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PoliteActivist:my initial response was to the OP's question....thats the only thing i read to give my opinion on the subject, which got you to quote me... and now you are bringing mention of someone completely different from the OP and want me to focus on THEIR reply on the subject??!?!?!? everyone has the right to their opinion, but my main response has always been toward the OP and nobody else. you are the one confusing everything here. 1Sharon:many do but many of these men understand that bringing such woman back to the US will eventually poison that woman's mind... but yes many of these women hope to go back to the US while many just want to meet someone different than their local men. |
ycat:what else do you see inyour crystal ball? |
phidipe:which country do you guys live in? do you know where the child lives? have you tried to go there? what stops you from going to see your child? have you tried to talk it out with baby mama? |
1Sharon:of course!!!! a beggar cant be a chooser... you take what comes along. but its well known that a fugly baby whale will accept faster than Beyonce lookalike. That's not who they truly want. It's a marraige of convenience. As long as both parties are aware, I actually have no issue with it.you are partly right here... A) YES, these men solely marry who they "can", not who they desire. after they get their permanent residency, thats when they go for who they desire (thus when many go back home to find a wife) B) NO, these desperate men need to say any rubbish to get these women to marry them... so they make these women believe that this is the real deal in order for the gullible woman to fall in love and marry them asap (some even have children with these women). C) people who marry for convenience often have to pay the american spouse for that service (between $10k to $30K or more). The passport bros sound naive. Most Americans don't know beyond their nose. I feel its safer to approach non westerned women where they are already are.how can such man be naive if/when he doesnt find the type of character he desires in a wife at home, and therefore decide to go abroad to find such wife?! to each their own. right? back when i was living inBrasil, i remember so many of them coming to Rio because , as they said, Brasilian women treated their men in a traditional manner and took better care of their men, while not trying to compete as the head of the family (like many women do in the western world). the catch is that many of these passport bros find these wives abroad and keep them there...unlike the US immigrants who bring their village back to the US. Before they get targeted in a foreign country for their percieved wealthisnt it the same wealth that women in the west today often value men upon and/or when these women have wealth themselves, they will be quick to say they dont need a man? lets be honest, if men pay for everything, shouldnt they be treated like a king at home (like these foreign women treat them abroad)? the funny part is that many of these passport bros dont even have much money, they just have a passport and a job... but just with that, they are treated better abroad by foreign women. |
you know something is very fishy about a woman who tells the whole world she is engaged but yet does not post a SINGLE photo of the man she is about to marry.... BTW didnt she share that same news since last yr, with also an unknown man? https://www.nairaland.com/7159720/nigerians-react-toke-makinwa-gets
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hopefully, he wont get seriously hurt "for fun"... |
PoliteActivist:you are the one confusing the issue: focus on the below post by the OP... now check again the bolded part...and come tell us again that this man is looking for the love of his life and/or the mother of his future children (especially when he clearly states that this is all for "profit" as stated with #4). Failure2019: |
richardakindele:most drugs in the US easily enter the country via Mexican border, FACT!!! anything shipped from an individual in the US, can be filled with these illegal drugs. FACT!!! What is the cost of shipping 10kg from China to Nigeria? And how long does it take to go through customs, and to be delivered?what about the cost of "possibly" getting caught with "possible" illegal drugs of a total stranger?! Common sense dictates that it is the first option one would think of.the 1st option only benefits YOU... taking the 10kg machine of a total stranger through international custom only benefits YOU None of what you wrote makes any sense. Merely grasping at straws.i am sorry if dont like my replies but what you are asking is not only CRAZY, its UTTER MADNESS!!!! ...and the obvious reason why most airline ask you if you packed your own bags before check-in! |
PoliteActivist:no, you are the one confusing the issue...these desperate immigrant dont NEED a marriage material wife, they just need "anyone" to marry them (whether fat/ugly or handicapped), in order for them to attain their goal (aka get a green card). |
1Sharon:these men desire ANY women, whether fat, old, ugly or challenged... because their aim is not to find the love of their lives, their aim is to get a green card. so i can assure you that they can easily find plenty of women out there to marry (unless you believe that all single women in the US are beautiful/fit/intelligent). there are many women out there that US men dont look at, let alone approach, thus these immigrants would be the jackpot to many of these women (aka immigrants who treat them like they look like Beyonce). every time you hear of a US grandma marrying a younger dude, he is 90% of the time an immigrant from Africa/latin America, Asia or Eastern Europe). these are the same women who go to Jamaica to get their "groove on". lets be honest here. They come still fresh with their unsophisticati devious of critical thinking sprinkled with religious hypocrisy. The ways some of them express themselves reveals their lack of exposure. They don't understand western social cues either because they haven't been around long enough . A woman smiles at them and they immediately jump and approach. They dont understand smiling Is just a sign of friendliness.there is a reason why a great deal of American black men today aka "passport bros" would rather go abroad (dominican rep, Colombia, Brasil, Thailand, Philippines or simply back to Africa) to find a good wife... and therefore, many black american women may feel left out (aka the pool of eligible bachelors gets limited) thus why i fully understand why many of these now desperate women go the "immigrant" route to find a man... |
PoliteActivist:a young and sexy babe does NOT automatically equate to a HIGH VALUE WOMAN... young and sexy babes are everywhere in the US, from trailer parks to projects... As for the rest of your post, so you know better than 1Sharon who was born in US?? She's telling you how they come accross to a US-born, and you are telling her what's in your head!i am just stating a simple fact...aka not all immigrants have bad attitudes and/or are desperate... but most importantly, there are 1000 times more people in the US than just Nigerian americans (who understandably feel they are better than Nigerian immigrants). i never said i knew better than anybody else, i just gave my opinion of what i believe is the best way for a man to find a woman to date/marry in the US. you dont have to be born and bred in the US to know how easy it is to date (and possibly marry) in the US. just visit a few times and see how easy it is to get a woman, et voila! again, many of the immigrants, whether legal (or otherwise) find women in the US to date or marry. As for majority of immigrants eventually finding women to date and even marry. The question was never finding ANY woman. You could find a chain-smoking drug addict or prostitute. The question is what caliber of women are available to them!initially, the OP wanted to find a baby whale for easy marriage so her caliber really doesnt matter to the OP but, what you are now claiming is that, if a woman is not a high value woman, she is automatically a drug addict or prostitute?! the majority of women in the US (from all races combined) aint high value nor are they drug addicts or prostitutes. the majority are women who live simple comfortable lives (aka middle class earning between $40k to $150k per year)... but more importantly, even if that woman was a drug addict or a prostitute, do you really think these immigrants who are willing/able to marry fugly baby whales really care (so long as these women have a JOB, marry and give them the green card they need)?! |
phidipe:so she is keeping the child away from you because she just found out you had a another child before her? thats called being CHILDISH (no pun intended), as much as she has all the rights to be upset with you, using that child to punish you is very immature... as i wrote earlier, "using a child as pawn/to spite you" not knowing that she is hurting the child first and foremost. |
its normal, especially if you dont train often.... because the muscle is stretched. |
this is Nigeria for you... - women dressing with less clothing as possible - people doing every kind of nonsense under the moon to trend or get attention - people doing every kind of nonsense under the moon for money - people doing every kind of nonsense under the moon to get married - women in their late teens willfully marrying their grandpa agemate - ritual killing left right and center - yahoo-yahoo everywhere - gays/lesbian openly parading in 9ja |
SPOTTED.... another demon parading as a holy man... |
phidipe:unreasonable spouse is someone who doesnt make any logical sense: - he/she uses the child as pawn against you - he/she prefers that the children suffer, just to spite you - he/she doesnt want to go half way in divorce proceedings - he/she would rather you die than divorce them - he/she is bitter because you moved on after divorce - he/she still wants to control you (using the children) even after divorce ...etc etc etc |
ItisWell22:there is NO CLASS WHATSOEVER in a woman that puts on a mask to look like cinderella during the day, and when she takes off the mask at night, she looks like a baby gorilla, NONE!!!! i would understand a woman that wants to enhance her beauty, but these above ones that look like a complete different person are CRIMINALS... like the below:
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Truthsbitter:today is your lucky day where do you want me to start...?! choose any ONE of the country that i mentionned and i will expose the US involvement with gov opposition forces to destabilize the gov in place and/or invasion of that said country (when it didnt work). |
AlphaMale666:as much as there is nothing wrong with wanting to be single, you need women in your life... by fire or by force! unless you are going to fukc your own nyansh. |
Truthsbitter:you must be a novice... the US dictates to the whole world what they want them to do, and when you dont follow, they train/arm gov opposition forces and/or militias to destabilize the gov...and when that doesnt work, they physically invade the country... like they did in Libya, Irak, Iran, Syria, Afghanistan, Cuba, Panama, Chad, Nicaragua, Congo, Egypt, Guatemala, Indonesia, dominican republic, Yugoslavia, Haiti, Vietnam, Chile, Bolivia, Ethiopia, Angola etc... just like Russia did in Ukraine! abeg educate yourself! |
Tadadobe:you say you are not like an average Nigerian who gets carried away by BS, yet you use BS to make your point. do you really believe that people who send money back home for clout and "surprise" care whether the dollar trades at 250 or 500?...here is a simple clue: if an iphone cost $1000 in the US (aka 500K) and now the dollar loses value, do you think that people in Nigeria will cry if now the dollar is down and they only need to spend 250k now to buy an Iphone?! But on the other hand, this move will help people in Nigeria as there won't be that much of a difference between someone earning #FIXED BTW there will always be a difference with the above, as someone earning 750K monthly in Nigeria is considered rich, while someone earning $3K in the US isnt. you simply cant compare the two. |
let them do it for themselves and its citizen before remotely thinking to do it because of "your" needs... |
clearly visible on the left of the top cat... |
Truthsbitter:a civil war started in Ukraine in 2014 (just like the civil war that started in Libya), Russia decides to support anti gov forces (just like the US did in Libya), afterwards Russia invaded Ukraine (just like the US did in Libya)... HOW DIFFICULT IS IT TO UNDERSTAND?!? again, you either stand by what the US/RUSSIA does around the world, or you dont, but STOP BEING A HYPOCRITE here! |
DannyWalker:you have to be seriously mentally/emotionally challenge, to claim to be a woman and thereafter claim victory against them... while the whole world know you are a MAN. BTW i thought it was only the World Athletics that banned trans altogether, and no other sports. the international swimming federation (for example) said that if the trans made the transition before they were 12yrs old, then they CAN compete against other women in international event. even the Olympic commitee is leaving the decision to each and every federation to decide. |
naijapeepz:... as well as the fake lashes, the fake eye color, the fake mop on her head etc this woman looks so FAKE, i'll hate to see what she looks like being the "mask" on her face. as for how some women believe that the below is remotely nice to look at... i am baffled!
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Dainy1:before divorcing her, i would explain to her that... A) whether i provide or not, is irrelevant to her marital duties. what she does is as stoopid as saying that if a man provides for a woman, then he can mount her whenever HE desires... and/or do with her whatever HE desires B) whether i provide for her or not is irrelevant to the love i have for my family. what kind of family does she expect to have, if this woman turns against you the minute something doesnt go her way? C) a transactional marriage (like she wants) can never succeed... because marriage is a partnership where a wife would (emotionally/physically/financially) support her man when he is down, and certainly not look down on him and threaten him. |
it was such a small plane, i wonder how the passengers at the back didnt see the snake...
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Truthsbitter:so you dont even know that the current war in Ukraine [b]STARTED AS A CIVIL WAR BACK IN 2014 and culminated into the invasion of Russia in 2022 (and yet you wanna discuss this issue)?!?!? so you dont know about the DONBAS war which started in 2014 til today? how can Russia annex the Ukraine region of CRIMEA if there was no war in Ukraine all these years?! you people dont know anything and just come to NL writing yeye nonsense! you people didnt even know that there was a war in Ukraine all these years because you didnt care about Ukraine. the war was happening in Ukraine and Russia was supporting the militia ever since (like the US supported the militias in Libya)... and after 8yrs of war in Ukraine, Russia decided to invade Ukraine (just like the US did in LIbya after supporting the militias for years) abeg EDUCATE YORUSELF SO I DONT HAVE TO DO IT FOR YOU!!!! |
Funnyson20:whatever it is, the problem is YOU... if every girl you meet is dodging you like the plague, then something about YOU is keeping these women away. |
their foolishery is getting out of hand.... didnt you see the trans who competed in women weight lifting and breaking the record? LOL! same with the trans swimmer who broke the female record OR the trans boxer who competed against a woman who said she has never been hit so hard in her whole life, lol! if they are not careful, some woman is going to die competing against obvious MEN |
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