Romance › Re: Guys Be Careful So That Your Woman Wunt Turn You To A Sperm Donor by Mrscarter(f): 10:49am On Oct 08, 2020 |
DenreleDave: U don't no anything bro.. The world has changed..
Ladies opt to be single mothers now So wat if the world has changed. Some things will always remain the same. Having a child changes everything for a woman. Especially if a single mother. |
Romance › Re: Guys Be Careful So That Your Woman Wunt Turn You To A Sperm Donor by Mrscarter(f): 10:47am On Oct 08, 2020 |
DenreleDave: Some ladies wants to be single mother...
Dey don't need a man to be bossing them around
They have money to take care of their kids for life It takes more than money to raise a child. Wat right has a woman got to deny her child a father? And even deny the father his child? Is better for the child to have both parents around. |
Romance › Re: Guys Be Careful So That Your Woman Wunt Turn You To A Sperm Donor by Mrscarter(f): 10:45am On Oct 08, 2020 |
MrTAnonymous: I have met a lot of women who prefers to be a single mother.
Incase you don't know na me talk If that is so tell me the benefits of being a single mother(for both mother and the child) |
Romance › Re: Guys Be Careful So That Your Woman Wunt Turn You To A Sperm Donor by Mrscarter(f): 10:43am On Oct 08, 2020 |
DenreleDave: U r wrong.. Just like some men wants baby mamas, some ladies does want single mother life too Are U a single mother? Or is that what you want? Which ladies U know want this? U or them must be mad. Is no woman's dream to bring a child up with one parent n no woman wants to be alone |
Romance › Re: Guys Be Careful So That Your Woman Wunt Turn You To A Sperm Donor by Mrscarter(f): 10:40am On Oct 08, 2020 |
DenreleDave: Guys, men, alphas, simps... Pls marry a woman.
Don't marry a sperm donor .. Don't marry a slay queen...
A WOMAN (WIFE) A woman will refer u as a father, daddy, lover, friend.. She wants to live her best part of her life with you and ur kids.. She loved you from the start and always loved u.. Your kids make her remember you and she will never do anything that will tarnish the relationship or break the family...
Example of women Omotola jolade, joke silva and Co..
A SPERM Donor (Ladies with no intention to marry, they just use to make kids)
A sperm donor will dump you after having kids.. She doesn't have plan to stay married for life.. Marriage is not her thing, she only needs a baby(ies). She need an offspring and the only way she can get it is to deceive you into marriage and after giving her kids, she will dump u for no explanation... If she doesn't dump you, she will start behaving wayward so dt u can dump her... She is originally set out to be a single mother..
Example of sperm donors
Tiwa Savage, Tonto dike and so
Watchword: Avoid sperm donors... Those ladies will ruin you, they don't care.. They never cared
What sane woman wants a man to get her pregnant n be left on their own to raise a child? If things didn't work out for some reason/s n they split it don't mean the woman wanted things to turn out that way. Sometimes the woman has no choice n the man gives her belle n leaves her, sometimes callously  But also some women can drive their man away too. But no woman really wants to raise a child alone. I have a friend who's man went out like on any other day to do stuff n one day she was halfway thru pregnancy n he just never came back n I saw her go thru that heartbreak aswell as pregnancy, labour n raising a child alone n no girl would envy that. Wat woman doesn't want a beautiful family, a father for her children and a good husband? |
Romance › Re: Chat Between Two Lovers Every Girl Must See To Learn by Mrscarter(f): 10:32am On Oct 08, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: See What A Lady Did To Her Fiance That Got Nigerians Talking by Mrscarter(f): 10:09am On Oct 08, 2020 |
MrTAnonymous: “Should we tell him now or later” – See what a lady did to her fiance that got Nigerians talking
A Facebooker identified as Inyene Akpan shared a very arguable post in a group on Facebook and Nigerians couldn’t give a break with their reactions.
In the photo the man who obviously thinks he is having a good time with his girlfriend is rather having a really hard time.
In all the photos in the collage, the girl is pictured hiding her face as much as she can from the camera. This clearly shows the girl is just in for his money but has no feelings for him.
See Photo Below;
Here are few reactions from Nigerians;
Lalasticlala Rocktation farano
Incase you don't know na me talk Well she dnt like like much of a prize herself  |
Romance › Re: Caught In An Entanglement, What Can I Do by Mrscarter(f): 9:13am On Oct 08, 2020*. Modified: 9:37am On Oct 08, 2020 |
Jaculze: I met this gyal one time on my way back from work about a month ago, we talked and then got closer and then we've been into ourselves ever since. Always coming to my house and spending the nights despite that she stays alone as well and she don't stay far from me. The problem now is that she has a guy and they've been together for a while now, she was truthful about her having a guy (it's not like I found out myself). I've told her a few times thst I would love to date her if she didn't have someone cos I've been single for like 3years now. I've thought about leaving her cos I can't afford to have myself caught in a quagmire but I see alot of value in her, she's my kinda spec, very smart and we share ideas and information alot fcukk! I wished I can continue making her my side chick but I'm already loving up already. I told her last night about everything after she complained that I don't give her time anymore and I'm always too rigid with her. I told her to choose between me and the guy(I still think it's like a very stupid thing to say cos she met this dude before me and she claims to also like the guy too). If you were me in this kinda situation, what would be your action? Please be honest and pardon my jagajaga writing.
Ps: if you call me names, 600 years sure for you lol I would walk away cos Ur causing pain to the other guy for starters n if she cheated on him with you wats stopping her doing the same to you? N if U both can't let go then she should atleast choose U n let the other guy have a chance at finding someone faithful instead of keeping up sharing her. I mean let's face it, she'd be bleeping both of you yeah? |
Romance › Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Mrscarter(f): 7:12am On Oct 08, 2020 |
Curious345: It's with a heavy heart I write you this story. I am about to get married ,but the lady is not a virgin.
What do I do please ? Do i call off the wedding ?
Marrying a virgin is biblical and quarannical. It's always been my dream. I thought I would be lucky in this dark world . But alas I fell into that same web of distortion which I feared the most .
How can I marry a woman whose punna has been used to play PIANO by men of different shades? Will God in heaven forgive me?
I always had this belief that if I marry a lady who is not a virgin, i am dishonoring my creator.
So what to do ?
If I call off this wedding at the last minute (I am seriously considering it ) can I still find a virgin lady to marry before December?
House ,I need your word on this imbroglio Guy u live in a modern world, it won't be so easy to find a virgin n especially one that has everything U want in a women. U may find a virgin but she may not be attractive or maybe bad wife material for example or have bad habits U don't like. Whereas U must be attracted to the woman Ur with now so are U willing to give her up just in for the unlikely chance ull find a virgin, one that suits you anyway? Wats so special bout virginity in this day n age? Are U a virgin too? |
Romance › Re: What Is It That You Learned The Hard Way In Life? by Mrscarter(f): 8:27am On Oct 07, 2020 |
Xoly: Me: that nobody cares  Share yours... That no matter how much U do for someone, appreciation is rarely given. Not to take things/people for granted. Making the same mistake over n over but sometimes U still dnt learn. That just because U want something doesn't mean you'll get it  |
Romance › Re: What Is It That You Learned The Hard Way In Life? by Mrscarter(f): 8:11am On Oct 07, 2020 |
JOACHINpedro: That commenting on her status won't take you to her paradise Lol |
Romance › Re: Is This The Average Thinking Of Nigeria Ladies? (pics Included) by Mrscarter(f): 11:17am On Oct 06, 2020 |
kunkelhanspeter: How are you doing and you reply me just Fine I don block you immediately Yeah I find it rude one word responses lol. Even if they're not meant to be. But me I take it as a sign they not interested in talking to me or in giving me their time |
Romance › Re: See My Handsome Face Girls Are Dying For by Mrscarter(f): 10:55am On Oct 06, 2020 |
Xoly: [color=#000000]I ain't clicking sh*t  [/color]  |
Romance › Re: No Love Lost,no Love Found. by Mrscarter(f): 10:47am On Oct 06, 2020 |
Angrygoat: Bubch of lazy ,hopeless,senseless,useless set of slowpoke bred fish brained clueless greedy glutton we have as Nigerian ladies. At this hard time,i dashed out 15k to the enemy. I am so mad . Bleep the cooking and cleaning,its my money. Im onto the next slave. Id start pilling up my laundry. Waiting on the next slave . You ungrateful greedy women shall remain my slaves,no more 15k.cook n clean now 5k. Her hahahahahaha U want a good woman n not just a greedy one but guy U gotta change Ur attitude before a good decent woman would stay with U let alone a gold digging one  |
Romance › Re: No Love Lost,no Love Found. by Mrscarter(f): 10:27am On Oct 06, 2020 |
Angrygoat: I gave my gal 15k in the last one week and ahe showed lil or no appreciation even after sexing me and cooking and cleaning. So to set myself free i deleted her number few days ago and stopped chatting and calling her. To my suprise,i wasnf even noticed. The issue now is will karma affect her later in life. A girl of 25yrs still no sense of appreciation rather self entitlement mentality. Imagine 15000 naira minus enjoyment. I think i should start mastubating cause naija ladies are truly not worth the stress. I know if i sent 15k to a friend in need,how he would value it. I'm going depressed and do3ever think i would fall in love again or get married to a nigerian lady. They are all collectors and gold diggers. Honestly I don't agree with taking money from my man but U gave her 15k n she cleaned, cooked n gave U sex and what sort of appreciation do U want from her really? If she didn't say thanku then that's rude cos is common courtesy but if she did I mean then what else do U want her to do lol. Ur talking like her giving U sex is a favour U done her lol. Even U sound like her cooking n cleaning for U is U doing her a favour. Maybe U was acting that way to her n that's y she didn't care U deleted her number. If I cook, clean n have sex it's for my man and myself n if he acted like I'm doing him a favour doing all that I wouldn't care if he gave me a million dollars I wouldn't want someone like that. Did U appreciate her so she could appreciate U aswell. These things are mutual. Just saying maybe wasn't all her but maybe you too? |
Romance › Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Mrscarter(f): 10:03am On Oct 06, 2020 |
IvyGRush: OK, would sit to enjoy and appreciate the maturity in you from afar. I just hope you keep holding on and don't derail someday. What Dad told you would never be shut at any point in time. So keep the fire burning right and read your books and bible religiously. Thanks. Yeah someday soon you may see our pics up on here. I dnt read the bible as much as I should but occasionally I do. U take care ok |
Romance › Re: How Many Times Should Couple Have Sex In A Week? by Mrscarter(f): 9:52am On Oct 06, 2020 |
Nasir123: Abeg! Experience answers pls!
How many times in a week is OK for husband and Wife to dey have sex?
Abeg make nobody talk anyhow I need honest answers. I think everyday. I'm the type to be wanting my man every day maybe sometime during the day and maybe at bedtime n sometimes in the night if I wake. Depends how we both feeling. But anytime he wanna I'm all for it  But some days may differ but that's me on most days lol. I love my man  |
Romance › Re: How Many Times Should Couple Have Sex In A Week? by Mrscarter(f): 9:43am On Oct 06, 2020 |
paulolee: 21 times a week...DTS 3 times a day....d funi issh is when u finally get married and after some months, you would understand why people say "sex is overrated" especially when u de find pikin after years in marriage, by then you go see sex as work... Na it's upto the couple to make time for each other, kids or no and be intimate n keep that flame burning. U gotta keep things alive in that bedroom especially after your married. |
Romance › Re: How Many Times Should Couple Have Sex In A Week? by Mrscarter(f): 9:37am On Oct 06, 2020 |
dingbang: stingy .yeah that's stingy even for one day for me  |
Romance › Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Mrscarter(f): 9:29am On Oct 06, 2020 |
IvyGRush: Interesting, isn't it? From the way you write, I can guess your age. You don't want to be regarded as a Child Bride � abi?
But on a serious note, I ent joking!!! I believe you. Na I can't upload mine n my husbands personal stuff up here on a public forum. He's a nairalander aswell. |
Romance › Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Mrscarter(f): 8:26am On Oct 06, 2020 |
professore: well said maam, but we don't even need to reach 20 before doing what is right, then again I don't believe relationship is for someone under 20 in the first instance. Yeah in your teens Ur younger n more prone to making silly choices n are more immature n by your 20s U should have learned from those mistakes n the hurt they can cause etc. Some ppl are already sensible n do what's right at such a younger age but I find most ppl make bad choices n stuff. |
Romance › Re: What Is The Pettiest Reason Why You Won't Date Someone by Mrscarter(f): 6:05am On Oct 06, 2020 |
Heroclitus: You can open this using any browser,you don't need to have the app(as I do not either)
Chrome or opera will take you directly to their page...just check what's on their bio Ok I'll check it out yeah |
Romance › Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Mrscarter(f): 6:05am On Oct 06, 2020 |
professore: help me tell them. Yeah ppl are always who cheats most men or women. But it's not a gender thing cos both do it. Is more of an individual thing. A choice one makes. Is pointless being in a relationship n trying to build a connection if U only bringing other ppl into the mix. It just confuses things, causes mess n drama n hurt. Ppl should grow outta that kinda thing by the time we reach 20yo |
Romance › Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Mrscarter(f): 6:03am On Oct 06, 2020 |
IvyGRush: Apt and Concise. I must Confess Beloved, you made my Day. You killed it!
Infact, can we get married? ��� Lol. Am already recently married. |
Romance › Re: Be Completely Honest. What's Hard About Dating You by Mrscarter(f): 6:02am On Oct 06, 2020 |
Kissiemu: Nne men!
which one is friends with benefits? Lol. I've never had one of those kinda friends which I think is a gud thing |
Romance › Re: Not In a Good Mood This Evening [Picture] by Mrscarter(f): 9:06am On Oct 05, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: She Loves Another Guy; Should I Still Care About Her? by Mrscarter(f): 6:53am On Oct 05, 2020 |
WrittyWritter: I'm beginning to slowly dislike u..girls like u is y boys don't respect us again and think if dey have money dey can get us..U think money is everything..mtcheeeeew
Op if u listen to dis one advice I'm sorry 4 u she will just love ur money which I think she already does and not u..don't be surprised if she later leaves u for d other guy after u spend a lot on her Finally another sensible girl  I dnt see how other girls can't see how unattractive it is to use people n be thought of as a leech, a user or as being shallow n as entitled or easily brought. Don't ask for wat U didn't earn yeah. Men will respect U more n wanna be with you for keeps if your worth respecting and loving. |
Romance › Re: She Loves Another Guy; Should I Still Care About Her? by Mrscarter(f): 6:44am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Zzor: but he loves the girl,so he should do all he can to get her I couldn't be with someone I'm not attracted to in anyway or don't love no matter how much money they got. The thought of letting sum guy touch me just cos I want something from him makes my skin crawl. Same as arranged marriages no way in hell could I do that stuff. Lol give the guy some good advice. Have compassion joor lol |
Romance › Re: She Loves Another Guy; Should I Still Care About Her? by Mrscarter(f): 6:31am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Zzor: Do you have money? if yes,then buy very expensive gifts for her and do her biddings, she will begin to gradually have affection for you,just be impressing her but don't choke her,let your money do the talking So he should buy her love? Is that one love  Isn't possible to buy love cos if U gotta buy it, it really ain't love tho is it. Is just selling your time n attention n maybe Ur body to the guy. If I was the guy id find another girl he knows she got feelings for the other guy n us girls know wen U love someone that love ain't just gonna disappear just cos they dnt love U back n another guy comes along n buys U things. Atleast it will take time for that love to fade |
Romance › Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by Mrscarter(f): 6:25am On Oct 05, 2020 |
LINTUNE: u are wise..im sure u not nigerian.. No is just wat I believe in n yes I'm nigerian. I just lived abroad for a while n got to see how different things can be but am back home now. |
Romance › Re: Those Who Ended Their Relationship Due To Genotype, Please Share Your Experience by Mrscarter(f): 6:17am On Oct 05, 2020*. Modified: 9:02am On Oct 05, 2020 |
NobleAngell: Prayers right? Look, I believe so much in the power of prayers but as a Christian, you should know that you are not to test God. |
Romance › Re: Those Who Ended Their Relationship Due To Genotype, Please Share Your Experience by Mrscarter(f): 5:56am On Oct 05, 2020*. Modified: 9:01am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Wiselyimbecilli: Am a young man who is planning on getting married soon. I have dated this girl for over 1 year, we had fallen so deeply into each other until last two months wen she told me her genotype. I was very heartbroken. We tried getting medical advice on any possible means of ensuring only healthy children, but the answer remained the same "it's very risky". So we had a weekend outing and towards d end of it,, we broke up. I saw her cry and it was really a devastating experience.
Now I have this childhood friend I want to ask out, she is a pretty and hardworking lady from a very decent family. She also knows my intentions. Later today, I intend popping up dat scary question "wats ur genotype?". The possible answers to this question have given me sleepless nights. It's not easy to find someone dat would fit into ur life perfectly, and wen someone like me does, then I will have to scale this genotype hurdle
This life no just balance |