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SilverChinedu:
Millions of people use belt to flog their children. You concede that is wrong

Its completely wrong

Ladyhippolyta88:
Other forms of disciplinary actions exist e.g. Pick pin,sit on the air they were effective to me more than flogging.

Children will play with these things.

Ladyhippolyta88:
I don't support flogging there are other forms of punishment and I agree with you when you said there is need for other disciplinary actions,they are children nothing a little talk and some other forms of disciplinary actions cannot do for a child they can easily be corrected.You can flog them they are your kids and never forget to build the best relationship with them.

Sure. Building relationships with them is very necessary and the best. Kids don't have the mental maturity to understand some deep things about their actions. Until they are 18 and take responsibility of everything they do, they are liable to be flogged or cautioned.

Like I said, you can't exempt flogging by thinking talks alone can change anything.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Clap for yourself sir you would make a good daddy.Good for you.

No be only clap but sing for myself.

The point is, I have stayed with kids, the ones that they don't flog and the ones that gets flogged. How many Nigerians know how to raise disciplined children without flogging?
If you must not beat them, then you must be equipped with the right disciplinary actions to help in managing their excesses. In fact, my wife must know how to us her hands in bringing those children to their right senses when they misbehave. Every other things from anyone isn't necessary.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Nor be lie I talk this is Nigeria let the world know your country for great things, and you can flog them if you like they are your kids.

Now you come. My kids, my beating.

But it's not always. And for the ladies, there are places you don't beat them. I am a professional when it comes to beating .

Secondly, it is not good to flog someone with belt, cultlass and the rest. Only use cane and use it effectively

Ladyhippolyta88:
Good for you if you injure the child say you are an expert.And don't bring that statement of this is Africa because it is only when we want to do negative things that we are quick to use those words.

I can't injure my child because I know the way and manner to flog. I have been flogged without injury and I have beating people without a single scar on their body. It did not start today ooo. I was a boarder all through secondary school days.

I am an expert when it comes to flogging. I can use my hands very well and cane too. I know when and how to do it though I don't have the mind to do it to other people's children.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Good for you if you injure the child say you are an expert.And don't bring that statement of this is Africa because it is only when we want to do negative things that we are quick to use those words.

What is the above, abeg stop that. You really think you are talking to a dumb?

This is Nigeria and we must be Nigerians and nothing.

I am sure I will flog my kids when they do certain things.

Preetiex:
true true if a prophet told me my skin will be clear now due to d marks on my body wen i was a teenager i would disagree,if i no wash plate na belt,if i wash no arrange for cupboard, na wahala & it made me hate my parents then

No one uses belt to flog a child. Such person is abusing the Child. How can you flog a kid with belt and a lady for that. There are things you don't do to a certain people.

Depending on the age of the child, once a kid is up to a particular age, anything beating you did to the child can leave a bad memory on him.


Me, I must flog them when they mess up ooo. All these stories nah rubbish.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Oya kill the child na,if you beat children too much it is abuse and such children can resent you.You can use other ways to correct a child instead of leaving an injury in the name of smacking.The child could even get used to it and see it as a no big deal.

And who told you that beating will leave injury. If you don't know how to beat or flog them, go and learn.

Abeg, leave all these gospel of abuse. I will beat them when necessary. Sometimes, they just need to cry, they need to see this cane. This is Nigeria and not Africa.

The worst is that everyone in Nigeria have beating their child.

DejiSantos:
So where do you draw the line at abuse?

Or is abuse not a word in your vocabluary.

I made it clear that I do not need anyone's opinion on that.

Leesah:
lmao. my head is banging please I don't want to laugh too much

Who is banging your head?

Anyone's decision is irrelevant here. I will flog/beat my children whenever I dim it necessary to correct them using that method. I don't care how it is done in US, Ghana or Germany.

coolshegs10:
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My new account has been opened since November, just 3 works so far. Help me sir.

There is nothing more bro, your account is getting order already. All you need is to always visit Buyers Request Page and also edit your gig search tag