₦airaland Forum

Sirchiboy:
Not yet gotten job.
40 and I haven't work before 😂

16...fresh off secondary school. Office Assistant

GanagiBitrus:
Sports Betting is one of the symptoms of massive unemployment & lack of jobs.

Banning it like trying to cure Malaria with Panadol because of the headache symptoms.

True...and besides people like Reno just want to appear morally upright as they consider betting an immoral act. I think what gets to these people is when there is a healine that says for example, "1Billion is spent daily on gambling".....do they know how much in total in a day is spent on beer, sex(prostitution), drugs, clothes, jewelries, parties, etc

To each is own...I don't even do betting

princemillla:
Pele My dear.

The only issue I see here is ur inability to further on ur education. But others, my dear I can only said congratulations. What you are going thru now is a training which will surely be useful to you much later wen you start ur own family.

In our society, first born are saddled with loads of responsibilities but at the detriment of your self growth. Han Han I don't want it




By the way av sent you email. Try reply

Well said..

saasala:
The major reason the marriage of our parents lasted till eternity is because our fathers were the sole or major breadwinners of the family.

The reason marriages nowadays crash easily is because women now bring something tangible to the table. This is the major reasons marriages in Western countries don't last because women now have a say.

I just laugh when I see Nairaland guys saying "Nigerian women don't bring anything to the table" Like can you handle them when they start bringing something to the table?

I will rather not want my wife to bring anything to the table or bring something very small to the table. I only need her to be a good wife, take care of the home, the kids and be submissive. That's all a woman needs to do.

Nature has not designed a woman to be a leader. The moment they earn more than you, then they become the leader which is abnormal, and since they are not wired to lead, they will crumble the ship and scatter the building.

As much as people get divorced in Nigeria, we are still among the least divorced countries in the world but the numbers are climbing up because a lot of men are asking "What is she bringing to the table?"

I understand that the economy isn't helping matters and the make up of the 21st century generally has made it possible for both men and women to work and anyone can earn more than the other, and this is a pandemic.

Women are designed to worship their men, respect them, take care of the home and the kids.

As a man, you are a king and your wife is the Queen. Queens don't work, they only look beautiful for the king to admire and they don't have any say in the house. And they dare not question the king for having concubines or taking more wives.

Men, work hard, work very hard so you can take care of your home and stop waiting for your wife to bring something to the table. You can't handle that table.

My wife is just here enjoying herself. She is respectful and takes care of the home and when she catches me cheating, she can only cry. I will pet her and beg her and go back to my cheating. And the day she cheats, she is going back to her father's house while I take another wife.

Wow..

CJStarz:
2023......you both lost a son.
Immediately after,Yul engaged in skit making with Judy.
Same year,May went for body enhancement.
Two failed parents.
But why do I think May is a slow poison,a green snake in a green grass, accusing Yul of adultery while codedly dey run her things.
Yul should open up and expose it all

You have sense...

Osashalom:
Can you listen to yourself? How does a married woman do breasts enhancement surgery without her husband's consent?

Exactly...lots of shallow people that can't comprehend the simple message/point in what he is saying....

flexyrule:
Kate is very correct about Jenny.

Jenny can be all over your face today, and tomorow, she crawl back to her shell.

You won't blame her for that, that's just her kind of person.

Back then, we used to be pen pals.

There were times that I'll text her, and won't get a response for ages... I'd call, she won't pick up.

Toh. I felt I was kind forcing the friendship. Had to respect myself...

I think she sent me a birthday text two years ago.

Overall, Jenny is a cool lady.

I get it...I am a bit like that sometimes. Even me use to question my own actions

elder1002:
The beautiful side of marriage is the friendship, companionship that comes with it, this is by far the most beautiful aspect,
Aside this, there is nothing preety much attractive, in summaary without this its hard to love, you easily fall out of love, a living bondage. Husbands who don't just known how to stir up joy and wives who are as lazy as you can think of 😅😅... The end you end up with both partners with mutual understanding,0 love and just being tolerant of each other for the next couple of years till death do them part.

Happy in picures, happy in public.
But tolerant of each other in private.
Even VERY difficult to exhibit affections to each other in private.
The divorce rate this days are skyrocketing, then we understand that marriage is far *more deeper than sex itself*

If there is no love, true genuine love, omoh , if you like have a plantation of wealth that covers the sea, its very difficult for you to pleasure and please someone who has fallen out of love.

Truly, it deeply takes *Love* to keep a home.
Teachings on marriage this days add , no , you need this and that and those 😅😅..

The foundation for a sustainable and long lasting relationship is love, try to prioritize any other instrument and make love a second option and see how your relationship collapse bit by bit..

There is no subistute for love, its far deep that hunans can comprehend, that is why love is likened to SACRICICES.

That's why love has to stand the *test of time* before it can be translated to true love.

Most marriages break up, relationships fall out of love, no butterflies in their bellies as it was at first time 😅😅.

Husband's beating wives, wives disrespecting husbands, relationship having second thoughts about themselves after a couple of years together.

*Time, the true revealer*

*TIME THE TRUE REVEALER*

You don't have to prove anything to anybody, you don't have to force people to do certain things to showcase how much they are head over heels for you.

*ALLOW TIME DO THE PROVING*

untill love has stood the test of time, then it translates to *TRUE LOVE*

"True Love" I value it more than anything else

robosky02:
Super Eagles 2000

My best kit!

OGwales:
Some women are evil... Always playing victim cards. I am sure the man must have been holding back the frustration from the daughter of Eve.
After going to hustle all day as a man, one useless woman will be still come and add up to your problem in pretence. We know how it's all happened in the the garden of Eden.

Men are passing through a lot.

SMH!

Nebes:
They are yet to knack but their flirting has gone very far. They'll knack if they meet privately. The guy is obviously a reckless and immoral fellow. Your wife is currently the one restricting the knack. Thread carefully so that you don't send her to him.

You have sense....

Not a United fan but I remember watching that game very well. We were all shocked at the manner Onana went at Maguire but even more impressed with how Maguire was calm. He (Onana) just wanted to kick on a falling man as Maguire was going thru alot that time. I always thought he was over-hyoed anyway, concerning goals like a clown

robosky02:
Which of this Ex-Super Eagles players deserved a CAF footballer of the year award in his prime?

Jay-Jay
Taribo West
Obafemi Martins
Daniel Amokachi
And
Mikel Obi



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Mikel

viyon02:
I do watch cartoon too, infact smart people watch cartoon.

Atoh...don't mind the guy. Before they got married, did he know she was a cartoon addict or not

Never liked him...

Godmother:
just 29? I thought she was more than that. Happy birthday to her. Wishing her many more beautiful years ahead.

I thought so too... beautiful classy woman. Best wishes to her

Arteta pls when it's get to the 60 min...rest substitute and rest the bug guns...

Caveatemptor:
How can a team go to an away ground in the Champions league and score three goals yet the useless goalkeeper keeps letting the team down.

Same thing happened against Bayern Munich away in the very first game of the group

clefstone:
Christy Essien Igbokwe shouldn't be on this list. She was more famous alive than when she died

Agreed...I would say Amaka Igwe too

Neoteny7:
But democracy wasn't gone when the tribunal affirmed his win and you people celebrated the justice system.

Hypocrites.

Exactly....one of biggest problems of this our country is the mentality of it's citizens.

Tareq1105:
I don't know why Nigerians are surprised at the Court decision.

In 2019 general election APC Rivers State had no candidate into all the positions.
Why?
Bcoz Court said APC should conduct fresh Congress election from Ward, LG, to State level.
They went back for the election but it was parallel election bcoz APC then was factionalized.
So, Court didn't accept outcome of either faction.
Here PDP was asked to conduct its Congress election from Ward LG to State level since 2021 but they ignored the Court. Whose fault now? If you're a product of illegality, or product of Court disobedience, you would be punished. Bcoz Court wouldn't allow you to place something on nothing.

Well said....sorry to say, but a lot of Nigerians are just "educated illetrates" that are just like sheeps without brain. Too sentimental and hypocritical when analysing or viewing issues. Especially this politics, it is rule of law when it favours beneficiary but illegal or corrupt when it doesn't favour...haba

guobe:
The estranged wife of the footballer Odion Ighalo regarding his unfaithfulness to her that he even slept with a famous Big brother naija star broke the Internet today.

What really baffled me were comments from people with almost 99 percent in support of Odion Ighalo.

Alot of Nigerians will never take side against a Nigerian celebrity in sports,music or other ventures as the case may be.

It's now like a norm.

For example you come out and say Burna boy stop your weed smoking as you are influencing a lot of youths following you. The backlash you will receive for that stament may even make you deactivate your account.
It's terrible.

Exactly...what a shame!

Well, it's up to Osihmen to decide wherever he goes to based on his sporting and financial satisfaction....

VULCAN:
A lot of weak men on this thread.

Talking about how you can't beat her and shit.

The implication being that they are wife beaters

I'm ashamed on their behalf.

There is so much pride in having a GF or wife who has authority elsewhere.

You will see people shaking when she shouts but you know that you have her mumu button.

My wife is a very successful woman, she has so many staff and is as tough as nails and people often ask her whether she controls her husband. She will laugh and say "No woman can control that man".

She is right.

Yet I have never touched her anywhere.

But when she use to misbehave, I knew what to do to make her shed hot tears.

Those days are past now.

We are living in harmony nowadays

On point...
Me I even like those classy corporate types that people think they are "up-tight".....

slivertongue:
not party primaries but party exco issues which has been fixed. it's a party issue that has nothing to do APC. The courts is violating the rules

Oh I see..

SIXTEENTH:
Her song "Rule the world" ft 2 Chainz it's a hit banger.

That was Ariana Grande feat 2 Chainz I think....luv that song too

spencekat:
Plateau PDP goofed in presenting candidates for National Assembly elections.

Infact, it's their party primaries that is causing them all these problems. They had factions fighting and all....even the Governor's seat is on a so-so foundation. Hopeful that one stands firm. Let's wait and see sha

See how choatic and stressing and even mentally draining for one human being to reach another all in the name of superstar. If it's all true, I really feel for the said business man.

He woulda just try to get the next level a - Lister to do the project with instead of literally begging for Davido.

Coolsat:
This thing is on the rise these days
Friends sleeping with their bestie's spouse, sisters sleeping with their sister's husbands.

In all you do please make sure you fear women

Sad.... anything goes these days

Samakus:
Nose ring is a No No for me.

But I love waist beads.

Same here

BoldBrainz:
What's the outcome of this nigga's autopsy conducted by the police? Has he been re-buried? And why is Warner Bros studios yet to make the third instalment of "300" after nine years of the last showpiece?

Lol, I will put a call across to Warner Bros and get back to you... ....I need to see the queen in battle!