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donstan18:
You have a point, but what if someone calls you a thief in public when you are not?


Just asking, no slam intended.

Exactly my point bro. I have seen ladies that I can feed their family call me broke because I don't show off. If you see seun on the road and being a quiet time, you might call him broke guy and he won't pick offense in that. Rather, he will be angry that you called him that in the first place. I mean why should it be the first line of attack?

Same like approaching a lady and call her ashawo

themonk:
Your personal text reads: "kill the baby in you let the man be born"

I hope you are intelligent enough to know that you cannot be a feminist or complain about the subserviency of fellow women to men and still have a quote like that in your personal text.

You are putting men in the A-side of gender equality negotiations with writings like that. You should have written something like "kill the baby in you, let the woman be born" if you feel the social gender of women is not less desirable.

Preach on

kimbraa:
Seems the truth hurts. If I'm not a whòre, and someone calls me that... I can never pick offence. That you took offence simply because you were called "Broke" means you're actually broke but in the stead of picking offence, go and work.

By law of mathematical induction, it means that for someone to have called you a LovePeddler, then you are a LovePeddler? How we react to it is subjective and differs from one person to another.


Secondly, why do you think that by this post I am lazy or trying to find an excuse

It's behaviours like this that makes guys show off and how has it changed anything, rather, their fakeness have seen ladies turn to feminist?

sekxyqueen:
go and make money and stop giving excuses for being broke

Please which excuse am I making?

Why do you guys feel all nairaland guys are broke?

Hey Guys,

We are used to being called broke guys by the ladies. This name has been resisted and yet ladies still use the same word for guys.
The recent advent of sex dolls which has taken over the cyber space have seen ladies call guys broke. I read with pain the analysis made on nairaland of how nairaland guys are broke and how only about 0.8% of nairalanders can afford 100k in their bank accounts.


Well ladies, how do you feel when a guy call you a hole?, I really do not know how comfortable you are when someone addresses you as a hole. But that is exactly how guys feel when they are called broke ass niggas. You will agree with me that the society and everyone is fighting against guys calling or addressing ladies as holes, if we all agree to stop that, why is no one telling you guys to stop calling us broke guys?

My opinion
Guys: Please stop calling women holes
Ladies: Please stop calling guys broke ass niggas especially nairaland guys.

I was reading a comment by biafranbushboy (I actually enjoy his comments) where he identified one female moniker that always insult guys due to their finances. Also, the insults given to nairaland guys made airforce1 (my guy for life) to upload pictures with loads of cash just to shut some mouth here.

Lastly, I have read with pity the sentence if you don't have money, hide your face. This sentence is frequently used here on nairaland, guys let's not measure our worth by our bank account.

Thank you and a happy sunday

Stop her from driving. The more you think about it, the more likely it is to occur again.

Your village people are looking for a way to cast something in you.
If I were you, I will stop thinking about it and stop her from driving for the mean time

AROZIBE:
THEY USE IT AS IF THEY CREATED IT MEAN WHILE THEY CANT PRODUCE TOOTHPICK

Lol

vernalsage:
Can you sell $100? With mynd44 as escrow?

I need to sell all once sir. $189

Mynd44:
Just bought $200.

Need just $100 now

I want to sell all boss.

Mynd44:
Yes
5673

Oga myndd44,
the guy need escrow for you?
If you need more, I have got about $189

Today, we saw two reposts from Aisha Buhari.
Well, the account has been hacked by cybergangs and paid PDP cyber gangs

Must a sex doll be fair?

This seems to be a thin albino girl and not a sex doll

Due to past life and experiences, some people have come to see cheating as normal or something that happens by occurrence.

Just like someone said above, cheating is the worst thing one can do to his/her partner.

Social media is very powerful. The way people use it as if their life depends on it

Oyindidi:
Sorry about that, MrPhysics

Pity your fellow woman

Oyindidi:
My sister , I'm being careful not to be judgemental but op is not humble. If the husband should create his own thread here , you'll understand what I'm talking about.

I am a guy oo Mr Physics

Oyindidi:
I wonder how a mother can sit back and watch her child stay out of school. Everything I earn is for my son. I am working for my son, his happiness is my gain.

Op, needs to be humble. The husband is really trying to be with a self-centered woman like her.

She must have seen a lot. You know she will not completely say everything here.

From what she have written, she have seen a lot.

She isn't self centered, kindly take a look at some words coming from the husband.

Laeroy:
Yes I do love, however I don't want to mistake love for foolishness, I resigned my well paying job for marriage, I remember how hellish that year was for me.........So he said I should start a laundry business, he made out the plan but I was the one who paid for the shop and bought necessary equipments in it.....Both of us are the only one running it, although he works somewhere else....but his net income is actually very small cos his salary has been mortgaged....

I'm the one who does the bulk of the laundry job from washing to starching and iron, coupled with running the house and taking care of our child, So I insisted That we will do the job equally (what I mean Is if I'm starching he must starch as I can't be only the one starching), he sticks only to ironing which I also do....so he said.....I should be the one doing the bulk of the job and it must be for feeding purposes, I said I cannot which he then said I can leave if I can't...

I insisted dat if he can't help me with domestic responsibilities.....I can't help him with providing feeding allowance (this is only wat I do) for the family...

I think leaving now is playing to his tune. Why not disappoint him by involving his family and his pastor. Men respect their pastors words and also that of their family.

You really need to be relieved of some of the things you are doing. He has turned you to a house slave and without harsh words. Again, divorce only leaves you vulnerable to unnecessary thoughts.

Please do involve your parents and his parents too. Things like this usually get settled even worst things, so yours will be settled and everything will return back to normal. Pay the school fees of the child as it will give you upper hand during any peace meetings. You need to show people how irresponsible he is to his duties.

Again, God makes away even in difficult situations. So sorry for what you are going through.

To add, if you know his good friend, call the person and talk to him. You don't need to go through this alone.

Angy55:
Funny how bloggers tag every intimate picture of both genders as pre-wedding shot.

Even without being told, you should know that this isn't a prewedding photoshoot.
Do you mind everything you see on nairaland?

This is a sex doll pre-wedding photoshoot

Before Next Week runs out, the whole news will fade away like TSTV

This Mumu people that made me waste my money on Gotv that I am not getting any value for.

They will come and make noise and then gain public sympathy and disappear.


Can we use TSTV to checkmate the activities of Herdsmen? if no, they should include it before coming out again

Lol. We are wiser now.
No Atiku

Gloryr:
will message u

Alright boss. waiting your mail

Gloryr:
you got it wrong buddy....money is just 25% of the ingredients for a good fulfilling marriage....love is 7%...the balance of 68% is all about trust,compatibility,respect and honesty.....been married for 4years....its not easy...u honestly don't wanna know brother.

I surely want to know brother. Strongly want to know

Gloryr:
you got it wrong buddy....money is just 25% of the ingredients for a good fulfilling marriage....love is 7%...the balance of 68% is all about trust,compatibility,respect and honesty.....been married for 4years....its not easy...u honestly don't wanna know brother.

I want to experience what you are having now and still strong. Irrespective of what you are seeing in marriage, trust me, you are solving it with your wife. I know its not easy and I really look forward to building a great home. Really can't wait to get married but the worst is that I don't even have a girlfriend. lol


I accept the percentages above, its all about understanding, trust, respect, honesty, etc. I have been in a lovely home where marriage was just smooth. No hassles, no outburst, happy children, and everything was just working perfectly. I really can't wait to build one.

Gloryr:
enjoy yourself buddy...discover your calling ......marriage is a damn trap.....dont be in a hurry...its not as sweet as it looks.

Regards

Thanks bro. We all know its not easy as it looks but it's something that must surely be done especially for me. Even relationships are not easy to handle, how much more marriage. In marriage, everyone becomes interested in your choice.

When you choose and your parents disapprove, it becomes an issue to handle unlike girlfriend that no one has a say on your choice.

Well, we are thinking about it and considering it. If money comes, somethings about marriage can be easily solved. For now, we are just praying for God to bless us with money.

homebase:
Well, i just got demoted to level 1 from level 2 seller badge.

No thanks to completed order cancellation from some scammer buyers.

Also no thanks to some stupid buyers who won't read the gig description to know what you are
actually offering before placing order and you have to cancel the order.


Fiverr management won't even listen to seller side of the story before dropping
some percentage from ones order completion rate.


Fiverr at time can be very frustrating despite giving it your best and all.


I think i will focus more on my affiliate marketing since am getting
passive sales and commission here.

Everyone of us experience this. The thought of knowing that I will be demoted from a level I earned is something else. Though I wasn't demoted by it changes nothing.

The most affected people are the TRS who got demoted to Level 2 and will now have to wait for 14 days fund clearance period

Joseid:
Hello MrPhysics
Your story is inspiring! I've read three of your threads and I just couldn't help being motivated.
Can I send you an email so we can have some conversation? I'd like to learn some things in private.

Go ahead boss

Ladyhippolyta88:
You are buying her,brideprice was initiated at a time when women were seen as commodities if it isn't wrong then let us start paying groom price.

How it was initiated doesn't matter. Just like Christmas which was founded on some historical ceremonies and made to replace people going to commit sin.

Like I said, the value and the meaning is what matters. Secondly, you can't pay groom price because the price you pay is being under the man. Answering his name, having to carry pregnancy for 9 months and nurse the babe for 6 months. Isn't that enough price being paid by women.

If I were you guys, I would even advocate increment on the price considering the huge sacrifice you guys go through. Think about this