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Montracine:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2019/10/ui-professors-petition-mgt-over-alleged-anti-islam-policy/

Oga Professor. Shift your worship from Friday to another day. Friday is a week day. Lazy Moslem.

Zhuhilat:
How Do I Deal With This Level Of Disrespect From My Husband

Dear all

I and my husband are just 2years in marriage.

Every time we have issues concerning anything, he is always telling me to pack my things and leave his house or he will say things like you are off no importance to me and you bring me no value and stuff and stuff. But after a while he will apologize and say he doesn’t mean it.

Last month, what caused our fight was because my mum sent some food stuffs to us because she traveled and got them cheaply. He was angry because he felt that was disrespectful. And the argument degenerated to him telling me to leave his house,

i got tired, called his bluff and left the house but everyone advised me to go back and make it work., well except my dad. Mind you, this was the 5th time.

On my return, we talked about it(like we always do) and i thought it was genuine, and i said i was going to give it one more try.

Today, we had an argument because of baby food. I told hime to buy on his way back. I couldn’t go out because the whole road was terribly flooded .

But he didn't buy it, and that lead to an argument. And the next thing he told me was to fuc.k off and leave. Or he is leaving. As a matter of fact, he just left the house now 12:00am.

I am actually tired of it all. and right now, i don't think i have any love left for him or this marriage.
I think he is cheating on me and for some reason i am beginning to look outside and crave attention, love and respect from someone else.

I don't want my child to grow up seeing me treated like this but most importantly , i don't want her to think it is okay to accept being disrespected and under valued like this.

Married people is this one of the challenges in marriage or what?

Why cant we have an argument that doesn’t lead to leave my house, i dont need you, you bring me no value and all

Also we are very very comfortable, i work and he works too.

Emotionally, i am done.

Married for just two years and you are already seeking for love, attention, bla bla bla, yeah yeh yeah yeh yeh.... A na ekwugheli!!

ola33t:
She still didn't make no point.

Of course you are right. She actually made some points.

Pettyprincess:
There is this guy i met on 2go long time ago when i was fourteen years old, we exchanged contact and since then we have been talking and he did usually call me everyday just to hear my voice,he is way older than i am.

After sometime we lost contact, and we reconnected back on facebook and we started talking since then, he has always told me he likes me blah blah but still waiting till i am mature enough.

So when i clocked 18, he told us to meet which i agreed and we actually met at a bar and he finally told me about his feelings physically and said he would love us to date but i declined because i actually had no feelings whatsoever for him but i said we can be friends.

So since then he has been calling me every single day, everyone in my family knows him because of his constant call and one day he told me he is at our area that he would love to see me i actually agreed even if i never wanted because people at my area will think i am dating this guy and i know he is not my type moreover after my first (unserious) bf that cheated on me because i didn't give him chochie i decided never to date Nigerian guy no more, but this guy that is crushing on me will not let me go.

After that first visit he now wants to turn to it to routine to always visit me whenever he is in Lagos which i am not comfortable with but i dont know how to tell him because he is really nice caring and has been there for me financially when i needed him but still it doesn't change my feelings.

Nw i gat a serious bf, although he is not Nigerian but he is also caring, honest, nice, very handsome and very tall and those are the features i like a guy to possess, especially I love when a guy is very tall because i am petite AKA portable
ND this non Nigerian guy has already talked to my mum and my mum seems to like him a lot although they couldn't speak well because my mum not so fluent in English.

So this guy crushing on me still wants to be visiting me again after i told him i have gotten a boyfriend but he insisted that he will still visit me which i told him okay.

So later he called me that he is almost at my area but b4 he could call me later i quickly blocked his number, he has probably called me many times with his number but later he called me with another number but the moment i had his voice i pretended as if the connection was really bad and we actually didn't see that day.

I know what i did was bad which i have been feeling quilty of bt i dnt wanna give him false hope that we can still date.

So later he sent me a message on whatsapp asking if i blocked his number which i deny because he would be really hurt if i had told him the truth.

Even after denying i blocked his number he has been calling me with another number and my boyfriend got to know this guy nd told me to tell him the truth bt i can't because i know it will very hurtful for him.

Nw i need advice on how i can let this guy to know my bf doesn't want him to be disturbing me with calls or try to visit me no more without his feelings getting hurt.

I only need mature advice!!!

Lol. Some girls shsg. Remember to keep us updated on what happens five years from now.

BroAchival:
Greetings to this great house,

As I type this message, my heart is heavy.

Up till today, I have never known my genotype till I went to do medical fitness test for my job/employment process.

I've being dating by girlfriend for about two years and seven months now, and I've always seen her as a perfect match to me, not because she's perfect, but because she's very loyal, reserved and calm, respectful, teachable, willing to learn, beautiful and very supportive to say a few.

Kai, the thought of losing her is killing and unexplainable. She had been a BLESSING to me all these while.
We've really worked on ourselves and helped each other to overcome our weaknesses.

With the challenges of my new and better job, will I really have that time to woo women and start the process of working on a woman to blend and suit me?

And this is a girl I'm planning to settle down with by the middle of next year, after I must have gotten used to my new job.

I have always believed that my genotype would be AA, but I was wrong!

Somebody told me that there's nothing God can not do, that he has seen people giving testimonies about change of genotypes. I didn't doubt him, it's just that i'm not the "churchious" type who easily believe all those stories.

Now, my questions are:

1.) Is it possible to have just two children without an SS child?

2.) How do I relate this sad news to her (after she has turned down several serious marriage proposals because of me)?

3.) Please, what do I do?

Please, help me and send this to front page for greater views and advice.

Matured and very serious advice needed.

Thanks.

You have only two options:
1. Part ways with her.
But if you think that the love you share with her worths some heavy sacrifice then this second option is for you.
2. Call or whatsapp Bridge Clinic on 08104607791. I assure you that both of you will peacefully have
your biological AA children despite being AS.
The cost is estimated at #8,000,000 per child.
Do as I said and thank me later.

Blue3k:
Lol weirdo dont mistake for your boyfriend. Im sure a pussy boy like yourself hasn't touched pussy since your mother birthed you.

I don't have time for people with gender identity problems. So soothe yourself.

Blue3k:
Lol nobody been prosecuted under this law since it was passed. It seems the law passed just to go against the west. Nigeria is a sovereign nation so that's fine. It's still perfectly legal to be gay and live your life in Nigeria. That's the reason cross dressers and guys like bob risky aren't arrested or prosecuted on anything.

This thread is not for gay. Go and hide yourself in shame if you are one.

javaguru:
your not making sense. Try getting an establishment or try importing. There youll see the role govt is playing in development

Please elaborate. This you have written is foreign to me.

madenigga:
Millions are just wasting there. That's not meant to be a slum, that's meant to be a large piece of real estate.

The fact that they used wood as it's foundation and it stretches down to the bottom of the lagoon that shows you that the location the slum is located is shallow, with a little sand filling that place u would get a good land from there. Then use it and build low cost high rise to accodate all the inhabitants, a win win situation for both the owners and the government

Easier said...

WayStage:
I said it... E - Money's money is not pure... KCee should also be arrested cos he's eating from it too.

Are you sure you are alright?

TonyeBarcanista:
By TonyeBarcanista

1. CRITICS said Messi was nothing without Ronaldinho, Deco and Etoo.

FACT: All three players left and Messi peaked even at their absence winning uncountable team and individual honors

2. CRITICS changed narrative to say Messi is benefitting from the geniuses of Xavi and Iniesta at Barca..

FACT: Xavi left Barca, Iniesta also left yet Messi keep blazing, winning trophies awards.

3. They said Messi is a one club hero, asking him to emulate Ronaldo by changing clubs to prove that he is indeed a great player...

FACT: Ronaldo left Manchester United(Man U) to join Real Madrid(RM) because RM is a far bigger club to Man U. Ronaldo left RM to Juventus because he was unhappy with RM hierarchy and the way he was treated in 2018 by the club's President.

On the other hand Messi is a Barcelona product and Barcelona is a far greater club to any other team in the world (argue with Barcanista). In addition, Messi is in great shape at Barca and Barca love him.

Beside, Nikolas Anelka is one of the most "travelled" player in Europe but no one is calling him G.O.A.T for his football tourism.

4: CRITICS said Messi should go to another league to win trophy to prove his status

FACT: Messi doesn't need to go to any league to prove himself, he has played all top teams from each top leagues in Europe and demolished them... Neymar has won league trophies with Barcelona (Spain), PSG (France) and Santos (Brazil - where he also won South America champions league), yet no one is saying he is GOAT.

5. CRITICS said Messi should win trophy for his country to be considered G.O.A.T

FACT: Messi led his country to youth world cup triumph, he led his country's men team to Olympic Gold in 2008. He further led his country to Copa America final twice in 2015 and 2016 where they lost via penalty shootout (game of luck). The biggest of all, he led his country to World Cup final in 2014 (where they narrowly lost at extra time) and was crowned MVP for all the aforementioned tournaments.

MORE FACTS:
1. Messi has more goals than all his teammates and former teammates in Barcelona and Argentina

2. Messi has more assist than all his teammates and former teammates in Barcelona and Argentina

3. Argentina is a semi average team without Messi but a team "to beat" with Messi in it.

4. Take Messi out of Barcelona and Barcelona will struggle to win games.

AS FOR FIFA AWARD 2019
Critics claim Messi is undeserving of FIFA Award 2019 but who deserves it more than the man that achieved the following in 2019...

1. Top Scorer in Europe 2018/19 (European Golden Boot)

2. Top scorer in UEFA Champions League 2018/2019

3. Joint Most Goal Assist in Europe 2018/2019

4. Most Man of the Match won in 2018/2019 UEFA Champions league

5. Most player of the Week won in 2018/2019 UEFA Champions league

6. Best Forward in Europe 2018/19

I don't even want to mention domestic individual honors he got but critics can't give us any individual player with a stat to match Messi in 2018/19.

The summary of this epistle is that Lionel Messi is the GREATEST SPORTSMAN OF ALL TIME... This is a fact that even his critics know but ashamed to publicly admit.

Joblessness. Keep writing long epistle while messi is shopping

FamousMonk:
Until your mama can fúck another man who isnt your dad and get pregnant,we won't believe she's fertile..

That doesn't add up but you got your mouth shah. Anything goes. Talk is free

psucc:
You can only boycott what you have an alternative to. In Nigeria who is competing with DSTv, even in the telecom, other brands are still miles away from MTN.

To worsen, matters, even the poor no longer patronize the kiosks in their neighbourhood but root for ShopRite. The list is endless.

I can't remember when last I made call with an mtn sim. 9mobile for browsing and airtel for calls. What else?

Flier:
CAN should be very careful,this is not a Christian country even though I am a Christian
They should not try to divide this country they should allow people in power to do their job
Vote out your governor if you are not satisfied with his work rate rather than allowing religion leaders to divide people

Shut up your mouth. Sell out

A little Google search shows how fake this information is

BlackfireX:
I come first, second, third and infinitum.

Don't mind him abeg. With Buhari as president no body in Nigeria has country abeg, let alone taking it first.

presleYzzi:
Since you can stop the killings, why don't you do so? oga

I mean to say that there are worrisome issues in Nigeria bigger than a dead shark. I rest my case. Over to you.

presleYzzi:



Na fish this people never chop before?

Any animal other than the usual domestic animals we have around that we see ends up dying.


What kinda savagery is this for Christ sakes?

Nobody wants to know if it's an endangered specie!

In the white man's land, the sharks injuries will be tended to and it will be let free afterwards!


But here everyone behaves like the characters portrayed in "the gods must be crazy"

People die everyday in Bornu and other troubled areas and all you can do is to cry for a dead shark. Your redemption seems to be in jail.

chakula:
The man in question has a right to his opinion so why can somebody hindered him from his right? Supporting Buhari or otherwise can not change the destiny of Nigeria.

It could if only we had functional election institution in Nigeria.

realstars:
Politics is the only institution that is solidly practice in Nigeria.
The poor man is one of those, to be in the news because of politics.
Rest in peace to him.

What is wrong with you? Did you read before commenting?

PureFace1:
Someone from a tribe that were colonized and enslaved by Igala and sold as slaves by Ijaw calling someone slave, what an Irony

You are the slaves without ball that have promise to Vote for your Fulani masters in 2023 presidential election

Concocted and disjointed jargon bit I don't blame you, nothing brainy comes of a Fulani slave

PureFace1:
Shut up your mouth


You are talking about an Emir in Yoruba Land


Have you collected back all the Land Igala people displaced you from?

It was known in History that Igala people enslaved and Colonized Igbo and I don't know what is more shameful than that


Even the Obi of Onitsha originated from Benin and Ijaw people sold Igbo as slaves

You should be more shameful

Lol. Do you mean jagaban the thief media history? Of course it can say anything to enslave the whole Yoruba tribe to their Fulani masters for eternity. Even now I read in between your frustration. But sorry your afonja nature is by default.

helinues:
Hahaha.. I thought they said they migrated from Israel...

It is now Egypt... Hope it wont be Japan tomorrow

This is one out of the numerous miscreants on nairaland. Do they even read before commenting? NEVER!!!

NwaAmaikpe:




It is wrong of Pastor Adeboye to promote carnal blasphemy.

The fact that one says Jesus name when he is deep in the hole doesn't mean he can't pull out by himself.
Well, unless you're magun trapped.

But I'd never fully understand why people will rather call Jesus's name while digging it when they could just moan.

Shut up slowpoke. This is the level of your knowledge with which you write jargon on nairaland. Simple cognitive reasoning he doesn't have.

Ibrahimmrfish:
Unfortunately for you, Muslims have the power to do what ever the hell they like in this country.So be very careful,cause we also can play dirty. Comments like this makes it easier for us to................there are 1000 ways for us to..................so be very careful.............

You are very stupid. No one has monopoly of violence.

Caseless:
Those defending him can now see why they should not relent.

Fixed

MelesZenawi:
https://punchng.com/enough-of-fulani-domination-in-ilorin-kasumu-afonja-union-president-general/?fbclid=IwAR13PHMRTo0QK1Rq2JmXNKz_hymOwbyZPj9rHq4VVaWBlp0L1eZHDuOfFCw

Lol I laugh in Greek. And people from this ethnic group muster courage to talk to Igbos. Lol!!!

IMAGINE AN EMIR IN YORUBA LAND. YORUBA IS SHAMELESS.
Modes can ban me I don't care I just said the obvious truth.

zoba88:
Read more. http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2019/09/pretty-nigerian-lady-marries-blind-man.html?m=1

Of course wonderful shall never end.

GISTBL0G:
Blackface releases his own version of 'African Queen' after former Plantashun Boiz mate, 2face failed to give credits to him when the song became a hit and brought him to stardom. Gistmore reports

Blackface claims rights to African Queen, a rift began over who owned the rights to the hit song ‘African Queen’ after it success.

According to Blackface, he gave 2face the right to sing the song but he never got credited as a writer by the label that released it nor any acknowledgement from the singer while the song did so many numbers and won many awards since 2003/2014 till date.

However, 2face included a third verse he wrote to the music when it was produced by OJB but Blackface took that verse out and included the third he had written to make this version of his own totally written by himself .

Blackface took to his Instagram page and wrote;



Listen to song here https://www.instagram.com/p/B2Hnz85gF3O/


Gist from Gistmore
http://gistmore.com/blackface-releases-his-own-version-of-african-queen-after-2face-failed-to-credits-him

Black face in my opinion rocked it better.

alBHAGDADI:
Yes, I do. Or are you not talking about the same bishops in Italy that tell people to bow down to statue of Mary which is contrary to God's word?

Or are you not talking about the same bishops in Germany whom Martin Luther rose up against because they were teaching errors and satanic doctrines?

YES, I know more than them and it's all by God's grace.

Lol. god the judge. Keep deceiving yourself.

alBHAGDADI:
The Bold part is where your problem lie, lazy reader. If you had read the entire write-up, you would have seen that the Bible speaks two kinds of wine: Fruit juice and alcoholic beverage.

Paul didn't advice Timothy to take alcohol. It was fruit juice he advised. Telling Timothy to take alcohol is the same as going against the Book of Proverbs 23:31 that says we shouldn't even look at alcoholic wine not to talk of drinking it, regardless of the amount.


Now, go back and read the OP again, Mr personal encounter with God who throws away the word of God just to operate based on his own conscience.

Oga you made no point in that your thread. Take it or leave it.

alBHAGDADI:
Hello,

There's this wrong believe among Christians that the Bible supports drinking alcohol but only in moderation. They say we can drink alcohol but we shouldn't get drunk. Well, I will be using Bible verses to show that Christians are not to look at alcohol not to talk of drinking it. Also, this thread will debunk common lies told to support drinking alcohol e.g Jesus turning water to wine.

The word wine is mentioned 231 times in the Bible. But the mistake we make today is that we think the wine mentioned is just alcholic wine. Half the time wine is mentioned in the Bible, it is about fruit juice.

In the Greek and Hebrew languages in which the Bible was written in, the word translated as wine was used to refer to alcohol and also fruit juice. So when those who translated the Bible into English did so, they had to look for an English word which could mean alcoholic beverage and fruit juice. That word is wine. You might wonder why the translators didn't make things easy for us by just writing fruit juice when the verse is talking of fruit juice and write alcoholic beverage when it's about alcohol. The thing is, doing such would mean they are injecting their own idea into the Bible.

Now, in modern times, we have this believe that wine means an alcoholic drinks. That's why we think the word wine in the Bible is always referring to alcohol. Let's me show you that wine in the Bible doesn't always mean alcoholic beverage but fruit juice.



As seen above, wine is found in the cluster i.e wine still in the cluster of grapes. This is purely fruit juice and not alcoholic.

However, grapes usually have a white powdery film around it called yeast. It is that yeast that is made use of to make alcoholic wine. They crush the grapes and in the process the yeast mixed with the fruit juice that was inside grape cluster. Next fermentation takes place then the result if alcoholic wine. Most times, wine makers add more yeast to attain the desired alcohol level. So you see, wine moved from normal fruit juice before it became alcoholic wine after yeast was added.

Now, there are two types of wine as explained above: The alcoholic and fruit juice. There's a certain type of wine the Bible said we shouldn't even look at, not to talk of touching our lips with it. Read the passage below.



The verse above is talking about alcoholic wine. It even describes fermentation process. It says we shouldn't even look at that type of wine. Yet some folks say we can drink it in moderation.



It describes the feeling one gets after drinking alcohol. It's a horrible feeling.



Have you ever had alcohol such that after taking it, women whom you would never touch with a ten foot poll suddenly start looking attractive to you? The above verse describes it as the effect of alcohol. It also describes how you start saying all sorts of junks which you would not normal say.



Remember when you lie down after taking alcohol and the whole bed seems like you are swimming, and also you feel like you are floating and your eyes being dizzy. That's the feeling described.



After the whole horrible night and you wake up to hangover, what's the cure drunkards usual prescribe? They say to cure hangover, start drinking again. That's what the above passage described.

Yet, some people say we can drink alcohol in moderation and that it only becomes a sin when we get drunk. Sorry buddy, the Bible says don't even look at it.

The Bible doesn't say we should drink alcohol in moderation. It says we should be sober at all times (1 Thessalonians 5:6 Titus 2:3).

Now let's see the common verses people love to twist to try to say we can drink alcohol

The first is found in the passage where Jesus turned water into wine. They fail to realize that it was fruit juice kind of wine, not the alcoholic or fermented one. Let's examine the passage carefully.



According to some people, it was alcoholic wine Jesus turned water into and gave the people at the wedding to drink. However, a closer look shows that not to be the case.

Pay close attention to verse 10 where the Bible says when men have well drunk. Let's see how the New International Version (NIV) renders that verse.



If it was alcoholic wine Jesus turned water into, then it basically means he wanted to destroy the guests at the wedding. After they have had too much to drink, Jesus decided to give them more. That means if there were cars back then, many would have accidentally on their way home. Remember the passage in Proverbs 23 which talks about the horrible effects alcohol. If we say these people were already drunk on alcohol, then Jesus just helped them double those effect in their life by giving them more. This means they would start to behold strange women and say perverse things. Now, tell me, who would want to listen to Jesus preach the next morning after the "alcoholic wine" he gave them to drink made some of the men to sleep with their housemaid to the anger of their wives? Made them to saw perverse things to their boss? Made them to sleep in the gutter? Yet you say Jesus gave people alcohol to drink.

Jesus didn't give anybody alcohol to drink. Doing so would mean he's a liar. Remember what he said in the passage below.



If it was alcoholic wine Jesus turned water into at the wedding in Cana, then he abolished the law and the prophet which spoke against alcoholic wine in Proverbs 23:31. So clearly it wasn't alcoholic wine he turned water into but fruit juice.

Another passage people love to use for an excuse to drink alcohol is seen below.

Mathew 11:18-19
18 For John came neither eating nor drinking, and they say, He hath a devil.
19 The Son of man came eating and drinking, and they say, Behold a man gluttonous, and a winebibber, a friend of publicans and sinners. But wisdom is justified of her children.

The above passage talks about a false accusations against Jesus who pointed out how they also falsely accused John the Baptist. Yet, some people will say because Jesus was accused of being a drunkard then it means he use to drink alcohol. Was John the Baptist possessed with a devil? No, but he was accused of such. I now wonder why you believe Jesus drank alcohol due to some false accusations. Remember, the accusation is that he was a drunkard. So if you use this verse to justify drinking alcohol, then don't get angry when some tells you that Jesus use to fall into gutter after getting drunk; he use to behold strange women and say perverse things. Can you see how wrong they are with their interpretation of the passage?

Another verse they use is seen below.




They pick the verse out context and say God is telling us that we can buy alcohol and drink it. If you read the previous verses, you will see that the context is about tithing. Those items listed alongside strong drink are to be brought to the temple for sacrifice to God. Some are eating, but it excludes the strong drink because nowhere in the above passage does it say drink the strong drink, same way it doesn't say drink the oil. Now, see what the strong drink is used for.



The strong drink or wine is poured out onto the Lord for a drink offering. It is not to be drank at all. But people have twisted the verse in Deutoronomy 14:26 to mean God is saying we can drink alcohol even when he said in Proverbs 23 that we shouldn't even look at it.

Guys, drinking alcohol is a sin and every Christian should abstain from it. Don't let anybody fool you into think moderation is the key. A little sip sends your good sense of judgment out the window. That's when another glass or bottle won't seem like a bad idea. And note, wine has tripple alcohol content that four bottles of beer. So don't think drinking a glass of wine is sophisticated. You are emore alcoholic than the beer drinker.

You should be careful in how you twist the Bible. Do not carry your fanatical tendency to the public. The race for heaven is personal. You arent For and the Bible was written long before you were born and so you have no single authority to translate or correct or assert any opinion contained within. Your only duty is to read, understand according the spirit and live it.

You claimed you knew the Greek words and all that were translated but never mentions any of the and as well post a screenshot of it. That is to day that tour assert is fallacious and misleading.
You talk of fruit juice and I wonder exactly where alcohol is obtained. It is an organic or inorganic chemical? For your information ethyl(alcohol) is the only edible alcohol and is sourced from grains, that is plants. So the fruit juice you are talking about are even the sources of alcohol. you didn't mention whether the so called fruit juice are fermented to form alcohol or not. Some of us Christians have a lot to learn to avoid being gullible.
Do not hesistate to read Deut 4: 2. And Proverb 30 : 6

Mind you I am a Christian too, just came back from church.