nairalanda1: OKay, don't fight your wife's boyfriends, and your side chick's boyfriend...good behaviour.
PLus it is possible side chick does not know he was married. Now she does...and is walking away while the going is good.
Pls don't get me wrong. This is not me supporting cheating by either sex or making this a woman/man battle..I am simply saying the wife should face her husband who swore for better or worse on the altar before man and God to love and cherish her.
How about if the girl fights back and injure or do worse to her? What is the use? In a nutshell, let's not always give a pass to the one who is cheating in a relationship or marriage while only blaming the third party..
RenaissanceGuy: Very true about the issue of congestion. We need to decongest Lagos, by moving at least 50 FG agencies currently headquartered there, to other states of the federation. That would spread development instead of concentrating economic activities in Abuja and Lagos.
Your point is even more valid than his. I said the same thing. Move departments around the country. But in this instance Ndume, he is speaking purely from a regional/ethnic/political angle, etc
Danielomisco: 1.Nwabalis composure 2. Calvin Bassey's individual brilliance 3.Ademola lookman and Osimhens chemistry. 4.the team plays together (compactness)
True...much as I often critise Bassey in the Epl..the guy has been fantastic in his role for the Super Eagles at this Afcon
[quote author=fergie001 post=127906080][/quote]Pleasant surprise I must say. I thought he was goinh too considering that all the House of Representatives members and Senators were sacked on same grounds. Anyway l, this is what the majority of the Plateau people wanted
Unfortunately some office colleagues (male/female) actually talk dirty or raw like that to one another with teases. You need to enter government ministries or some offices to hear and see how they play and tease with each other. Married and ummaried all indulge ooh ...
Although in most cases they are no necessarily sleeping with each other, but just comfortable with themselves. Not that I support sha
whyteteeth: My ever charming mom has stopped looking good like she used to eversince she joined a particular church in the early part of 2021.
Prior to that time, mom was a lover of good wears. She used to wear nice jewelries to complement her dressing. Nowadays, the story is no longer the same. She has changed completely and she is now a shadow of her former self. She would not make her hair with weavon or attachment, or wear wig or makeup like she used to do. She now uses thread to plait her hair which makes her look very unlike her and very unattractive.
When I travelled home during Christmas, I nearly wept when I saw her. From her head to her toe, she was completely off. No sense of style at all. Just regular clothes and slippers even when she is going out for an event.
What do we do? The church she joined is THE LORD'S CHOSEN. And dad says she has asked her to stop attending the church but she refused. Mom is a retired nurse and she is 62 years old. I am her last child and I and my siblings are doing everything possible to make her look good. Money is not the problem. She is just simply refused to listen to anybody.
She is operating at a higher spiritual level now that looks don't mean anything to her only the word of God. Remember the prophets of old like John the Baptist, Isaiah, etc....
GanagiBitrus: Sports Betting is one of the symptoms of massive unemployment & lack of jobs.
Banning it like trying to cure Malaria with Panadol because of the headache symptoms.
True...and besides people like Reno just want to appear morally upright as they consider betting an immoral act. I think what gets to these people is when there is a healine that says for example, "1Billion is spent daily on gambling".....do they know how much in total in a day is spent on beer, sex(prostitution), drugs, clothes, jewelries, parties, etc
The only issue I see here is ur inability to further on ur education. But others, my dear I can only said congratulations. What you are going thru now is a training which will surely be useful to you much later wen you start ur own family.
In our society, first born are saddled with loads of responsibilities but at the detriment of your self growth. Han Han I don't want it
saasala: The major reason the marriage of our parents lasted till eternity is because our fathers were the sole or major breadwinners of the family.
The reason marriages nowadays crash easily is because women now bring something tangible to the table. This is the major reasons marriages in Western countries don't last because women now have a say.
I just laugh when I see Nairaland guys saying "Nigerian women don't bring anything to the table" Like can you handle them when they start bringing something to the table?
I will rather not want my wife to bring anything to the table or bring something very small to the table. I only need her to be a good wife, take care of the home, the kids and be submissive. That's all a woman needs to do.
Nature has not designed a woman to be a leader. The moment they earn more than you, then they become the leader which is abnormal, and since they are not wired to lead, they will crumble the ship and scatter the building.
As much as people get divorced in Nigeria, we are still among the least divorced countries in the world but the numbers are climbing up because a lot of men are asking "What is she bringing to the table?"
I understand that the economy isn't helping matters and the make up of the 21st century generally has made it possible for both men and women to work and anyone can earn more than the other, and this is a pandemic.
Women are designed to worship their men, respect them, take care of the home and the kids.
As a man, you are a king and your wife is the Queen. Queens don't work, they only look beautiful for the king to admire and they don't have any say in the house. And they dare not question the king for having concubines or taking more wives.
Men, work hard, work very hard so you can take care of your home and stop waiting for your wife to bring something to the table. You can't handle that table.
My wife is just here enjoying herself. She is respectful and takes care of the home and when she catches me cheating, she can only cry. I will pet her and beg her and go back to my cheating. And the day she cheats, she is going back to her father's house while I take another wife.
CJStarz: 2023......you both lost a son. Immediately after,Yul engaged in skit making with Judy. Same year,May went for body enhancement. Two failed parents. But why do I think May is a slow poison,a green snake in a green grass, accusing Yul of adultery while codedly dey run her things. Yul should open up and expose it all
elder1002: The beautiful side of marriage is the friendship, companionship that comes with it, this is by far the most beautiful aspect, Aside this, there is nothing preety much attractive, in summaary without this its hard to love, you easily fall out of love, a living bondage. Husbands who don't just known how to stir up joy and wives who are as lazy as you can think of 😅😅... The end you end up with both partners with mutual understanding,0 love and just being tolerant of each other for the next couple of years till death do them part.
Happy in picures, happy in public. But tolerant of each other in private. Even VERY difficult to exhibit affections to each other in private. The divorce rate this days are skyrocketing, then we understand that marriage is far *more deeper than sex itself*
If there is no love, true genuine love, omoh , if you like have a plantation of wealth that covers the sea, its very difficult for you to pleasure and please someone who has fallen out of love.
Truly, it deeply takes *Love* to keep a home. Teachings on marriage this days add , no , you need this and that and those 😅😅..
The foundation for a sustainable and long lasting relationship is love, try to prioritize any other instrument and make love a second option and see how your relationship collapse bit by bit..
There is no subistute for love, its far deep that hunans can comprehend, that is why love is likened to SACRICICES.
That's why love has to stand the *test of time* before it can be translated to true love.
Most marriages break up, relationships fall out of love, no butterflies in their bellies as it was at first time 😅😅.
Husband's beating wives, wives disrespecting husbands, relationship having second thoughts about themselves after a couple of years together.
*Time, the true revealer*
*TIME THE TRUE REVEALER*
You don't have to prove anything to anybody, you don't have to force people to do certain things to showcase how much they are head over heels for you.
*ALLOW TIME DO THE PROVING*
untill love has stood the test of time, then it translates to *TRUE LOVE*
OGwales: Some women are evil... Always playing victim cards. I am sure the man must have been holding back the frustration from the daughter of Eve. After going to hustle all day as a man, one useless woman will be still come and add up to your problem in pretence. We know how it's all happened in the the garden of Eden.
Nebes: They are yet to knack but their flirting has gone very far. They'll knack if they meet privately. The guy is obviously a reckless and immoral fellow. Your wife is currently the one restricting the knack. Thread carefully so that you don't send her to him.
Family › Re: Wife Catches Her Husband With Side Chick by Mryacks: 8:05am On Feb 03, 2024
