₦airaland Forum

shakrullah:
I am presently in that condition now. A lady I love so much when I proposed to her she replied with "I am not ready for such relationship". she even asked me if I could wait for ten years. its so painful in here-my heart. but I am still confused bcuz she behaves to me like one she adore and that even annoys me the more.

dowjones:
May God punish all you p00sie niggerz and woman wrappers out there. Irritating thread.

Useless Jobless Boys with no respect for their manhood crying and begging for "love" !

lonelydora:
Because Nigerian politics involves killings, maiming opponents, going to juju house, etc.

deluxe83:
Lemme confess. It happened about 3 yrs ago in my ss1. And av got to say it aint easy. I sobed but privately and 4 a while and after that I felt gr8 hate for her

somkwams:
Well in my case when i first met ***** she was extra sweet i wanted to make just the normal kinda gurl like the others i've met but she kept melting my heart .
She brought me closer to her family, introduced me to her parents , sent the sweetest text messages , even took me out in her free times, Chai .
Anyway after a month we had sex and bang that was how she captured my heart to that love web. I fell completely inlove with her and started reciprocating the love buh then she changed , we were still very close friends buh she started avoided any mutual connection that grows intimacy, I asked her out and she declinded [Biggest wonder is in the days when she was sweet she knew i had other girls around but kept up with me, but when i started asking her out i walked out that road , i even got more responsible i.e took a job, Got closer to God , n all that ]
well after two years of trying to mke her completely mine i told her i was tired of trying to win her , and now to the main topic . The silly thing i did...
I got drunk from work and went to her place for her to see me drunk and that it was cause of her!!
END OF STORY

somkwams:
Well in my case when i first met ***** she was extra sweet i wanted to make just the normal kinda gurl like the others i've met but she kept melting my heart .
She brought me closer to her family, introduced me to her parents , sent the sweetest text messages , even took me out in her free times, Chai .
Anyway after a month we had sex and bang that was how she captured my heart to that love web. I fell completely inlove with her and started reciprocating the love buh then she changed , we were still very close friends buh she started avoided any mutual connection that grows intimacy, I asked her out and she declinded [Biggest wonder is in the days when she was sweet she knew i had other girls around but kept up with me, but when i started asking her out i walked out that road , i even got more responsible i.e took a job, Got closer to God , n all that ]
well after two years of trying to mke her completely mine i told her i was tired of trying to win her , and now to the main topic . The silly thing i did...
I got drunk from work and went to her place for her to see me drunk and that it was cause of her!!
END OF STORY

teemanbastos:
dpnds n ur definition

politricks:
Politics is a dirty game only when the players themselves are dirty.

LARRYDKING:
For me, i wont cry for any lady. Neva! I'm d type of guy that accost any and every lady i see, i dont hide word, i drop d bomb @ once irrespective of ur stature, age or class. I'm an introvert so i get to gain more confidence 2ru dat. The truth is it's been lng i fell in the can of trash called love so u turn me down is no issue to me. I've gat that several times frm those i knw and those i dont.

Abt d funny thing i've done, i run away each time i see a lady who did nt a accede to my request, that's ma nature. Sometime, i regret been an introvert. That does nt stop me frm toasting her frnds 2 anyway, i'm addicted to it.

However, crying is no big deal. It's as a result of emotional trauma and if he does nt cry @ that moment, it will be as thou he will drop dead d nxt sec. But when he cries, he will be eased of the pressure he has been 2ru.

Ace2013:
What is love?

Pamcrest:
I agree with u that crying isn't a sign of weakness esp for a long relationship. But d girl rejecting u may not be a stranger u don't know. Maybe they were friends then he fell in love n wanted to take it to another level but she refused no matter how hard he tries. Unrequited love can lead to tears depending on d depth of his emotions.....that's my point.
My humble submission

Pamcrest:
Men also cry! An highly emotional situation can move a guy to cry....nth unusual in that! Crying is a natural human reaction....why do we associate it to only women or see it as a weakness in men? This is why many men bottle up their emotions n then turn mean, heartless n wicked!
Back to op, I have witnessed such cases of rejection concerning my brothers. I see them laugh it off or start dissing d girl or vow to date her friend to spite her! They would huff n puff and they never cried, at least not in public. Then one day I caught one of my brothers locked up in his room, crying while reading a "Dear John" letter he had just received. I was moved with pity for him but to my surprise, by d time he came out, he was all bravado, bragging to his other brothers. I simply looked on in amazement.....who's fooling who! His secret is still safe with me though
My humble submission

Bakozy:
u must be mad!

DailyNews:
It hurts...have had a near rejection xprence from a lady; my first and I guess, last ever! Later, she got to know and wanted us close, I ignored her like bad smell, and honestly, I developed dislike for her, sadly.

I then learnt:
Best way to avoid being rejected or hurt by ladies u wish to love/keep, don't chase/woo ladies, attract them; how Make yourself the dream man of most ladies by concentrating on developing yourself- education wise, career/business wise, good-looking wise and dressing wise, and watch majority of women seek for ways to be your girl while u filter them and do iyanga

Lastly, this issue of rejecting guys who truly care for u and accepting guys who don't care and just want u for fun is one sure reason why heartbreak, hit-and-run, chop-n-clean-mouth, use-n-dump will never stop in the world...so ladies, when a guy breaks your heart or dumps u for another, don't cry cos u probably accepted the wrong guy and rejected your true man who can die for u!

SECRET TIP For LAdies:
When a guy ask u out or tries to woo u d first time and u tell him NO! Pls stick to the No even if u later discover that he is Dangote or Bill Gates cos it will mostly backfire on you!

If u like a guy, respond positively and don't over-stress him, cos if u do, u may end up accepting playboys who are good in wooing hard-to-get ladies. Una gudunight

pinkycute:
Lolzzzzzz.... Wowww.. The power of a woman, is working here Mhennnn some guys don surfer

donnypool:
i probably shouldn't but i think you should change the 'love' to 'like a lot'

donnypool:
what do you mean by 'truly love'? infact what is love? you broken up with three girls but were attracted to each one because of love?

that is like not love. love is developed day by day being together with person you like. exception is family love which is natural.


ya'll illiterate bunch

Raymondenyi:
Please what does it mean to be in love" how does it Feel? When I see people professing love and going after a lady, it seem to me like they re acting a jolly wood movie, please and please y ' all should mek me understand, cos I don't just seem to comprehend.....

BTW understandably I have never done any nonsense for any lady, the best I did was buying a flower when I was in my mid teenage age.... god bless Nigeria

Raymondenyi:
Please what does it mean to be in love" how does it Feel? When I see people professing love and going after a lady, it seem to me like they re acting a jolly wood movie, please and please y ' all should mek me understand, cos I don't just seem to comprehend.....

BTW understandably I have never done any nonsense for any lady, the best I did was buying a flower when I was in my mid teenage age.... god bless Nigeria

StarBoard:
Forgive my lapse sir.
You can't blame me for making that assumption.
What would that otuoke bred intellectual snail be doing with such a high-level book other than to pretend to look smart.

realborn:
The biggest mockery of GEJ comes from his aides, Reuben and Reno. From the pictures it seems the President is trying hard to pose for pictures to show that he also reads to counter the team of opposition always chanting cluelessness. Like an earlier poster said, if at all you will post related pics for public consumption, it should be taken from a suitable library with a wide array of different books on diverse subjects.

It is not good for Reuben to post a picture of the President reading "Eze goes to school" at mid night with his full regalia on. It is funny how Reuben captured him start from beginning and his poses to the end of the book.

A part of me deeply likes Mr Jonathan. He looks like he would make a good father, uncle and friend. I feel a lot of pity for him mere looking at these pictures. He seems out of control.

Every part of me dislikes President Jonathan. It takes more than humble beginnings and a cute smile to lead a complex nation like Nigeria. We have never been so disorganized as a nation as we presently are under him. History would have forever been thankful to him if he did not re-contest 2015 and scout for a new leader with the right intellectual acumen and acuteness to succeed him and lead Nigeria forward.

Reuben the chief photographer, keep up your yeye work.

StarBoard:
it's probably a colouring book or a-is-for-apple, b-is-for-ball kind of book.
Or maybe it is his look-alike Barney he is reading about.
That would be the only way he could progress so quickly.
Those are the kind of books this mushroom head of a joke of a president that can stimulate someone with the IQ of a knorr cube.
The intellectual midget surely cannot be reading anything complex that would challenge him mentally.

This Reuben Abati is a m0ron. I can't believe I ever took that scam seriously.

Sanguine:
Lmao. #singing# wetin man go do for this world o wey dem nor go talk... Human beings ehn!
You people should leave President Jonathan alone jare ah! Haba! Na wa kwa. Lol.

ibe9ja:
Clueless n foolish Op

WarRLaY:
I brought her blackberry curve 2 with my school fees, when blackberry was still very expensive

KingSolomonI:
Really...? Kinda sounds pathetic sha... sometimes I welcome "no" sef...cos there is fun in d chase esp if am willing to go on with d chase. Infact I hardly ask gals out...it just happens.
Most times we might have started kissing b4 u realize that I hav not asked u out...