MadCow1:
When people ask me why I am scared of flying.. I show them this.

it is a well known fact that flying is MUCH safer than driving. there is one chance in 10million that you will die in a plane crash, and you are 100times more likely to die in a car crash than plane crash. so if thats why you are scared of flying, i hope you are even MORE AFRAID of driving

get her to see a specialist, as there is ABSOLUTELY no way anyone here can help you (without talking directly to her)

TheTrueSeeker:
Would it be safe to conclude that the only hardworking guys at the State House are Mr. President's personal photographers?

Just thinking aloud though...!!!

are you too politically blind to see the other guy next to him, seating behind a desk?

any smart person knows that you cant claim to have a flat stomach while hiding the most IMPORTANT part of that said stomach (below belly button)

ChappyChase:

What shall men not do for Puna!

they said the guy was finally hospitalized, and after being discharged, he has finally returned to Holland on monday... but then again, from his "kinda" scary picture, i can understand why the babe never showed up

Ujoan:

So what about men who still expect married women to sleep with them? At least it's not like they are going to ever marry them, since they are married already.

why should you care about these men?! these men are disrespectful to their wives/union, and THEY will have to live with the consequences of their actions... but if you think that accepting their demands (so long as they PAY you) makes your actions "righteous", then i suggest you wake up.

And what about a man who goes about 'fancying' random girls and wanting to have sex with them? What does that make him?

is there anything wrong with fancying random sexy women? with the way some women dress today, wanting to have sex with them is the ONLY possible desire towards them.

I'm not doing down this line with you yet again. . . my stance on this issue has always been clear, right from the old days!
I even agreed to the 'CROWN' of Nld gold-digger . . . Men by nature are meant to nurture THE RIGHT women. . . . so if you are expected to drop cash from time to time because you believe that a gal deserves it, it shouldn't be a big deal.

FIXED!

If a man expects to have the pleasure of sex, he should also expect that I would want to have the pleasure of money . . .

sista Uju, again you are making it seem like the pleasure of sex is only for men... quite sad for you. i mean, what woman would want to have sex with someone, knowing she aint getting ANY pleasure from the act? just opening her legs and having her guts rammed mercilessly... because of payment?! if a man wants sex from you, and you dont want it, then walking away is the ONLY option here

irunoko:
ARE YOu serious. So assuming you have a 19yr old daughter who came home one day and said daddy Brown I don't want to go to school again I want to marry,not just marry marry her fathers mate you'll be happy abi

my duty as a father is to raise my children RIGHT and instill in them the best values possible, in order to give them the tools to succeed in life... so that (in return) they can make the RIGHT decisions, when times come. at 19yrs old, we are no more talking of a child, but an adult, and if you've done your parenting job the right way, then chances are your child will be wiser than this babe (when it comes to choosing a man).
but if that "adult" daughter of yours dont want to study any longer, you can give her your opinion but the reality is that, there is NOTHING you can do as a parent but to let that child LIVE HER LIFE the way she sees fit. open the door and let her fly with her own wings.
regardless of her choices (which i may not agree with), that wouldnt change my love for that child

There's something you need to realise.hapiness has nothing to do with your marital status ANd so sometimes as a parent you have to say NO to some stupidities your children come up with which will cause temporary unhappiness because you see the bigger picture of hapiness and fulfilment for the child

i guess you dont have adult kids, at 19, what you say have very little weight in what this adult child desire for its life. your job is DONE and by now it is a mere supporting role. thinking that you can force a 19yr old to do what he/she DOESNT desire to do, is not only wrong but a waste of energy. if that is what will make them happy, then let them live their life, as THEY will have to accept whatever consequences comes with such choices.

Also at 19 your mates are developing their careers and life and you're talking about marriage.really? If the likes of dangote married at 19 will he have focus to develop his career

NEVER compare your kids life/choices with that of others... there are many young adults who got married even younger than 19 and succeeded in life, as it is a well known fact that:"those who marry young are happier, those who marry late are wiser"
can someone get married at 19 and continue developing their careers and life? of course, YES... you are making it seem like marriage is the end for a young adult.
as for Dangote, he may be rich, yes, but his "happiness" status has yet to be determined (unless you wrongly believe that money=happiness)... but you should know that his 1st marriage was in 1977 (aka 20yrs old)

Plappvillemoi:


You said you are not Muslim but you are PAINED!!
Following all my monikas.. I will creat lore anytime I am ban for exposing Islam!

You see you don't have something better to do with your time than to defend Islam. You claim to be French yet the fake Islamic spirit flows in your vains.

You Have failed woefully man. You have nothing to discredit. Be informed that Your long garbage will be ignored. Storyteller ! !

YES i am pained that ignorant people such a yourself (or these extremists) are spewing nonsense, thinking that their moronic hatred views make any sense. at least its good, you dont try denying that you come on NL with multiple profile to spread your deluded religious campaign of hate (. the world will be a better place without ANY religion or any of its brainwashed sheep, such as yourself.

lol, the audacity of people who come to NL day and night to spread the filth of bigotry and hate... here is a clue: there is more to life than islam and muslims. i suggest you give it a rest!

owing a blog is free and very simple, but having no concept of what it takes to have a successful one OR thinking that it is remotely easy to make money out of it, is your mistake. there are MILLIONS of Nigerians/Africans who have blogs, yet the majority cant bring any valuable/valid traffic to these boring blogs to earn shiiit from them.

i suggest you focus on doing something that you are good at instead

at least he wasnt one of these idiots that are defrauded via online romance fraud... but 10days waiting?!

irunoko:
henn but the priorities of a 19 year old girl should be her studies. Fine she can date (not fok o),party,shop and do the things a typical 19 years old does.marriage isn't all about sex or how tight her honey pot is.how can you be thinking of marriage at 19 instead of taking one step at a time e.g finishing her university ,starting a job or buisness then marry.19 is just TO small for a 47year old man

That aside r.Kelly's daughter is 18 so meaning her agemate will be her stepmother
Hiann

the priorities of a 19yr old babe is to BE HAPPY. she can date/fukc/marry who she desires. look around you, this is the new trend in town. younger babes and sugar daddies. have a thought for the likes of Oshiomhole who was well in his 30s when his wife was born.

Plappvillemoi:

I should be the one to tell you this.
Go and educate yourself. You are bias in your argument.
You are very partial in your views. Am through with talking with you.

and this is coming from someone whose sole biased contributions on NL are nothing but threads against muslim/islam?! (lol,reminds me of Hitler) HIGHY LAUGHABLE!
sadly, it is the opinion of dumbass narrow minded one sided bigots like yourself that we can all do without. you can use as many profiles you want here on NL, your writing will always ooze ignorance. you are just as brainwashed and deluded as these extremists OR the tribalistic idiots that infect NL/Nigeria... but hey, keep coming here to spew your hateful ignorant one sided views, i'll be here to discredit your nonsense with FACTS!

MBJ at your service

irunoko:
haaaa mr Brown a 47 year old man to a 19 year old girl

Dude that girl is young enough to be his lastborn.

That girl was an infant .fresh new born baby when he was 28 and still yet he's screwing a girl that he's supposed to be telling go and read your books

Yorubas call people like him agbaya

By the way that girl is st I supposed to be in 200level or 300level in the university and not think about marriage if she has sensible parents

you are making it seem like he is forcing this babe to fancy/date him? some babes out there are attracted to more mature yet groovy and "comfortable" men (aka R. Kelly type). this man is NOT ugly, he is fit, successful and wealthy etc so babes from any age can be attracted to him. the catch is to understand that different men have different RANGE/DESIRE for women. some like them young and dumb so they can mold them into doing/being whatever they desire, others like them experienced and mature so they dont have to educate them on the DOs/DONT of r/ships. at the end of the day, so long as they are both consenting adults, and what they do isnt illegal, to each their own!

here is a clue though (i am just the messenger oh!): babes of today start having sex when they are 16/17yrs old (and i am being VERY generous), and even if they have sex with a different guy every 3 months (i am being generous again), these guys will mount these babes totos no less than 3 times a week. so in a yr, these babes have about 4 different BFs (i wont include these Jezebels who have 4 different partners PER WEEK), and have sex no less than 150times per yr. so, by the time this babe reaches 30yrs old, that coochie (with 56 past owners AND +2000 banging) will have seen its fair share of traffic, and its tear rubber status/elasticity/freshness/outlook would be a thing of the past. so i would certainly understand why a man like R. Kelly would want to date babes with possibly tear rubber coochies that feels/looks/taste like heaven... as we can all deduct that this is all about sex to him.

Ujoan:


What did you just call them? LOVERS!! Not some random girl you meet on the street . . . or at a fitness center.

Let's not pretend that guys are not always wanting to F**K, whether or not they are in a relationship with the lady. Once a guy starts hitting me up for sex, I automatically see him as irresponsible and will definitely treat him as such . . . . .

And no, I don't think a man MUST pay to f**k his lover . . . but if you want a random f**K, then you have to be ready to spend the cash . . . What are you after-all if not a W*ORE patronizer?

And yes, I'd rather get something out of opening my legs to a 'fling' than doing it for free . . . This is so not about LOVE. I don't care if you call that w**re'sm . . . any lady opening her legs to a stranger is a 'wh**e' anyway IMHO . . . only difference is that she's giving it away for free

- what would you call 2 people liking each other, wanting to have sex?
- is it wrong to enjoy sex?
- if a woman believes that its ok to have random sex with a stranger, so long as she is rewarded, what does that make her?!
- what should we call a woman who expect to be PAID every time she opens her legs?
- there is a HUGE difference between a gal who has random sex with strangers she fancies (because she enjoys sex) and one that have random sex with just about anybody (so long as they pay her). do you know what the difference is? (clue: one can become your gf/wife while the other CANT/SHOULDNT)

truthmans2012:

Still talking greater nonsense !!!
What is the source of their radicalism?
Why is it only the Qur'an people read and become radicals?
You don't know what you are saying.

who are the REAL victims of these radicalised extremist all over the world?! stop being an hypocrite and believe that the few unfortunate terror attacks in the west (with its handful of casualties), is the true picture here. how many victims in the west do we have so far?! 500? 1000? ok, let me be generous and say that there are 10K death from these terror attacks in the west. now turn around, OPEN YOUR DAMN EYES/MIND, and realize that MILLIONS OF MUSLIMS have died as a direct result of these terror attacks and war on terror... yet here you are trying to make us believe that "religion" is the main issue here?! TERRORISM is the issue here, and as far as i remember, it wasnt invented by Islam. religion has always been used to indoctrinate gullible people, and these extremist terrorists are just that.

i dont see you blaming christianity when the Klu Klux Klan brandished a cross and unleash their terror and murder innocent people, right?! blaming an ENTIRE religion of +1.5bil people because of the actions of a handful of mad radicalised extremist (that equally kill muslims) is not only DUMB but the reason why this issue could never be resolved. FOCUS ON THE REAL ISSUE!

but hey, in order to further educate you, let me give you this great info:
- most terror attack in this world are committed by NON MUSLIMS
- most terror attacks in the EU are committed by NON MUSLIMS
- there was +350 mass shootings last year in the US, mostly committed by NON MUSLIMS

faith551:
Fally my man. In such situation I blame the lady not the guys.

nah, IMHO both guys should be blamed....
- Eto'o for giving such scandal the exposure it did, instead of just dropping and forgetting this h0e (and the watch she kept)
- Fally, for openly dating his buddy's former cuum dump, which was confirmed Eto'o used her for 0rgies, and released her nekkid pics to the media.

how can you blame a LovePeddler for doing exactly what whores do?

quickly:
what resources in afghanistan?

bro, dont just believe cluelessly all the rubbish the media feeds you, and instead EDUCATE YOURSELF.
here is my contribution to your education (thank me later): today, everything runs on batteries... phones, computers, tablets, and in the future all cars will be battery powered too. so it is safe to say that LITHIUM (which is the main component of these batteries) is as valuable as petroleum. now, would you like to guess where the world’s largest untapped reserves of lithium was found in 1998 (right before the Afghan war)?! BINGO: AFGHANISTAN!!!!!
the Lithium field of western Afghanistan, coupled with rich reserves of gold, copper, iron ore, uranium, polymetalic ore, oil and gas is estimated worth between $3-5TRILLION (yeah, you read right!), so stop believing that the US army has 9permanent bases, and is in Afghanistan for the past 15yrs, for democracy.

Its a historical fact that arabs started and introduced euopeans to subsaharan slave trade and after the invention of shipping the europeans bypassed the arabs ad went direct. Africans need to stop being pawns in the arab/ european imperalism competition. That is the overall game.

you are absolutely right, but should that be a reason to hate all arabs and Europeans? certainly not!

The arabs love and love people worshipping their deity it gives them a big high.

every religion does

the europeans are naturally athetist and they want cheap resoucres to the benefit of their continent.

you mean that Europeans who used the bible to enslave the whole world, and exterminate entire nations, are naturally atheist?! the reason why the world is in such a poor state is due to religion, Christianity and islam in particular. no other tool has created even half as much destruction all around the world, as religion did.

what islam needs is reformation just like chritanity did.
U have to be honest with that unless the volence and detest will continue

i would rather that we get rid/ban all religion whatsoever!

No matter how you try to quibble it, It won't change facts. That you are French today doesnt say you do not have a mother tongue. No matter your citizenship, at a point of time you will be traced to your descendants.Evra is French but his origin must be appended for one to fully know his root. The late Coulibaly and the Kouachi brothers were also tagged with thier origin. It has nothing to do with 2rd class.

BWAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!
i see that you are trying everything to act like you are making sense, when it is obvious you aint. ok, here is for your FURTHER EDUCATION:

A) it is a WELL KNOWN fact that Zinedine Zidane has had double nationality due to his parents (many naturalised citizen do), thats why he could have played professional football for FRANCE or ALGERIA, but chose France. has this EVER made him any less a French citizen than anyone else? of course not! shouldnt that make him a French national born a muslim? yes it does! this is a simple example of what France stands for... LIBERTÉ ÉGALITÉ FRATERNITÉ.

B) what should a BIOGRAPHY say about a person, if not their ancestry?! your ORIGIN/ANCESTRY is an important part of a biography, therefore where your parents came from MUST be mentioned, DUH! every single person's wiki page states where their PARENTS came from. Sarkozy Wiki page says his father was hungarian, Francois Hollande's page also states his parent ancestry, why do you think that it should be any different with black/arab citizen's biography?! this is the information that should be on anyone's biography, and this has NOTHING to do with the context in which you stated that French citizen are not viewed as french by the media when they commit crimes, as their ancestry is mentioned. so, my question IS: have you ever seen media bring such biography when mentioning crimes committed by French citizen (unless it is terror attacks)?!

we all know the medias with their fear mongering and scare tactics are quick to label the religion of these French terrorist, in order to further their bias propaganda, but it is important to know the full background of any French terrorist (aka their ancestry/background etc) to have an idea where/when/how they could have fell and got radicalized. this is what we ALL want to know, and has nothing to do with your claim that the media mention such ancestry every time a "foreign" French citizen does a crime.

if you have nothing to bring to the table then be quiet instead of bringing RUBBISH to this discussion.

EVERY human being have ancestors that can be traced from ANY part of this world, does that have any relevance to this discussion and the fact that there are born French muslims today? stick to the issue at hand. so i will repeat what i have been saying since the beginning:TODAY IN FRANCE, THERE ARE NO 2ND CLASS CITIZEN, we are all viewed and treated EQUAL as one nation, therefore, regardless of your origin, MANY FRENCH CITIZEN ARE BORN MUSLIM, as much as you hate to hear that... and if you dont viewed them as French nationals because their origins cannot be traced to the celtes/Gaulois (very few can), then that is YOUR cross to bare.

I never talk about second class but telling you that The footballers you are talking about are not French origin. Prove see Evra, Zidane etc. In the French gouvernement circle, see Rachida dati, Manuel Valls and co.

does that make these French nationals be viewed as any less French than others? OF COURSE NOT!!!! and this is what i am trying to tell you for god knows how long. France of today is a multicultural nation, with citizen that can be born muslims (or any other religion).

François Hollande is a French Citizen. His mother tongue is French. Those people you claim to be born Muslims are not French Origin but French citizens from a foreign origin. I have never seen any French Origin be it White or Black that was born Muslim. But majority of French Origin people are born Catholic. You even hear them say it when on interview.

i feel sorry for you and your poor/failed state of mind... as if a person's Origin was relevant in France today. it may be in your mind (no wonder tribalism is rampant in Nigeria), but IN FRANCE, Rachida dati/Manuel Valls, Zinedine Zidane and co are just as French as Francois Hollande. it is only people who are clueless about France and our values, that would say such an ignorant statement about people you know nothing about.

If you bring Martinique, Guadeloupe, Guyane etc into this discussion, then we will completely divert the aim of this thread because it will take us back to politic and History. I don't have time to waste urging such.

i guess since they speak creole in such place as their mother tongue, they also cannot be considered French citizen neither, right? bwaaaah!

Point of correction, I never mentioned white or black in my previews poste. You are the one pointing fingers here. You Digress so often that the main argument cannot even accomplish its aim. Please stay on the topic. Or Are you a Muslim but pretending to be evenhanded? Because The way you are defending Islam is convincing!

yes i am pointing fingers at the amount of litter that you are bringing to this thread trying poorly to make a point. so i will repeat my earlier statement, so you dont try to smokescreen this issue:
France has 10% of its NATIONAL population that are muslim, and many French citizen are BORN MUSLIM. so far as i know, a person's origin is NOT required when they make the census on French nationals/popuation, thus YOUR narrow minded views on who can be viewed as French citizen (and/or subsequently muslims) are irrelevant. the French gov and the majority of the French population view these citizen as French, and thats all that should matter here.

Plappvillemoi:
Error for the Tunisia terrorist identity. But there are two French terrorists who were tagged with their origin.

so the media makes a detail background check on these terrorist AND THEIR PARENTS, but you would want them to NOT mention where their parents are from? do make some sort of sense pls?

Plappvillemoi:
20 more Mosques to be shut down definitely. Islam is deadly. Defending such religion make you one of them.

such above statement in bold makes you just as ignorant as these terrorists, but the gov is RIGHT about closing these mosque that spread hatred and create these extremist. is that what is preached in all mosques in France? of course not, but hey, here is an information that may pain you:

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
In France there are currently 2300 mosques with a further 200 to 250 planned.

Plappvillemoi:
Base on the Quran and hadiths, I think all mosques do preach hate.

you have the right to your own biased views, but i would suggest you open a bible someday and educate yourself on the issue

You cannot back up your claim that Hitler was a Christian. If he was who did he copied?

the man was baptised, and if you've ever read "Mein kampf" then such notion is OBVIOUS, but hey dont take my words for it and instead, here is part of his speech:"Hence today I believe that I am acting in accordance with the will of the Almighty Creator: by defending myself against the Jew, I am fighting for the work of the Lord."

Ask yourself did Jésus kill that anyone will have to kill in his name? The difference between Muhammad, his army and Jésus and his disciples is this. Jésus message and action is love, peace and life. And His disciples followed his example. They didn't kill a soul. While Muhammad''s message is hate, war and death. Muhammad killed millions and his followers did kill too. That's why a true Muslim must kill. Is is and Co are the true Muslim.

bwaaaah, are we talking about the same bible that demands DEATH for not listening to priest, DEATH for fornicators, DEATH for adulterers, DEATH for followers of other religion, DEATH for non believers, DEATH for false prophet, DEATH for non virgins on their wedding night, DEATH for homosexuals, DEATH for witches and wizards, DEATH for cursing your parents?! a bible that warrant infanticide, murder, rape, slavery etc

thats a lot of death/destruction and evil deeds dont you think, for a religion of supposed"peace"?!...but here is a great verse that really portrays the LOVE from that said bible....1 Samuel 15:3: "This is what the Lord Almighty says ... 'Now go and strike Amalek and devote to destruction all that they have. Do not spare them, but kill both man and woman, child and infant, ox and sheep, camel and donkey.' "

also, i suggest you educate yourself on christianity and its crusades and inquisition, and wave of genocide/enslavement and destruction through time.

any smart man knows that banks and insurance company are the biggest thieves in this world... but you cant blame them for your above exposé.
here is a clue, since you know the above, then why dont you grow a pair and borrow your ₦1m to anyone at 20% interest rate, OR better yet, keep your money under your mattress and stop feeding this demon?!

YOU are the solution to your above raised issue, but sadly you will never do anything worthy about it... and instead come to NL with petty scams about nonsense get rich quick scheme, to try and defraud us NLers!

this is blaspemy, but the least of men's problem... then you have to imagine this "stranger" without her:
FAKE hair
FAKE big titties in her push up bras
FAKE big booty with her padded panties
FAKE eyelashes
FAKE nails
FAKE skin colour/complexion

boys over biatches!!!!

i was wondering when someone was gonna start a PROPER private detective firm in Nigeria. with all the cheating going on in 9ja, any firm will be crawling with tons of work!!!!

the man is GAY as a tutti frutti, and all of this is just pretence. here is the important photos with his Moroccan lover that he flew to see every week in Morocco during the season!

it is well known that gay men will date the most beautiful women, in order to try hide their sexuality and pass as "proper" alpha male hetero. thats the same BS that Ricky martin did for years (dating some of the finest women out there) before confessing... furthermore, while dating these beauties, they both decided to have children by surrogate mothers, like most gay men do. CR7 should stop the charade and come out the closet

nceedaga:
fellow romancelanders I need ur advice
my gf has bn giving me so many problems. she has an attitude problem.

bwaaaah, you mean you think it is wrong for her to have an attitude and give you problem, when you are hoping/trying to betray her with her friend?!

Few Abt 9-12wks bck I ws helping a frnd of hers get over a break up.. u knw d whole lean on me thingy. it ends wit either of d 2 getting attached to the other.
the fact is I hv fallen in love with my gfs friend.. sh
e mks me feel special n she rili appreciates my every effort. she admitted she fell in love with me d 1st day we met to discuss her break up after we have been chatting on Facebook.

if that is the situation , then fair enough, but ACT RIGHT! go break up with your gf 1st then, later on, start a r/ship with her friend.

please I need ur advice on what to do
I can't let this new girl walk out of my hrt

you have already made up your mind about this deceitful madness, so what else do you need?

divinehand2003:


Bro I agree with you.
Nigerian babes today ain't too loyal anymore because the guys they date are worse. You as a man have to prove your undying loyalty to them before you are taken more seriously.

i dont agree at all, being faithful is not OPTIONAL to the proper respectful babes out there, it comes as a "factory package". you either are or you aint, because being a cheat is NEVER valid... only damaged babes (and men) do that. a proper woman should/will simply leave a cheating man, and go seek to find a respectful man, instead of lowering herself to his deceitful level.

again, any person who thinks that cheating is ok, is damaged and should be avoided like the plague!

divinehand2003:


Hahahahahahahahahahahaha
Any guy who believes that his Naija babe is an angel will need serious memory setting in his medulla oblongata.

its not about believing that naija babes are angels, its about believing that the gal you wanna marry isnt someone who think that cheating is ok, so long as you aint married. women thinking in such a manner are damaged, and no matter the amount of care can "cure" them. a deceitful being will remain just that, married or not.

divinehand2003:
Cheating or not cheating, have you paid her bride price in order to own her absolute loyalty by law? I don't think so.
Therefore enjoy it while it last.

whether married or not, her loyalty is a must... thinking that a babe can cheat as long as she aint married is a failed way to view r/ships. any woman who is a cheater before marriage will make a bad wife, as her values are fukced up!

Ujoan:


Yada yada yada . . . Please you guys are such hypocrites.

The same well men are always expecting women to sleep with them is the same way women will always expect cash from you . . . whether they work or not. I am a big advocate of women demanding HUGE amounts of cash from men . . . but only from those who expect you to sleep with them.

Do you guys ever think that women are becoming much more demanding these days because they are tired of 'giving it away for free'

While I was single, I really detested guys who approach me and start wanting some sort of sexual relationship without going through the proper channel of dating, wooing, getting to know one another e.t.c. So when you ask for sex, I ask for cash and I don't mean 3k. Na you do carry your two left legs run!

Now I'm married, I am even bolder with my demands. Shebi you saw my wedding band clearly and still expect me to send you 'a romantic picture' through whatsapp . . . I will ask you to buy me a car and we go see who go tire first!

as if sex between lovers is a gift from women to men?! highly laughable arrant nonsense!
arent we BOTH gonna enjoy the sex?! arent we BOTH gonna try to pleasure one another?! so why would you remotely think that men should pay for something FREE that we are both gonna enjoy?! NONSENSE! coochie comes a dime a dozen, and i suggest you look around you, at how your desperate fellow women are FREELY throwing coochies at us men, like frisbees!
btw: if you think that a man MUST pays for the luxury of fukcing a woman, then you are just confirming that women are nothing but WHORES, and thus should be treated as that!

check the time, and next time you meet your girl, tell her to show you that female friend's convo, and that exact message that your girl sent her after realising she had sent it to you by mistake.
case closed!

if you base your happiness on what you DONT possess, instead of being happy, positive and cheerful for what YOU GOT (however small it may be , that you foolishly choose to disregard), then you are doomed. you are BLESSED by being healthy, smart, well fed, have friendship, have family around, have a marketing job, have an income AND you have the option of waking up tomorrow and giving life another try... while many people's aim in life is the very little in your life that you selfishly referring as "nothing". just the fact that you have a job/salary, makes you more successful than many Nigerians! BE HAPPY FOR WHAT YOU GOT AND ENJOY THAT, UNTIL MORE IS COMING!

if you are miserable today, then you will equally carry such miserable/negative vibe around you, and with such, nothing good can be created. have a smile (its free) and a positive outlook on life, be happy, count your blessings, love the man you see in the mirror every morning, and cherish the life you got. its the 1st step in being successful in life, it starts within!

FORGET about hoping/praying that God will bring miracles into your life. if you are expecting miracles from God then i suggest you wake the fukc up asap, and instead be proud and work towards building a better life for yourself. its called HARDWORK and there is nothing free in this world, and whatever you get for free isnt as valuable as what you worked for and created for yourself. its called LIFE and whoever told you that it was gonna be easy, is a damn fool.

you can NEVER succeed in life with such failed state of mind! here you are comparing yourself with the next man, hoping to put value in your life by wanting irrelevant BS such as marriage/kids, while you havent even gotten a proper life for yourself yet (aka foundation). even if you got married today and have kids, you can only but fail, as you dont have the necessary tools to sustain it. as i said earlier, people like you cant succeed so long as you remain this miserable negative being seeking irrelevant BS "dreams" to put the IMAGINARY value that you are looking for in your life!