Romance › Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Mrscarter(f): 3:12am On Oct 04, 2020 |
Stephenmoka4: I do not have such mentality. Everyone should like money, as it is one of the strongest purchasing power currently in existence.
There is something wrong for a partner to cheat, in that case the male side shouldn't be justified. Using the term "providing for the family" is a man's primary responsibility and should not be used as a cover-up for wrong doings. A good woman is one that respect, stay faithful, loyal, being able to sort her man's mistake (without staying silence) and of course, bring happiness. Cheating isn't a mistake it is first a choice then becomes a mistake. Anymore cheating after the first time is just a choice not mistakes at all. Afterall who repeatedly n deliberately keeps making the same mistake yeah? |
Romance › Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Mrscarter(f): 3:05am On Oct 04, 2020 |
bobokeshington: A WOMAN WHO CANNOT STAND BY HER MAN WHEN HE HAS NOTHING WOULD DEFINITELY BE SHOWN THE EXIT DOOR WHEN HE HAS EVERYTHING I think that's fair |
Romance › Re: What Is The Pettiest Reason Why You Won't Date Someone by Mrscarter(f): 3:01am On Oct 04, 2020 |
Heroclitus: OK, as for findom,its a scenerio whereby a particular mistress or master bills their sub whenever they just feel like. Most times, their Sub might go to the extent of submitting their ATM cards and even give them access to all their resources while they keep working harder, getting paid and still giving out all their money to Dom
Such relationship is so strict that one can't even greet/message their Dom first without sending some cash to them... one gets to pay for all the wants of ones Dom happily without any grudge... basically, their Doms pleasure and financial gallantry is their outmost priority
Its one of the most common forms of BDSM and a lot of people are into it....I mean a very lot of people But in the past I've been surprised by turning someone on just with the slightest thing. My ex used to hear my voice n get hard straight away so he stopped calling when he was walking up the street lol his friends would tease him bout it  Or something like the way I looked wen am concentrating on cooking or dishes n just little things like that. Men are wired weird like that lol. Like visual or auditory things turning them on. With me(dunno bout all girls) it's more touch than the other senses. Thought can do it too. But I can't look at my guy no matter how hot n get turned on unless I start thinking stuff lol I can't just look at his ass n want him lol. |
Romance › Re: What Is The Pettiest Reason Why You Won't Date Someone by Mrscarter(f): 2:55am On Oct 04, 2020 |
Heroclitus: OK, as for findom,its a scenerio whereby a particular mistress or master bills their sub whenever they just feel like. Most times, their Sub might go to the extent of submitting their ATM cards and even give them access to all their resources while they keep working harder, getting paid and still giving out all their money to Dom
Such relationship is so strict that one can't even greet/message their Dom first without sending some cash to them... one gets to pay for all the wants of ones Dom happily without any grudge... basically, their Doms pleasure and financial gallantry is their outmost priority
Its one of the most common forms of BDSM and a lot of people are into it....I mean a very lot of people Damn. Ud have to be psychologically wrecked to like that crap lol. I can get feet adoration, n rough play like spanking n U know all that stuff but the rest is just a little weird to me lol |
Romance › Re: What Is The Pettiest Reason Why You Won't Date Someone by Mrscarter(f): 2:53am On Oct 04, 2020 |
Heroclitus: SPH(small penis humiliation) is a form of bdsm where the man has a below average organ 1-4 inches long and they feel turned on by having a female mock them by using all form of derogatory remarks on them...it goes to as far as always been naked before their Dom and she might even humiliate them further by letting them put on a small Boy's pant cause of their small package
sometimes it may even comparing their small organ with different objects like pins, heels(shoe heels) e.t.c or sometimes the Dom's big toe...
its fun and interesting tho cause they tend to be more humiliated verbally and they love it that way
homewrecking is almost same as cuckold....you go know that one sha,isn't it? I mean cuckold Yeah I've heard of ppl liking being humiliated. Made to lick the floor or clean the toilet with their tounge n stuff. It's weird how sum ppls brains are wired yeah  Na dunno wat cuckold or homewrecking is tho |
Romance › Re: What is the funniest Line You've Heard From A Cheating Partner? by Mrscarter(f): 2:50am On Oct 04, 2020 |
Iretii0511: Eyaaa. That's part of the effect of our parents shying off of sex education early in life. It is well. Lol. Yeah I guess. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ten Of The Craziest Things About Life In North Korea by Mrscarter(f): 2:49am On Oct 04, 2020 |
crackhaus: I've heard/read this too.
An official statement from the US is what is required regarding who was really responsible – not just on JFK, but on a host of other atrocities. Afterall, they love giving official statements when it comes to things happening in other places. Yep true. I know they was doing tests with putting LSD in the civilian water supply. In the 60/70or 80s and they was doing testing on the soldiers with LSD at some stage. They'd have alot of dirty secrets I reckon. In this modern age their country is still fulla racism. |
Romance › Re: What Is The Pettiest Reason Why You Won't Date Someone by Mrscarter(f): 12:52pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
Heroclitus: English oooo....how's fantasizes different from fetishes I guess they're not as obsessive as fetishes? Ion know I'm not really learned as to where fetishes are concerned but fantasies are more something U fantasize bout doing. Like roleplay or a certain scenario U wanna try but most never do. Whereas a fetish is more like a certain one thing Ur right into and like to do. Ion know lol. I guess Ur foot fetish is more of a fantasy atm seeing you've never acted on it. Fantasy of a fetish  |
Romance › Re: What Is The Pettiest Reason Why You Won't Date Someone by Mrscarter(f): 12:48pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
Heroclitus: Ma,I hope you're hubby wouldn't find most of these offensive tho,they are extreme things o...especially SPH
I no longer feel comfortable typing this things knowing you're married
As for those other fantasies you said those guys do pay for...hmmmm....can I talk about how mine is related to that too? There's nothing wrong with talking bout a subject. It's interesting n it's learning. Even if the topic is taboo. It's only a discussion no harm in that ion think. Is no different to googling it if U tell me what they are. So U can tell me what they are n bout yours. Is wat we was discussing although honestly I can't remember the original topic this convo started on lol |
Romance › Re: Which of These Unpopular Opinions Do You Agree With? Share Yours by Mrscarter(f): 12:42pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
mrpaedo: A very moronic post from another self-loather who doesn't know his/her history Everyone knows this forum Nairaland was created by a whiteman  Lol |
Romance › Re: Which of These Unpopular Opinions Do You Agree With? Share Yours by Mrscarter(f): 12:33pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
NewDelhi: Female urine makes the toilet stink more than male urine.
If she pees on the bathroom floor without rinsing with water, a putrid smell awaits you some minutes later Why would a girl pee on the floor? I think male urine is stronger in odour than womens |
Romance › Re: Which of These Unpopular Opinions Do You Agree With? Share Yours by Mrscarter(f): 12:17pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Which of These Unpopular Opinions Do You Agree With? Share Yours by Mrscarter(f): 12:04pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
NewDelhi: Most people stand up from the toilet seat to see the color or what their shit looks like before flushing. Wtf  Why will I wanna do that haha. I suppose some might? |
Romance › Re: Which of These Unpopular Opinions Do You Agree With? Share Yours by Mrscarter(f): 12:02pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
NewDelhi: We all know what Unpopular Opinions are, let's go
1. Danfo drivers are underrated, those guys make more money than some bank staffs like cashiers.
2. Wizkid is a very horrible musician. His songs are usually scarce of lyrics and words. He can repeat a single word like 5 times and he stresses the last word in a line just to kill off time.
3. Sex is overrated.
4. Nigerians are not intelligent, they mistake cunny and deceptive attitudes as being intelligent.
5. If your parents are rich or you came from a very rich or at least averagely rich background, your chances of making it in life are 100%. If from a poor background, it's just 30% .. Forget those grass to grace stories motivational speakers tell you, it's easier said than done.
6. Nigerian parents are some of the most terrible on Earth. They believe the pathway to success is an easy ride. They begin to compare you with the children of friends or strangers who are doing well. If it was that easy, their life should have been better than the current one they're living and at least secure the future of their wards like I stated in 5 above.
7. Yoruba people are rude. Igbo people are arrogant, hausas are friendly and accommodating.
8. Most Igbos go to the village for Christmas to show off their flashy cars and tell the whole community "I have arrived".
9. Okocha wasn't a good footballer. Dancing with the ball or doing meaningless tricks without end product doesn't mean you're good. Reason big clubs weren't really after him, nobody cares about "snake bite" or "toros". What a football fan wants is end result.
10. Yoruba girls have big backsides and love sex alot.
11. Most people think couples have sex on their wedding night but that's not usually true. They are usually very tired and will rather sleep off after a very stressful day
12. Nigerian girls dress to attract the opposite sex and not to look good. That's why you see most of them fold a long shirt up to their waist so their ass can be more visible.
13. Nigeria has some of the worse educational system in the world. A university isn't just about reading textbooks, it involves research. Reason why most graduates can't perform well practically in the labour market.
14 The first thing a Nigerian girl will do when pulling off are panties or after pulling it off is to check if there are stains in it.
15. Rice is an overrated food.
16. Lil Wayne is one of the most overrated rapper of all time
17. America isn't as powerful as they've made the whole world to think.
18. Fela wasn't a good musician/singer. What made him.popular was the message he passed accrossed.
19. We aren't killing the planet, we're killing ourselves, and the planet will restore itself after we're gone.
20. Saying money can't buy happiness is very false and untrue.
21. Titanic is an overrated movie. It's cool, but not worth the hype it has gotten over the years.
That's mine, share yours. Lil Wayne is a good rapper but he is a little overrated. He does collabs better than rapping on his own in my opinion. Money can buy short lived happiness but not the real things like true love, honesty, loyalty, trust, faithfulness, true friendship. How can U know Ur real friends or if Ur gf loves U if Ur loaded or if they after Ur money? Sex is definitely not overrated if Ur doing it with the right person and doing it right  |
Romance › Re: What Is The Pettiest Reason Why You Won't Date Someone by Mrscarter(f): 11:21am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Heroclitus: is it a good idea to spill all here... not at all
Did you also see where I wrote about financial dominations(findom) and homewrecking That kicking of balls and all are still mild ones compared to the rest... its been great conversing with you ma
Oya,I'm interested, just feet adoration alone and won't trespass, help me ma,I've actually never had the opportunity to that before all my life despite how much I've fantasized about it...nothing like blowing or whatever
Also,do you know about SPH? I dunno much bout any fetishes really only wat ave already mentioned. I'm not into any personally. Sum fantasies yeah but no fetishes. Never heard of findom or homewrecking. Pls explain em to me? Nor SPH |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ten Of The Craziest Things About Life In North Korea by Mrscarter(f): 11:12am On Oct 03, 2020 |
thelinguist: And we know they have nukes we've seen Kim Jong oong watching them practice. Why do they need them.
Why do America need nukes? I agree. No one should have em. We'll end up destroying the planet. |
Romance › Re: How Do You Differentiate Between Good Pussy And Bad Pussy? by Mrscarter(f): 11:09am On Oct 03, 2020 |
telkevog: Good Pussy go de kill rat for your house, while bad pussy go de chop fish and crayfish for your wife kitchen. Yes na me answer am, we will not go that place you wan carry us go. Nonsense and ingredients!  |
Romance › Re: How Do You Differentiate Between Good Pussy And Bad Pussy? by Mrscarter(f): 11:08am On Oct 03, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by Mrscarter(f): 10:47am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Omowunmikay: Women orgasm too.. Yeah. Our orgasm lasts longer than a males does. And we can orgasm repeatedly without a rest in between whereas men need that rest to get hard again. I think sex can still be enjoyable if it's done right even without having an orgasm. But the orgasm is the cherry on top of the ice cream lol |
Romance › Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by Mrscarter(f): 10:44am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Ever8090: If I no orgasm wetin I gain...?..I dey orgasm by just watching her remove her pant...  |
Romance › Re: Q & A: Should Sex Always Lead To Orgasm by Mrscarter(f): 10:44am On Oct 03, 2020 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Ten Of The Craziest Things About Life In North Korea by Mrscarter(f): 10:33am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Guyman02: Have you or any member of your family ever traveled to NK? That was how you people were deceived by CNN that Gaddafi was killing his own people until America destroyed Libya and we found out that Libyans lived better than most countries in Europe No but I've seen footage online of ppl who've visited n sneaked in cameras aswell as saw ppl who've escaped n told their stories Also I dnt believe everything the Americans say. They've done bad shit to their citizens in the past. They think they rule the world. I don't believe everything U see on the news or in the media either. If NK have nothing to hide why are they so secretive. Why aren't the ppl allowed to leave or barely anyone allowed to visit. Why are they so cut off from the rest of the world. And we know they have nukes we've seen Kim Jong oong watching them practice. Why do they need them. No country should use them they could destroy us all. Why do the ppl practically worship Kim. Why does everything in the country revolve around him, books, statues, pics everywhere of him. Why don't we see the ppl and how do they survive without importing things from other countries like every country does. I believe it all cos none of it adds up. You never see ordinary citizens travel anywhere, or on tv, or doin things the rest of the world are doing. |
Romance › Re: What is the funniest Line You've Heard From A Cheating Partner? by Mrscarter(f): 10:32am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Iretii0511: I just remember this line from my ex yesterday and I started laughing at myself.
Me: Babe, but what is it that I didn't give in this relationship that you still have to cheat?
Babe: I am sorry, it's just 3 times that I had sex with him and I didn't even enjoy it because all I was thinking about was you. He was even angry when I told him to do what he wants to do I stand up he got angry. I can't enjoy sex with anybody but you.
Me: Really?
Iretii0511 don die I swear
Post yours let's have fun. When I was 16 n a virgin I was kissing n just touching outside the clothes with my ex n he told me now I've turned him on if I don't have sex with him he will be in pain all night really bad pain cos he's hard n the only way to stop the pain is to let him. Needless to say I lost my virginity that night;-( I was very naive n worse my mum found out and I got in trouble lol |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ten Of The Craziest Things About Life In North Korea by Mrscarter(f): 10:01am On Oct 03, 2020 |
crackhaus: As well every country has issues, but the lies are quite ridiculous. LOL
The US government still hasn't found out who was really behind the assassination of JFK which happened right in their backyard, but somehow they know who is responsible for assassinating people in far-away NK.  I believe the CIA assisted JFK. He was gonna spill their secrets I read somewhere |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ten Of The Craziest Things About Life In North Korea by Mrscarter(f): 9:52am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Orpe7: This way, females don't get to cloag the toilet with their pads lol Lol. Any woman putting their pads/tampons dwn the toilet don't have much of a brain |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ten Of The Craziest Things About Life In North Korea by Mrscarter(f): 9:47am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Lightangel65: Just like hitler said l, if you want to conquer a race, gradually take away their rights, soon they would think their lack of rights is normal. Thats what their leaders are doing.
And the sanctions, if north Korean leaders can just behave well they would not be sanctioned, the reason why they were sanctioned in the first place is because of their fat overgrown baby sex addict of a leader, i heard he was in coma and a plot involving his sis trying to kill him But he's conquering his own race. It dnt make sense to force the ppl you're responsible for to live in these awful conditions |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ten Of The Craziest Things About Life In North Korea by Mrscarter(f): 9:39am On Oct 03, 2020 |
YesNoMaybe: Rubbishery!
A nation which can create nuclear weapons cannot manufacture sanitary pads, abi?
Lie easy! Their rulers dnt see it as a necessity I guess. The civilians arent important to them. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ten Of The Craziest Things About Life In North Korea by Mrscarter(f): 9:36am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Guyman02: Thanks, people who get all their news from CNN will believe this trash, how can NK have nuclear weapons feared by the West, precision guided missiles and hack US computers if all those were true? A starving person can not do all the above. Common sense is not common Only the civilians are starving. Not Kim Jong oong whatever his name is n I doubt his military are hungry either |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ten Of The Craziest Things About Life In North Korea by Mrscarter(f): 9:33am On Oct 03, 2020 |
henryobinna: Like you've been fighting for here in Nigeria. 
Make una sha dey calm down Na that lifestyles worse. Atleast in naija U don't live as bad as that. I meant oppressed not impressed too  Damn autocorrect lol |
Romance › Re: What Is The Pettiest Reason Why You Won't Date Someone by Mrscarter(f): 9:30am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Heroclitus: Your reply has just tempted me to spill out everything on my mind....can I trust you enough to speak exclusively about all these things you talked about and how it also relates to me?
Omg!you know about onlyfans?....I can't believe this
If you also knew about some dirty fetishes that I've seen guys/men pay for, you'd ask for the world to end right now...I know about all these ones you wrote about and I also know about worse ones too(like financial domination and home wrecking) I follow a lot of them on twitter and they make thousands of dollars every month... it's marveling
Shey u will try it and you might even not let your face be seen or maybe seen with masks on... just feet pic lol
let's talk Lol. Is a good way to make money just taking care of Ur feet n posting pics n raking in the cash  But na isn't my thing lol. I better stop talking bout my bodily bits cos my hubby is on NL and he may not like it lol. Lol U feel like spilling out everything for all of NL to see isn't a good idea. But yeah there's a fetish for everything just bout and some of its disturbing, some horrifying (like this dark web fetish site I read bout that gets like Asian women naked crushing live puppies n kittens with their high heels killing them/torture of animals n ppl/ rape/snuff type videos where ppl get off watching someone get murdered) yeah it's sad the things some sick ppl get aroused by. The unusual ones like foot fetish n that they're harmless ones that hurt nobody so isn't anything to be ashamed of. If U ever decide U want the foot without the rest of the body tho Holla me I'll get U help   Am just joking lol. |
Romance › Re: What Is The Pettiest Reason Why You Won't Date Someone by Mrscarter(f): 9:23am On Oct 03, 2020 |
Heroclitus: But the nail beds(nails surface) are wide sha Don't wanna talk about your feet joo...lemme resist the urge to seek more info about it,make I no go over talk Hahaha I usually don't talk bout my feet I just like taking care of them. Is good to take care of one's body it's the only one we get n is your vessel for life. Ion get how sum ppl take such care n put so much effort into polishing, buffing n washing their cars, detailing them but their bodies are dry skin, too fat/too skinny, dry hair, dirty hair, dirty feet bad teeth etc Howzat make sense abi |
Romance › Re: What Is The One Thing You Don't Like About Yourself? by Mrscarter(f): 9:19am On Oct 03, 2020 |
LINTUNE: u are right, i like criteria on the matter..im working on it , we all have our flaws as humans, and nobody is perfect..thanks anyways for ur contribution, u sound so intelligent and courteous, lol not like the typical women of nairaland... Na is just common sense. Yeah none of us are perfect. Good luck:-) |