₦airaland Forum

greatiyk4u:
Check out the price of the drink

there are no pictures but again... are you saying that because a drink is expensive, no governor can/should buy it? are you claiming that NO governor had any money before becoming governor?! are you saying that a governor cannot/shouldnt spend their money the way they see fit?

i understand you wouldnt/cant spend £10k on a bottle but many do, without having to be thieves/looters... but let us not automatically assume that someone is a thief, just because he is spending lavishly (especially in these day and age of clout). who even told you that they spent their own money getting that bottle? cant it be a gift from a happy constituent looking for "favors"?

saweide:
It was 4 flat but she and the neibor in that compound

does she hide you from the neighbor's wife too?

greatiyk4u:
Two Nigeria Governors ( one ex and upcoming ex Governor of Rivers state)chilling with a bottle of drink worth £10k as can be seen below and you keep wondering why they are looting public fund?

as much as many are looting.... are you saying that a governor cannot/shouldnt do what they please with their money?! why would you automatically assumme that the money they are spending comes from looting?

i refuse to believe that it costs 20M to move to the UK... from Nigeria.

- if the spouse is a danger to the child
- if the court ordered the spouse to NOT have contact with the child
- if the spouse is a negative influence to the child
- if the spouse is abusive to the child

also remember, if you have a child with an unreasonable spouse, then that person can use any excuse to stop you from having contact with the child.

what about killing the animal now and keeping it in the freezer until good friday?!

yeye prophets!

saweide:
Good afternoon romancelanders .
My name is segun am 39 years old in relationship with a 34 year old lady living far from me in another state in South West here
She is a single mother of 2 and she is a widow ,she lost her husband 4 years ago and am a single father of two as well so I met her on Facebook and she told me all about her and we both accepted to date each other since I met this lady she has been so caring and romantic and all that but what is giving me concern is that there is this her particular neighbour leaving In her flat in the Same compound.
The neignor is a married man with 2 kids and living with his wife but he live upstairs while she stay downstairs so whenever I visited this lady and the neighbour Is around she will shut me up and tell me to be talking silently and moreso if i want to make calls at times and am talking she will run to where I am and cover my mouth with her hand that she don't want her neighbour to hear me that she does not want them to know that she harbour a man in the house .
I felt so worried and concerned so one day I sat her down and ask her if there is something BTW her and the man she said no that even the man is a pastor that she just don't want then to see her with any man now and I ask her why she said if I Bleep up later that to bring another man again to the house will be a shame for her and that is the only reason but I find it hard to believe and it kept me wondering.
Because sometimes ladies might be funny and what amazed me most is that the people beside her shop around that area already knows me with her as her fiancee but just this only one neighbour she is hiding me from and this last weekend I went there ,we both hold our hands and strolling out on the street when she sighted her neighbour car coming towards us she immediately drop my hand left me and run to hide beside a tree .I was like what's the meaning of all these that are they the one feeding you..she said no that she just don't want them to see her with any man for now and she have vowed to me that there is no relationship BTW her .am tired and am suspecting something funny but I need advice should I stop this relationship for now till I found out or I should continue am so tired and disgusted about this attitude please give me good advise and no insult plsss

does the above happens when ANY neighbour is around or just that man?!

Kateeeenm:
¿puedeS hablarme de gente famosa?

todos somos famosos...

just because a r/ship leads to marriage, does NOT mean the person is not a mumu na!
many women out there gladly marry mumus that they dont love/care/respect, so long as these mumus can provide what they desire in life.

BNLR:
Hello Nairalander,
I need your kind advice. Anytime I see a lady, the only thing I check out about the person is the endowment of her backside. I am married with an endowed lady as well, but I never stop looking at different shapes of back endowment and start comparing with my own wife.

I am a very loyal husband and I don't step out of my vow, but I am afraid the devil will not use backside endowment to tempt me one day.

as much as there is nothing wrong with checking a girl backside (whether married or not), the important part is:
- do you just have a look or do you STARE?
- do you also STARE when your wife, your kids, your mother are around etc?!

looking at a great nyansh is completely normal so long as you dont stare. women who think that the minute you date/marry them, you cant look at another beautiful woman and/or her nyansh, are simply insecure low self esteem being that live in lala land and need to grow up. NOT looking at a fantastic babe (pretending she isnt there) just to please your woman is not only wrong, its funny, as we all know that "looking at her" is what you would do if your woman wasnt there.

NEVER PRETEND TO BE WHO YOU ARE NOT, in order to please some insecure low self esteem person.

Bayujojtfds:
The U.K. is a horrible country, far too many middle eastern people. I've been here my whole life and hated it. No country responsible for so much death and tragedy can truly be a good place to live. They are not your friends. They are not happy. They envy Africans, and Africa, so much they destroyed it.

They hate anything better than them at anything. They are callous, miserable people. Black people people don't seem to understand these people want to own you. They want to control you.

What Nigeria needs is to split and be African. Then cut all interaction with the west. No movies, social media. separate, internet. China knew these people were insane. They have a separate internet everything is separate. Limit trade and all interactions, they aren't the gatekeepers of life.

They don't want anyone to succeed. They are destroyers not restorers. Everything they touch gets destroyed. You have fought to be liked by them instead of realizing. They are genuinely not good people.

lets be honest bro, as much as many of the stuff you said above is true, the UK is not a bad country to live in (for someone who comes out of poverty in Africa)... so long as you get over their shitty weather.

PROPER TALK OF A VERY FOOLISH WOMAN...
a man who cheats on his woman to eventually be with you, will do the exact same thing to you, once you become his main woman.
a man who has no respect for his r/ships (when he was with you) is a no good man that will treat you exactly the same way... as you confirmed to him that you are ok with him cheating on you.

REMEMBER, the minute you turn from side chic to GF/WIFE, then your side chic position will be open for another woman to apply for it.

1Sharon:
You're right. There are Nigerians born in America and even they don't want to deal with those new immigrants because they sense their desperation and bad attitude.

Cc: MrBrownJay1

the majority of immigrants eventually do find women to date and even marry... let us not pretend that most Immigrants (whether legal or otherwise) dont find women in the US.

as for you claiming that most "new" Immigrants are desperate and/or have bad attitude, i beg to differ. they are different than Americans, yes, but thats about it. majority of immigrants in the US are law abiding upstanding individuals. IMHO the reason why many US born Nigerians look down on these "new" immigrants is partly to do because they feel they are better than them.

as for Politeactivist who took the OP's original post about finding any baby whale to marry in the US (for a green card), and now shifted the whole subject to finding HIGH VALUE WOMEN to marry in the US, i laugh in Korean!

Truthsbitter:
OK bro, I will let this rest. I let you have your opinion on the matter not because it is true but because it is your opinion.

But one little emphasy again before I let it go:

Every country the US have invaded in recent years have been because of a reason that relates to known violence going on in the country either as a civil war or as terrorism and this violence must have in a way impose Thier attacks on US soil or on it citizens. But in the case of Russia against Ukraine. The attacks is basically rooted on an unfounded assumption that "Ukraine is allying with an enemy" when it is in fact doing something right by finding military might to PROTECT its country and citizens. Not because it wants to launch unprovoked attacks against other countries. Ukraine have perhaps rightly percieve the sincere traits of NATO not attacking countries by mere assumptions of terrorism nor do Thier military invade countries wo are not under war at the time as opposed to what Russia is doing against Ukraine. And have picked allies with them (the US) for military PROCTECTION AND STRENGTH as opposed to terrorism or unprovoked violent attacks on others.

These are facts not hypocrisy! Bro.

bro, there was a civil war in Ukraine from 2014 right after the MAIDAN UPRISING (which started in the Donbas region) WAAAAAAAY before Russia decided to get involved....
EDUCATE YOURSELF ON THE ISSUE SO I DONT HAVE TO DO IT FOR YOU!

again, stop being a hypocrite and pretend that what Russia is doing is any different to what the US has been doing all over the world for decades.

PoliteActivist:
OK, here's a simple way to solve this:
We all know LOTS of American high value women and celebrities, sports women, female artists and musicians, politicians, etc. Mention ONE white that's married to a regular African immigrant.

the above is a very silly question... why would you want these high value women to marry some Nigerian Immigrant? let these Nigerian Immigrants meet women on their own level. now, if you hang out in a high value women environment then you will automatically meet high value women, but if you have access (and wealth) to hang in such environment then why desperately looking to meet high value women?!?. you would be a HIGH VALUE MAN and therefore women would be searching for you. now if you believe that such environment is Tinder plus, then let me be the bearer of bad news!

you see there is two problems here... A) you dont understand that high value ANYBODY (aka men or women) will have 1000s of people willing to date/marry them. therefore you will have to compete with a great amount of people to just get their attention, let alone date/marry them...but if you go for the normal happy go lucky babe, you may be that girls best or only option. dont be greedy!
B) you gotta know what you want from the get go...if you need a rich babe that will take care of you (while you aim to do absolutely nothing) then chances are it may be very difficult to find...but if you wanna find a woman that will love you unconditionally and therefore wanna marry you asap in order for you to have a green card, then thats a different matter altogether. focus on what you want and stand by it!

jobless/illegal Nigerian immigrants who think they will go to the US and meet/date women like Kim K better wake the hell up!

the work of another great mother...

- abstinence you no wan do!
- use condoms, you no wan do!
- pull out technique, you no wan do!
- use birthcontrol, you no wan do!
- morning after pill, you no wan do!
- abortion, you no wan do!
- give the baby up for adoption, you no wan do!
... but to throw the poor innocent baby under a bridge like garbage, that was your solution?!?!?

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PoliteActivist:
You MUST be kidding. What is Tinder plus? Yahoo boys that invest thousands of dollars to set up. Yahoo boys that invest in technology whereby they'd be having a VIDEO chat with a maga and she'll think it's a that successful handsome man or the beautiful lady or whoever they wish. People get more racist as they get older. It'd be hard to find an older white lady wishing to waste time and resources talking to a Nigerian on Tinder!

think about it with an open mind....
A) so you wanna tell me that yahoo boys want to meet foreign women, and having a Tinder plus account (where you can connect with women from ALL OVER THE WORLD, with one single profile), wouldnt make more sense than having to create profiles on all dating apps available out there? you can even choose the age of the women you wanna connect with...
B) if you are Nigerian then chances are the babe will find out when she will meet you (unless you wanna marry a babe online or tell her you are Jamaican, lol)....so whats the big deal about letting her know you are African/Nigerian? do you really think Nigerian men abroad dont find proper women to date/marry (because of the reputation of yahoo boys)? if your location says you are in NY then chances are you will meet 1000s of American and foreign women looking to date. you just need to bring your A game, and not some yeye two bit skills

no wonder some women believe they "can" slap a man, when they know beforehand that this man will not retaliate...

as i always say: no man/woman should raise their hands on their partner, but if your partner is crazy enough to raise their hand on you, give them the exact same medicine!

thats what a pregnancy/abortion does to a woman

Truthsbitter:
Over the years there have been invasion in NK by United States during war between NK and SK.
It is just that North Korea have never claimed any unprovoked attack on any foreign country other than South Korea. So the case of Libya is different . am just being factual and not hypocritic bro. "In 1950, a North Korean invasion began the Korean War, which saw extensive U.S.-led U.N. intervention in support of the South, while the North received support from China and from the Soviet Union. Some 1,780,000 Americans served in the war, with 36,574 killed, 103,284 wounded, and 4,714 taken as prisoners of war."

bro, since 9/11 we fully well know exactly who they portrayed as the axis of evil.... all these countries were attacked/invaded by the US apart from the only country on that list that possess nuclear weapon....lets not be hypocrites here!!!!

the US goes around the world pretending to be the saviour of this world, but sadly, when other countries in the same position have civil wars, no yeye coalition is going to help/save them like they "supposedly"did in Libya and/or are doing in Ukraine. why some countries like Ukraine/Libya receive billions in military support etc while other countries at war are completely ignored and/or simply sent humanitarian assistance?! (ask the congo, ask Sudan, ask Ethiopia etc). the only time these yeye coalition are invading countries is when they have some natural ressources to steal from that country and/or need the control of that country for geopolitical warfare. lets not be hypocrites here!!!!

That's the problem right here, the difference!
Was unkraine war infested before Russian invasion?
Why does Russia wants to assume control over unkraine?
Being a part of Nato is a legal (Nato is not a terrorist organisation) and Ukraine is a sovereign state.

the same reason why the US invaded Irak, Iran, Afghanistan and take over control of these countries etc... to control the region. dont you think thats its a little bit funny that the US has the audacity to want to put military bases all around Russia, but when Russia tried to put a Russian military base in Cuba (right next to the US), the country was attacked by US trained militia and thereafter commercial, economic, and financial embargo has been imposed on them for more than 60yrs?! lets not be hypocrites here!!!!

Russia starts an unprovoked war (went violent) following thier inability to become influential enough to be seen as a worthy ally by ukraine. And that shows traits of psychological inferiority.

we all know what this war is all about...Nato (led by the US) and its strategic desire to control the region. any respectable country would have done the same thing that Russia is doing.... and only hypocrites will believe that what Nato/US is doing is rightful. which nation on this earth would let its enemy build army barracks right on their door steps?!?!? for how long do you think that Russia was gonna tolerate this invasion of European space by Nato/US?! lets not be hypocrites here!!!!

Again bro, why does Russia wants to intervene in a country that isn't in chaos!?
A country that was never considered by world power body such as the UN (which by the way Russia is part of) as a country under war or threat? Why!?

who are you to dictate who Russia should (or not) invade? why didnt you equally complain when the US did the exact same thing in Libya?!?!? ok let me remind you....
- Libya had a civil war, JUST LIKE UKRAINE.....
- the US gov decided to support the militias attacking the Libyan gov JUST LIKE THE RUSSIAN DID WHEN THE CIVIL WAR STARTED IN UKRAINE IN 2014...
- the US gov decided to invade Libya and give full military support to the Libyan militias in order to overthrow the gov, JUST LIKE THE RUSSIANS ARE DOING TODAY IN Ukraine
... now if you think what the US did in Libya was right then stop being a HYPOCRITE and accept that what Russia is doing is perfectly right!
lets not be hypocrites here!!!!

Dtruthspeaker:
I"ll bet anyone $1000 that you evil would certainly stab and burn them all!

do not compare me with your evil god!

PoliteActivist:
Sooo, why don't Yahoo boys say they are Nigerians and be having many women falling on love with them.
Why not go on Tinder and tell some old white woman that you are a Nigerian, see what happens

yahoo boys are cheap mofos and dont want to spend the extra money getting Tinder plus (to connect with women from all over the world) and prefer sending yeye free emails instead.

PoliteActivist:
Hint: there is a reason yahoo boys say they are successful white American men with a handsome photo to go with it. And they'll be talking to some old whale. You think the old whale would be talking to you knowing you are a struggling, black Nigerian?

many do... so long as you are real and can prove that you are not a phoney person, many women would fall in love with you, whether Nigerian or zimbabwean (you just have to act RIGHT)

Dtruthspeaker:
Like you devil will not stab both your adulterous wife, her lover and the bastard children if given the chance. Hell Fire burning meat.

stop wrongly assuming ARRANT EVIL XTIAN NONSENSE!!!!!

oneolajire:
Agbado dey your pocket. You are a supporter of Tinubu the drug dealer and election riggers.

When did you see Peter Obi use thugs in his campaign or rig election like Tinubu?

Obi will not kill and will not use the security agencies to commit evil like gov Wike who rigged the presidential election for Tinubu.

Every supporter of Tinubu thinks we are all evil people. God will give us a new Nigeria via Peter Obi

ALL POLITICAL PARTIES in Nigeria are yeye mafia rubbish enterprise aimed at enriching these political fraudsters , and a waste for Nigeria.... it has been proven for the past 60yrs!

PoliteActivist:
Ok, so you tell this person "I'm in Nigeria", how desperate can a woman be... And you yourself, what reason would you give her for leaving all the women in Nigeria and perusing Tinder for American!

when you use Tinder plus to swipe in the US (while being in Nigeria) then you definitely should hide your location (very easy to do on Tinder plus) or just write that you will land in the US very soon and/or have a profile that looks like you already are in the US... even though you wont be there yet.

as for why you prefer American women, just tell them that they are more open minded, more free, more genuine, more down to earth, less materialistic (for some) etc

Dtruthspeaker:
Devil, Every just judge hears a case first to determine who is innocent or not.

Like you will not ask for the death penalty for the death of the baby your wife and her boss when you find out that the bastard is from the sperm of her boss. Hell Fire meat!

YOU DEVIL!!!!! in my world, newborn babies are INNOCENT and there is no need to determine anything.
although your holy book looks down on bastard children, i highly doubt it calls for the death of any bastard child....but i guess you and your evil god have a different demonic holybook in which bastard children should be killed, abi?!?!?

YOU DEVIL WORSHIPPER!!!!!
***spit on your evil corpse and you evil god's corpse***

sisisioge:
Pikin wey like sugar daddy eyes dey see fa . I just dont understand the zeal for older partner like that....20yrs!
And he had a full house already o . I am sure they are Mus.lims.
Meanwhile, no need to read the second part, them no dey quick lean like that

i am also surprised that a 19yr old wanna be a 3rd wife to a 39yr old man... i guess money/sex is the only thing they had in "common".
i guess in these difficult economic times, a rich husband is better than nothing.
to each their own misery.