killmods:

Yeah. But if they find it attractive and sexually appealing wouldn't they get turned on? Definitely not all women. We men can get aroused sexually just by looking at a sexually appealing woman but we might not get fully turned on like all Bruce Lee hard down there and it doesn't mean we aren't moved down there. Some ladies get soaking wet by looking and little touches or even dirty words and suggestions while some will require a whole lot of pre-intimacy for hours before they can get wet for the main course. I know the difference between just admiring and getting wet and ready. The former leads to the latter in some cases... not all tho. How are you Mrscarter and how's down under my old friend from a previous cyberlife

Lmao. Im ok thankyou. I have alot going on atm. My mum is dying in d hospital.
Nd yes all girls are different. For me tho yh its more bout touch n sound i guess.

Olamilekxy:



I'll send this to her

Lol do so cos she needs to know she looks ridiculous lol

Pukkalolo:


Put yourself in her shoe!!!

Would you be cool with the fact that your boyfriend has a female bestie, and this female bestie sit at front seat while you sit at the back. And your boyfriend go outings with her.

Be honest with yourself...are you going to be cool with that.

Honestly no i wouldnt be.
However i was never interested in him that way and i always tried gettimg her to sit up gront byt she wasnt the jelous type n she was my friend aswell and she wanted to sit up back with her child anyway. Sometimes i sat in d back. But she had nothing to worry boit n if she did ever have had worries n said so id respect that n do as she asked. Not all ppl are decietful or trusring either. Im not as strong in the trust dept as she is tho. I admit that. Im a lil of a jelous type

Sleeknigga:
is/was your husband comfortable with it

I wasnt married then. I dnt see my bestie in a long time. If i did tho i would respect my hubby if he didnt like the time i spent with my bestie. Id rather my husbands time anyday

Datboredberry:
Thank you!
I usually rush things cause I'm impatient...

But I'll take my time... It's still a plus to learn another language...

I hope this ends the way it started...

I did the ldr thing n was my best decision ever.
If hes the right guy distance is nothing but a problem that can be eventually solved

Datboredberry:
Thanks! You're not black? Forgive the question... But if you were, I think maybe you wouldn't have written that you've never smelled one before.

Lol. I dont take notice of other black ppls smell i guess

Pumpumking:

Chill. Lips ate to kiss but most not all but most women only kiss men they have feelings for

Pumpumking:



So u sayin a guy should only looookat yor lip & not kiss u....correct? Ia yor lips there for decorations?..are u kiddin me or are u ok sir?(no oofense)

Im a mrs not sir lol.
No ofcourse theyre to kiss but for a woman kissing is the ultimate intimacy n we usually reserve kissing for the man we truly love. Kissing for us is more intimate even than sex. I heard even most prostitutes wont kiss n only do sex. Women associate kissing with love. U get wat im trying to say? Most women wont kiss just anybody even if she has sex say like a one night stand for eg. Some will have sex but not kiss if they have no feelings for a man.

jornwhite:
The fact that MOST women love kissing should be enough, another truth is women tend to actively kiss men they love, its quiet easy for a woman to give her pvssy to any man buh when it comes to kissing, you gat be her love.


note: exceptions to smelly mouth and some ladies don't just like it

U are so right.

Datboredberry:
It's just a simple question: Do black people smell different from whites? And Asians from Middle Easterners?

I watched a YouTube video recently... A guy interviewed students in his University abroad if they would date someone of a different race.

Most were women... I noticed that a few said no, because..."Indians smell like curry"..."Black men have a strong smell"..."White's kinda smell like dish water"... Others were downright racist!

I tried to get an answer online... But didn't find any.

Note: I'm addressing this question to those who've interacted with others of different races... I've met Indians, Europeans and Asians... But I never thought to smell them...

I thought they were all okay!

But have you noticed that people of a different race smell the same and different from blacks?

And this isn't a thread to bash anyone... I'm not asking if your "mother" and "sisters'" vaginas skink... So any idiot who wants to imply that should kindly f**k off.

If you've worked with Indians... Americans... Europeans... Middle Easterners and noticed they all have distinct smells... Just comment what it's like and if there's a reason.

Do blacks smell strongly to others?

Do Indians smell like garlic or curry?

What of Middle Easterners?




Or are all these just racist? Because I think it is to imply that people smell a certain way cause of their race... But is there some truth to it?

Where i live ive caught taxis with indian drivers i notice curry n strong spice smell but nothing dirty is just the food they eat. As for whites they all differ sum smell like nice perfumes or pretty shampoos some smell of sweat some are clean sum are dirty some dnt have a smell. As for blacks ive never smelled one but the ones i see look clean n fresh.
Everyones different i guess. Depending on hygiene and the foods they eat n if they wear perfumes etc

Lollittaa:
As I scrolled through fb, I came across a post. This lady, her boyfriend took her to market, to buy things. Only for her to discover that the next day, those items they bought were for his introduction with another lady.
That's just one story.
What of the one who will invite his girlfriend to someone's wedding, without her knowing its his. And she bought asoebi sef. My God!

Men are WICKED , CALLOUS creatures. Even the Bible confirms it. I know they'll flock this thread to say nonsense but, this is the truth.
Why will you date someone you can't marry and then you ask her to follow you to market to buy things meant for your wedding to another woman?
And she humbly followed you.
And you know what?
After two, three months, these same men will crawl back inside inbox.
"I miss you"
"You won't understand"

Now I'm beginning to understand why some men are locked inside bottles. They deserve every bit of it!

"But women do same"
True. But it's 1 woman to 50 men. That's the ratio.
Men are callous. Wicked. Extremely wicked.
Breaking hearts left, right, centre, to prove what? Even if she has offended you, why can't you LET HER GO? After 2, 3,4 years of dating you, she sees your wedding on Facebook.

I pity the women marrying such cursed men. You will never enjoy your home. Because your husband broke the hedge the serpent will bite the both of you. Many of you men are so empty, something as useless as kayanmata can hook you. You have no conscience. You think with your dick.
Must you break so many hearts before you get married? Must you invite so many curses on the head of your future family?
Continue inviting evil into your household. We'll see how it plays out.

Na men n women have wicked ppl equally. Cos its not ur gender that makes u wicked but that depends on ur character.

Stephenmoka4:
Close > I met relate, build a relationship or something...

Yeah build up a relationship get to know a person n youll have better chance

Stephenmoka4:
It's better you stay close to them, know them and you know the rest.

U mean get to know the person build relationships?

Petyprincess:
Are you rich? Like extremely rich?
If no, only old white women are interested in broke black guys but you have to be ready to be a puppet to her.
You should be able to get this type if you can at least asslick and be humble as our Nigerian brothers are doing in order to get greencard

Some fall in love no matter if the other has money but its rare. If a person builds up a connection with the other first theres possibility of love. U never know but its rare i guess. Ive known it to happen.
@the pic below ur comment...holy moly

lecturer50:


I am working with the Federal government.

It means I have to resign.


I know an airforce personnel who married a white woman and both are living in Nigeria.


It is easier for him to go abroad because of the wife.

They have 2 houses one in Nigeria and one abroad.


I even heard that there are some white ladies who have money, but no husbands and they are willing to come to Africa to marry because to marry African seems a great idea to them.


It is not that they rate or respect Africans better than their people. They rate their people higher.


It is just that they consider marrying people from another race a great idea.


They want to experience what it could feel like marrying a black person.


Just like those British ladies who went and join Talibans in Afghanistan to fight just for the thrill of it.

Though their country is far better than Afghanistan, but they decided to go to Afghanistan.

Lol not many ppl marry someone just cos of their colour or country of origin. N not all white ppl think theyre better than other colours of ppl. Theres good n bad ones just like another colour of ppl.
Try Afrointroductions...gud luck

amnesty7:
Someone taking care of your home, your meals and her pregnancy and you still think she is doing nothing?

Pregnancy isnt a disability lol. Towards the last cpl of months you need take it easier but earlier on u can still do everything. U can still do everything thru all ur pregnancy.

Iamdbull:
After a stressful week trying so hard to put finishing touches to my new single which has been dubbed "song of the decade" in many quarters, I decided to chill at the pool side to relax my system.


The single drops soon guys anticipate

Where can i listen to the song?

sweerychick:
Ok I really need an expert advice on this. My 4 months old baby is always screaming, not that she's in pains or distress. She just screams a lot ready to shout down they whole house. If I try feeding her she won't eat she would just continue screaming until she goes to sleep. I've discussed with my pediatrician about and he said she's fine it's normal for developing babies at her stage after physical examinations were carried on her. But I'm worried about this because her screams comes in between episodes after eating or when she wants to sleep. Mind you this is my second child, they first didn't exhibit this at all.

Please I need advice ( matured only)

Maybe its wind? This caused my son to cry for hours when he was around 3 to 4mnths old. Lotsa back patting n rubbing n hed usually settle after some burping n farting lol? It pains their tummy alot and also check for constipation that can cause distress too. As far as i know constant screaming isnt the usual unless something is disturbing them.
Honestly if its after eating im guessing its wind. Just try walking around holding baby against ur chest upright or laid across ur arms facing d floor n pat firmly on the back for a while in gentle rhythm or rub ur hand in circles firmly around the centre of the back. Dnt be too gentle nor too hard just firm. When u lay baby dwn the wind is causing pain most likely.

LatestgistTv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JwmdSJoE0s4

Both of them are idiots. Spitting on each other n hitting
Chai. Toxic relationship. N so is d person watching n filming it doing nothing

Datboredberry:
I intend to use this thread to simply complain...

My boyfriend from Colombia speaks Spanish only.. I had no idea because he writes to me in English!!!

But he confessed that he's been using a translator...

Which is so sweet because of his efforts... It made me realise that whenever I send a message, he reads it then goes offline before responding after several minutes... I know why now...

Anyways... That's the reason we couldn't call.

He's sent this message last night...


Te quiero... Antes de dormir... Quiero que sepas algo... Vamos a tener un acuerdo lectivo... You teach me English and ... Yo te enseño Español... Que dices.... Cuando estemos preparados... Haremos Videollamada... Y todas las llamadas que quieras... Solo tú decides... Que descanses mi Reina hermosa... You owe me a photo and an audio ...

Translation:

I love you ... Before sleeping ... I want you to know something ... We are going to have a lesson agreement ... You teach me English and ... I teach you Spanish ... What do you say .... When we are ready ... We will make a video call ... And all the calls you want ... Only you decide ... Rest my beautiful Queen ... You owe me a photo and an audio ...

To be honest, I'm not really good... It's hard to learn a another language...

I feel ashamed to tell him... I'll try my best... I am actually picking up a few words...

Just keep at it n in time itll be easy. Interacial relationships are interesting and if its the right man its beautiful

Gadafii:
One nigerian guy using a Polish woman's face and name just blocked op

You are not the target, just rest, he(she,) wants friends from Europe that will eventually send Euros for come over lmao

alaye even said "i am poland" before he corrected him self

there is this Australian i chat with on Facebook, she knows i am nigerian and living in nigerian, we met on international group and we have been texting the past three years, casually tho.

i was fascinated how much she knew about africa and african gods and deities

the bottom line is na fraudster block you so

Yeah australian people are usually easy going ppl mostly. I guess it depends on d person not their country. Some ppl are open to making friends irrelevant from where ur from n some ppl wont befriend anybody they dont know. Its sad tho cos nigerians seem to get the blame for scam when in reality ppl in all countries na scam

house10s:
another one i didn't hear

man cancel marriage as girl wants carrot cake instead of cake cake.

what's ur cake take

Lol i love carrot cake its my favourite with cream cheese icing. I had some yesterday. I dont like wedding cake it tastes awful. I prefer a cheaper cake like carrot or vanilla or even banana cake/orange cake.

ucee64:
i have never cheated on her when I love someone I'm 100% committed

If a woman truly loves a man she wont even want to cheat. Maybe be she does love you but cant be completely otherwise ur all shed want touching her. Trust is very hard to get back when the one who claims to love you decieves u in such a way

Vinnie2000:




The OP is VERY correct!..

As long as the Guy and Lady are Young and Attractive, Feelings or Lusts must pop up as the 'Friendship' Grows!..

It won't take Long B4 Girl starts Liking d Guy or Guy Starts thinking of Shift Pants..

Just cos one is male n one female doesnt mean they must fuvk. Do all males n females want to have intercourse with every person in opposite to their gender? Ofcourse not. U gotta be attracted romantically and/or sexually. I for one know im not attracted to every man just cos their men

They can definately just be friends. Most my besties were males. I find most girls too bitchy materialistic and backstabby. I never once was sexyally or romantically attracted to either of my male besties. One was in me but knew i wasnt interested n respected that. We would have coffee take turns paying and go for drives n outings. Sometimes his gf n child would come. She didnt mind us hanging together she knew we were only ever friends. She used to even let me sit in the front seat sometimes if she came along. We were all gud friends.
Not everything is about sex.

ahimedua:
A Nigerian lady has tattooed the name of her boyfriend on her face.


What’s more- she was in great pain but allowed her ‘mad’ love to supersede her thoughts and eventually managed to get the name inked on her face.

She inscribed the name of the guy on her face which reads; ‘Anjola My Love.’

Would you go to such length to prove your love to your partner/ Let’s hear you out in the comment section of our social media page?

Watch the video below; https://sleekgist.com/love-or-madness-lady-tattoos-boyfriends-name-on-her-face-despite-pain-watch/

Firstly that tattooist cant write neat so its terrible work. Secondly who puts it on the face like that? The whole cheek with large messy writing? Ive seen nice face tatts but they're very small writing n in certain area of the face. This looks like a child scribbled on her face. Thirdly who writes anjola my love? It sounds like the beginning of a letter. And lastly if u gonna tattoo someones name on u u take all the above into consideration. It should be small neat pretty tidy n in a nice spot like inner side of your wrist done by a professional whos gud at it and it should only be your husbands name or your child. Not somebody you dont know for a fact youll have a lifelong connection to. This tattoo above is ridiculous

DaddyRochie1642:
From the way you're sounding, if you should carry it into marriage, your marriage will not last.

That so called Fiancee of yours has no Respect for you and it's a pity.

I want you to memorize this wise quote from me and never forget it.

"Respect is what makes a Relationship to last long, Love is just secondary".... If there's no Respect in that relationship, that yeye love will not last.

And from your write up, you talked of how you bought her phone, paid house rent bla bla bla, you guys always get this wrong 99% of the time, don't use money to get a woman to be in a relationship with you, una no go listen... Even if you buy Heaven and Earth for a woman, you can never buy a woman's Love.

And it's very very obvious that you don't have Clear Boundaries in that your relationship.

Oga you got it all wrong from the beginning.

I also read in your story where you said that her father called and he was crying for what his daughter did and According to you, you said you paid for her family's accommodation,... Just tell me why that girl's father won't call you and start crying on the daughter's behalf,... just tell me how many people in this Nigeria can boast of someone that decided to take the responsibility to be paying for another person's accommodation knowing fully well how Horrible Nigeria Economy is and how Expensive things are at the moment.

Oga don't be surprised that girl and her family see you as a MEAL TICKET, this is the reality and I sincerely do not care if you're pained by this my quality Analysis

Look at the way your so called Fiancee is even referring to you as "Senior Uncle", no respect whatsoever.

In Brazil we call people like you
"MUGUdinho Dos Santos"

because people like you clearly sees the handwriting on the wall and still decide to put head out of stubbornness or one yeye ego.

Cut your Losses and move on with your life.

You're seeing the Red Flags now and you're Forming gentleman,

Just pray you don't end up Weeping and gnashing your teeth accompanied with Bitter Lamentations when you marry that girl.

I agree with every word u said. N ur right u can not buy a womans love only her pretense

killmods:

This is true.. I remember one time i was staying in one funny compound some 6 years back. I just came out innocently shirtless and there were a couple of married mature woman with some girls outside. After about 3 mins one of them called my attention to it and it's effect on them. I actually thought she was joking. And some times walking on the road some girls will focus their eyes on the dick region lustfully atimes forgetting themselves and making u feel naked and embarrassed. So I think women just get as turned on as we do naturally by naked bodies or their imagination of our near naked bodies

If women look at ur body i doubt theyd just go get wet instantly. Usually takes more than that for a woman. Like ur touch. I doubt thered be a hell of alot of women who get wet just looking at a mans chest. Wen they look at ur chest they prolly admiring ur body or finding u attractive n thats different to being turned on n getting wet

Pregift:
. Pls young man. IAM a lady and not a guy. Not everybody on nairaland is a fraud.

Lol ive ben accused of having hairy balls before. Chai

Vanilla4:
It doesn't, maybe it does for some. Girls and guys are built in a different way.

Exactly. Lol none of us are all the same just like guys we all individual therefore different strokes for different folks

JAOS:
they do get wet especially when the guy is wearing tight brief

Lol no not all women.
If the guy is cute n his body is cute a woman may look outta curiosity. But for me i wouldnt get turned on by it. For me its gotta be someone i feel a certain way about. So has to be my man cos sex for me is bout how he makes me feel n i think bout that n thats wat gets me wanting him. So if i think bout sex its only bout my hubby cos he makes me want him. Any guy no matter how hot would only make me look in curiosity for a fleeting moment. Im not easily interested like that. As for other women im sure some would be like me n ofcourse thered be some who would get turned on by any hot guys body