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KanuSE:
My point is that for most of these ladies, rape is not the case.

you have the right to think this way, because of the amount of false accusation, but the above could be a true rape victim.... dont automatically put her in the same bag as all the other fake victims.

CaptainFM1:
No, that's not what I'm saying.
Let me say it clearly again........ "The society should encourage and empowers the girls child". Story like that should come out naturally from her and/or usually from the appropriate authorities.
Ideally, unless she tells her story herself or the authorities broke it to sensitize the society (normally after justice has been delivered) neither me nor you should probe into her private matters. The interviewers should have asked if she's willing to talk about it (encourage and empowers).
We can only speak generically and continue to speculate. Only the victim can get into specifics if she wants. The civil authorities can request for specifics but wouldn't publish until thorough investigation and justice has been served. That's how it's done.
We don't stampede people to saying things if we can't encourage or empower them. Sometimes skimming only the summary out could just be very relieving as she had done on TVC. You don't know how she feels by just issuing the snippet. We don't know how she's been processing the whole thing.
That's the summary of all I'm saying. We keep demanding rather than encourage and empowers.

ok and as i keep saying....
it does not matter what a rape victim does, thats all on her, but if she claims (to the whole world) that she was raped then she can either tell the whole story or keep quiet.... but saying half of a story that will have these rapists continue doing their evil deed, is not only a waste of time but moreso, a validation to rapists that they can keep on raping (as victims will protect their identity).

the problem of rape in Africa is very simple: if you are gonna claim it happened then you must bring these criminals to justice . if you dont want to do so but wanna play victim, then no wonder most men (like the ones posting on this thread) dont believe these women's story... and they might as well keep quiet and not get shamed by these doubters.

i cant blame these doubters from feeling the way they do, when women keep protecting these so called rapist... thus why i stated that women are part of this whole problem of rape in Africa!

GetMeRight:
He didn't give the gift to them directly and in person

as much as he didnt give it to them directly, he walked in there and placed the gift with the others....aka he had full access to their wedding ceremony as stated below...

saintbillion:
Markam then had a friend take him to the wedding venue on March 31 where he placed the wrapped music system under several wedding gifts before departing.

KanuSE:
Your blood too dey hot, be calming down ok.
The figures are there on the false rape cases and how rape cases fall like pile of cards in courts for lack of evidence. Most claims are basically malicious.

you yourself stated that "most" cases are false, right? so if thats "supposedly" the case it means that some are actually genuine cases, so how can you automatically claim that the above is false? couldnt it be one of the real/true cases?

DriveByKiller:
do you sleep with primates and lower mammals too?

bro, just type "zoophilia sex" and see the amount of websites there are, then come explain to me how is this act illegal if there are so many legal website showing these acts. pedophilia is illegal and there are no sites online about it, so why is there zoophilia sites everywhere if illegal too?!

just sayin...

Powersurge:
Wait, do you believe her?

why shouldnt i? do you automatically believe all rape accusers are liars (because a few are)?!
i guess, thinking the way you do, i should believe you are a homo because a few men out there pretend to like women but deep down they are homos, abi?!?

Day169:
.. na for this point fight take dey start among siblings.

so you mean to say that a sibling will fight me because i offer them the choice between getting free $10m or nothing?!?!?

BRATISLAVA:
Let's pretend you haven't seen numerous accusations feature on the forum, in which the boys brigade rubbish the victims account, demand for the sex tape and "evidence", and even with that will claim she wanted it. The brigade will ask for evidence from 30 years ago to prove her accusation, because they believe she must be lying and enjoyed it. Your Nigerian brothers have made it so. They expect Go360 footage as if rape victims are excitedly waiting to collect "evidence", and they still won't believe it when it's shown.

If you're being honest, you wouldn't say who it was rather than be shamed and called a hooker for your experience. You would live with the pain quietly rather than face the rape apology brigade.

yes i understand your point but if that is the case then i wouldnt say ANYTHING, rather than say half of a story that would get her the exact same wrath (whether she tells the rapist name or not)

BTW let us all also NOT pretend that false rape accusations AND/OR rape accusation blackmail doesnt happen in Africa.... so, many of these doubters/unbelievers may have somewhat of a distant point

its well known that Chinese are some of the most racist people against blacks...

CaptainFM1:
The processing is still hers! Rape is just like jokes/pranks. You don't weigh the impact from the point of the person that cracked/made it.
She's the one that went through the process(es) and only her can weigh the impact of telling her stories to the world.
In this wicked life, bloggers will jump on people's story and be making money from it whilst still subjecting the person to secondary trauma even if the person cries herself to sleep every night and later self end herself.
Let her process the impact and work with her time inasmuch as the society isn't doing well to encourage and empowers women generally

so you are telling us all that there is sense in saying you were raped (to the whole world) but yet protect the rapist by not saying who did it?!
i guess what you are saying is that, you dont care whether the rapist will continue raping other innocent victims, and instead want to tell a half story so that he does... and no wonder he will.
makes absolutely NO SENSE to me.

maybe with Nigerian bank account it is banned, but all over the world Paypal is available to open new accounts.

try Payoneer instead...

tell my sibling about the deal and thereafter make a separate deal with my sibling.... to get $10m from his $20m (aka we do 50/50) OR i settle for my $5m?!

choice will be his...

CaptainFM1:
[b]That's why you don't see them saying it. [/b]Out of every 10 that's raped, only 1 manage to say it and it's usually after they have come out of both primary and secondary traumas. The few that opened up usually does when they don't longer give a sh!t about it.

@the above in bold
but that woman already stated that she was raped, so whats the hold up?!?!?

expatinmalay:
Justice of the Peace Ben Collins Sr. has set bond at $555,555.55 for a 68-year-old bank robbery suspect who said ‘5 is my lucky number.’
Police say Jimmy Maynard, 68, of Beaumont, is charged with robbing PNC Bank off the Interstate 10 East frontage road in Beaumont at 9 this morning.
JP Collins says Maynard handed a note to the teller, demanding $5 and that they call the police on him. They did, and Maynard waited for officers to arrive.
He's in the Jefferson County Jail on a 2nd Degree Felony Charge of Robbery.
judge Collins says Maynard told police that 5 was lucky number, so the JP set bond at $555,555.55. Judge Collins says even though some may chuckle at the bond, the charge against Maynard is serious.
His unlucky number is 2-20. That's how much time he could face in state prison if a jury convicts Maynard of the robbery charge.
A check of criminal records shows Maynard served 12 years for 1st Degree Aggravated Robbery in the Texas prison system and was released in 2015.

SMART MAN!!!
life out of jail was too diffcult for him so he decided to do the above crime in order to go back to jail, where he will get free housing, free food etc

ABSOLUTELY YES!!!!
the redpill movement is not about being against women, its about men being stronger physically/emotionally against women, and to not let women play-play with you (like Mbappé on any defender), under the guise of r/ship etc (AND CERTAINLY NOT TO AVOID/DISREGARD/DEMONIZE WOMEN). if you educate your daughters/sons right, you shouldnt be afraid of the redpill state of mind

CaptainFM1:
I'm saying the reason why many don't come out to say it. Once they say it, the society start casting them in most cases. Then they become double victim. Some get into depressed state also because of the way society treat them. And some decide to end it all. The trauma might have been caused by the rapist, but the consequential trauma she faces when she walks down the street is deeper. Nobody encourages her. Everybody just want to hear her rape story....she goes to bed crying herself to sleep every night, wake up the following day and still face the same society looking at her dejectedly and the trauma increases.
We still have a lot to do as a society in giving them support and encouragement to speak out. When you see those that come out to speak about it, they must have summoned tremendous strength to overcome the shame that's not really their fault.

i fully understand the above your wrote but the minute a woman says she was raped, then she has NO REASON to hold back any longer, as the society will look down on you (whether you tell the rapist name or not). so why not tell the full story instead (with actual name of rapist)?!

whatever you do, dont EVER give your money to fraudsters with yeye "get money quick scheme"....

if people really could double money in few days (like the above fraudster claimed), they would be BILLIONAIRES today and therefore wouldnt look for your 20k investment on NL... they would invest their own millions/billions to become trillionaires!

another HOLY DEMON spotted!

CaptainFM1:
The societal trauma is still a factor. Have we ever celebrated any lady that comes out to tell her story?

the above you wrote is very hard to believe or understand.... the minute you claim you were raped then the societal trauma/stigma will be there so why not tell the WHOLE story and out the demon....so that it could help future women to protect themselves against that particular rapist?! i dont get it.

this OP and his death sentence posts...
- 1st it was death sentence for traffic offenders
- 2nd was death sentence for loan defaulters
- 3rd was death sentence for fat/glutton people
- now death sentence for cheaters...

i guess this must be the result of heavy masturbating syndrome and lack of gf in his life ever! as written below:

OdogwuMoney6:
I'm 22 years old and I've never had sex in my entire life. I've been on self service since 16 years old and to be quite frank, it's getting boring. I hardly find pleasure in that shit anymore. I'll soon be moving out of my parents house which is also one of the reasons I'm still a virgin.

her make up artist should be fired ON THE SPOT!!!

IMHO, women who know their rapist, yet are quick to say they were raped but not out the rapist....are part of the whole rape problem.
its a vicious circle where this demon will continue raping because they understand that women dont say anything.

OdogwuMoney6:
Yes, loan defaulters are some of the most inconsiderate and inhumane people amongst us and they all should be given the death sentence....How can you borrow a loan and you refuse to pay back? Is that not just pure evil and heartless?.. Because the person you guys are collecting loan from and refusing to pay back, you act might cause the person to go into bankruptcy and depression, and in the end, it might lead to the person commiting sucide and that is wickedness and equivalent or even worse than murder.. Every loan defaulter should be sentence to death so they they will learn

thats the risk that comes with lending money. some countries (who didnt/cant repay their loans) would be extinct by now if we listened to you.

everyone does it...from common people to companies who cant pay their debts (aka bankruptcy) to countries (bond default)

yet there are so many legal websites that cater for this kind of madness aka www.beastiality (dot tv)...women having sex with dog, horses etc

abeg stop the hypocrisy!

self check out, now cleaning robots lol...when the place will be full of machines everywhere, then the rise of unemployment would have people stay away from these businesses (like Wallmart) which ultimately will have to close...

stevonics:
Unfortunately they are not landing on the moon according to the report. They never landed on moon.

the Artemis 2 mission is just a fly by mission, they wont land on the moon... and OF COURSE the moon landing was a hoax. so they want us to believe that 50yrs ago they landed on the moon but now for the past 50yrs, nobody on earth (not even them) can go back again?!?!?!?!

https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/absurd.gif

i dont know whats more insane here...
A) the ex bf killing the groom because he was rejected by the bride
B) these newlywed accepting a gift from the disgruntled ex
C) or the ex doing all this above atrocity even though he already is married with kids

Obrigardo:
Over and over and over again these maga cultists are always in denial defending criminal behavior. How do these people live and interact with others offline is just something I wonder everyday.

very gullible set of people!!!!!
with all the obvious evidences that Trump commited a crime, they are so blinded that they will continue saying that he didnt. imagine!!!!
any crime that Trump does, its a conspiracy, while countless women were accusing Trump way before he got into politics.

thats just the beginning of the end for Trump... in due time, more charges from the other woman who claimed he raped her and/or the January 6 capitol attacks committee will come out!

Truthsbitter:
Cool!
I already know what you're going write about Libya and we both know our stands on that.. So I will randomly pick another but I am sure we might just end up on same note as Libya. Anyways let's do it just for doing sake.

I pick iraq
Come on bro let's get it on!

wait...out of all countries, Irak is the one you decided to pick?!?!?! ok lets do it...

Irak possess some of the biggest oil fields in the world and the US gov wanted to control it so they KNOWINGLY LIED about weapon of mass destruction in Irak.. and even when the UN clearly stated that invaded Irak was wrong and that it WAS 100% ILLEGAL, the US went ahead amd illegally invaded Iraq in 2003, murder Saddam Hussein and stole the country's natural ressources (aka oil). it is well known that Bush and Blair are the main culprit in this pre emptive strike madness. COME ON!!!!

there was NO REASON; NO LEGALITY for the US to invade Irak in 2003... and even when the UN said there was no reason for US to invade Irak, they still went ahead and did so. even the United Nations Secretary-General Kofi Annan said in September 2004 that: "From our point of view and the UN Charter point of view, the invasion of irak in 2003 by the US was illegal." but yet, nobody came to the Iraqi people rescue, like they do now in Ukraine.

The invasion of Ukraine by Russia today is exactly the same as the invasion of Irak by the US in 2003, duh!!!!

but hey, dont take my word for it...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NQyN4X0sFdA