₦airaland Forum

Pettyprincess:
Are you minding them? Men attract ladies of their type,if your woman offer only sex in relationship then it obvious u also dnt offer nothing else aside sex!! Birds of the same feathers flock together!! Rubbish!!!

IamPatriotic:
Why do politicians often overrate themselves, Fayemi planning to be president?

Asiwaju is the natural successor to Buhari, except he wants to do Osinbajo another huge favour.

Benclever1:
Hello everyone.

So I met this girl through a mutual friend and we started bonding. Initially, I didn't take the friendship seriously because this lady is a little older than me and I do not see any future between us.

Now, things got more intense between us. She visited me one time, one thing leading to another, we were in bed, about to have sex and then I pulled out the condom but she refused, insisting that she doesn't enjoy sex with condom. I was very surprised to hear that, so I tried to make her see reasons why the condom is very necessary. She adamantly refused. We ended up not having the sex that day.

Just last week she visited again and we spent the night together. We tried to have sex again but the same issue came up again. She insisted I must not used condom. Now this got me upset. During the conversation that ensued, she made it very clear to me that she does not have any STD/STI so I should not be afraid. She however admitted that she was ovulating and that the chances of getting her pregnant was high, but that I should not worry that she'd take care of herself and the pregnancy, if it happens. She said that she would not force me to get involved with the baby if I don't want. However, she made very clear that she's not ready to get married. This got me confused.

I don't want to let my guards down by indulging in unprotected sex with someone I don't trust. I also do not want to hurt her feelings. So I plan to take her for medical tests next week and then we can kick it off from there.

What's your advise for me.

Thank you.

Onijagidijagan:
na igbo man even publish d result.


I pray this into your life ..Na your antagonist go announce your victory in life

Bigiyo:
If na me he tell that trash ehn, I will just leave there and go and hustle for my mum..
I don't use that woman to play

LabDNA:
As long there are Igbos like Ogbonnaya Onu Ph.D in APC they will vie for the ticket too, if it goes SW, then the flagbearer should be prepared to face North+East ticket in PDP. It is simple.

Memphitz537:
Proudly ATIKULATED!!!!
And to the 15m fools who voted for the re election of this incompetent Fulani President currently occupying Ass-Hole Rock,may foolishness and stupidity never depart from each and everyone of y'all!!!

Pafoma:
What if i have detached from these circles even before i met her, we had met and started dating when i found out about them.

I mean, what will their respect do for me because we dont belong to the same circle any longer. If she can prove that i will not regret my decision then maybe i might be willing to risk it

OSUigboFlatHead:
Shatap

Foxman19:
Cheap talk cunning man. You governed Anabram for 8years There's nothing to show for that . To make the matter worst two thieves formed combo .

OSUigboFlatHead:
I don't like Buhari's administration but this Runmouth ọmọ kirikiri

A Useless politician CUM blogger is more useless and Senseless.

Where is he making noise from? U.S of course, enjoying the loots he got from jonadáft's government.
If dem born him mama well, me he step into Naija.

Carmit:
Ask him where he and his whole family are living.

frankyskyboi:
Thanks for your opinions.. I'm sorry I can't move ahead with such relationship until I know my woman and where she's coming from in totality. We may underrate this but it's very vital especially in my family. I can't take a one sided story and even if she pops up an answer tomorrow, I'll still do my background investigation. Before presenting her to my parents, they'll ask her same questions I'm asking her so to save the headache, it's better she does the needful.

GistMore11:
Daughter of vice president of Nigeria, Kiki Osinbajo is all shades of beauty as she stepped out to the Lagos Fashion Week.

The Aso Oke outfit really looks good on her!

https://www.instagram.com/p/B4F8vH1Hcoa

Afamed:
Did you vote Ngige when he contested for Senatorial post in 2015?

Yebosola:
Are Igbo ready to vote for him in the "SATANIC PARTY"? You people are not talking to novice in politics,oh oh,so that APC will loose to PDP,I laugh in Swahili

Area4Area:
Is Ngige working for it or you expect APC to go meet and beg him to become the president?
Same Ngige Igbos insulted when he moved into APC

WisdomFlakes:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2019/10/2023-igbo-presidency-we-need-two-south-east-governors-senators-to-defect-to-apc-ohanaeze/

MountainView:
I'm looking for an investor for my tech start-up

Fountainofyouth:
I have a bestie, a childhood friend, when I get married, the closeness and all will definitely reduce yeah, but I will never forget or do away with him cos I'm married, nah.

Ryan03:
One sided write up. So guys don't also have the bestie and ex issue? Why does it have to be only the lady who should let go if bestie and ex. It should be same for both sides

Sabaugo:
Am Dying In Silent! What Do I Do?

I got a work in missionary school. The Reverend sister in charge said I will be on probation for 12 months with #45k take home monthly.

As someone who has been at home for months I just accepted the job. After one week in the office, I found out that the work was heavy on me to the extent that I will go home with lots of them to do at home. I went back to her and pleaded if she can add small money to my salary, so she got angry and told me that they will pay me for the one week I worked for, that they don't need my type of person to work with them, that It seems that I like money too much. I cried that day to the extent that I can't open my eyes very well. She later said that she will give me second chance but she will reduce my salary to 42k.

I wrote an apology letter to her and I specifically told her to forgive for the sake of my mother and my son because am a single mother and am the one taking care of them. When I received the alert, I saw truly that she removed the money.

She doesn't respond to my greetings, other privileges she gave to workers," I no dey smell am",she acknowledged other new workers, she did not call my name.. Please I need advice because am just there because I don't have option. Am dying in silence!

Thanks in anticipation

RichDad1:
Can you tell me any state that doesn’t get monies from the National treasury?


Don’t blame Lagos if your Governors embezzles what is meant for growth in your State.

My governors have tried their best so far. Starting form Ngige

What happened to states created after the war ? What is hindering them from growth ?

How many of them are doing better than any south eastern state?

So you mean after 40 years, your state can’t make meaning developments like have an emergency unit to cater for stuffs like this?

We are far above that level.


What happened to the Fire truck commissioned by Peter Obi few years back?
Anambra have lots of modern fire fighting trucks. I have seem them myself. So I was not told.
Keep continue living in denial while other people are making head ways.
Like I said before. Lagos can only boast of the things attracted to it due to federal government interest. Lagos was once the capital of Nigeria remember that. Intact Lagos is below expectation as once capital of a country and suffering no single war and as well the host of so many conglomerates and their headquarters. If Anambra has such opportunity it will tower very high above what Lagos is today. So don't boast because if truth is to be told, Lagos under utilises its resources and at the same thing the highest debtor among Nigerian states.

RichDad1:
Can you tell me any state that doesn’t get monies from the National treasury?


Don’t blame Lagos if your Governors embezzles what is meant for growth in your State.

My governors have tried their best so far. Starting form Ngige

What happened to states created after the war ? What is hindering them from growth ?

How many of them are doing better than any south eastern state?

So you mean after 40 years, your state can’t make meaning developments like have an emergency unit to cater for stuffs like this?

We are far above that level.


What happened to the Fire truck commissioned by Peter Obi few years back?
Anambra have lots of modern fire fighting trucks. I have seem them myself. So I was not told.
Keep continue living in denial while other people are making head ways.

RichDad1:
Is she not an employee of the FG?
Something worse than this happened in Lagos circa 2018 on the Otedola bridge.
Not even a single FG official came around or did FG issue any statements.
At the end, Lagos as a state counted it loses , LRU tried their best and we all moved on.
But you lots are pathetic wailers that can’t deal with anything on your own without crying foul.
When you are supposed to blame your state government for lack of emergency services, you’re here crying about FG.
You need to drop this sense of entitlement if you want people take you serious.

globemoney:
No corruption where? You peter obi praise singers should stop deceiving yourselves, what did he do in Anambra? He will never be president or vice.. Keep fooling yourselves... All the peter obi praise singing starts and ends on social media

chenzen:
It is not my intention to sound like a broken record... but the reality of that romance that u re putting your life into is that you re simply a pun in his game of chess in the end he s preserving his queen for his final conquest.



Ask me y and I ll tell u...

chenzen:
women are sore losers in the end, the guys dont care... so these ladies needs the right kind of orientation not some morbid guidelines that has being reiterated via threads by some selfish OP overtime.

MelesZenawi:
Remove Umahi from that list.

He is a media Governor.

Sullivan Chime did well likewise Obi.

Nnamani is a disaster... ugwuanyi had out performed him.

EastGold:
Nigerian antichrist

His head like amphibian lizard