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Famousqueen:
She is making sense, a woman can endure with a struggling man for a year or two, that doesn't mean she is a gold digger, i use to think it is easy until i find myself in it, i started dating my bf when he had nothing, i gave him virtually all i had just to establish him by starting a business since there is no job, , and it been one story from another, it looks as if i am just pouring water in the sea, i had to give him an ultimatum to be a man or i walk out of the relationship, my business has gone down, because i have been using the money that i am suppose to invest in my business, to invest in his business, i have been hoping things will change, true be told, i am getting frustrated, so i am waiting till the time i gave him, to either button up, or i walk out, cause i know that i have tried

You are an angel investor. Keep the good work.

Invest in me at the expiration of the time given to him

gloria34:
I Dont have d world but when i said broke boys, i was refering to guys who have nothing doing. Its not a matter of circumstance but they believe some jobs are just too low 4 them. They think jobs of 25k is too low so they will rather stay at home. I really Dont like it

I'm a broke boy but I can't do a job of 25k. It's better I stay at home doing nothing than be bossed around for 25k 8-5pm daily.

If I exhaust all my energy for a job of 25k and fail to satisfy my girl, of what importance is the 25k. It's better I relax being broke but give her a good treat like that of Martin0 profile picture.

That way, she will collect money from rich guys and give to me. Blessed is the hands that collects than the hands that refuse the give.

Chi59:
Are you saying that I give up on relationships?
Should I confine my self to a lifetime of loneliness simply because I have a genetic disorder?

Of course, I might stay single for a few more years but then I would love to find love and settle down someday.

No, I'm not saying you should stay single. But to understand that for now, you really wanted it to work and it's not working. Relax your mind on it, give preference to yourself and you'd see it work.

Chi59:
I took a break for almost a full year. Fell in love with my then best friend (the fourth guy) who wooed me for the greater part of that year. The moment I agreed to his proposal, he grew cold feet.

I'm exhausted.

What you need the most now is to be happy. Considering your status, being happy is more beneficial than having a boyfriend that might be giving you some emotional problem.

Why not choose to stay single and happy. There are many things you can achieve being single and happy. You have to accept relationship isn't working for you. Come to terms with that hard truth and go for plan B. So what is your plan B? To keep moving from one to another?

Chi59:
The truth has robbed me of 4 good guys. How many more will I lose to the truth?

Why not stop thinking of going into one. You definitely feel you have everything but lacking in relationship. This thought has built up curiosity in you, hence, you want to be loved by the opposite sex irrespective of your genotype.

If you must go into one again, then don't be open about your genotype and don't allow for intimacy. especially unproductive ones. You and I knows it's too risky to hide this from your partner.

I would recommend you take a break from trying to go into a new relationship.

faithfull18:
Lol, he is free to wrap his arguments around my data business, it's called publicity which is good for business.
I get to enjoy free publicity looking at it from the angle of a business woman

I know this is what you are enjoying.

By the time we ubunja's followers will come for you, you will enjoy good publicity. Better leave him for us abeg.


@Ubunja, please drop one episode, leave faithfull18, she is enjoying the attention. Also, stop giving saffia the attention she is looking for, get her out of your signature. Stay focused bro and keep doing what you are doing.

Faithfull18, leave ubunja for us. We like him like that.

martinsfm:
lol, 150k jare, dont let them bobo you.

Lol, doesn't worth it then. I currently earn more than this. Is it everyone they pay this or there is a higher pay after 6 months?

Their pay isn't good considering the fact that they are among the top companies in this country and are even consultants to government. Even small IT firms pay more than this.

Well, experience should be placed on top of echelon of needs when looking for employment.

KODACK:
How much is the salary then?

Don't Bobo us....... Bikonu,mbok,ejo,danla,aguga,joo

I have been interested in knowing how much they pay. If it is less than 300k, they better live me make I dey where I dey. Though I would need the experience of working with PwC. They have got the things I need.

Oyindidi:
3k too small, the real and fake floxy/flozy dey find beta catch. too many thieves for NL these days. If no be school fees na hunger

Lol, I wasn't offering to solve her problem. I offered to help her get the gift if transport was going to be a challenge.

I understand the amount being sought for is a big one and I am sure you have taken care of it.

flozy2020:
Thanks and God bless you for your concern,but it didn't workout, though I never knew u were serious. I thought u were mocking me.

This is hilarious.

Anyway, there's no problem.

Preshy561:
Finance deh sweet with romance.

I concur.

Preshy561:
Yes, money shouldn't be basics of a true relationship, same way sex shouldn't be.

Invariably, if sex must be in a relationship, then money must be considered to play same or equivalent role as sex?

Kindly confirm this

Preshy561:
That's an insult and wouldn't tolerate that.

I don't insult hustling broke guys, rather the lazy ones who come on here to bash ladies every minute of the day, taking out their frustrations on ladies instead of looking out for themselves and working hard to better their lives.
Being broke is a temporary situation and nothing wrong with it, but staying broke and not doing anything about it is not sensible.

You are becoming emotional

Preshy561:
Won't be bad if I meet it at 0.00, so long the good deeds has been done.
Lol

So you are no longer interested in the money/30bn? Funny how you accepted money shouldn't be the basis of a relationship.

Preshy561:
Not for everyone.

Should work on you because the way and manner you've been insulting broke boys is something else.

Preshy561:
If she likes, let her wet from nose, as long as she didn't give you a go ahead, it's called rape.
Why won't there be evidence to nail the rapist?? Those ones being jailed everyday, the evidence falls from heaven.

Once she sees money, she won't know when she spread her leg like PDP umbrella. It's very easy.

Preshy561:
Do 10bn give away on sections of nl first, let people win and comment.

If I do this, I won't have 30bn again. I want you to meet my account statement reading 30bn.

flozy2020:
The owner of the drugs have already call it a quit. Incase if you're not aware.

As at the time I made the offer to you, she was still willing to give the drugs out. I know this because I mentioned her and she accepted to give it out to you.

Preshy561:
Do you have 30billion?

Yes I do. So come to Abj let me spend 2bn on you

Preshy561:
If the girl reports him to the police under rape case, shey you go fit defend am?

So if she says rape, the guy will automatically be jailed without investigation? And how is having sex with her rape?

Some ladies get wet by mention of material gains. So it is not even hard to get her spread her leg by spending few cash on her. Do you know that what got most ladies laid is just some hangouts that the guys spend less than 10k?

Preshy561:
Who makes 5k hair in this buhari regime?
Even 1 attachment is 1.5k, then, a lady will use like 3 coupled with workmanship which is almost 3-5k.

Let's call it 10k for braiding.

And if it's a weavon, you should keep atleast, 25k for your gf.

What's your role in relationship if you can't give your woman money for these infinitesimals

I will feel like a fool knowing that what is keeping my relationship is money. One can buy weavon for 25k. Most ladies use one weavon for a very long time.

Spending money in a relationship isn't uncommon, however, if money is the first thing a lady considers in any relationship, then she's not worth it. Most of these ladies talking about money here are broke.

flozy2020:
U called me criminal, when u don't even know me, anyway thank you and God bless u.

I offered to send 3k for you to go and collect the drugs and foods from ifyalways, you ignored the mention and here you are ranting.

Do you think we all are fools here? People offered to help willingly yet you didn't see it as anything. All you are here doing is defending yourself. The more you talk, the more you seem to be guilty. What exactly is your problem.

If you want to prove yourself, then attach pictures and videos else seek for the help you need.

I am about getting angry with you ma'am.

Yigiyaga:
I dont doubt ur claims,i will find out just by having a 30minute chat. But its really appalling just like some guys run up and down for sex. But theres no sex sweeter than that with a person you have creative intellectual romance with....sex becomes an escape for both of you after development targets are met.

All these because of sex? Yigiyaga you don turn to nairaland sex therapist.

Of recent your activities has been evolving. Weldone and abeg, don't trust what these people say with their mouth. Believe their actions only

Preshy561:
If you can't afford a Woman, there's no need asking her out.
Stay on your lane, it's not that hard.

So asking a woman out is about money? Alright, I have money, transport yourself to Abuja queen.

LegitGuy22:
You should have given her the sub, then u invite her immediately again and promise her heaven and earth, and bang her, and stop giving her money, using one excuse or another, when she gets tired of your excuses, she will walk away.

You be legit guy. Since she needs money, the guys should turn her to a prostitute. Give money and get sex. After all, he is working and that money is nothing.

Preshy561:
Pervert.

Ordinary 500?

You men are becoming something else, you don't have anything to offer if not money, yet, you guys feel it should also be a woman thing.
No wonder you guys are always being emasculated, yet, you keep crying fowl.

N500 is not ordinary because from giving 500, it has accelerated to sub. The sub is about N2k. From it, the guy will have to plait her hair which might be about 5k, then school feeding money and handouts.

500 is not a small money. I have always know that dating a student is something every guys should avoid. Leave students for students.
Go for ladies that knows what life is, that way you will enjoy it. All these nonsense about independent ladies is trash, those ladies need men every now and then and you won't even spend nothing.

victorian:
Op na story you dey yarn! Better go for Uganda babes or other African babes or better still white babes .

Even me , with the businesses I have here and there. If a man wooing me , or I'm about to date doesn't spend on me , he's on his own! I don't date stingy or broke men or guys

My man knows ,hes gat to give me some trips that only money can create . and he's OK with it . Better soup na money garnish am .

Take it or leave it . I no dey forbid money or enjoyment things .

@The emboldened

1. You don't have any business and you are below average.

2. You don't have any justification to call anyone broke.

You don't deserve a rich guy and I am sure you haven't met one before and you won't meet one. You know why?

emelda86:
I wonder where u guys meet such ladies...

Are you not one? How do I know you are different?

Momoney77:
The same lies that has gotten men heart broken over the decades and centuries. That's same stale lies she's trying to peddle here in a thread that has disproved the lies in black and white.

Honestly. Most of those guys up there arguing nonsense don't have money. How do these guys feel knowing that what attracted a lady to them is money. Personally, I won't feel like a human knowing that what attracted my girl is my job, car, and earnings. What if same money get's exhausted, she will leave or what.

Any lady that advocates for a rich man belongs to one of these two category of ladies:

1. The hustling ladies that now understands making money isn't easy. These people want's to settle with an already made man so they don't have to keep hustling all their lives.

2. The ones that came from a poor or average home. They know what they went through getting to the point they are and wouldn't want to pass through such condition again. To these people, money means everything and there is no man without money.

austyn0:
I read your replies on the other thread of this same op and it is very much the same as this one, pointing to one major aspect, "Money" which in my opinion is senseless from you.

There are guys that have money, I am friends with so many of 'em but seek for that one woman that would care for their family, build a great family with him. These set of guys are so nice that they end up heart broken by that lady he thought loves him only to find out she has been jumping on a dick outside while lavishing his money inside. So, it is not all about money hun.

Ubunja is right with his topics, I should give him an 80% pass mark because it is the truth, let's face it. I am reserving the remaining 20% for the guys that will follow these advices from him and go the extra mile of laying their hands on the lady in the name of not becoming "Mr Nice Guy"

Don't mind that lady. She thinks it's all about money.

They tell guys to hustle and leave women to make money and afterwards women will be running after them. But they failed to tell them the kind of ladies that will be running after them.

Some of us have the money but can't think of settling down with ladies that came to us simply because we have money and/or good job.

It's not about money bro, some of these ladies leave guys with money for broke boys that understands their emotions. Ubunja is always correct.

Ignore those broke boys talking trash. Soon they will understand