Romance / Re: What's The Worst Thing Your Ex Ever Did To You? Share Your Experience!!! by mumu9gerian: 9:46pm On May 05, 2020 |
Olatara: He was cheating on me, so I asked for break up, he said ok. Only for him to call me that he wants us to be friends, I said ok. Then we started having sex again. The relationship started all over again, with cheating, lets be friends, sex. Until it gets to the fourth time. I was so mad at myself. The last time I did, I told him to move on that I need to be in a serious relationship, then I blocked him. That decision was cool, but I am still mad at myself that I allowed him to use me. Eeeyah pele, but you both had sex, why then do you feel he used you |
Family / Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by mumu9gerian: 9:05pm On May 05, 2020 |
noakchukibadan: Hello,
Please no ethnic banters. One of us is from Ekiti, and the other is from Benue. I am married for 8 years with 2 kids. It has been one problem to another.
I must be very frank, before marriage, my wife had many very questionable characters, but unfortunately we did the marriage counseling in a church were the pastor happened to be her family member. Many of the issues would have been resolved, but when I raised those issues about her character the pastor promised me that everything will be fine after the marriage. Although this is not an excuse, but looking back now I would have been more patient and taken my decision myself instead of rushing into the marriage. For this I HOLD MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE
There is hardly nothing we do not quarrel about, I have always been the one to initiate settlement. The only way I ensure that there is peace in the house is for me not to complain about anything. Even at that, there is always trouble. If the children do anything wrong, she always says those characters the children are exhibiting are not from her and that she is not surprised that they inherited such characters from me.
She can go for months without talking to me, even if I tried to, I have done all I could do, I have begged, cried prayed. I just feel tired and exhausted from trying to make the marriage work or have peace in the home, the sad part is that she often reminds me every time there is misunderstanding that I should remember that she can stay on her own without talking to any body. Just to add, she is very prayerful.
OTHER INFORMATION. 1. I can say conveniently that there is no money problem at home. Finance is okay. 2. I went to see her father 2 years ago, the man said unfortunately he can not do anything. This is true because she was raised away from her Father, she has no contact with any of her fathers family and her father has a zero say in her life. 3. she has 5 elders ones, non of them is in communication with her because of many unresolved issues. Of her 3 younger ones she only maintains a relationship with the last boy who is just 14 years. . 4. Her mum can not talk to her because she simply dares not. However, behind, her mother use to beg me and she kept saying she understands her daughter's character and that she is doing her best by praying and doing deliverance for her. 5. She is not in contact with her maternal uncles and aunt because she said they supported her elder ones when she had problem with them.
So I am stuck with no one to help call the both of us and resolve the issue.
Every year for 5 straight years, she always forgets my birthday, last year, she forgot also, three days later, she bought me a present and I refused to collect the present and I asked her why does she keep forgetting my birthday, year after year for 5 years. She just said sorry, but I left the present in the room, she never bothered to bring the present to me. Another birthday was gone yesterday 2nd May, and as I write, no happy birthday yet.
I literally cook for myself, and all domestic things I do for myself.
I will end this by saying that in fairness to her, her character was not too different before the marriage and courtship, sincerely only once, that was like one year before the marriage I broke up with her, she came to apologize and promised that she will change. Her mother also came to apologize to me also.
This woman has refused to change or allow peace to hold sway, she is right every time, while everybody around is wrong. Sincerely, I do not know what to do anymore.
I am tired and exhausted. I do not know what to do anymore. I am 42, I was diagnosed of high blood pressure 2 years ago. You must be the one from Ekiti |
Travel / Re: Returnees From Enugu, Port-Harcourt Test Positive For COVID-19 In Bauchi by mumu9gerian: 4:40pm On May 01, 2020 |
DanseMacabre: Nigeria sef. Almost every state dey on inter-state lockdown. How dem carry cross from PH and Enugu reach Bauchi Audio interstate lockdown, when u to to those borders of states, there is no lockdown |
Romance / Re: What's The Worst Thing Your Ex Ever Did To You? Share Your Experience!!! by mumu9gerian: 9:36pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Liliantalks: Blocked me everywhere on social media, it killed my soul , I couldnt breath . Men ar wicked Na Ma do u like that? Eetyah, werin u do |
Romance / Re: Why Do You Fornicate I Need Your Honest Answer. by mumu9gerian: 8:45am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Jochabed: i am a Christian and I am unapologetic about it. God says in his word, that he hates fornication but it's obvious that most people have engaged in the act before. I just need your honest answer, why do you knowingly go against God's commandment by having sex when your not married. I'm not gonna judge you, I just want your honest answer. Or are you like Paul in the bible who doesn't want to do it, but you just find your self doing it? . |
Romance / Re: Why Do Black Men Hate Giving Their Women A Head by mumu9gerian: 8:44am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Joystark: You don't generalize about stuff like this.
It's an individual thing.
Some people do it. Some don't. Simple. Do u recieve it? |
Health / Re: Do You Personally Know Anyone Who Has Tested Positive Or Died Of Coronavirus? by mumu9gerian: 4:05pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
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Health / Re: Do You Personally Know Anyone Who Has Tested Positive Or Died Of Coronavirus? by mumu9gerian: 9:40pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
GentRoyal: Personally, I don't; however, two individuals were reported to have tested to Covid-19 in my street on Tuesday, 21st of April Health workers came on Wednesday 22nd, to disinfect every nook and corner of my street. Which local government |
Sports / Re: John Obi Mikel Celebrates His 33rd Birthday Today by mumu9gerian: 8:51pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
babyfaceafrica: You mean 40? U are absolutwly wrong , did u see Mikel in finland in 2001 or is it 2003, he was a small boy, saw him grow. The diffence between 33 and his real age canr be more than a max of 2 if there is at all |
Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by mumu9gerian: 5:36pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
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Politics / Re: Who Are Those Traders Selling And Hawking Fake Covid19 Vaccines In Kano?? by mumu9gerian: 9:09am On Apr 22, 2020 |
recklesslove: When Joseph Okechukwu n Pastor Chris Oyakhilome was saying that what will eventually kill people is the vaccine along side 5G people said he was mad. First it was a virus magnified by fear, followed by 5G that will make people really sick and this will further increase fear that will make people go for the vaccine He is mad' you are also mad |
Politics / Re: ‘ Aisha Buhari Will Take Over Aso Rock,block Cabals’ – Primate Ayodele by mumu9gerian: 8:52am On Apr 22, 2020 |
Oshoboy01: The leader of INRI Evangelical Spiritual Church, Primate Elijah Ayodele has released more shocking prophecies in the midst of the world greatest pandemic, Covid-19.
Among the prophecies, he warned that the nation should pray against more mourning in Aso rock, following the death of President Buhari’s chief of staff, Abba Kyari last weekend and the death of Buhari’s personal bodyguard who died yesterday, few hours after the man of God declared. ‘We still need to pray against any sort of mourning in the villa, President Muhammadu Buhari needs prayer, he is not stable health wise, the nation needs to pray against more death’
He also prophesied that he sees the first lady, Aisha Buhari taking over Aso rock and blocking the cabal activities. ‘Aisha buhari will be popular in the villa, she will be incharge of so many activities to block cabals, if Buhari pick the right person from the north and someone that has admin idea, a northern muslim that will work with Aisha, Buhari government will stabilize, I see a gang up against the new set of people that will take over the villa’’
Also, he also urged Nigerians to pray against rain fall that will cause danger to the health of citizens, windstorm, blood bath in the country, and flood
Similarly, he stated that lockdown will not help the nation in the midst of Covid-19 crisis, stating that hunger will soon come for everyone, which is a dangerous ‘virus’ than Corona Virus. He however adviced the government on steps to take to curb the virus. ‘’ I still want to appeal to the president, that the lockdown will not help our nation, the government should take three steps. The money they have contributed, let us use it to do home mask glass and ventilator, and use part of the money to build hospitals’.
He addressed the backlash received during his previous plea to the government to open churches and mosques. He asked Nigerians not to get his prophecy wrong as his sole aim is not for Offerings or tithes but the welfare of Nigerians. He vowed not to take tithes and offerings if the government listens by opening churches and mosques.
‘I have fed nothing less than 13,000 people within this period, I am going to host muslim widows who are going to start fast on Monday, they are much but Nigerians must not misquote me on my last prophecy about opening the lockdown, I didn’t say that because of tithe and offering. If the lockdown persist, two virus will be fighting us, hunger virus and Corona Virus, the government should put a very serious committee in place to regulate the crowd in churches and mosques, they should be allowed to open with a maximum of 20 members, I don’t mind if they put a rule against collecting offering and tithes, they should not extend the lockdown on 27th of April, it will cause lot of crisis for the government, people will start taking it unserious, people will protest against it. people are not taking it serious again because it has taken more than expected. America is finding a way around it, Ghana has lifted the lockdown, parts of Europe have open business, let us do something too. I said there will be hunger in the land, this is part of the fulfillment of the prophecy. Nigeria needs prayer, the world needs prayer now because this corona virus will bring nations to fight themselves, it is causing fear in the lives of people’’
He said he sees Corona Virus becoming an airborne and serious hunger in Africa. ‘Corona Virus is here to stay, it is not going anytime soon, I see it becoming an airborne disease, WHO and United Nations need to look into this, Government should start doing things to make the economy look better, I see Social Distancing persisting till next year. Covid-19 will cause serious hunger in the world, especially Africa. There should be three days prayer to avert more covid-19 death’
Also, he adviced President Buhari to be careful in selecting who becomes his new chief of staff. ‘President Buhari is troubled in mind about who will be his next chief of staff, so many people are coming to him, if he picks wrongly, it will even bring disappointment into his government, he needs someone who is God fearing, someone who will understand the needs of the masses, not someone who is selfish, someone who has done what is right’’ Picking an x general will help .
He revealed that the vaccine to Covid-19 will be found but it will take time, and that expose so many things in the government of nations ‘They will get vaccine to cure it but they won’t get it faster but they will still get it. Nigeria economy will not be the same, the virus will expose many things in government, I have seen corruption in it, people are using it to dupe the world’
He maintained that his water and Anointing Oil is sufficient to stop the spread of Corona Virus, while commending the Lagos state government, Churches for their efforts to curb the spread of the deadly virus.
Although there have been fire outbreaks, he called on Nigerians to pray against more fire outbreaks in strategic places.
It would be recalled that Primate Elijah Ayodele had predicted the emergence of Joe Biden as Democrat party presidential Candidate, the emergence of Corona Virus in the world, Naira Crash, fall in oil price to mention a few.
This man should keep quiet and stop talking |
Celebrities / Re: Nigerians React As Falz Needs Contact Details Of Female Officers Queried By NIS by mumu9gerian: 8:51am On Apr 22, 2020 |
FEGNO: The ladies did absolutely nothing wrong. We at some point in this country begin to differentiate what is legally wrong and therefore enforceable from what is morally wrong or offends our so called Nigerian religiosity. I have said it severally, we are not an islamic republic. And so if the comptroller general of immigrations feels the ladies actions offends his religious beliefs, that does not on any way translate to an offence by the ladies. I put it down in writing on an earlier post. Any untoward action visited on these ladies will see me give my support to them for full restitution. They were wrong using their uniforms.it's not about morals or religion 1 Like |
Romance / Re: She's Finally Here (see Her Pix) by mumu9gerian: 8:46am On Apr 22, 2020 |
Preshieben: mom gave birth when she was 16 Unwanted pregnancy tho My senior bro is 25 Second is 23 Third is 21 Am 19 Oya calculate 16 plus 25 is 41 actually If i may ask, why after 19yrs |
Health / Re: COVID-19: Six Private Hospitals In Lagos Secretly Treating Patients Revealed -SR by mumu9gerian: 8:13am On Apr 21, 2020 |
Shibaraba: County hospital ogba oooooo Modaran Chai No wonder I've been seeing these guys in my sleep U stay around Ogba ni |
Romance / Re: Share Your Worst Ever Sexual Regret by mumu9gerian: 10:36pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Glo4issy: kept ignoring him like nothing happened,he later realized I don't like him but was still crushing and hoping we can be together Not cool', u led him on 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Share Your Worst Ever Sexual Regret by mumu9gerian: 9:16pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Swtbabyvee: My nysc boyfriend! We bleeped after camp n I regretted it. What happened? |
Romance / Re: Share Your Worst Ever Sexual Regret by mumu9gerian: 9:14pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Glo4issy: Had one crush then (handsome guy)lol,the guy made it so obvious to the point everyone around knew he liked me ,funny enough my room mate had a crush on him lol... imagine the whole thing and I never liked this boy one bit,my friend was even asking me if I did voodoo on him . One evening,I was kinda Hot I called him into the room and made OGA give me head when he wanted to slide in,that was when I realize I just bleeped up . Till date I still regret taking advantage of him What happened after that? |
Nairaland / General / Re: What's Your Most Embarrassing Moment In Public? by mumu9gerian: 5:08pm On Apr 19, 2020 |
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Nairaland / General / Re: What's Your Most Embarrassing Moment In Public? by mumu9gerian: 4:37pm On Apr 19, 2020 |
Dagger111: When i was in SS2 around 2007, i was sent to buy #500 MTN recharge card by my dad. So i went to a nearby Cafe to get airtel instead of MTN, i did it deliberately. The lady gave me the card, while on road, been that i jst got a phone with airtel sim, i decided to look the recharge card underneath smartly without removing the pin. I did it successfully, copied the numbers and loaded it. Then i return to the lady and said the person said MTN nt Airtel, seeing the card that it was intact and unpinned, she gave me MTN and i went back to gv my dad. Few days later, my dad send me another #500 card, i went to same place in aim of repeating same fraudulent act, as i gv the lady the money, publicly in the cafe, she shouted; that's the money of the last recharge card u came to buy which u loaded and returned empty paper. I wanted the ground to open, so i could enter bt no way. I have to start begging money at the road side to get another recharge card for my dad, it was an embarrassing one i won't lie. Thats not embarrassing , its the consequence of thinking u were smart. I hope you have stopped such terrible acts 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Share Your Worst Ever Sexual Regret by mumu9gerian: 12:47pm On Apr 19, 2020 |
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Politics / Re: Lagos Confirms Saharareporters' Story, Says Kyari Died At First Cardiology by mumu9gerian: 10:25pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
iwaeda:
How many people are being treated in private clinics. Orun ya bo ni, is not one person it will fall upon. Thats not my point Sir 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Lagos Confirms Saharareporters' Story, Says Kyari Died At First Cardiology by mumu9gerian: 10:25pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
Racoon: Meaning it's a gross indictment on him because being the commissioner of health in Lagos State he ought to know or be informed by the FG esp.that the late COS was alleged to be receiving treatment in a private facility & @ his private expense(which is not true).
The state NCDC team was supposed to be the ones manage him @ the designated centre since WHO guidelines doesn't authorized private hospitals to manage COVID19 patients. Well,, my point is that his choice of words shows he hasnt made a contrary statement |
Politics / Re: Lagos Confirms Saharareporters' Story, Says Kyari Died At First Cardiology by mumu9gerian: 9:54pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
iwaeda: But Abayomi denied knowing his whereabout few days ago. These people are just liars. In thr report he said following enquiries, which means he could have as well been right when he said he didnt know where Abba Kyari was |
Politics / Re: Lagos Confirms Saharareporters' Story, Says Kyari Died At First Cardiology by mumu9gerian: 9:52pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
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Romance / Re: Share Your Worst Ever Sexual Regret by mumu9gerian: 9:48pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
Ashawoboi27: The day I had sex with one mumu girl for one mechanic shop I still regret it till today And I pass through the shop most times Why, |
Romance / Re: Share Your Worst Ever Sexual Regret by mumu9gerian: 9:46pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
Babythicksme17: Ha i once dated a guy, very handsome somebody oo and cool guy.But guess what?his dick is like pencil i swearuGod,i thought it was a disease.
Till date he never marry.Girls dey japa cos me self japa.l Looking at it was very scary,can't let him Bleep me with that.Tufiakwa,tueh tueh. How did you see it then, is ur acciint true or made up? 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Share Your Worst Ever Sexual Regret by mumu9gerian: 9:43pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
Preciousgirl: Is there, a person you have had sex with and going forward, regretted very much? Share here.
I had sex with a guy in Uni, and I feel like throwing up any time I remember. Share yours How many times? Why did you in thr first place? What changed about you? 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Video : Throwback : Seyi Makinde Making Jest Of Coronavirus At Ibadan PDP Rally by mumu9gerian: 10:15pm On Mar 30, 2020 |
dustmalik: [s][/s] Trash. Very unintelligent post. You don't have a point. You might as well keep shut. He is actually right 1 Like |
Education / Re: If You Didn't School In Any Of This 20 universities,then You Are Still A Jambite by mumu9gerian: 8:19am On Mar 26, 2020 |
divinechildparr: [url]highfaculty.com[/url] You may think school is school until you have graduated. See, this is Nigeria. Don't waste your time in some universities because after you graduate, your joblessness will be evidence for all to see.
I know most of you may not like to hear the truth, but the truth still has to be said no matter what.
Even if you are a dunce, if you attend any of the Universities below, your chances of getting a Job is 100% as compared to those stupid private schools.
See, if you are a student of any private university, just make sure your parents has a company where you will work because no body will want to employ you at all.
My simple advice is for you to go and write Jamb again.
SEE THE BEST UNIVERSITIES:
1. Obafemi awolowo university, ife
2. Amadu bello university, Zaria
3. University of Ibadan
4. University of Nigeria, Nnsuka
5. University of Ilorin
6.university of Lagos
7. University of Benin
8. Federal university of technology, owerri
9. University of port Harcourt
10. University of calabar
11. Federal university of technology, akure
12. Federal university of technology, minna
13. Nnamdi azikiwe university, awka
14. University of Maiduguri
15. University of Jos
16. University of uyo
17. Bayero university, kano
18. University of agriculture, Abeokuta
19. Michael okpara university of agriculture, Umudike
20. Usman danfidiyo university, sokoto.
If you are not a graduate of these 20 first generation universities in Nigeria. You need to Obtain Jamb Form before it is too late.
Kindly share the post to Nigerian especially jamb students to know the right school to choose when doing registration.
You are free to challenge this post. If you think your own university fit to be on the list. I hope u havr graduated and u have a good job because hmmmmmn i hope it won't be too late for u ooooo 1 Like 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Exorbitant Estimated Electricity Billings! Post Your March Bills Here by mumu9gerian: 1:24pm On Mar 16, 2020 |
executive12:
Not true. It may take time, but they do respond. True sir,i have a 6month old mail that hasnt been responded |
Politics / Re: Exorbitant Estimated Electricity Billings! Post Your March Bills Here by mumu9gerian: 1:00pm On Mar 14, 2020 |
Slaquan:
As a foreigner I can now see why Nigeria has such poor power supply. No one pays their bills. Almost everyone who posted a bill had more than 100k in outstanding debt. If that is a common problem how do you all expect the utility companies to run the business?
Since you are a foreigner, let me educate you. Why a lot of people have outstanding is because the bills the DISCOs bring is outrageously high ànd unrealistic. They even bill empty houses 7 Likes |