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RomanceRe: Would You Be Comfortable If You Friend Cohabits With Your Wife? by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:36pm On Mar 26, 2023
- if the husband doesnt mind, why should we?!
- if you marry someone and abandon them in 9ja, then what do you expect?
Christianity EtcRe: 15 Years Of Barreness Shattered By the GOD Of Chosen ( Pics, Video) by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:23pm On Mar 26, 2023
they should check the neighborhood for stolen children and or sold children....
RomanceRe: Why You Should Be Worried When A Girl Asks If You Are 'enjoying It' During Sex by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:18pm On Mar 26, 2023
valicious1:
You should be really worried When a girl asks if you're enjoying it during sex.
It implies that she's not really feeling your thing.

She's concerned that your d1ck is probably too small for her coochie as she can't feel the friction and feels you yourself ain't feeling the pleasure you deserve.

Girls who normally ask this question probably love you and want you to enjoy their body.
- could it be that she is inexperienced in the bedroom and want to make sure that she is doing everything right to please you?
- could it be that she is concerned as you may be frowning or making a long face during sex, thus why she is asking the question?
RomanceRe: He Has My Phone Number In His Head by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:13pm On Mar 26, 2023
it simply means he has a great memory....
Nairaland GeneralRe: Should Women Keep Silent In Church Service ? by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:12pm On Mar 26, 2023
it is very clear from the bible that women should be silent in church and/or they should have no authority over men...
RomanceRe: Lady Picks Boyfriend’s Call While Pleasuring Another Man by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:02pm On Mar 26, 2023
thats what happen when you date and fall in live with good for nothing cheap oloshoes...
CelebritiesRe: Tekashi 6ix9ine Hospitalized After Brutal Gym Beating by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:01pm On Mar 26, 2023
he opened his yeye mouth way too much to not expect a BEAT DOWN coming to him (sooner or later).... he lucky he is still alive. some people out there want him dead.
CelebritiesRe: “not All Ladies Want Money,” Yul Edochie Reveals by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:49pm On Mar 26, 2023
sammydavid1:
Yul Edochie, a movie producer and actor from Nollywood, has given some advice to his gender.
The father of five warned men on Instagram not to be put off by a woman’s success.
He believed that a guy shouldn’t be prevented from telling a wealthy woman he loves her if he falls in love with her.
before you fall in love with someone, you must have spent ample time with her, in order to discover her, get to know her fully and possibly fall in love with her (And vice versa).... why would it be difficult for a man to say whats on his mind after all this time spent with her (whether she is rich or poor)?
RomanceRe: Your Brother And Sister Are Not Obligated To Give You Money by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:45pm On Mar 26, 2023
Abi1985:
If your brother or sister gives you money, be thankful. No be them born you especially if you come from the same baba and mama. Stop pestering them for money if they are successful in life. Stop being jealous of them. They work hard or were blessed. Be happy for them , no dey beef them. Be kind to them, stop begging too much. Hustle for your own, thank and pray
to God for more blessings.
If you are sleeping or playing or partying while bro or sis are grinding hard, You are on your own. Na work don finish, money don enter- leave them alone. Their fruit of labor is for them only.
sadly the above is only true with sane people....but most of our Nigerian Brothas and sistas are insane, and believe that a brotha is their fada and should take care of them (regardless of what going on in his own life)

unless your own personal priorities are met, you should never give money to others....especially not to ungrateful family members who sees you as nothing more than a bank
RomanceRe: . by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:41pm On Mar 26, 2023
depressedlad:
i hate myself i hate my life im tired nothing works for me god hates me i am a failure i am useless i need courage to kill myself
its sunday....go blame you god for it
Nairaland GeneralRe: Why Men Are Not Easy To Get — Port Harcourt Socialite, Brian Dennis (photo) by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:36pm On Mar 26, 2023
true....dikc is easy to get... but as for a good loving caring loyal respectful faithful man, thats another story.
RomanceRe: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:32pm On Mar 26, 2023
you have to get your priorities in life...
FIRST take care of your own self at all times. make sure you prioritize your own life over anyone else.
SECOND when your own priorities are met and secured, you can possibly think of helping others.
THIRD if push come to shove, your own life priorities should always be the 1st thing to solve over anything/anyone else's issues.
Foreign AffairsRe: Stormy Daniels Admits: No Affair With Donald Trump by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:25pm On Mar 26, 2023
OLAADEGBU:
I'm also advising you not to end up in jail because of your half baked education from CNN.
MORE EDUCATION for you:
Avenatti went to jail for many crimes, but it sure aint anything related to Stormy Daniels receiving $130K of hush money from Trump Lawyer, Michael Cohen, duh!
RomanceRe: Dear Men, Marriage(Wife) is The Weapon Fashioned Against You by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:48pm On Mar 25, 2023
FRANCISTOWN:
@ MrBrownJay1
Now I'm convinced that engaging you was a complete waste of time to begin with. You really can't educate a man who is passionately committed to ignorance. Everything you've said so far were so inconsistent with the points. It's either you are a lady in a guy's disguise(Ladies are the ones who talk generally out of emotions and not out of sense) or your IQ is less than 50. You can't even be 19 years of age, a 19yo would be more intelligent than this, you reason like a baby. It's either you are just very disoriented, primitive or you need reading glasses. I stated it clearly that "My mother is special to me and not to anybody else, the same way everyone's mother is special to them and not anybody else". You can be in jail for 50 years yet, your mother is still your mother, but you didn't see that, you went about talking bullshit, must you display stupidity on a public forum like this, huh! I really don't engage your likes on my thread , but I thought you had a lil bit of understanding, anyways thanks for the disappoinment. I've warned you severally to be careful of the kinds of words you use with me, in real life, I find people like you and I punish them accordingly. Since you weren't raised well to know how to speak politely. No matter the insults you bring next, because that definitely was how you were raised, you won't get my attention.Adìos.
people like you are clueless and when we EDUCATE YOU ON NL, and point out your incoherent nonsense, you can only run to the hills with your tail between your legs. every single nonsense you brought is utter clueless ignorant gibberish rubbish... just as your petty threats. run along child!!
Foreign AffairsRe: Stormy Daniels Admits: No Affair With Donald Trump by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:16pm On Mar 25, 2023
OLAADEGBU:
With all this information you've got from CNN why didn't represent your client in court instead of the clowns who ended up being jailed? undecided
again, i am just EDUCATING YOU on the subject, so you guys dont write yeye nonsense on NL!
Foreign AffairsRe: Stormy Daniels Admits: No Affair With Donald Trump by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:09pm On Mar 25, 2023
OLAADEGBU:
Stormy Daniels ordered to pay Trump. The truth has now come back to bite you in the you in the rear end.
"A lie can travel halfway around the world before the truth can get its boots on"
LET ME EDUCATE YOU, by all means:
the defamation lawsuit that Stormy Daniels brought upon Trump had absolutely nothing to do with the fact that she did (or not) have sex with Trump and/or that she received $130K hush money, and instead it was a defamation suit against Trump because he tweeted THAT SHE LIED ABOUT BEING THREATENED BY HIM. stop mixing apples with oranges. the reason Trump is being indicted today is because of the hush money

nothing in the above nonsense you posted has anything to do with them having sex and/or her receiving $130K hush money, duh!

again Trump is being indicted by the Manhattan District Attorney's Office for the $130K hush money that he gave Stormy Daniels...but since you people are truly clueless about the issue, let me explain it to you guys as if you were 5yr olds:

just before the 2016 US elections, Stormy Daniels was about to sell her story "that she had sex with Trump" to the enquirer magazine. since Trump was running for president and didnt want this scandal to come out, he sent his long time lawyer Michael Cohen to make a deal with Stormy Daniel to keep quiet. on oct 27, two weeks before the 2016 election, her attorney and Michael Cohen had an agreement and the money was sent to Stormy Daniels Attorney.


After Trump was elected president, Cohen was reimbursed with a total of $420k to supposedly for "taxes and other costs". Trump himself signed some of the reimbursment checks to Cohen.... and Trump even admitted to repaying Cohen for money paid to Daniels (although denying having sex ith her). NOW HERE IS THE CRIME HE COMMITTED: the Trump Organization falsely identified the reimbursements as a "retainer" for "legal services." which is a felony crime under New York state law of falsifying business records to cover up another crime (aka the violation of campaign finance laws with the hush money payment)


Thank me later for educating you!
PoliticsRe: 43 Year Old Man Arrested For Allegedly raping His 19 Year Old Daughter by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:13pm On Mar 25, 2023
how can you blame a crime on the devil, WHEN YOU ARE THE DEVIL HIMSELF?!
Foreign AffairsRe: Stormy Daniels Admits: No Affair With Donald Trump by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:02pm On Mar 25, 2023
Dvdpity:
She denied it, are you stupid? Where you there? The person you said that she had sex with Donald denied it, yet you are going ahead to accused her of what she didn't do. You must be foolish. I think she has to sue the judge for accusing her what she didn't do. Then the judge must bring evidence of where she was banging trump.
so this woman has been saying for YEARS that she had sex with Trump, she wrote a book saying that she had sex with Trump, she got a lawyer and sued Trump because she wanted the world to know that they had sex together.....but now she mysteriously receive $130k from Trump assistant, and now she says that they never had sex....ok sir!

here is her saying on TV that they had sex and/or that she receive $130K for hush money and she had to sign a NDA (non disclosure agreement):


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Ji8i7Wy4mo


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CATBsrEBIFU
RomanceRe: Dear Men by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:20pm On Mar 25, 2023
blame AFRICAN SOCIETY/CULTURE for that. blame RELIGION for that.
if there was not so much (Family/social/religious/peer) pressure on Nigerians to get married at all cost, then some men wouldnt pretend to be who they are not, in order to find a wife.
Foreign AffairsRe: Stormy Daniels Admits: No Affair With Donald Trump by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:09pm On Mar 25, 2023
they had sex and 1st she was ADAMANT about it. now, she was paid $130K hush money by Trump and she is trying to say the contrary.... Trump giving her 130K is a FACT and thats why Trump is being indicted today...and only a very narrow minded person wouldnt understand this simpe issue!
RomanceRe: Dear Men, Marriage(Wife) is The Weapon Fashioned Against You by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:44pm On Mar 25, 2023
FRANCISTOWN:
I've tried as much as possible to not twist any of your points to suit any of my opinions but since you started it, that's one of the things I love the most.
To begin with, I didn't change my stand, prolly you need to go back to what I posted and read again but slowly this time.
You also mentioned that; was the woman supposed to be with the man for 24years. Winnie Madikizela was with Mandela when he was in prison for 27 years until his release, so what are you saying?
Whatever you say about children, money or an abusive husband is none 'my business and not related to the point as long as Stephen didn't assault her while he was serving his time.
A) if you dont change your stand, then continue claiming that women have been fashioned against men.... and stand by that statement.
B) its funny that you talked about Winnie Mandela... we all know that she stayed married with Nelson Mandela for her POLITICAL AMBITIONS and certainly not for love/care/Affection, as it is well known that she was cheating on Nelson Mandela all along. it is also well documented that during their divorce she was accused By Nelson Mandela himself of infidelity, which she did not deny.

but most importantly, understand that just because ONE woman does something, it doesnt mean that this is what every other women on earth should do. AGAIN; everyone is different and there is not one way to act in this instance. what you have to do is take every scenario and act according to it. here is a simple clue:
- some people stay in physically ABUSIVE marriages while others divorce;
- some people stay in UNFAITHFUL marriages while others divorce;
- some people stay in DISRESPECTFUL marriages while others divorce;

...and they would all be right, because there is not one way to deal with issues in marriages. it all depends on individuals. to each their own.

FRANCISTOWN:
Like a father will glare at his wife's protruding tummy and speak to a child in there, listen to me my child. You won't be the one to tell me that both men and women are wicked, everyone knows that, but it's like likening a bus to an aircraft because they both are transportation media. Lemme aid your understanding. In the case of paternity fraud and infidelity, a man may have kids outside the marriage without the wife's knowledge, she doesn't know about it and she doesn't have any emotional attachment towards the kids. She doesn't make no goddamn sacrifice for the kids, and she'll never for once think the kid(s) is hers . Now a woman who is in a marriage may have all her kids for a different man and the husband doesn't know about it . He invests emotionally, physically financially and even make sacrifices for these kids. Which of these two do you think is more evil? Since you claim both men and women are wicked, vice versa.
why do you keep bring yeye issues to this discussion, to try to make a point?! but hey, since you are bringing yeye stories to make a claim here, let me bring my own irrelevant stories to make a point too:
- evil husband kill wife for inheritance, are men better than women?
- evil husband kill wife for rituals, are men better than women?
- evil husband catches HIV by cheating around with dirty oloshoes and wife dies because of it... are men better than women.
- evil husband sold children to pay for business debts. are men better than women?

... the above is what you do. you come up with stories (instead of FACTS) to make a point. everyone can bring stories to this dscussion. to any story that you bring here, i can equally find a story that points to the contrary. just because one person does something, does NOT make it a fact. so pls STICK TO FACTS AND NOT IRRELEVANT BS STORIES!

Not everyone has that ability to forgive, and so to avoid divorce, physical harm or depression due to unforgiveness of wife's mistake; is it not better to avoid what can lead to such, which is marriage?
Let's say infidelity, do you think that kind deserves forgiveness? Like I said, some men have low self esteem and have not completely evolved.
NEWSFLASH: men AND women suffer inmarriage and/or forgive infidelity in marriage. FACT! stop making it seem like only men suffer infidelity in marriage, and therefore, men should avoid marriage because of it. lol!

Darn it! A 10years old kid should grab this without stress. Right from time immemorial, even in the west, men have always had more than one wife before this current civilisation. You see Kings have many wives(queens), but a queen doesn't have many husbands (They are called prince) even if she's the head of the country. That's the way nature has made the male and the female. By the way , I never said cheating is good, I only laid emphasis on polygamy and how different genders handle cheating psychologically . This is simple psychology.
here we go again, writing irrelevant RUBBISH to make a point.
NEWSFLASH: whether men are polygamous in nature or not, doesnt change the fact that INFIDELITY IN MARRIAGE IS WRONG (whether with men OR women). cheating is cheating, stop trying to make it look like men's infidelity is somehow ok while women's infidelity isnt. BTW there is a huge difference between a polygamous man having multiple wives AND a man having one wife and cheating on her!

The people who marry and later go thru divorce would still end up without wife.
People who lose their wives at maybe 50 may decide not to remarry
People who have bedridden wives due to sickness will infact regret marriage.
In the above cases , they'll still end up being alone but not lonely. You may say children, do all married couples have children? If kids were that important, what's wrong with adoption
A) the people who get married and divorce after 50yrs, get a lifetime of beautiful happy memories filled with family, companionship, love, care, affection....while people like you get 50 yrs filled with loneliness, bitterness, misery etc
B) people who have bedridden wives are not selfish self centered narrow minded human beings like yourself, so they have so much love for their wives that they can focus on taking care of her. do you believe that your father should ABANDON YOUR MOTHER, the day she gets an accident and become bedridden? what kind of evil person are you? what kind of negative person are you? what made you become such an evil being. i doubt you are a xtian, i doubt you understand your bible!
BTW funny how you were quick to talk about "for better or worse" in marriage (earlier), but yet here you are stating something completely different now, just to try to make a point. what a hypocrite! you either stand for something or you dont.

Give me a verse which says all women are not bad.(let's start here)
GIBBERISH SMOKESCREEN NONSENSE #1
FIRST you say all women are bad (Apart from your mother and siblings).
SECOND you try to bring the bible story of Adam and Eve to make your point.
THIRD i now tell you that not all women are bad and you shouldnt bring the bible to this issue UNLESS YOU CAN SHOW US WHERE IN THAT BIBLE IT IS SAYS THAT ALL WOMEN ARE BAD.
...and the above quote is your answer?!?!?!?!? are you ok sir? aint you the one bringing nonsense claim to this discussion? aint you the one claiming that all women are bad and bringing bible stories to try to buttress your claim?! if you have nothing to say, why dont you stop writing.
the exact same yeye narrative when xtian claim that there is a god and when we ask them to prove it, they reply that we should prove that it doesnt exist BWAAAAAAAAAAAH!


Race or color regardless, women are the same across this whole wide world
GIBBERISH SMOKESCREEN NONSENSE #2
FIRST you stated that when a man cant feed his family, he feels like shiiit bla bla bla, and blamed women for this.
SECOND i made you understand that this has nothing to do with women and all to do with AFRICAN SOCIETY/CULTURE who forces yeye people to get married while not being ready for marriage.
THIRD you now replied that we all need societal acceptance
FOURTH therefore i told you AGAIN to blame African society/culture for this problem, and certainly NOT women
... and the above quote is your response to that?!?!?!? are you ok sir??!?!? what does race/color/women or the whole wide world got to do with yeye people going into marriage (while not being ready for marriage) due to societal acceptance?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?

Well, like someone said "among all your family members, only your wife is not your relative"
The kind of sacrifices that your mother made for you, there is no other woman in this whole wide world who can half that. So your mother is special only to you, and not to anybody else, the same way my mother is special and to her children (me inclusive) and to nobody else.
GIBBERISH SMOKESCREEN NONSENSE #3
so now what you are claimng is that IF A WOMAN IS A GOOD MOTHER, then she automatically is a good woman (like your mother), right?!
NEWSFLASH: most women are good to their children, that does NOT automatically mean that they will be good women/wives. your mother may have been good to you but BAD AS A WOMAN/WIFE TO YOUR FATHER, duh! BTW: what made your sisters automatically good women?!
FamilyRe: Why Marriages Are Becoming Sexless And How To Save Your Own? by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:59pm On Mar 25, 2023
TalkSpaceOffice:
If I may ask, can you teach a child to walk or learn to do something? If yes, then it is wrong to say that you cannot teach a grown man/woman what to do about their relationship. The marriage relationship is an institution of discovery and learning and because human nature is dynamic and transient, the couple must be conscious and concerned about each other's world because experience in one's life in and out of marriage shapes us into a new person.
there is a HUGE difference between teaching someone what to do and making them ENJOY THAT SAME THING. for example: i can teach you how to dance salsa, but that doesnt mean you are gonna like to dance salsa... OR i can teach you how to swim, but it doesnt mean you gonna like swimming. its the same thing with LOVE, no matter how much you can show someone how to be in a r/ship, if your partner doesnt have any attraction/affection for you, then all what you will do is pointless. the love/care/affection that you are talking about is generated by SEXUAL ATTRACTION, ATTACHMENT,BRAIN/HORMONES and the INTERACTION that you have with someone. you can be with two different person and do exactly the same thing, and love will naturally blossom with one and not the other.

you CANT teach someone to love you, you CANT teach someone to be attracted to you... you can only teach a couple how to act properly in a union.
SportsRe: France Vs Netherlands 4-0 Highlights (download Video) by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:34am On Mar 25, 2023
wouldnt expect any less... dutch were non-existant and barely there!
RomanceRe: Say No To Porn Video On Phone by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:24am On Mar 25, 2023
Right now, am still looking at my brother, I don't even know what to do to him.....
why dont you pray with him, MR PASTOR....

https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/lvar.gif
FamilyRe: Once Upon A Gown by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:35pm On Mar 24, 2023
most would look great on models, but we all know how it turns out later on...... what you buy VS what you receive (African version):

RomanceRe: Dear Mama:. 2pac Is Still Alive (pics) by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:28pm On Mar 24, 2023
voltron14:
If 2pac were alive he would have aged considerably, considering he died almost 30 years ago.
exactly...only ghosts never age, lol!
RomanceRe: Where Can You Meet Good Girls? by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:22pm On Mar 24, 2023
everywhere, even in Nightclubs...

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