents are not perfect but most still love their kids and truly care about them. Their relationship with spouses is a story for another day. It might influence the kids negatively but at least they know that he still loves and treats them well regardless . What constitutes ill treatment differs from person to person, most the kids might not notice if it is subtle; the type that only the woman can tell.

so you believe that being good towards a child is the only thing that is required to be considered a good dad?! and however that chid is raised (whether good or bad) is irrelevant to this "good father" status?

- if i am a good dad but teaches my kids "with love" to hate mummy and her family, am i still a good dad?!
- if i am a good dad but teaches my kids "with love" that hate/violence towards women, any religion or any race is "ok". am i still a good dad?

xendra:
So you had to drag "the oshiomole" into it, and call their wives ashis?

the Oshiomhole (and his kind) is a great example of people focussing on the wrong aim in life... but hey, if you think this 30yr old woman married her grandpa because of anything other than his money/status, then fair enough.

who told you they wont be happy they got What/who they wanted?

by who they wanted, do you mean a "rich" man (regardless of his age)? i guess to each their own misery

what does it matter why you got what you want as long as you got it?

sadly, thats a very poor statement, the same that comes out of deluded women's mouth who marry any donkey just to flaunt their "Mrs" status... and whether they are beaten, abused or treated like Asswipe, they stay in their miserable union faking that happy marriage status (or end up dead)

Mindfulness:
I prefer an excellent dad, a miserable husband is the one who can be more easily replaced.

byvan03:
You can always replace a bad husband, a dad you cannot. Know that every good husband makes a good dad but some good dads can't make good husbands.

may i ask: since kids copy their parents, how can any man be considered a "good" dad if teaching their kids thats its ok to ill treat mama?! a bad husband ultimately becomes a bad role model for their kids (aka a bad dad).