Oluromantic: It's low self esteem. The feeling of not being good enough as they are. Same with cosmetic surgery. You won't believe if I tell you Tonto dike has serious low self esteem. That's d reason for her ranting bitterness as defence mechanism..the low esteem is just there somehow. If you noticed, top women in d society even blamed her that her ranting has gone beyond fighting for her right as a woman. She wasn't making sense anymore at a point.
Having a great sense of self-worth is one thing parents should inculcate in their kids from childhood. E.g the first day my son comes crying to tell me someone beat him, that day I will punish him for not giving the person a glambasting punch on the chest.. the type of punch that will remind the person of the proverb ...once beaten, twice shy...
A child who grows with good esteem as no business with bleaching thoughts. Thank you
I know this an old post but my mum done that to me. If someone hit me n i didnt hit back she would drag me to the person n make me otherwise she beat us both lol. I learned to stand up for myself tho
Congrats E no easy alot of gold diggers and time wasters out there. I'm scared of people lately because you don't know who's genuine anymore
Thanks. And yes its sad cos its hard to find genuine trustworthy loyal faithful ppl these days. But they are out there n god will bring them to u wen is time. I believe he has a plan for us all. U never know..the right person for u could be anywhere on this earth.
BigJoe19: You can't be born gay or lesbian. Don't let scientists with evil agenda play with your head, Why would a male body produce sperm and female body produce ovaries if you can't use it to reproduce but do your fellow gender, you guys should be thinking with your brains sometimes. I'm not supporting the bad treatment of gays in the society but I see them like mad people that don't know they are mad, like people that need rehab but feel they are cool.
Ive known gays of both genders n i believe theyre confused or have sexual fetishes on top of confusion. I dont agree with homosexuality but i dont hate on em either. Its their soul n they can explain to god in judgment time
omgvoices: A video making waves on social media has shown moments when some three high school girls took to social media to reveal that they would be stealing people’s men soon. The students who were seen dressed very promiscuously revealed that they are going to be stealing the men of women would do not know how to keep them at home.
According to them, they are going to do all that is within their power to have the men become their partners if the women fail to pamper and treat them well.
Speaking in Fante, the three ladies sent a word of advice to all ladies as they called on them to learn to pamper and treat their boyfriends and husbands well or risk losing them.
Explorers: Jeannie Gustavson, 68, and Steve Watts, 71, dated secretly for seven years in the 70s during College days.
They broke up 42 years ago as her family didn't approve of interracial dating.
A mixed-race couple who were college sweethearts and dated each other secretly in the 1970s have recently reunited and discovered they are 'still in love'.
Jeannie Gustavson and Steve Watts met as students at Loyola University in Chicago when she was a freshman, aged 18, and he was a senior, aged 21, and they soon started dating.
However, he was black and she was white and her family disapproved of interracial dating, meaning they had to conduct their relationship in secret for seven years.
Despite ultimately breaking up forty-two years ago, Jeannie, now 68, always regret the decision to end the relationship and has never forgotten about Steve.
Nonexisting1: White people can love shaa. I wanted to be angry at her for bringing expired body to the man but seeing that she is taking care of him in his sick bed is something to appreciate the old oyibo vaginarian for.
delzbaba: I see through the fake love, this woman would probably take a life insurance policy out on this man, and cash out when he is gone, and don't forget the go fund me money.
Lol. Insurance wont cover a sick person or a person too old. Its not as simple as that.
ikorodureporta: You people think you re impressing us but it's not looking Kool on most of you. Some will even wear it with their elephanty leggz
I love my short shorts. Especially silky ones or denim ones. But yeah sum girls wear them too short with they cheeks hanging out or they wear them when it dont flatter their bodies
I read this article online about 2yrs ago. Its the sweetest story. The lady didnt judge and forgave him n still helped him better his life. Its something id do if id ben in her shoes. It goes to show that there are good ppl out there that u should always be nice to ppl as u never know who that person could be to you
omgvoices: In our 21st-century relationship, Couples want to showcase their love story everywhere on social media for others to see how they are fairing and having their lovely moments. On the other hand, others also intend to keep their love life private due to their panic of losing their partner if it’s made public.
In most cases, people have more than one partner, so they prefer to keep their love life a secret so as not to cause misunderstandings between their multiple-sex partners.
According to Livingstone Etse Satekla, known by his stage name Stonebwoy, a lady will only post her boyfriend on social media if he matches her taste just to make her peers acknowledge her choice.
Stonebwoy made a post on Snapchat stating that there is no way a woman will keep calm about her relationship if her boyfriend is someone she wants forever.
He said this with his reason being that Women mostly brag about whatever they own. Stonebwoy went further to say that the denial of a woman to flaunt her man on social media has nothing to do with privacy or maturity.
“Your girlfriend is not posting you because you on social media because she’s still looking for a better partner who matches her brand to pst. All women love to brag and it has nothing to do with maturity or privacy,” he stated on Snapchat.
Na thats bullshii. Posting or not posting doesnt prove ur real love or intentions for ur partner. Some like privacy. Not posting gives that aswell as less ppl interfering in ur relationship or les ppl trying to cause trouble or come between you. It stops gossip. On the other hand. Posting ur loved one can show ur proud to say theyre yours but u can be proud without posting too. Really why does d whole world need to know ur business n not everyone is crazy bout social media. Ion even have fb.
TheDemola: There is a video circulating online about a lady bragging to her ex-boyfriend after sleeping with his father. Apparently the ex-boyfriend jilted the lady and in retaliation, the lady slept with his father as pay back. What's the world turning to?
BigYash: See hunger for the man eyes. Una still dey flog am . He go reach he hideout now,go dey cry.. Wife and children fit dey wait am for the hideout. Make una leave that guy. Na food he steal ,no be car.. He no kidnap person. Na just plantain for dodo,him kidnap..
Country hard,no work,no light,no leaders, nothing is working.. Even food na gold now for the damn country..
Yeah its fukd up they beat him for stealing just banana. Something god gifted man on d earth for all. I would have let him keep them on d condition next time he just ask instead of steal. Even they coulda ask him to exchange a little labour/work for d bananas. Nobody should go hungry in this world.
Yes. I learned that the hardway and even then someone i trusted most my life did me dirty. So even those closest to you you still trust only to a certain extent.
walkbrazil4k: One of the things that shocked me when I got to brazil was the open display of affection, you would see people kissing on the road, I mean French kissing and everyone minds their business, you would see people holding hands, even in buses people hold each other inside buses, in bars or clubs people kiss
Its d same in places like australia. The US and European countries. Its freedom. As long as u dont get naked in public or do anything to sexual or offensive in public u gud. U can kiss cuddle hold hands or sit on each other. I dont see anything qrong with it. If u kiss cuddle n sit on laps of ur partner in public ppl dont need to stare. Its only being affectionate its not r rated. Whereas if ppl had actual sex or did oral or hands dwn pants in full view of public that i can understand as being offensive. Ppl need to draw a line somewheren respect themselves and others
Hey, don't blame me I am African we love to pretend, lol and this is why I am surprised but I have adjusted already. Lol
In Brazil they always say if you don't hold a woman's hand it means you don't really love her, so Brazilians love to show off their partners, everywhere you go in Brazil you must see people holding hands both old and young, so Brazilians believe in open display of affection unlike what we have in Africa, So don't be shocked when you arrive in brazil
greatfucker: just curious a good sex should last for how many minutes
matured mind only
Good sex dont have time limit. U take ur time. Really it all depends on how its going. U just go with the flow n be considerate of pleasing each other.
Shortyyy: Honestly, This platform needs reform. Like a total reformation. The level of toxicity here can turn a good person into a monster.
I thought Twitter was toxic, but this platform carries the cup honestly.
From tribalism to a gender war, and the worst of it is the display of toxic masculinity from men here. So disgusting. Who raised you all? No respect for the female gender whatsoever. Don't y'all have mothers and sisters at home? Gosh!
I left here because of this nonsense, and I thought by now It might have toned down, but it's become worse.
Please everyone has their cross they're carrying, just cuz a random girl broke your heart doesn't mean you should be bitter. Grow some balls and act right, maybe if you weren't acting like a kid, your heart wouldn't have been broken in the first place.
For now, I drop my pen. Don't forget to patronize me for your handmade footwears.
Generalisation is d biggest issue on here. Some girls are materialistic. The posters usually make d mistake of grouping all as d same. They dont know individualism
Maturity is not always a factor caused by age. I've seen some early 20's with top notch reasoning on life issues. Exposure and intelligence is key though
I know that. Itz why i said young OR immature instead And.
Fathai: you ladies need to change your mentality..I swear...you leave the plight of the guy and then started to defend the said lady stylishly, abeg wetin consign maturity with what this guy just complained about.
Lol how is wat i said defensive? I cant care less bout other girls. Especially ones i dont know. Its common sense. If she talks of such stupid things n nothing else then she must be immature.
walkbrazil4k: I talked about bum shorts in my previous article and some people from my home country was surprised, lol and some even came for me and they said I am supporting immorality and I did my best to explain to them that it is freedom and that women are free in Brazil and they have the freedom to dress the way they like as long as they are not walking naked on the road.
I wear these kinda dresses n skirts too. Its just fashion n casual in most countries. Plus d weather wen its hot its more comfortablen better for d skin
Well to shock you more in Brazil women wear mini skirts or let me call it skimpy and nobody blinks yes people look and you can admire if you want or get pissed but it ends there unlike in my country where the woman would be molested and harassed and they would even go as far as trying to strip her naked, but in Brazil, nobody can dare try such and guess what Brazilian men love it and they are not complaining so why should I, don't forget that I am just a V-Blogger telling you what to expect when you visit Brazil so you would be surprised like me when I landed in Brazil.my write up is to educate newbies coming to Brazil, God bless Brazil
Efe42: My girlfriend just ended our 8 month's relationship without no suitable reasons when i ask her she said because I don't give her attention anytime she's talking and she most talk about celebrity and social media life style which I don't find interesting topic on.
I'm so tired this evening feeling down about this!!
Sounds like shes a little young or immature then. Maybe find someone older than her
On behalf of all Ijaws, we are too busy prepping our missiles,hiding in creeks and engaging in talks with the Nigerian Government. Offering us a light colored cross breed between a Hippo and a Manatee will do us no good in our struggle for resource control.
She will be too noisy when she snores, disturb the bushes like a Hippo when she walks in the mangrove, she is not naturally camouflaged and she will deplete our food stock. She will only give away our camps' positions. Recall the Nigerian Airforce is acquiring jets and fighter copters.
Perhaps our Itshekiri Brothers might be interested.