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DenreleDave:
Ur sense is coming back now

Na I get sense all along

Pimpmaride:
U don't get the sarcasm.... U r too low to think in such high level..


A wise person wud have understood dt I am telling him to flee from that lady


Ladies with peas Brain Sha.... U r not different

Maybe so but still isn't nice
There's better ways to get Ur msg across

Pimpmaride:
I wunt be surprised if u the lady sef or her sister


My love. My point exactly... He Sud take off anytin drawing him back.. The lady is a drawback.

He is not financially bouyant like dt, why is he maintaining such a high Gf of a leech...

Imagine if someone didn't dupe him, he wud have foolishly sent the 15k to a lady dt doesn't REGARD HIS MOTHER..

Jeez, OP thank God, He opened ur eyes.. If not, dt girl will suck u dry

Lekside230, if u get sense.. U wunt see the insult, u will think deep and see the advice I gave u.

Good advice if not it does not come with some spanking will be taken as joke.. That is why I spanked u

Yeah just U never know a person don't know if Ur saying it in that way or being nasty. It can make ppl feel bad about themselves. And if the person already is struggling with issues it's the last thing they need. Some ppl take things to heart easily.
Maybe even tho he's not financially bouyant, he had feelings for the girl and tried his best? But really he should find a nice girl who will hustle side by side thru thick n thin. Not one who just takes what he struggles to earn.
It's true tho he gotta get rid of that girl. She's disrespectful and if U love someone U never speak to them that way.

BabbanBura:
The world is evolving and many women are heading in that direction, especially rhe lesbians. It is true that it is tough bringing up a child by any single parent no matter rhe wealth of that parent, but how the homos gonna have their babies?

Secondly, feminism is on the rise, and the die hard fans and feminists (bitter women) won't have anything to do with being a man's subject, therefore they opt out for single parenthood, not quite understanding all that is involved untill they delved right inside

True.
But U don't gotta be a man's subject in marriage and having children. U just gotta find the right person so U have a happy Marriage n raise Ur kids in a happy home.

Lekside230:
Thanks very much.

Ur welcome. Gud luck

Pimpmaride:
Mehnnnnn, I love that lady.. She knows how well to deal with u.... She knows u r too small for her but for the sake of the change she get from u, she is dating u falsely.

I love that babe..

U this small boy... U shud be concerned about your life...
U r bothering yourself.... I saw ur Pic and I saw that u r a very small boy..
I hope u don't die young and dissapoint ur parent Ontop small girl matter.... At this ur age, u Don dey send money to girl in the name of girl frnd.

Wonders shall never end....

She is telling you that both of you will become rich... She is lying ooo.
She will end up as an olosho fvcking men all round while you end up as a peasant yahoo boy who survives on iTunes card

Op wants to sell his laptop bcoz of a girl

https://www.nairaland.com/6159774/laptop-sale-akure

You're a nasty person. I'm sure the guy ain't choose to be broke.

N here's a prick like you acting like an ass to someone n u don't know his life, his circumstances or his personality.

Infact I hope the op ends up rich n U the one ending up the peasant surviving on iTunes cards n maybe you'll learn some manners.

And I think he's better off broke for now cos atleast it got rid of that nasty shallow gf.
I wish the op good luck in having a better future

Lekside230:
Good morning nairalanders..how was your night?I'm actually here for your advice about my relationship... I won't call it a relationship anymore though...please don't mind my grammars as some might be bad.....,so it happens this way...she actually called me on Monday and tell me she has something very important to tell me...i asked what's that about?she said she actually need 15k that someone she borrowed money from is disturbing her and she had to pay it, it was true though..,because i know about the issue...she said she is going to borrow the 15k from her dad and pay it and so when I try to give her the money she will replace it....I only said i will try... Because i myself I'm not too financially okay myself.... So yesterday..I actually had some issue going on with me....I was actually scammed yesterday and this guy switched off and not even coming online again.....so it all got me so worried..,so she chatted me up yesterday afternoon around 2pm...I greeted her normally..I said I'm not just fine that I'm kind of depressed..all she could say is OK..,I said is that what she's supposed to say...she said is she a witch that she'd know what's happening to me....that's how it all began....that that's how i do if I don't want to do something...that I want to use it as an excuse...start calling me different kind of names whereby her friends was even there with her...no respect... I'm a broke ass nigga..I'm very poor..I should go and tell my friends and my mum that she said i am broke.. Cuz that what i am...she just Start calling me different kind of bad names....she said her mom help me borrow some money that I couldn't pay back..I told her I'm going to pay back..she just start saying different kind of abusive words at me that village people are really following me...so that's how she said it's over between us....and i said so shall it be.... Because if we have a little disagreement she'd start talking about break up....and I'd be the one to apologize....so I just have to made up my mind last night and just make it finally come true...I actually sent her 4k on Wednesday and she never ask me before i did.
so i just have to block her number last night and block her on WhatsApp after telling her it's over between us cuz i can't cope with a disrespectful girlfriend even where her friend is...but what happen is as have blocked her everywhere.... I'm not just comfortable... I couldn't really sleep tonight cuz I was just thinking about everything.... I already prayed on her name in several places and they all saying she's good....but I don't just understand this...it's hard to forget though.... so to cut the long story short..she later apologized on whatsapp and ask for the 15k immediately..but i won't count that as an apology..i just need an advice on how i can just forget this girl....cuz my mind is just soo troubled that I can't really sleep....thank you all for your candid advice and please no insults about my bad grammers...some screenshots will be attached...once again no insults... Thank you all in advance.

Imagine she's saying U made her call U those names
You're better off without someone like that in your life. She's calling U broke wen she's broke herself.
I pity any man with a girl like this. I could never speak to anyone in such a way.
Afterall that she still expecting the 15k!
Just try keep busy to take your mind off of her n soon enuff you'll move on n have forgotten her.

If U go back U are crazy n asking for that kinda treatment
Selfish nasty girl that one be.

WoundedLamb:
Can we please stop justifying robbery. If he's doing 'yahoo', he is a bad person. There's no excuse for stealing other people's money. That's not hustling, that's theft. That's being wicked and insensitive to other people's pains.

I didn't say it was a good thing. Just that in some circumstances I can understand some people's desperation. But you're right it's a bad thing to do still

IntersexSherry:
he is poor that's why he does it. I tried giving him some money monthly so he can have some earnings and stop that but he continues.

Yeah I had someone like that once. He still wouldn't stop so trust me you're better off moving on n in time the feelings will fade

longetivity:
Just kill urself, and everything will be forgotten

Wtf. That's uncalled for.
Will U like someone to say that to your sister if U have one?

IntersexSherry:
I was into a relationship with a yahoo boy, i didn't know he was into that. I fell so deeply and madly in love with him to the extent no man moves me again except him. I have different men hitting on me, i see lot of handsome guys but still i just can't get my mind off him. I think of him all the time, anytime i'm with a guy, i still think of him. I broke up with him because i don't like the job he does and he refused to stop, i don't consider him a good person. I keep hearing his voice in my head. I just want to forgot all memories with him. I want to be free of him. I have deleted and blocked all his contact but still i think of him.
Please i need to move on with my life and forget this stupid boy. I don't even know why i feel so much attracted to him, he is not even so handsome. I don't just know why.. I have had lot of way handsome guys hitting on me but still i think of him.
I need to be free. He has to leave my head. How do i forget him please And i'm not doing this again with anyone if i finally get free of him. I hate giving my heart this much to people who don't appreciate and toy with it. I was ready to do anything for him. I know how i can get really
addicted to something that really makes me happy. Better to get addicted to drugs than human beings.

Yeah Ur last paragraph is true lol.
Well why does he do yahoo? Does he do it cos he has no other source of income or just to flex with money?
If he has no other choice I guess there's a chance he could still be a good person who's just struggling?
But I could be wrong cos ion know him.
Otherwise U just gotta give it time for the feelings to fade n keep yourself busy to keep Ur mind off of him

Modified: if he taking all your money n ain't trying to do better you're best to forget him no matter how U feel bout him. It will take time but you'll move on. No matter what I wouldn't go back to him cos U yourself know that you'll only end up hurt. Gud luck

StacyO:


Cute guys don't trip me. lol
So long you have good qualities.

I like em cute but funny. But sum funny guys who wasn't cute I've been slightly attracted to in the past but nothing ever come of it

lymelyte:
even the child at some point will start asking questions from the mother when he goes to sch or out.

Yeah true. Ion think it's fair on the child missing out on a father.

Macsjebs:
Source: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-8818817/Bear-abandoned-mother-cub-raised-humans-career-model.html

Wow he's beautiful

Preciousgirl:
My husband saw I had a pay rise in January on my payslip but I forgot to tell him and he is mad over this trivial matter

I have resolved never to apologise for this one, husbands are getting swollen headed these days

Well irrelevant of weather U kept it from him deliberately or not, your husband is feeling bad about it n U should sort it if U want your marriage to be happy. You love your husband? If so what's it hard to apologize even if it was a mistake.
Apologies won't kill a person especially if it's to one U love.
Would U be mad he keep things from you weather intentionally or thru forgetfulness?
Either way hun U should talk it out with him n mend things. Afterall he is your husband yeah.
I can't find anything wrong in apologizing to someone I love if it makes them feel better n makes my marriage happier, even if it was a mistake, it's still an issue U caused.

WoundedLamb:
Lol... I don't really know what you want us to say. Annual increments, regardless of how small, are normal in most organizations so even without mentioning it, it's should be expected and shouldn't come as a surprise.

Do you guys have an agreement to contribute a certain percentage of your salary to a project, expense head or savings? If that's the case, then he might be feeling cheated and you not apologizing would only make it seem deliberate. I'd suggest you apologize and move on. There are bigger things to think about

In the absence of such agreement/structure, the next question would be, does he always pick on little things like this? If that is his personality, it would still be up to you to manage the situation. It is a known fact that couples stay together by staying committed and managing one another, and not really cause of the initial lovey-dovey feelings that hardly go beyond the first few years. They might be some of your excesses he is managing too. Relationship is about being with someone whose excesses you can tolerate and I believe you knew his personality before marrying him. Both of you can't be hot headed or prideful or nagging at the same time. Someone has to be the 'let peace reign' type. So I'd still say, tell the man what he wants to hear and move on.

At the end, only you can handle your husband. Nairalanders don't care about you. The truth is, we have our own problems. We're here to pass time and say things that will make us feel good about ourselves. It's all about us. Some school boys will insult you and side your husband just to feel like a "man". Some fellow ladies will insult your husband and tell you to do things they wouldn't do. A few will give you sincere advice and move on to the next thread with the speed of light. It's up to you to know what really matters. Pay attention to the big picture.

Lol. Wise but true

DenreleDave:
I get dick.. Dear.. U Wana see it

Na thanks am gud. I believe you

[quote author=DenreleDave post=94756001][/quote] true be that tho

DenreleDave:
Who told u dt I am a she??

Well U got f for female next to Ur name so assumed so.

StacyO:
When I start off with a guy and he starts bragging about his money,that chit chat is over.

You can't do without sex,sorry to say but,(no space to type)

He starts showing me six packs ewww who needs that,it's over.

I get to see your potbelly, it's over

He is not romantic at all(just saying for future reasons),it's over.

He doesn't know how to maintain proper hygiene. Always using sprays or has body odour. I'll just jump and pass.

What do I like?

Infact, my first turningoninown is when a guy is smart,you're always able to surpass me in knowledge. I'll trip for you instead(that's if I like you).

Kindness turns me on. We're taking a stroll and you help the less privileged. As a matter of fact,we'll get married that same day.


You're not boring(Honestly, I hate boring guys). With me, you either be a Clyde or a joker(you should know those characters). Fun to be with.

It should always be future plans. No stories of how Buhari was a former military officer.




I'm not Bill gate's daughter,don't worry about you not having money. We'll hustle together.






Things I've noticed about me.

Sensible girl. Funny guys can be attractive even when they're not all that handsome.
We sorta got similar tastes.
N wat U said bout hustling together...that's the spirit

PUNAengineOIL:
They are not confused, telling lies is just an inbuilt feature of women. I pity the op, if you follow a woman's advice you will just self-destruct and same woman will be the first person to call you stupid, senseless and childish.

Just look at the response of dorin27 and the other fati2001, I have no qualms about people's preferred body type but those 2 comments are completely misleading The 2 are just been "girly"

I started body building at 17, although I stopped been a full-time body builder some few years ago I still hit the gym at least thrice every week and all my muscular features are still intact. I don't do it to attract women, I do it for my personal development. But I can tell you that almost all the females I come across are attracted to me, I get advances from almost all my nigga's partners/wives. I sometimes get into awkward situations with some of these ladies because I can't betray my own friend for a hoe. Then all these ones come online to write the complete opposite of reality, I even read through the whole comments and no woman wrote that they are attracted to the muscular male physique, blatant liars. I pity men who seek for opinion from women, women and truth are like day and night. It's just a reality that most men don't know.

Lol ok. I find that most guys who body build love themselves more than the average guy n more than alot of women do.
But some women like it n some don't. I prefer an average guy to big muscles.

Uzomacharles:
My eyes on u

that pic lol

nwaezeemmanuel:
I don't see a lot of interactive posts for women on Nairaland.

So i thought about this and hope every woman can share her view!

WHAT TURNS YOU OFF IN A MAN?

Is it his smell, attitude, physique - feel free to vent it out!

Perhaps some guys may learn from it.

Picking their nose
Big muscles.
Guys who act all tough/show off or brag
Guys who fvck anyone/everyone they can
Guys who dnt show U how they feel bout U
Long/dirty fingernails
Unromantic guys or non manly guys
Guys who dnt care bout their appearance
Childish guys/unmotivated/ignorant
Guys without sense of humour
Guys who don't pay attention
Smelly feet/unclean or dnt brush teeth
Guys who put their friends before their girl
Guys who break promises constantly
Really short guys(shorter than me)
Really hairy guys
Moustache
Those guys who try impress their friends
Really rich guys
Immature guys/a user
Reckless guys
Unwise with money
Unloyal/unfaithful/dishonest/a liar.
Guys who try be someone they're not.
Guys who gossip bad/ two faced
Guys who tell ppl their personal business.
Secretive guys/abusive guys
Really bushy eyebrows/unkept beard
Irresponsible/rude/untidy
Fat guys/too skinny
Bad skin
Bad in bed/unthoughful

Must have sexy arms first n foremost
Oh god I love sexy arms on my guy n adorable belly....love those little hairs just under that belly that lead dwn...dwn..dwn
I like a guy who can make me laugh, who's in it for the long haul, sensitive n sweet but manly too, playful but serious n cute. He dnt gotta be perfect but just right for me.

These are just my preferences n turn offs n my likes

dorin27:
Glad you learnt something today. Not every woman wants a muscular guy. One man's food is another man's poison.

Yeah i dnt like big muscular guys.
I prefer just normal. Lean.

DamnnNiggarr:
please, try and read it all, no knowledge is useless.

Yeah well my ex used to be online on WhatsApp n not open or reply my msgs for ages n that is kinda annoying especially if it's a constant habit but I do it to sometimes if I'm talking bout something serious with a friend or one of my family on there but my ex used to go off n online alot before reading my msg n half the time replied hours later if at all.
But ppl who make up stories like they feeling sick just to get attention from their partner well that's childish games.
I couldn't date a person who played games, couldn't be serious wen U are trying to talk serious stuff or ppl who acted uninterested in me n our relationship.
Some ppl worry too much bout their friends and about social media n other things than putting in time n effort into their relationship. Ion like uncommitted ppl

Amatarasha:
Damn you for calling me

Lol na, someone called me too

DenreleDave:
Obigbo WEED in ACTION

Should I continue to mumu myself and act as if she is right always so that I can get the pussy too or I should just blast her with the truth and give no fvck abt her pussy...

Been frnds with her for some while but a bitch is always a bitch, yet I kept agreeing with the bitch so dt my own way too can open but now, bitch is acting too over bitch and it making me think how can a bitch be so shameless like this..

Well I put it to the bitch and she got annoyed too but later start calling to apologize but I ignored her....

Should I have betrayed a fellow guy to cover up a bitch or I shud give no fvck abt the bitch and say the truth jare...

I think I can now agree with the bitch Ex dt the bitch is acting like a bitch.. Bitch made me understand her Ex was lying abt her but I think I agree with the Ex now even though he was wrong too in some areas but he was right when he told me her Ex bitch is acting like a bitch..


Bitch pussy is not resistable



Bitches everywhere

My guy...thats some deep shiii...

Greatzeus:
Do whatsoever you want with your life,you are an adult and responsible for the actions you take. I only opened this stupid thread because of the word "bitch" you used. It's wrong and demeaning,don't ever refer to any girl as a bitch again. A bitch is a female dog,you have been having sex with a dog? You see
I know you are either a teenager seeking admission or in your 20s still eating mummy's food. Grow up kid.

None of us put up this post

DenreleDave:
Cc; mrscarter fati2001 Amatarasha

Somebody callin me to read this nonsense

MrTAnonymous:
I should be asking you na. Ain't you a lady?


Incase you don't know na me talk

I was Asking the op y she thinks this way

DenreleDave:
Toto dike... Tiwa Savage etc

Just cos they got money dnt mean they enjoy raising a child without the father.
It's better for the child to have both parents in their life.
Even were they happy to raise the child alone don't let those kind of people inspire you to do the same. Ppl like Tiwa savage dnt have an ordinary every day life. They have ALOT of money and access to things normal everyday ppl don't. And they're famous n attractive so will have no trouble finding a man willing to take on another man's child and their lives are so different they won't have time to be lonely.
Nannies probably do most stuff for their child therefore they miss out on important stages in the child's life and quality time and it's just a whole different situation in so many ways than if an ordinary person (non famous) was to be a single mother.
I know I would prefer to have a proper family for myself and my child

DamnnNiggarr:
but you got the information the so called "crap" was trying to pass across??

Yeah but it coulda been just posted as an article or something n not the fake texting stuff. Woulda Ben more enjoyable to read.
That fake texting is annoying.
A proper write up I woulda read it all