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yungkiz:
[b][/b]I come across this aticle on a punch news paper so I decide to share it with you guiz and know your thought..

Tunde Ajaja

It is no gainsaying that most women prefer dating men who appear confident and outspoken, not neccesary because such men are better lovers, but partly because they exhibit an aura of protection, safety and reliability for their spouses.

Notably, shy men may not be every woman's preference maybe because they appear calm and non-aggressive in situations that demand absolute exhibition of their manliness, but it now appears that women who prefer dating the macho men to shy men may be missing out on the best possible mate or the company of a better lover. This is because studies have shown that men who shy are better lovers.
No doubt, the natural attraction of females to 'confident' men has compelled some men to 'come out of their shell' in order to impress women, more so because they sometimes have to prove their masculinity with some bold and dramatic displays. How ever, if the findings of these studies are anything to go by, women who are in relationship with shy men should count themselves lucky for being in the company of better mates.

Some biologist at the Plymouth University, United Kingdom, found that men who shy the most do have the most to offer their potential lover.
In some other reports to buttress the point that there are several benefit in dating a shy guy, a post on allwomenstalk.com showed that the main chanllenge shy men have is that their spouses may need to work harder to get some information out of them because they usually do not readily share information about themselves. Also people tend to have a wrong perception of who they really are. This unlike the 'confident' guy who would want to talk about his past, present and future. The report added that the men who talk a lot about themselves, such men could put off some possible lovers with their actions for being too forward and dominating conversations.


According to the post, shy guys are also more sincere than the outspoken guys because they think deeply about their words beforehand and are more careful in their expression than those who are not and usually ready to talk as soon as situations present themselves. Also shy men were found to be less intimidating than their 'confident' partner's. Who would want everyone around to feel that they are more than they truly are.
They are considerate and are more likely to consider the inpact of their words and actions on their partner, hence, making them a preferred spouse. Also, they are less likely to cheat, not only because women tend not to consider them for relationship but also because they focus their attention on more productive things rather than chasing women,” it added.

For women who love rapt attention and a listening man to talk to, no one does it better than shy men because they usually don't and are not always eager to dominate conversations. Rather, they listen well and only talk when they feel like or when they have something better or interesting to say. This accordingly, implies that shy men respect the feelings and opinions of others. According to the post, shy men have been found to make valuable contributions in a group discussion because they spend more time meditating, and are not in a hurry to speak. Beyond these, it was also revealed that shy guys are more receptive, all making them a better lovers.


In summarising the benefits of dating a shy man, another report on amerikanki.com, said, it's believed that gurls tend to talk much more than guys, but every now and then, even women need a person that can keep silent and listen to them. They want to talk more and be listened to and any man who can afford them such would readily score some point.

A shy man will never act artificially and his words always correspond to his thought and women can be sure that shy guy means exactly what he says. Indeed it's a good reason to date a shy guy

”Shy guys aren't so talkative and probably most ladies will have to make great efforts to get along with them, just that if such men choose to talk, they are sincere and their words are meaningful and they don't bother their partner with annoying questions. Even if they have to reject people or their opinion, they do it in a polite manner.

These imply that shy guys shouldn't be ignored at all because dating a shy guy is all about advantages and these are only few of them. If you want an attentive, careful person, dating a shy guy is definitely a right idea, even if they are not the readily combat-ready men.

Commenting on the study, a professor pyschology, Toba Elegbeleyen said shy guys categorised as introverts, and that they are people who like to be quiet, studious and alone, not for the fear of publicity but for them to exhibit their internal qualities. He pointed out that such people have fantastic inner qualities and they usaully believe that they are the only ones that understand their personality better.
He said, “They are very hardworking and intelligent people because they are able to explore all their internal qualities. So it may not be wrong if somebody concludes that they are better lovers because they have the patience to live with and correct their partners in love if there is need.

They usually have internal resilience that makes them consider issue several times before they take action, and most of such actions cannot be faulted. These qualities may make them better lovers.

Truckpusher:
I thought you'll speak on my behalf instead you're speaking for ya self?

400billionman:
Mental problem

angieberry:
We never agreed on anything mrcork
Drink milk and you'll sleep fine at night
Crackhead

angieberry:
We never agreed on anything mrcork
Drink milk and you'll sleep fine at night
Crackhead

angieberry:
So why are yo telling me this?

PhockPhockMan:
http://thenationonlineng.net/breastfeeding-is-for-babies-not-husbands/

dre11:
• says husband refuses to take sex-enhancing drugs she bought for him



http://thenationonlineng.net/woman-to-court-my-hubby-is-sexually-weak/

angieberry:
Whatever that makes you sleep at night

LadyBoss1:

angieberry:
Mrcork pls lemme alone. Send me a picture of you wearing panties

rosy4u:
why dat face MrCork

angieberry:
Whatever that makes you sleep at night

angieberry:
It's the "crackhead" you're always insulting

angieberry:

rosy4u:
yea .. thanks dear

angieberry:

angieberry:

angieberry:
And you're like the big fat shiit that clogs the toilet no oofienses

Tashaamania:
I'm tired. Can you stop playing now?

KINGSAMURAI:
ok

Proffdada:
a fool and his money easily part

Tashaamania:
why don't you have sense?

Proffdada:
Try eating it so you can spell better

halfrica:
Hany i gat good news dat wee keep all ya uk and light skins girls a run for their body
Guiness wat? Astronaut just detected wid their radar that
Mars and moon has gat hawt light skin women wiv big booty
Chisos go and grab ya own copy
Hany since the women are in space they win nt occupy space and dey wee cum wiv empty brains u like and they wee kno ow to cook ur delicacy meal dar u love *uncooked rat* hmmm yum yumm yummmy yummy

Proffdada:
one eyed cockney

Tashaamania:
it's only in your dreams I would.

halfrica:
Hany i gat good news dat wee keep all ya uk and light skins girls a run for their body
Guiness wat? Astronaut just detected wid their radar that
Mars and moon has gat hawt light skin women wiv big booty
Chisos go and grab ya own copy
Hany since the women are in space they win nt occupy space and dey wee cum wiv empty brains u like and they wee kno ow to cook ur delicacy meal dar u love *uncooked rat* hmmm yum yumm yummmy yummy

KingEbukasBlog:
According to Naziru Muktar who shared the photos online, this mighty hippopotamus had been terrorizing some farmers in the community - in Dadinkowa dam Gombe State - and they had to hunt it down today August 6th.

http://www.kingebuka.com/2015/08/see-photos-of-mighty-hippopotamus.html


cc : lalasticlala

dharay99:

attention given expired.!!
Now join dat samurai son of urs in d bush.



#fucck off#

Tashaamania:
You wish

pbs4real:
ask her