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manee2:
I just want to be concise. we're colleagues at work, I love her and have intentions to marry her, I think she loves me too. Aside the love she's supportive also,we're more like a team.
She came to stay with me for some weeks. I initiated this so i could monitor her thoroughly on family matters but unfortunately, i found out some really bad qualities in her.

SHE IS LAZY :- I do most of the dishes,. cooking, heating bathing water and cleaning, laundry itself must be done together. Using stress from work as an excuse of which i get also.

Initially i never had issues doing all those cos i see it romantic until the worst of it all happened last night being reason why i need your good and experience advices so i wouldn't be making a mistake. It was really awkward when i came back from work which she didn't go and noticed she messed the toilet up without flushing because water wasn't pumped and she found it difficult to fetch from a tap in the compound.

I think my neighbors have noticed this unacceptable characters also.

I don't want to sound comparative, my last date( a colleague at work too) was a direct opposite of her. She is a complete woman but never supportive. She wanted me all for herself that made me not have time for my siblings which I resisted and it affected our marital plans and led to break up.
What's the best approach to this so i wouldn't hurt her?
Please advices are needed#Thanks

LINTUNE:
when we have wife's that feels giving thier husband sex is a big favour, wht do u expect men to do...so a well to do , handsome guy will now be little himself to beg for sex, from his wife?, its not possible na, the wife ought to know that her hubby is a hot cake outside.....

Heroclitus:
Check out this link first and see her posts
https://mobile.twitter.com/DemonessItalia

check this too...read her bio
https://mobile.twitter.com/cuckqueanwifey

professore:
I particularly like your conclusion.

Heroclitus:
Okay cuckold is the one in which a married partner(most times the husband) derives pleasure from watching another guy sleeping with his wife while he's been reduced to just a spectator and might be task with doing things like preparing the room before and after their their acts e.t.c some men even pay for the dinner dates between their wife and the man


It makes them feel humiliated, like not being man enough to please their woman and seeing their wife getting used by another man is a great turn on for them... And in some cases,it could be the wife that'd be interested I'm watching her hubby do so to another woman



And as for homewrecking....lol,I'm coming first

Heroclitus:
Hmm...you'd be the type that talks a lot offline(in person) you type like we are having a one on one conversation... I enjoy that


And as for those sexual stuff you talked about,its gonna be really nice doing all those to a woman's body, I think their body is meant to be adored could be seen from the difference in their skin texture in relation to that of the male...their body feels divine to touch


As for the SPH,I'm really serious about it and it was why I never went down with any lady till I graduated uni, I do feel somehow telling them firsthand before they find out themselves but now,the fear has transformed to 100% fantasy


I now dream/wish to get mocked, jested and trash talked about it,I no longer feel bad about it(something I can't change, I didn't even make myself it that way too)
As far as its coming from a Lady, I'm cool with it,they could even compare it to anything sef even down to their middle finger, I'll be pleased


I should explain away,no p...but why are you afraid about the feet...tell me

Goalnaldo:
Once girls/ladies see car ehn...one incident happened one day in front of my house. A guy and his babe was strolling and his friend stopped his car to give them a lift. The babe rushed to sit at the front sit. The guy said "you wan sit for front of my guy car. No try am o ". I just laughed.

0KNM:
finally. Sigh!

Yea, we meuve

Heroclitus:
Wasn't absent minded, I actually thought you were already getting tired of the more weird fetishes I was trying to reveal to you and that's why I deliberately put that aside


As for your friend,I wish her well and also quick recovery for the baby


Thats a big question tho, but do you know how close minded most Nigerians are,most ladies that I've met felt i was a psycho to have had the those thoughts and even some felt it has to do with self-esteem and after long periods of continuous conviction, I had to stop telling most about those


I really do hope that I meet one and I'm gonna so much adore her ehn,she'd feel like the goddess of the universe...lol


What's bad in licking a pretty and clean feet and as for that SPH, I don't just develop that fantasy, it stemmed from my having an underdeveloped organ...its a big question how I'll ever meet a lady that'd wanna spend time with someone with such lil....

0KNM:
No, the comment isn’t important to me. I’m just pointing out the confusion in your initial comment.

But like you said, we meuve

dukeprince50:
not four legs but tire.
I remember back then in SS1, a guy with bicycle collect my babe.

Even way back as a kid, in early 2000, my cousin sister will always like me to push her in our wheelbarrow. life ehn

0KNM:
you are confused

Are these highlighted lines same?

Heroclitus:
The texting pattern has changed, I understand you and in all it's been nice chatting with you,what actually led to this long Congo was me saying I'd never date a lady that doesn't like to apply nail Polish on her toes and we keep sharing different views about the stuff


Greet your friend for me,I'd like to meet her too and I look forward to mistakenly setting my eyes on your feet someday

Sameazy15:
I pity myself, the one dat introduce him to bet9ja,his wife and his children haa bet9ja na bastard that man na addict for bet9ja

Paromarc:
Don't ask, just show her your rod and wink

TheUndercover:
A Nigerian boyfriend has expressed disappointment after his girlfriend charged his mom for making her hair in same hair dressing salon he paid for.
Trouble started when the said boyfriend sent his mom to make her hair at his girlfriend's hair dressing salon and later learnt she paid for the service.

He then confronted his girlfriend to know why she charged his mom knowing fully well she's her future mother-in-law.
The girlfriend however maintained her stand that she wasn't ready to mix business with pleasure, noting she couldn't reject the money his mom offered.
The boyfriend was quick to remind her that he helped her set up the salon by paying for its rent, provides for her needs and shouldn't have charged his mom.

He also added that, if she must collect money after making his mother's hair, she should have asked him to pay and he would have gladly paid.
The boyfriend also regretted investing in her, noting that she spoilt the one opportunity she could have used to bond with her future mother-in-law;
Read full conversation from the leaked WhatsApp chat below;

ZIINI:
Will i now say ozzor parents didn't raise her well
Dis thing dey wan kind

ZIINI:
I doubt if you're a woman
Or perhaps maybe not a Nigerian

0KNM:
yea, like meth

0KNM:
yea, like meth

Stephenmoka4:
Mistake there covers abuse, cheat, failed responsibility, detachment, selfishness, non obvious offenses etc

Heroclitus:
And even the feet adoration, you aren't saying anything about it... just feet and nothing more


Ma, I forgot to add that I have SPH fantasy too

StPete:
The way you're laughing, you seem like someone with a loud ringtone

DaInferno:
be like when the first sin you commit is a mistake, then the other ones you commit are the real sins

I get

PUNAengineOIL:
I'm very sure this person is not a woman Or she is not Nigerian.

ArticleBeast:
Some girl dey loud while some no dey shout even if u drive dangote truck pass the kuntus... I don meet both for this life. I get one babe wey be say even finger she go dey do mummy o.... Dey do voice like parrot wey dem just comot cage. While it get another wey be say even if I dey do 200km/h full throttle, na hmm hmm hmm she go dey do...

tnerro1:
I remember that time when I Dey hammer my babe, my female neighbor go just Dey tell me Weldon any time we jam for passage, if no be say she done old small I for show her too shege

Kingsasian:
I remember vividly how my then lodge mate and his girlfriend at the time use to make us feel Hot each time they have sex. Na so the babe ringtone dey make we guys dey patrol the compound with erections.

Shabbyiyo:
I always remember when I was in school, I have a close neighbor that every time his bae is around all the compound neighbors will be jubilating to hear different sounds at night while fucking.
She will be screaming and moaning on top o her voice not minding if people are listening.

How do you cope as a woman screaming and moaning when you fully know that people are listen.

As a man how comfortable are you fucking a screaming woman in a face me I face you compound?

Please share your face me I face you sex experience.

0KNM:
you are confused

Zzor:
Most Nigerian men have this mentality that a good woman should not like money,she should be ready to suffer with them(they will maltreat her after the money comes),she should also not see anything wrong with cheating as long as they are providing for the family.Why must a woman undergo all these before she can be tagged a good woman?Is she your mother?