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RedCentaur:
I can only only imagine the tears of this young man, while begging his wife to believe him.

As in eeh...Tears from the inner most part of his heart..

Mariangeles:
If I were the woman, I would downright disown those demonic children for being such devilish liars! Not necessarily to get back with the man.

There are some betrayals that can never be and should never be expected to be forgiven.

If the betrayed, out of the magnanimity of his heart, decides to forgive, then it should be accepted with gratitude without expecting anything else.

Ashi gbakwa umu ekwensu!

When a man has a case with a female, no matter the age of the female, he cannever win that case..All that is needed is for the female to mention sex...And it is finshed.

The woman on her own, messed up in a way...No single trust in her husband..When you are with someone for years, you've seen eachother's unclothedness, there are deeper connections you must know about each other..And there are things you know they can do or not.

I just can't Imagine how the man begged her to hear him out..Very heart touching.

Anyway he has moved on..A man can marry at any age.

As for the woman let her find her way.


For the girls, karma is coming..Scattering their parents and telling lies against the the man that impregnated their mother to conceive them..He will lay an eternity curse on them...Problem for who go marry such cursed ladies.

janejjjjj5000:
Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.

Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.

He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.

I feel like pouring out my heart.

You are simply a user...So You didn't dropout until you have 3girls and a boy?

You want to create a dysfunctional home and upbringing for those little girls? So you deny them of father figure which is extremely important in a girl child life to put her in check..Hehehehehe get ready to have at least one or two coded harlorts as daughters..Because boys will use materials things to deceive them.

Don't take them to this dangerous path..You will regret it.

Even ladies from decent homes with cool parents don dey old for house, not to talk of the one from a divorced home with problems.

Don't make those kids regret having you as a mother.

Life is short, make sacrifices with your SO and give the kids the best foundation you can.

You are manipulating and blackmailing him emotionally..And it is the reason he flare up ones in a while.

Na so domestic violence dey start...All this marrying of younger ladies is a recipe for disaster most times in the long run..

A lady should have a huge sense of maturity and responsibility before going into her Matrimonial home..

Scapula112:
Hello nairalanders, I'm an old user of this forum just wanna remain anonymous. Please my career is not making me be in a relationship with any lady, all the Ladies I've dated in the past all complain of one thing which is time.

I'm a second year neurosurgical resident here in new Jersey prior to my residency in this program, I was a medical officer whose job Is not more demanding , I had a girlfriend who's always complaining of me not being there for her tho I give her money and always visiting her if I'm on shift even though I got limited time to prepare for a medical board exam to get into residency (USMLE) those know about the exam knows how crazy it was, a three steps examination.

She broke up with me for a guy she always call her friend..the heart break almost cost me my step 2 CK, life goes on. Here am I in neurosurgery, my first day was like hell imagine being in the O.R for 16 hrs straight without seeing the sun because they brought multiple patients who sustained brain injury during a road accident, I nearly cried, to my chief of surgery ..An attending surgeon it's like nothing I almost regretted being there and not going to family medicine or internal medicine.

This has made me so awful that if see me you'll think I'm a mad man...is either I'm in the O.R or I'm sleeping no time for family, Cinema, vacation, the girl Ioved has left me all because of time. I make money i don't have time to spend, money is now useless to me because there is no time to look after myself ..in the next 1hr I'll be in the middle of a surgery. It's just crazy, is this how I'll spend the rest of my life? No woman? It's frustrating .

Last week i collapsed in the middle of a surgery because we just finished removing a tumor In the right part of the brain barely two hours, I was sleeping when I got an urgent call to report to the O.R ... I'm now regretting choosing this program. Can a lady love a guy whose everyday life is like this? I think not.

What do you think I can do please mature minds. I'll be 29 by June.

According to Akon, Niggar with money got no time.

Those with time, have got no money.

A woman will pray for you as her man to have something doing so you can provide comfortably..When you are working on that, she starts complaining you are giving all your time to money chase and neglecting her.. In the long run she starts drifting to one jobless fellow who channelled his time on her.

Then, small small she begin to obtain you with the hustle and money to remit to the jobless guy who mighg have started drilling and chilling her.

If you aren't smart, you will become Aaron..

Anyways, keep moving, when you meet yours and yours alone, she will be a motivation to you and your hustle.

Anyone that complains, is not yours.

opera1:
When you already aware of a bomb close to you, you went ahead to trigger it.

There comes a time, you won't care about the bomb, when you are deep in L...

FeliciaOja:
This Woman Single handedly gave Hope to over 3 million Evenning Newspapers

Hope ke, it depends on the lady in question..One who is void of nasty character..

No mata the time, she will meet her man..

Mariangeles:
Ha yiri ndi otu nne ji.

They were made for each other.

Simi is flexible and can adapt with almost any man..

She has a very unique Personality as woman...She can influence even the most quiet man.

Mariangeles:
Adekunle Gold is super blessed to have Simi as his wife.

As in eeh..She is a vibe as a wife, a babe and a mother.

For them to break up and still come back together during their single days, shows she is worth fighting for by Adekunle.

Dogasas:
Who Knows The Answers To This ? (PHOTO)

What do they really say?

A lot..Especially when they are friends.


It is their day so you won't expect them to sit like dummy looking around.

Funny question though.


Even people whisper and communicate during sex, not to talk of their big day

ArewaNorth:
2023: There’s no such office as Igbo presidency – Ahamba to Southeast aspirants




https://dailypost.ng/2022/04/20/2023-theres-no-such-office-as-igbo-presidency-ahamba-to-southeast-aspirants/

Point of correction, chief Mike Ahamba has never contestested for any Governorship in Imo state...He is simply a highly respected làwyer any where in the country and also an elder state man.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar


Goal
Arsenal deliver for me

Straight wining

Ticket wey go cut, go cut..

Cashio:
Fear dat game for higher institutions. Back then during lodge parties, defaulters will be made to sip some alcohol and before you know it, all the girls are drunk and they start doing the dare boldly.

Chai

Lodge party that year...I was dared to pick a girl and kiss..A girlfriendless me Boldly pick Amara, na so everyone shock o

Amara sef run..shy shy..

Fun game sha..Though some use it to get closer to who they are crushing on

Mariangeles:
You're living purposeful life. For humanity, nature and yourself.
Chukwu gozie oru aka gi.

There was one guy that shared his story here on how he made so much money by going to some remote communities, paying them some little amount of money(which they consider much) so that they can allow him cut down their trees.
Omg! I was mad on nature's behalf.
He was exploiting their ignorance.

Amen!

During NYSC, my PPA was a remote area...I had opportunity to ghost it and build my business, But I said this is my first time of spending time in a remote area more than 2weeks...I spent 10months plus there..To be honest it opened my eyes to life in the rural...

A total experience in life.

Yea, some people come to exploit them as well...Poverty is something one must fight tooth and nail.

Petty executioner...And a joker..

Mariangeles:
E no pay to buy spag again.
Na to kuku go back to rice.

I swear

ReneeNuttall:
Beautiful, elegant and classy.

I swear...

Uwa di soft

To Bishop Hassan kukah...

Useless UAR...

Mariangeles:
You even rear turkey? Wow!
Your life must be exciting!
Imagine waking up everyday to be surprised by sprouting plants and surrounded by animals.
God forbid any accidents; Do you know that you're likely to live long?



Otu okwesiri. Anwu kega na Lagos ehn...
It hardly rains.

Onwekwara ike o! You never know.

Yea I do, though I removed Turkey project since 2018..

But a client made me return to it this year....And it is amazing

Ndu mu wunu mmimmi.. Sweet and interesting.
It is fun waking up to these things...You move round from, layers section, to broiler section, to turkey, to the plants.

Then you realize how you are helping others put food on their table..Both direct and indirect labour..

You can but appreciate God for using you to Impact to the little society within.

Just a stepping stone sha..

I will live long to see my great grand children in good health with my wife..

My covenant with God in addition to wealth to help people.

Chai, we are enjoying cool and chill weather here na.

Fine..I look forward to that..Soon

Mariangeles:
Hahahahahahaha

Akwa I guwala uri?

Hehehehe di guy choro ichinye nyere ndi BB m aja na garri anyi.

Foreseer:
Useless reality show.

After they will be blaming the younger generation

Yourrrrr business, if them useless na your business?

Rollsnjaguar:
Never knew she is from Imo State.

Happy married life to her.

Not just Imo state, she is from the popular waturuocha dynasty.

Mariangeles:
Hehehehehehehe

Okwaya?

I want ask ehn; do you only set up farms for clients or you have your own farms too?
If you do, what do you have planted on your own farm(s)?
Mmiri o zowala ofuma ebe ulo?

I set up farms on consultancy basis...And as well coordinate the businesses going on it for some clients.

Then, I have mine..grow alot of growables

Vegetables, birds, Turkey, plantain , yam, maize...Basically an all round farmer..

It is something driven by passion for me..Though the country is frustrating the expansion plans..But God pass buhari and ndi uwa..

Yes..Mmrir abanyela gear3

Nke a ijuga, I choro inye m contract?

Kids from comfortable homes problem..The way that 10year old girl was riding calls for more questioning..This probably isn't her first sex.

Some girls spoil on time..Some adult must have influenced her negatively.

echomanji:
I have a wife and a 3Yr old baby. My wife is my issue tho.

1) she has low sex drive of which i've learnt to live wit without cheating on her.

2) she is overjealous to the extent of calling any of my friends that demands too much of my attention to backoff, most especially the female friends.

3) gets angry so easily and when she does, she doesnt even talk to me for days, nt even greeting. Even when she is at fault. I'll be the one begging. She only asks me for money to cook and that is all.

I'm tired of this to be honest and i'm considering calling it quits. I love her with all my heart bt this marriage is torment 4 me. I'm getting fed up wit the whole thing. I've tried severally to talk sense into her all to no avail.

Need advice pls.....

This is where dating for long becomes helpful..It gives room to see eachother finish, which is normal...As long as you both are in it, then problems of marriage is half solved..

Before the marriage..

You come to know eachother's strength and weakness..And how to respect and understand eachother.

Irijosa777:
https://www.nairaland.com/7081206/fiancee-got-pregnant-ex-during#111992137

The above thread remind me of the discussion I had with my friend last week about what happened with my elder brother and his girlfriend back then in 2014 in benin.
I told my friend that if I go into a relationship I must find out about my girlfriend past relationship with her ex, I also told her that I'm in support of DNA test for children especially for first child.

The reason is this, when I was staying with my brother at Ogida mobile barrack Benin City. My brother had a girlfriend that normally come and visit us once in a while though my brother is married, he had 4 children but his family is in Delta state.

To cut the long story short, this girl brought her marriage invitation card to my brother, but could you believe that a week before her wedding this girl came to our house and had sex with my brother... I guessed that was farewell sex. I couldn't believe it, ur wedding is next week and you are here sleeping with another man, unbelievable.

That time I'm not as wise as this, God knows I would have lick her secret life to her husband to be and that would have stop him from marrying her.

Since then, I just lost confidence on girls' faithfulness especially those who are connected with their ex.

If na by this, No think am, Unless you don't want to marry...

Many married women are banging their Ex currently..

The worst is that, In this situation, A man gives the consent, and you know the saying " A man is always ready".

It takes a principled guy not to fvck up...Women just want that immediate satisfaction, most times they don't care about the consequences.

Mariangeles:
O ga a wu maka na m di multifaceted?

I relate with people based on what I have in common with them.

Lol..onye gwara gi suo oke oyibo on Easter Monday?

And you belong to home..I ga alota ulo..

MadamVanessa:




So the fingering they were doing back then when class was going on finally pays today. But assuming they were caught back then, the guy wouldn't have been punished and rusticated and the girl would've been suspended for allowing the guy to finger her. But see today, their action finally pays, and everybody hearing this news today including their teachers will congratulate them.

Lol

Secondary school fingering eeh

Nawa o