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- if the husband doesnt mind, why should we?! - if you marry someone and abandon them in 9ja, then what do you expect? |
they should check the neighborhood for stolen children and or sold children.... |
valicious1:- could it be that she is inexperienced in the bedroom and want to make sure that she is doing everything right to please you? - could it be that she is concerned as you may be frowning or making a long face during sex, thus why she is asking the question? |
it simply means he has a great memory.... |
it is very clear from the bible that women should be silent in church and/or they should have no authority over men... |
thats what happen when you date and fall in live with good for nothing cheap oloshoes... |
he opened his yeye mouth way too much to not expect a BEAT DOWN coming to him (sooner or later).... he lucky he is still alive. some people out there want him dead. |
sammydavid1:before you fall in love with someone, you must have spent ample time with her, in order to discover her, get to know her fully and possibly fall in love with her (And vice versa).... why would it be difficult for a man to say whats on his mind after all this time spent with her (whether she is rich or poor)? |
Abi1985:sadly the above is only true with sane people....but most of our Nigerian Brothas and sistas are insane, and believe that a brotha is their fada and should take care of them (regardless of what going on in his own life) unless your own personal priorities are met, you should never give money to others....especially not to ungrateful family members who sees you as nothing more than a bank |
depressedlad:its sunday....go blame you god for it |
true....dikc is easy to get... but as for a good loving caring loyal respectful faithful man, thats another story. |
you have to get your priorities in life... FIRST take care of your own self at all times. make sure you prioritize your own life over anyone else. SECOND when your own priorities are met and secured, you can possibly think of helping others. THIRD if push come to shove, your own life priorities should always be the 1st thing to solve over anything/anyone else's issues. |
OLAADEGBU:MORE EDUCATION for you: Avenatti went to jail for many crimes, but it sure aint anything related to Stormy Daniels receiving $130K of hush money from Trump Lawyer, Michael Cohen, duh! |
FRANCISTOWN:people like you are clueless and when we EDUCATE YOU ON NL, and point out your incoherent nonsense, you can only run to the hills with your tail between your legs. every single nonsense you brought is utter clueless ignorant gibberish rubbish... just as your petty threats. run along child!! |
OLAADEGBU:again, i am just EDUCATING YOU on the subject, so you guys dont write yeye nonsense on NL! |
OLAADEGBU:LET ME EDUCATE YOU, by all means: the defamation lawsuit that Stormy Daniels brought upon Trump had absolutely nothing to do with the fact that she did (or not) have sex with Trump and/or that she received $130K hush money, and instead it was a defamation suit against Trump because he tweeted THAT SHE LIED ABOUT BEING THREATENED BY HIM. stop mixing apples with oranges. the reason Trump is being indicted today is because of the hush money nothing in the above nonsense you posted has anything to do with them having sex and/or her receiving $130K hush money, duh! again Trump is being indicted by the Manhattan District Attorney's Office for the $130K hush money that he gave Stormy Daniels...but since you people are truly clueless about the issue, let me explain it to you guys as if you were 5yr olds: just before the 2016 US elections, Stormy Daniels was about to sell her story "that she had sex with Trump" to the enquirer magazine. since Trump was running for president and didnt want this scandal to come out, he sent his long time lawyer Michael Cohen to make a deal with Stormy Daniel to keep quiet. on oct 27, two weeks before the 2016 election, her attorney and Michael Cohen had an agreement and the money was sent to Stormy Daniels Attorney. After Trump was elected president, Cohen was reimbursed with a total of $420k to supposedly for "taxes and other costs". Trump himself signed some of the reimbursment checks to Cohen.... and Trump even admitted to repaying Cohen for money paid to Daniels (although denying having sex ith her). NOW HERE IS THE CRIME HE COMMITTED: the Trump Organization falsely identified the reimbursements as a "retainer" for "legal services." which is a felony crime under New York state law of falsifying business records to cover up another crime (aka the violation of campaign finance laws with the hush money payment) Thank me later for educating you! |
how can you blame a crime on the devil, WHEN YOU ARE THE DEVIL HIMSELF?! |
Dvdpity:so this woman has been saying for YEARS that she had sex with Trump, she wrote a book saying that she had sex with Trump, she got a lawyer and sued Trump because she wanted the world to know that they had sex together.....but now she mysteriously receive $130k from Trump assistant, and now she says that they never had sex....ok sir! here is her saying on TV that they had sex and/or that she receive $130K for hush money and she had to sign a NDA (non disclosure agreement): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Ji8i7Wy4mo https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CATBsrEBIFU |
blame AFRICAN SOCIETY/CULTURE for that. blame RELIGION for that. if there was not so much (Family/social/religious/peer) pressure on Nigerians to get married at all cost, then some men wouldnt pretend to be who they are not, in order to find a wife. |
they had sex and 1st she was ADAMANT about it. now, she was paid $130K hush money by Trump and she is trying to say the contrary.... Trump giving her 130K is a FACT and thats why Trump is being indicted today...and only a very narrow minded person wouldnt understand this simpe issue! |
FRANCISTOWN:A) if you dont change your stand, then continue claiming that women have been fashioned against men.... and stand by that statement. B) its funny that you talked about Winnie Mandela... we all know that she stayed married with Nelson Mandela for her POLITICAL AMBITIONS and certainly not for love/care/Affection, as it is well known that she was cheating on Nelson Mandela all along. it is also well documented that during their divorce she was accused By Nelson Mandela himself of infidelity, which she did not deny. but most importantly, understand that just because ONE woman does something, it doesnt mean that this is what every other women on earth should do. AGAIN; everyone is different and there is not one way to act in this instance. what you have to do is take every scenario and act according to it. here is a simple clue: - some people stay in physically ABUSIVE marriages while others divorce; - some people stay in UNFAITHFUL marriages while others divorce; - some people stay in DISRESPECTFUL marriages while others divorce; ...and they would all be right, because there is not one way to deal with issues in marriages. it all depends on individuals. to each their own. FRANCISTOWN:why do you keep bring yeye issues to this discussion, to try to make a point?! but hey, since you are bringing yeye stories to make a claim here, let me bring my own irrelevant stories to make a point too: - evil husband kill wife for inheritance, are men better than women? - evil husband kill wife for rituals, are men better than women? - evil husband catches HIV by cheating around with dirty oloshoes and wife dies because of it... are men better than women. - evil husband sold children to pay for business debts. are men better than women? ... the above is what you do. you come up with stories (instead of FACTS) to make a point. everyone can bring stories to this dscussion. to any story that you bring here, i can equally find a story that points to the contrary. just because one person does something, does NOT make it a fact. so pls STICK TO FACTS AND NOT IRRELEVANT BS STORIES! Not everyone has that ability to forgive, and so to avoid divorce, physical harm or depression due to unforgiveness of wife's mistake; is it not better to avoid what can lead to such, which is marriage?NEWSFLASH: men AND women suffer inmarriage and/or forgive infidelity in marriage. FACT! stop making it seem like only men suffer infidelity in marriage, and therefore, men should avoid marriage because of it. lol! Darn it! A 10years old kid should grab this without stress. Right from time immemorial, even in the west, men have always had more than one wife before this current civilisation. You see Kings have many wives(queens), but a queen doesn't have many husbands (They are called prince) even if she's the head of the country. That's the way nature has made the male and the female. By the way , I never said cheating is good, I only laid emphasis on polygamy and how different genders handle cheating psychologically . This is simple psychology.here we go again, writing irrelevant RUBBISH to make a point. NEWSFLASH: whether men are polygamous in nature or not, doesnt change the fact that INFIDELITY IN MARRIAGE IS WRONG (whether with men OR women). cheating is cheating, stop trying to make it look like men's infidelity is somehow ok while women's infidelity isnt. BTW there is a huge difference between a polygamous man having multiple wives AND a man having one wife and cheating on her! The people who marry and later go thru divorce would still end up without wife.A) the people who get married and divorce after 50yrs, get a lifetime of beautiful happy memories filled with family, companionship, love, care, affection....while people like you get 50 yrs filled with loneliness, bitterness, misery etc B) people who have bedridden wives are not selfish self centered narrow minded human beings like yourself, so they have so much love for their wives that they can focus on taking care of her. do you believe that your father should ABANDON YOUR MOTHER, the day she gets an accident and become bedridden? what kind of evil person are you? what kind of negative person are you? what made you become such an evil being. i doubt you are a xtian, i doubt you understand your bible! BTW funny how you were quick to talk about "for better or worse" in marriage (earlier), but yet here you are stating something completely different now, just to try to make a point. what a hypocrite! you either stand for something or you dont. Give me a verse which says all women are not bad.(let's start here)GIBBERISH SMOKESCREEN NONSENSE #1 FIRST you say all women are bad (Apart from your mother and siblings). SECOND you try to bring the bible story of Adam and Eve to make your point. THIRD i now tell you that not all women are bad and you shouldnt bring the bible to this issue UNLESS YOU CAN SHOW US WHERE IN THAT BIBLE IT IS SAYS THAT ALL WOMEN ARE BAD. ...and the above quote is your answer?!?!?!?!? are you ok sir? aint you the one bringing nonsense claim to this discussion? aint you the one claiming that all women are bad and bringing bible stories to try to buttress your claim?! if you have nothing to say, why dont you stop writing. the exact same yeye narrative when xtian claim that there is a god and when we ask them to prove it, they reply that we should prove that it doesnt exist BWAAAAAAAAAAAH! Race or color regardless, women are the same across this whole wide worldGIBBERISH SMOKESCREEN NONSENSE #2 FIRST you stated that when a man cant feed his family, he feels like shiiit bla bla bla, and blamed women for this. SECOND i made you understand that this has nothing to do with women and all to do with AFRICAN SOCIETY/CULTURE who forces yeye people to get married while not being ready for marriage. THIRD you now replied that we all need societal acceptance FOURTH therefore i told you AGAIN to blame African society/culture for this problem, and certainly NOT women ... and the above quote is your response to that?!?!?!? are you ok sir??!?!? what does race/color/women or the whole wide world got to do with yeye people going into marriage (while not being ready for marriage) due to societal acceptance?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!? Well, like someone said "among all your family members, only your wife is not your relative"GIBBERISH SMOKESCREEN NONSENSE #3 so now what you are claimng is that IF A WOMAN IS A GOOD MOTHER, then she automatically is a good woman (like your mother), right?! NEWSFLASH: most women are good to their children, that does NOT automatically mean that they will be good women/wives. your mother may have been good to you but BAD AS A WOMAN/WIFE TO YOUR FATHER, duh! BTW: what made your sisters automatically good women?! |
TalkSpaceOffice:there is a HUGE difference between teaching someone what to do and making them ENJOY THAT SAME THING. for example: i can teach you how to dance salsa, but that doesnt mean you are gonna like to dance salsa... OR i can teach you how to swim, but it doesnt mean you gonna like swimming. its the same thing with LOVE, no matter how much you can show someone how to be in a r/ship, if your partner doesnt have any attraction/affection for you, then all what you will do is pointless. the love/care/affection that you are talking about is generated by SEXUAL ATTRACTION, ATTACHMENT,BRAIN/HORMONES and the INTERACTION that you have with someone. you can be with two different person and do exactly the same thing, and love will naturally blossom with one and not the other. you CANT teach someone to love you, you CANT teach someone to be attracted to you... you can only teach a couple how to act properly in a union. |
wouldnt expect any less... dutch were non-existant and barely there! |
Right now, am still looking at my brother, I don't even know what to do to him.....why dont you pray with him, MR PASTOR.... https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/lvar.gif |
most would look great on models, but we all know how it turns out later on...... what you buy VS what you receive (African version):
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voltron14:exactly...only ghosts never age, lol! |
everywhere, even in Nightclubs... |
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