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Village people. See how the life of airforce1 and what he does in the cyberspace got you frustrated.

Many have argued especially in this section that anyone can choose to lead their life the way they so desire. While the activities of airforce1 thus far has not infringed on your human right, I think you should allow him do what he chose to do with his life.

In as much as you don't come here insulting people, whatever you do is your damn business.

Like the poster above said, the pap is not done. Take it back to the fire and stir vigorously for 10 minutes.

Thanks me later.

Best chef indeed

TheeDetective:
From your last reply to @mrphysics, I have only 3 things to tell you

It's either your guy is married where he is
He has someone else he is seeing in his location
He is not into you but just wasting your time

Open your eyes and don't be deceived and as your mum has rightly said, time waits for no one

ENOUGH SAID

Amaraokafor

Listen to this please.

Amaraokafor:
He doesn't hustle everyday. No matter how a man hustle will it be that bad not to see his, woman for 8weeks?not even an hour spared?

It seems your mind is made up already like I said in my first post. In that case, move on.

Let me ask; when you tell him you want to visit, what's his excuse?

Amaraokafor:
Lol. You got it all wrong. You are calling monies that is not even the issue here at alllllll. You're going to far with what the issues is 20k,60k,100k?This are huge amount of course but although I'm not known to poverty, I'm that lady that says, "All high na high, weda Hennessy or Alomo "

The issue here is I Dont see this guy like I need to. Apart from the calls which I'm obviously tired of already, it's gotten to a point where I need his physical attention especially now that distance is no longer a barrier. But what I get is excuses upon excuses.

Again who ask him to spend money on eateries? At my age sef I don't like those artificial places. I'm local to the core. Few wraps of amala and I'm OK. What's my business with eateries?

His problem isn't all that money. He can spend any amount on you. That guy is hustling. His second name is hustler. He hasn't seen him self at that stage where he will give much time to romance. He is everything a man is but then he is hustling.

Even if you are with him, when work calls, he will leave you and face work. Your work is getting him back to relationship. He needs to know it's not all about work. Teach him to give time and value to people.

Amaraokafor:
We are presently in same state. He talks a lot but more observant. He is an introvert. But I also noticed he is deeply for calculating... He has explanations to everything because he tackles all corners just in case. So such a person knows what he is doing but one may not know it.

You have said a lot about him, but the bold sentence is everything you need to know about him.


That guy doesn't go after other women, so be patient with him. All I can say is be patient with him.

EzeDictator:




Come On Shut Up Your Mouth There...



What Do You Know About Diligence

I thought you are smart as you claimed to be. Now, you don't even know what due diligence is. No need to continue bro, you don win.

greggng:
Same way they challenged apc to name looters and they did . They accused them of being one sided.

That's the sad thing about it. They always call for it. And APC won't stop surprising them.

EzeDictator:



That One Is Clearly A Teenager. Look At His Use Of Words sef

A teenager? Alright, Mr. Old Man, how old are you?

A little due diligence would have helped you.

ImaIma1:
Were you paid to hype this person?

Funny.

ImaIma1:
Mrphysics how much?

How much for?

ImaIma1:
You are right.A woman naturally loves but submission doesn't come easy. That's probably why the submission part is emphasized.

As long as they both love each other, they should be able to work out what works for them. All these guys acting macho and demanding submission or slavery up and down don't understand yet. They haven't got the memo.

And it is not about feminism or equality but about a woman also being a human being with a mind of her own, dreams,ambitions, strong will,etc.

You are right. To me, women submits easily than men. Men loves easily than women. I don't know why its the other way round to you shaaa.

Ifakiland:
This is not a case of having guys call a girl...she knows the guys dad and they so close she told him her dream!! That's cheating bro nothing more...

Lol, it isn't cheating bro. Some parents wants to get a woman for their son. And you know how married men pester these young ladies. You are not in her shoes, so you may not know where it pains.

If she's cheating, then her life and her cheat.

Ifakiland, you sound like one that has community of women like Kind solomon

Amaraokafor:
You're nailed it!
But someone with such problems shouldn't aim too high now.The issues are these, I presume, he prioritize things that are irrelevant.

Check the guy, he has a vision and he wants to attain it before anything else. That's how they do. They don't prioritize marriage or relationship and they have been told that relationship will cost them alot. As much as possible, they tend to keep their relationship at the phone level.

He isn't prioritizing things that are irrelevant, that guy has so many things/people depending on him. He is very calculative of how much your constant presence would cost him. So he postpones your meeting with him.

Their type are smart, intelligent, and calculative. They didn't get an easy way to their money, he suffered to earn it and he wants to set things right before going for things that will tend to 'decrease' that money.

ImaIma1:
The woman should submit while the man should love just as the Bible put it.

When he loves her, he has her interest and well being at heart so she is not scared that she is under a man that is only about his selfish interests.

People should just do the right thing. We all know the right thing but need people to teach/force us to do it.

Love is required from both couples and submission is necessary for both of them too. There is no reason the woman will only 'submit' and not love and the man will 'love' and not submit.

Any same sex 'relationship' disgusts me.

I will recommend a strict rejection of their proposals. Maybe you should stop taking gifts from guys. Save from the normal restaurant/bar drinks guys take each other to, please do not accept any other form of gifts.

Also, you may consider taking down your picture

Amaraokafor:
Well, truth is even when the distance became shortened. I noticed the same issue still lingers.Its funny how a man says, "I'm lonely,wish you are here... Blah blah blah blah... " and when you say, "Let's see then.. "He says, "Okay... "

That okay will happen in three months time!

Are you sure he's financially stable?

All I see is a guy with many responsibility with the demand for his income more than the income. That guy has a lot bothering him about his finances.

Ifakiland:
So in other words you're dating two guys abi?
Smh forking hoe....get the fork out of my sight u disgust me....see you feeling fly talking not knowing who to go for?? Leave the jobless guy alone, he ure probably the one hindering his blessings....witch!!!

Bros, life is good.

Let's be real, everyday, ladies get countless approaches/request/proposal etc from guys. Do you expect her to put her egg in one basket?

Even you bro, do you call only one girl? . She asked for advice, it's either you give or you leave. Your comment is uncalled for.

Juliuss01:
Thanks guys, enjoying ur views

The case has been settled already.

If you know the history of the one without job now and you can confirm that when he was working he didn't lead an extravagant life, then go ahead and stick with him. Something big will happen to him soon. But if he has a history of leading a wayward and extravagant life while things were still working for him, sister, run. Such people hardly rise again.

Like people opined, though money plays an important role in any marriage, only love and trust can sustain it. Something is telling me that the rich guy is being forced to marry. Perhaps marry someone that will help him lead a better life. Better run before something as heavy as caterpillar fall on you in the marriage. Money isn't everything.

Go for the one you love.

pyyxxaro:
The next person has something useful to say

Lol, you sound like you don't believe the story.

Just wait for the I won't marry a broke guy team to arrive. Seeth thou a woman wanting to settle down with someone who is still looking for a job over someone who has a job and coming from a rich home. Trust me, this is scarce judging from the kind of comment we read from these ladies.

Jamie90:
The op is gay.

You need to reexamine yourself and confirm you are a human. After that, check to confirm your brain is functioning well, I strongly think you need a mental baptism and psychological liberation.

A section where some females have a male account and some guys register as women. It becomes a waste of time arguing with some anonymous gendered species.

I can see some insane people with no opinion shouting asslicking. Like seriously?

Op, are you looking for a reason to end a relationship which you know has already ended?

You know he won't change and from all indications, you have done your best to save the already dead relationship. Stop wasting the damn time, end the relationship and reset his brain.

Trust me, you will be helping the guy have a rethink when you call it an end. Until then, the guy will think he is doing the right thing. Also, the guy may have replaced you with someone else and waiting for you to realize the ugly truth and move on.

Preshy561:
yes you are.

Lol. There's no correlation between Physics and journalism. A physicists can't be a journalist. They are two poles that only meet at infinity.


I am still a student, in my penultimate year. If you have any journalism work for me, do let me know. I will appreciate such kind gesture from you.

Preshy561:
wooow!!
this would have been better when done on national tv.
what do you think mr journalist?

Mrphysics is not a journalist

Well, I do not think that there is any Nairalander both guest and members who do not know Donstan18. In romance section, he is well known and only hated by mediocres.

Simply put, he is the Nwaamaikpe of romance section. Though they are two different persons but on a high level, they have the same personality.
His boldness, confidence, and maturity are traits to be desired. Though I do not like seeing him arguing or exchanging posts with some people who do not worth his time but truth be told, he has done well in solving some problems in this section. You will soon know how.

At the end of 2017, they rose in high number of people who only come to nairaland to insult people. Being a faceless forum, they took advantage of it to insult people. This section were divided between genders; like divorced couples, the males and females stood apart. The insults and arguements increased. I thought taking the easy and adversorial role would solve it, I was wrong, Donstan18 knew the right way to solve this problem. Kudos to him.

Let's just say, He is the romancelander of the year. I watch as some undergraduates insult people here. Most people that all they have is nairaland romance section took to insults to air their views. But now, it has reduced and I think the majority of the work was done by Donstan18. His comments helped bring some insane people to sanity.


Have his comments brought you to sanity? Have you had any encounter with him? Trust me, he says it as it should be said though like his signature posits, he does so in different ways. I read most of his comments, I think he deserves to be commended.

Lets here your view about Donstan18.

millyajay:
Good day sir , I'm also interested in fiverr,I sent u a pm.. kindly reply sir .. thanks and God bless you

Why not read the first 10 pages of this thread. After reading up to page 10, you will be well grounded to start your fiverr journey. If you still have any question after reading the first 10 page, kindly ask and someone would be kind enough to assist you. Sending him a PM will solve no problem. Imagine the number of PMs he will be receiving, with virtually all of them asking for the same thing.

Help him to help you. After reading up to page 10, you would have gotten an answer to your question.

Best wishes

ugohdignity111:
I just joined fiverr newly.... Can somebody please help me review my account www.fiverr.com/christianmiles7
Thanks and God bless

Hi,am miles,are you looking for an engaging and a professional that have a passion in the field of creative writing,proofreading,typing and transcription for over four years.you have come to the right place!am now offering my high quality expert services here on fiverr as little as $5.feed my creative hunger and book your gig today.am always available to meet to your request 24/7.

Look at the above, please look at it and edit properly. Start new sentence with a capital letter. Your use of (am) isn't professional. There should be a space after the use of comma and the next word. Then after Full-stop, start the next word with a capital letter. You didn't take your time to write this. Please do.

Secondly, I looked at your gig and your gig titles were not conveying any message. Give them a meaning. Let it deliver a message to your readers.


Best wishes

I have been on fiverr for a year now and I can tell you, there are no lazy jobs in there.

If you are not ready to work, don't go in else you will come out shouting that Nigerians are not making it on fiverr

ImaIma1:
Most of these men are too proud and believe that submitting to a man means he has to control their lives.
Many hide under the guise of submission and treat the woman like she is nothing.
There has to be a meeting point.

I agree with you. Can you define with specifics this meeting point?

ThePost:
Why are you bothered about uncleared funds? Your money is your money, after all. Having a target is basically to monitor one's progress or otherwise.

Nobody really understands the yardstick those bots use to measure the analytics anymore. Personally, I care less about response rate and focus on more important metrics which is my rating.

I understand that there's hardly anything we can do to reduce the ads, so opening a new thread could proof to be counterproductive after all.

I have accepted the reality. Let's keep pushing this thread and continue to chip in our bits.

God bless us all.

Sure. Thanks bro

MrHim:
Exactly! That's the same thing I am facing. My response rate had dropped form 100 to 98%. Same with completed orders.

You have to respond within 15 minutes less the bots mark you down. I also noticed that cancelation of gigs adversely affects one's account: I had a recent experience with a customer who made a large custom order and refused to communicate for over 48 hours despite my persistent messages to him. The chap decided to cancel the order, says he wanted to test his card or something - can you imagine? Anyway, I sent him the cancelation request and after that I have been on 'late 90s' ratings since.

Going forward, always insist that they CONTACT YOU FIRST before placing an order to see if you are available. This is good for level 2 sellers and above as you ought to be getting sales organically.

Finally, I noticed if you optimize your gigs before evaluation day - descriptions, images, videos and tags - the system will rank you on first page within 24 hours and you will start getting organic sales. Provide your account is in the GREEN of course. This is from my own experience thus far.

@ThePost, I concur, kindly create the thread, thank you.

I am a level 2 seller and my gig is sits constantly on front page. I do not look for buyer's (For now), as I have overload of orders, I reject more orders than I accept.

I am aware of the fact that cancellation affects ratings (I am a level 2 seller, so I should know that) and It was written boldly on my gig description. I haven't gotten orders without the buyer first contacting me. It has only happened for 0.5% of my sales. I cancel an order when the client request for multiple revision. I don't have the time to attend to perfectionists and other broke sellers. When I notice the client is hard to please, I will cancel it and move to the next order. I stopped cancelling this way because my buyers are well behaved.

Thanks for replying bro, happy selling