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I hope some of the akata sistas on NL are not dating you niggas. But then again desperation is a mofo for some.

No.

[size=55pt]Kobe DID not make it into the championship game. How embarrassing.[/size]

ogugua88:
OP,

Do understand that not all Nigerian/black women are like that. I can understand you being turned off because you've had bad experiences with some others. I won't advise you to start dating another race, ethnicity, or nationality because of your ex-girlfriends lol. I've had a few bad boyfriends but I've learned to not rule others out because of how I was treated by the few in my past. There's good and bad in everyone and everything, so I think you should be open-minded.

Anyway, I do think you should change your mentality.

Maybe it's just me, but I look for the good in people rather than the bad. I don't go on dates with a checklist in my head, and then lose interest in a guy once a few items on the list have been checked off lol. Do you ever think to yourself that you might be identifying traits that aren't even there? It seems like you want to date these women but you're looking for flaws that may or may not be there.

Good response and gracias.  I still think he was dumped and upset at the rest of the black girls.  Plus those same dicks that just "yeah man" would be complaining and bitching if Mama Gee created a similar thread. Oh wait! She did and it surpassed five pages of BOYS crying and moaning. Hypocrites. They sure the hell didn't "ignore the thread".

NinjaOlu:
, Hilarious.

Why not just state your opinion in English so everyone else could understand? Just typical immature behavior. I welcome your view; I made this topic. But you speak in another language ASSuming people won't understand.

I'm not blaming you or the black race of women! I stated the women I have been with (three not one) and most of the women I know put me off a serious relationship with women - mainly, because they act like you. Enraged all the time for no reason. I'm not going to argue with you if you put up nothing worthy to comment on. You are not worthy.

For the record, I dumped them all

Sure you dumped them all and WHY ARE YOU UPSET THEN?

I can respond in any language I want to respond in. No se puede hacer mierda al respecto.

[size=44pt]FAINTED.[/size]^^^^^^^


Dshitty!  May the snake violate you ooo 

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=688800.msg8505869#msg8505869 date=1307899927]mRS cHIMA MAKE SURE YOU CALL THIS DUDE OOO

CUSTOMERS ARE NOT EASY TO GET THESE DAYS YOU KNOW? [/quote]You should know.

I know the POSTER is not talking about being there for your spouse or partner in their time of needs. Control as in being the one to make the final decision and scold the other person if they are not obeying the controller.

Controlling a woman or man that spends money is not going to help because resentment is unpredictable and uncontrollable. But good luck on that people!

Tim,

Dsense can make arrangements to meet you in Lagos in a few weeks. He is agile and healthy.

I will make sure he has his rabies shot before arriving to Lagos so he doesn't bite you. I am not picky on the price in fact you can have him for free.


Lotion your toes Dsense. Presentation is important!

Dsense,

The babies need diapers and cereal.

Don't be fooled Tim! That's his celly number!

Yeah, I will let my woman drive my car.

r231:
welfare money must be about some thousand pounds den. . . . don you think

dude get your facts right

welfare money can't even buy you a designer brief. . . . let alone cloths duhhh

Can you buy me a pair of socks?

Timismith1:
chima what your number?

Check out my website for fans and leave a message there.  

www.unaperratonto.org

I am waiting.  

If I was going to be anyone sugar mommy TRUST it wouldn't be NO ONE from HERE.    

If I am going to pay for something I want the BEST QUALITY and worth my coins.  


Now go rub the camel shit in your face Dshitty.

Blazay:
Most Nigerian men do this in Nigeria. All they wanno do is to be eating old pooshies to set themselves up. One man may have up to 5 sugar mommies.


Why do you think most of the inhabitants of the cyber airways designate UK. . . No job. Hustlers. . . looking for customers!

You are absolutely correct! Even in the US too! I know of one Igbo guy here that just keeps jumping from one old white woman to another. . . living off them in exchange for sexual favors. He drives the best cars and has refused to settle down after marrying one white woman and producing a child with cerebral palsy. . .he abandoned the woman and the child after getting his green card!
Marrying a Nigerian man from the UK in this day and age? Hehn-hehn-hehn! You can bet ya sweet arzzze he has sold both his anus and eating all the Indian and Paki pooshies all over that Europe.  MOST are bisexuals. . . Hmmm!

It is not uncommon to see a 25 year-old male eating a 70 year-old poohsie in places like London and Germany. Especially Yoruba and Igbo boys!

In short. . .if you wanna get a goooood 'lickin' once in a while. . . just head to London or Germany. The Nigerian men over there are experts in using their mouths to clean menstrual fluids. . . for a bottle of St. Remys or a box of Malborro!

Chei!

[size=22pt]Damn.   [/size]

OP,

If those manbitches wants to be known for that and disgrace their country at the same time that THEIR BUSINESS.  There is nothing you can do.  Desperation is a powerful thing and it is sad when a manbitch leave his children behind simply for some smokes.  That's pathetic.  Oh well if those women can deal with being used and abused that their business too.

MRbrownJAY:
^^ what did i say to make you sick? and whats this new (190) trend of changing your sexuality on NL?

I don't like agreeing with male species and I agree with what you are said below

MRbrownJAY:
^^ the problem is that, as i posted earlier, some people NEED such kind of person in their lives to feel SECURE about their own lives. control with money, control with decisions in the home, control in the daily grind of that union.
read on NL how some men would rather that their wives stay home doing nothing rather than going to work. not all men out there can handle a REAL woman!

Don't get too happy! It doesn't happen too often!

MBJ! You make me sick!

Agnesqueen:
If you really live in America you will know that black Americans are about as homophobic as it comes, the black churches are against it( rightly so considering that it is considered a sin in the bible), families can disown their child if they found out that they were gay, black women and men frown upon it. If a black person comes out of the closet they are brave and willing to deal with the problems that come with come with it. There are more gay white men than black men but they have the least # of H.I.V infections because they have more avenues to express their feelings and are supported by family and friends. Black men and some Hispanic men are not so lucky because they have all odds stacked against them.
I feel that in the continent of Africa, homosexuality is not the main reason that the H.I.V cases are so high, i feel that infidelity is the main reason (i.e. men sleeping with love-peddlers and multiple women at one time and going back home and sleeping with their wives). I used men as an example because men are most likely to give women the virus because women are naturally vulnerable because of how our bodies are built. I do however believe that bisexuality is playing a bigger role slowly and surly because of the westernization and freedom.

LMAO@if I really live in America. 

Black homosexuals are more open in black communities than other countries.  Black homosexual professionals are very successful and are OPEN in the black community in AMERICA and LARGE percentage of their clients are BLACK AMERICANS.  Maybe in the strips YOU are the people are homophobics. 

There are more than one way to spread HIV or contract HIV but I am talking about DOWN LOW men NOT THE HOES that sleeping around. 


Anyone who doesn't want their children to be gay REGARDLESS OF creed or nationality WILL DISOWN THEIR CHILDREN. Duh.

Because they are some punk arse manbitches.

@the topic question.

MRbrownJAY:
@Poster
people out to control their partners are fooling themselves into believing that this person is the right one for them , when obviously it aint. no matter how hard they try to change their partner, the real them will come right back eventually, thus it is just a waste of time and energy to try to control someone.

people should let their partner be who they truly are. . . . . . . . . . . if that person is what they look for, GOOD, if they aint, GOOD now they can move on to a better one!

also, unfortunately, some people out there want/need to be controlled, they are quick to give away their right to have a mind of their own for the good of "BB, RENT" and what not!!!!

If you have to control a GROWN MAN OR WOMAN then you need not to be with them. It is simple as 1,2, and 3.

izeek:
@octar, i believe what you mean is that there should be some level of discipline and a sense of direction.

@mrs chima, i never described a parent to child relationship.
Am talking of a proper home, where a man and a woman are living as married couple.
You dont just expect that each party does as he/she pleases do you.
Someone has to lead, could be the guy or the girl, but must be done in a subtle manner.

You said discipline and authority automatically my mind shifted to child/parent relationship. A married couple working in partnership and understanding will be the best way to go. In traditional marriage, men are considered the leader however too many men can't even spell leader let alone lead IN THIS WORLD. Sad.

Wifey Rokiatu,

Too bad your good thread has been contaminated with running shits.

No.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=687987.msg8500159#msg8500159 date=1307803827]LoL! But I always do [/quote]Not always.

izeek:
There is def no reason to tryy controlling your spouse, as it simply proves a sign of insecurity and weakness.

But all relationship has to have ome level of discipline and authority, and the one supposedly welding that authority has to show it with maturity.

Sorry did you just described a parent to child relationship?

I am just asking.

Is this the lover's shop?

REALITY101:
Keep on huh-ing I guess somebody missed talking crazy with somebody  

(crickets chirping)

[quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=688386.msg8501534#msg8501534 date=1307819631]i wonder oh and vice versa where I stay just two days ago a man almost killed himself with a knife after he got to know his best friend has been sleeping with his wife   they later arrested the friend but didn't even talk about the useless woman, I can never fight another girl because of my huz or bf gosh that's so low its even lower than low gosh I really don't why people do this
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