₦airaland Forum

funmisticqueen:
fact of life, money changes both men and women because it comes with control. It's human nature

Your wife is not emasculating you, you are just losing control of the power and finances in the family. Do you know how much BS women tolerate from men in marriages because he earns more?

Uncle, go and hustle or give your pants over to your wife and stop complaining

Does feminism entail stupidity?

strungup79:
I'm 42 years old and married with 3 children (2 boys and a girl). I got married to this beatiful lady 13 years ago and everything was bliss until three years ago when my business experienced a serious down turn.

My wife on the other hand witnessed an upturn in fortunes and practically became the bread winner in the home.

Her good financial fortune had me focussed on trying to get myself back on track. I tried getting a job, but it was not forth coming.

My business continued to dwindle and then I resorted to doing small odd jobs just so I could contribute to the family upkeep.

My wife's upturn in fortune however brought out the ugliness in her. She started trying to assume control of the home. She stopped consulting me on decisions concerning our home, rather consulting her parents. She practically turned my kids against me as she painted me as irresponsible.

We initially had assess to each other's account, but now she has accounts hidden from me. I just found out she bought land somewhere, though she doesn't know I have that knowledge.

She has become rude and disrespectful and her parents and siblings have taken over my home. I am so pained because all I ever did was show her love and respect.

She didn't like the fact i tried to have order in my home and that seems to be my sin. I have never hit her or been wicked to her.

Right now, I'm pained and confused. I don't know what to do. Someone please help.

That is life for women. The most pitiable individual in this life isn't a sick beggar or a mad individual, no. The most pitiable is a male adult being fed by a woman who isn't his mother.

ParpahSeventy:
So because she posted she is looking for boyfriend you expect her to be an easy ride for you abi? She has a right to make selections too, if you can't fit in, move on, it's that simple.

One who has no option has no choice. The available becomes a privilege.

funmisticqueen:
that is broke speech right there

Is broke the vocabulary you know. Being a lady does not excuse you from being tagged broke regardless of your gender.

Slawormir:
Only that song "sorry blame it on me" from akon cover the whole of Mi career.

Savage reply!!!!!!

APCNig:
So you expect Nigeria to just accept it? You must be dreaming. Nigerria is West Africa, no Nigeria, no West Africa. We closed our boarders and all West African countries are crying and weeping. So, we take the shoots and as the Chairman, we speak last. If we Nigeria do not accept it, ECOWAS will have no other choice than to also rescind its decision, else we will muzzle ECOWAS to death. And with Major General Muhammadu Buhari on the seat, Nigeria can kill the whole ECOWAS economically.

Lol. My brother you are very much on point. Tell them. After all what does General Buhari know part from destroying all sectors of economy? LOL

Thegeneralqueen:
Ladies don't ever try it you'll be consider cheap and they would use you to count score.......Nigerian men don't understand the word EASY they value it when they hustle to get you.....

Sorry. Hustle for girl? I laugh in Swahili.

reccy:
Well, the equation is balanced now... They both cheated and they both felt the heat....
I don't blame the man at all... What was the lady thinking of before, he will marry her Wed a hole Who does that?

If you can't be responsible during courtship , is it after wedding that you will now be responsible?? After given the certificate you both signed that you will be responsible
You dy mad

Abeg the man deserve an award....

I wanted to talk but you have said it all.

landmark86:
Even anyone claim Toyota corolla car no gud abeg give am this.


Toyota wey I dey take fvck puna for free @ibadan.

Must everything revolve around puna?

Regrettably raped? In your house or on the road? These days most of regrettably raped girls fall victim in the comfort of the rapist room and bed. And I ask myself if it is rape or mutual sex. Most girls hate the truth especially to themselves.

Ahamefuna0001:
Matured minds please.

I'm a 25years old guy who who just completed my NYSC and got a job which pays me 50K monthly salary. I paired with a colleague at work to rent a single room self contain.

I have this mixed feeling that am over due to have a fiancée. I don't know if this feeling is wrong. I'm I good to have a serious girlfriend or fiancée at this stage of my life?

At 25 yrs, earns 50k monthly, pairs with a colleague in a room self contain. Oga it is a very wrong feeling. I swear.

Racoon:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thecable.ng/dont-let-terrorists-divide-us-buhari-begs-nigerians/amp

The fear of America is the...... For the first time bubu is stating his stance on religious matter without mincing words. The first time even he spoke with clear recognition of Christians and their value. Nice one US

IAmStrange:
Oh! You want to talk about confusion?

Lemme show you just a little: Check KJV

How many fighting men were found in Judah?
Five hundred thousand (2 Samuel 24:9)
Four hundred and seventy thousand (I
Chronicles 21:5)

God sent his prophet to threaten David with
how many years of famine?
Seven (2 Samuel 24:13)
Three (I Chronicles 21:12)

How old was Ahaziah when he began to rule
over Jerusalem?
Twenty-two (2 Kings 8:26)
Forty-two (2 Chronicles 22:2)

How old was Jehoiachin when he became king of
Jerusalem?
Eighteen (2 Kings 24:8 )
Eight (2 Chronicles 36:9)

How long did he rule over Jerusalem?
Three months (2 Kings 24:8 )
Three months and ten days (2 Chronicles 36:9)

Deal with that first. If you want more, I'll show you more.

Christianity always wins... yen yen yen

Modified:

Even more

When did David bring the Ark of the Covenant
to Jerusalem? Before defeating the Philistines or
after?
After (2 Samuel 5 and 6)
Before (I Chronicles 13 and 14)

10. How many pairs of clean animals did God tell
Noah to take into the Ark?
Two (Genesis 6:19, 20)
Seven (Genesis 7:2). But despite this last
instruction only two pairs went into the ark
(Genesis 7:8-9)

11. When David defeated the King of Zobah, how
many horsemen did he capture?
One thousand and seven hundred (2 Samuel
8:4)
Seven thousand (I Chronicles 18:4)

12. How many stalls for horses did Solomon have?
Forty thousand (I Kings 4:26)
Four thousand (2 chronicles 9:25)

13. In what year of King Asa's reign did Baasha,
King of Israel die?
Twenty-sixth year (I Kings 15:33 - 16:
Still alive in the thirty-sixth year (2 Chronicles
16:1)

14. How many overseers did Solomon appoint for
the work of building the temple?
Three thousand six hundred (2 Chronicles 2:2)
Three thousand three hundred (I Kings 5:16)

15. Solomon built a facility containing how many
baths?
Two thousand (1 Kings 7:26)
Over three thousand (2 Chronicles 4:5)

16. Of the Israelites who were freed from the
Babylonian captivity, how many were the children
of Pahrath-Moab?
Two thousand eight hundred and twelve (Ezra
2:6)
Two thousand eight hundred and eighteen
(Nehemiah 7:11)

17. How many were the children of Zattu?
Nine hundred and forty-five (Ezra 2:
Eight hundred and forty-five (Nehemiah 7:13)

achu42 tecnolad ImmaculateJOE and everyone saying they can't find it.

Go and check King James Version... as in the original king James you'll see it there

Was it not ur Christians doctors that revised the bible after seeing all these and decided to change it in your new bibles so as to deceive you masses?

Go and check KJV and I even posted more for you

Bible wqs not originally written in English language. That one man or group misinterpreted the bible and called it KJV does not make every bible to be conflicting or inadequate.

blues343:
TRY DO YOUR OWN NOW

Those pictures truely did not depict the busy and massive commercial activities that usually accompany yuletide but see as you and other guys wan kill this poster for having a different opinion perhaps cos op is a fine girl. Chai! Men are idiots.

Ndibunna:
Number 1 is non of my business because police check point is much in Enugu but not in Anambra . Enugu to Oji river houses over 10 check points but Awka to Nnewi has not more than 2 check points even Awka to Onitsha is same thing. So O don't know where you argument is heading to.

Unless you make it clearer.

Number 2 is what I am much concerned with.

Killed by who?

And so when did Enugu become kano or Ogun?

Nwadiuto247:
Umunna ndewo nu o.
Pls lets put sentiment aside as we are returning home this season. kindly take a look at the work that Buhari has done so far in Igbo land and report here. Its an infrastructural assessment.

1. For me i observe serious reconstruction of roads from Umuahia to Enugu,

2. Another serious road work ongoing from Enugu to Anambra.

3. Serious work on second Nigeria is going on too.

Jonathan spent almost six years in power without working seriously on these projects but Buhari came and today we can see big progress being made on the various projects.
Pls nobody should abuse the president here pls. Just comment decently. thanks.

i will post more as i travel from one part of Igbo land to the other

Igbo is not the only component of Nigeria. Jonathan spent six year in government. Buhari has spent five years already. Better assessment is when we compare them using the whole Nigeria and all sectors of the economy as yardstick. That is when we actually put sentiments aside.

KingOfAmebo:
I talk am...Nairaland no get fine babes, Nairaland boys always dey fine pass the girls.

Please always post their pictures and moniker side by side... e get one particular guy wey I dey find, I want to tell him something face to face.

Lol. That nairalander must be a mode or one of BYO members

ImmaculateJOE:
Congratulations to him.
I'm Igbo but his doggedness is second to none.

I just watch Deji Adeyanju's beating, those sai baba buharitist no get joy @all..

Which doggedness? Doggedness ko cattedness ni.

RiyaGoddess:
I really thank God for the compassionate heart He's given to me. When I saw the video, I heard the Holy Spirit say to me Shile, you would have passed the test...

Yay It's my first Christmas ever next tomorrow. I can't keep calm...
#12MonthsLovingJesusWithNoRegrets


Modified- Please I no buy Christmas clothes ooo. Can I wear my old clothes to church for Christmas service or must it be new Christmas cloth?
This is my first Christmas ooo how una dey do am?

No one actually knows who bought new clothes or not. Those who do that are small children aged 5 to 11. As from twelve there is possibility that some of them have started losing interest in that too. God bless you.

LegendHer0:
How do they reach the conclusion on categorizing all Muslims as being intolerant of the Christians? Do they mean the southern Muslims that have been coexisting peacefully with our Christian brothers are intolerant also?

Living peacefully simply because they can't but live peacefully or be wiped out from such region. Have you ever seen Muslims being violent in region where they are in minority or even where their is equality of numbers? Of course no! So their seeming peaceful cohabitation in the south is due to fear not inherent.

Electricals:
He's only a world figure to some daft Christian religious people

My dear what is your name. I don't know but I know his. That is what I mean. You can keep arguing with your keyboard. I give up on you.

jumper524:
can you see just how tribalistic you igbos sound? Buhari started his corruption war with Dasuki a fulani whom your likes we're the ones supporting.
Several northerners including APC leaders are being prosecuted for corrupt allegation no body is shouting, same thing with southwest but the moment its igbos its victimization.
The military today purchase virtually everything innoson can produce to help the military it wasn't victimization, the court that you claim buhari and APC has hijacked passed a ruling in favor of innoson over GTB(Yoruba) buhari and APC reinstalled Godwin Emefiele (Igbo) as cbn gov it wasn't victimization.
Tomorrow when the country nationals denies the igbos presidency its marginalization.
See you see all these biafra rants from Igbo it would be foolish of you to think northerners are afraid to let you go.
If you decide to have your biafra take the bold first step and not this foolishness you portray online.
Let this go as a warning to your lots and ohaneeze if this chalant attitude from your people continue, you'll get the victimization and marginalization you so craved for and then youll learn to behave as nationalist..

Ohhh! You mean dasuki, a Fulani man who served under GEJ and supported his reelection against Buhari, a fellow fulani. You should have also mentioned orji uzo kalu who was sent to jail recently. A southern scape goat. He came from the south east and can be used as sacrifice to prove that buhari is fighting corruption. Meanwhile US has a case with Air Peace boss, a case they clearly stated the innocence of the embattled airpeace boss until otherwise is proven but EFCC quickly carried it on their head and even manipulated stories indicting former first lady to make it look like Onyema is corrupt and started hunting the man too. but tinubu the bullion can courier service operator has not being investigated despite his indictmemt by the same us govt. The bullion van issue should have been a reason for his probe but he used the money to support buhari so he is clean. Innoson you mentioned was set up but they could not find even the slighted evidence against him and so they are still incubating his matter. But when will the following cased and many similar others be opened?


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#544million Grass cutting scandal has been put off...

http://saharareporters.com/2019/02/12/efcc-arraign-babachir-lawal-over-n544m-grass-cutting-scandal

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Musiliu Obanikoro's over #1.2billion corruption case closed. His passport returned.

In addition, the following properties earlier sealed by EFCC were unsealed:

*Four terrace houses located at 44 Mamman Kotangora Crescent in the highbrow Katamkpe Extension area of Abuja

*A parcel of land in Guzape District and a duplex at Olori Mojisola Onikoyi Avenue, Ikoyi, Lagos.

http://saharareporters.com/2018/11/25/obanikoro-wife-son-recover-n500m-houses-land-efcc

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the #1.3bn corruption case of Iyiola Omisore by EFCC was forgotten and his passport issued to him.

http://newsdayonline.com.ng/former-senator-iyiola-omisore-arrested-efcc-n1-3billion-ekiti-election-loot/

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#2.1bn Mainagate died untimely death, security operatives hurriedly removed him from watchlist.


http://saharareporters.com/2017/10/28/maina-buharis-culture-corruption-finally-unfolds-erasmus-ikhide
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Akpabio's over #10Billion corruption case closed by EFCC.


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/alleged-n10b-fraud-efcc-confronts-akpabio-with-evidence-of-transactions/

The victimization is clear. I use to know Ibeto and Dangote. Boom! Ibeto was hit hard and he went into oblivion thanks to God who didn't allow him fall completely. The counterpart dangote always has a field day. Even now builds a refinery and I come to ask if oil sector in Nigeria has been privatized. FG should make it known cos many people will want invest there.

Electricals:
The deads are gone without justice
No one is held responsible
Tuberculosis Joshua is still going around doing his church business

I can see you are a child. If not you would have known to learn what it takes to achieve anything no matter his small. A man have has managed to make himself a world figure in a field of life and you too quick to call him names like tuber....whatever without reflecting on your own life. It's okay!

Patrioticman007:
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What concern political office holder with customary & tradition ?.

What a foolish assertion !!!, from an slowpoke.
Aristotle said " Man is a political animal ". Which is a fact !!!. The political powers of Eze's & Obi's cannot be over emphasized, they make Governors & bring Governors down by their single acts over relevancy over their subjects.

We all know how Oba of Lagos threatened to drown some aliens, in to the Lagoon, if they failed to vote for his chosen candidate, and Its on record, they complied with the Oba's directive, so as not to drown in the Lagoon.
I advice you to read more, & display your ignorance less on social media.

Your mumu is still in incubation period I wonder the trash you will spew when it hatches. Your governor should as well install your Imam, and all too, institute more mosques and compel the chief imam to coordinate them. Of course we all know how their single act too can make or bring down a governor. After all Aristotle state that man is a political animal. DULLARDS EVERYWHERE!!!!

Patrioticman007:
In life, trials come in many forms. However what matters most is did you over come it ?.
Ganduje is trying to restructure Kano Emirate for good governance & prosperity , however hypocrites from the land of 8ters are making noise, as usual. Forgetting that "Restructuring" was the selling point Atikulooted used to campaign in their villages & kingdoms. I dey laugh ooooo.

Is this how you mumu reach? What concern political office holder with customary and traditional custodian. You northerners politicise everything including the secred traditional throne. No values at all in the north.

Canada2021:
Never asked her to do so, please read what i wrote very well. Relationships ought to be symbiotic not parasitic. when she is down i come to her rescue, so i expect her to do the same for me.

And that is how it should be but Nigerian girls are the most selfish creature. They would rather buy that #50k weavon than give a person in need.

Liliyann:
Men and their entitlement
So, because you helped her a few times, you expect her to totally hand over her money to you when you guys ain't even married??

Entitlement what??. Even men have it a slogan that " ife nwoke meelu ibe ya bu nee ya jidelu m, meaning that assistance is reciprocal. Its only the girl with goat brain, nairaland liliyann that receives favour ass entittlement without having it in their mind to reciprocate if need be.

Amarabae:
Oriaku alota go!
The original oriaku Di ya
Lolo Di ora nma
I miss you guys.
I have short words for single guys finding it hard to toast a girl.
Listen up, Girls are not rocket science !
Look beyond the make up, attitude and saucyness
Be bold and confident in striking up a conversation with a girl ,
Boldness exert a strong manly aroma over a guy , it makes a woman feel like a woman around you.
We love it!
Don't be timid and shy!
Dress well, apply perfume, polish your shoe, and walk up to her.
Don't be boring in conversation ,,be lively,
Crack jokes,
Stop asking her interview questions,
Tell her interesting things you noticed about her ,
Look her into the eyes,
Smile.
Give her a walk.
Be lively and bold.
And
Finally approach her with a handsome healthy wallet!
Brokenness makes love to taste somehow.
Believe me ,Only one woman can love and be faithful to you while you are broke
And that woman is your mother.
Leave someone's daughter alone

I mean doing all these for what exactly. Why should someone sacrifice so much for mere liability?
I mean I am the one giving out all the time like provide her needs, protect her, support her, care for her, shine her combo and all. So she should find her way to my life and heart and not vice vasa. Anyway some girls might just buy this pooh by OP. For 19-24 year old girls I have no issues with them cos they got time. I only pity 28 and above dullards that will buy this cheap jargon. OYO will be their case. It is better you be humble enough to be married by a man than to form proud only to wake up one day seeing yourself paying all the bills for your own traditional marriage rites on a mans stead. If you know you know.
MY OPINION


TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN
I didn't make this contribution because of the post. I only thought it wise write this and purposely made my choice of words to educate young boys of 19-25 who may tend to be mislead by the OP. You aren't born to please a woman. You are born to live a fulfilled life. You can only do any good thing within your reach to make a woman(your mother first, your wife, sisters, that good hearted lady in your life) who deserves it happy. Not those who contribute nothing to your life while they parade themselves as GF but can't even hold a constructive conversation over any topic with you apart from celebrity and bed talk . A true woman of your heart will be a source of joy to you not source of stress. You don't kill yourself to get, please or keep a woman. Instead give such attention to that business of your dream. Make that business your first GF she will not disappoint you.

iCauseTrouble:
Everybody on nairaland is mad. So feel at home

Lol!!! Wonders shall never end.