₦airaland Forum

Iyaebe:
So you see nothing wrong here? hian

If some ladies feel happy doing bridal showers, And some men want to, no problem.

What matters is happiness...As for me,I mind my business.

Iyaebe:
I hate all these modern misogynists called men,always copying and competing with women on everything, what's this rubbish again? I think this is a new invention from the redpillers

no dulling..

The guys are following up bumper to bumper.

Mariangeles:
A nula'm.

Ngwanu o..

magmaxmagma:
3 weeks ago, My two sisters in Uni (One is already planning on getting married) came to visit due to the strike.

Armed men 4 in total broke into our house around 1 am, I woke up after hearing a heavy bang, they are already in the parlour, at gunpoint they asked me to bring all my laptops, money and valuables, the robbers forced me and my sisters (unfortunately in night clothes) to the master room, they tore their dresses, in turns they forcefully raped them, I begged and cried for them to stop but one of them smashed my head with the gun and told me if i move he would shoot me in the head.

I haven't been able to sleep and my sisters are so traumatized, I couldn't do anything to help but watch them cry while these monsters raped them. i am so depressed and unhappy, how can i move on from this sad event?

I don't know for you, but If na me, I will fight it.

Even if it means to sacrifice my life. Than live with such trauma.

Since you didn't fight it there , get to the root of it, go with whatever it will take even if it is diabolical..The culprit live in your neighbourhood..They have Intel on you and your family.

Find out and clean up this mess...Na virus be this

GooodHardDick:
What's the name of this movie?

Somebody is traumatized watching his two sisters cry for help and he couldn't do anything...You want to convert it to a child's play

The joke is on you.

Mariangeles:


A ma'm eshi ahu o, but she rather went with those making excuses for her, than accept the consequences of the decision she made.

Good you noticed...
How she avoided those who blamed her for her wrong choice and was mentioning ndi kwuru nke o likiri..Typical of Most nairalanders.

To the issue of discourse, make kwa sure si onye i ga e choose nwere the major things needed.

O kwa Ada nna ya ji eme onu ka i wu o.

I lu Ada na Igbo neediri nwoke nor ka nwoke si anor..lol

Sixfiguresmart:
So, she felt bored since she moved in from her previous base. She got not friends around and was always home. Friends has a tasking job.
So, he asked me to call her sometimes when I am free. I call and we have healthy conversations for hours. I am very cautious of any emotional strings. I spell it out to her in clever ways during the conversations.

However, it is becoming addictive. She obliges to certain things only when I ask her to even after declining her husband's suggestions. My friend is so soft and can't seem to handle a tough and educated lady like her.
So, she compares me to him few times and wants him to be like me in terms of being conversational and humurous. Her man isn't willing to change.

So, I am distancing myself away from her because it is becoming an addiction for her to express herself freely with me and spend more time with me rather than my friend. I step in each time they quarrel.

Should I continue the healthy conversation spree or continue with my busy shedule excuses?

Don't betray him because of a woman.

Most of them will want the face of otedola, in dangote's body and a ruggedity of Elon musk with a sprinkle of Putin.

A bro before woman...

The only woman before a bro is your mom, your sister, your wife or your daughter.

She is shifting focus from her man to you, if I am you, I will give her a surface of Exactly what her man is to redirect her mindset to see it as all men are the same..Then fall back to her man.

The more you give her exactly what she wanted, the more she drifts away from your friend.

This a reason why I don't like making my friend's babe or wives too relaxed around me..

Women are wired differently..If she gets too closer, I wear my cold uniform...

Na only my woman suppose enjoy the sweet and comfortable side of me...Any other must be in check..Before Ndaa's goat will chop Ndaa's yam.

Dominion791:
I've been seeing this girl for the last few months, since early January of this year. Not an official relationship and we haven't really talked about what we are. Not sure exactly how to describe her so I'm just going to use her as a friend in benefit as the description.

There was some emotion in our relationship but it was mostly sexual. I've always been really, really good about using condoms and this is the first time I've ever been in this pregnancy situation.

I'm pretty unsure if I am the father. We had sex about twice a week for the last three months. So I have no clue who she saw or was with nor do I really care to be honest. There is more than a little doubt in my mind if I am the father.

For what its worth she insists I am the father but I don't know. She learned she was pregnant on March 22nd. She Told me on 24th. I immediately encouraged her to get an abortion I've offered to cover it all cost . She said she would think about. Its been almost 2 weeks and no abortion.

I spoke to her this morning and its becoming kind of clear that an abortion probably isn't happening. She is starting to get kind of tired of me pushing the abortion. I don't know what else to do. I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. I can't afford to raise a child right now and I certainly don't want a family right now. I'm thinking of telling her to reconsider the abortion or take care of the baby alone.

What do I do now?

You didn't realize you are jobless when you wear condom, remove her pant to pump..

Come on go and prepare for fatherhood abeg..Soon you will begin to respect your parents.

If you two comfortably uncloth yourselves and smash, you can equally team up to raise a kid/kids..

Make I no hear say you abort the future president of Nigeria o

premierlead:
Oga, but we married already. We did a traditional wedding now

Very simple case..She cheated.

For me, it is a deal breaker..I don't share my woman..Unless we are done for.

If she finds another man attractive(sexually), I am no longer enough...She is going to leave that second, minute, hour.

She disgraced you...Cheating without respect.

Anyway, how you guys started is a messy way..You already know what she is capable of. So regarding this, It shouldn't come to you as a shock.

She played your mom and you as well.

No be by greeting everyone on the street, if you know the way, you will spot bad babe from a distance.

Moreover you are in the academic field, your woman should be from there..Otherwise with this one, you will father kids who aren't yours...Shine ya eye.

Mariangeles:
Elee ke wu push and start?

Udi di that lady si she is burnt out some days ago..Ihe a wu typical example of push and start.

When you look at beauty of a woman or handsomeness of a man as main reason for marriage.

She avoided your question of what attracted her To the guy O ga akarikwanu fine boy and great in bed.

Forgetting bills will double when kids start coming.

Cool,cute and matured...Exactly how it should be.

Not keeping one immature man/lady that will add to the stress of Buhari's government.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Short black niggarrrr

African rappers number 1

Vector tried to murder you...but he can't

Only your brother (Jesse jags) can murder you

Judas the rat..

Bob the builder...

Gofwane:
Come to ilorin and see the level of disappointment we are facing.

They just can't seem to do anything close to the sample you gave them. All they are after is your money.

I saw a set of sofa similar to one below and contracted a carpenter to make the same for me. You need to see the nonsense the idiot made.

I for jejely buy plastic chairs walahi.

After Nigerian tailors, fear carpenters..

Then fear online vendors..

Toeyean1507:
Most online vendors are something else.

Sade the last

Lekwa Musa na gate..

ednut1:
Team white people how market.

This question though

Mariangeles:
Okwu m o di ka okwu onye shakara?



Of course.

If it's a joint business, then yes.
Otherwise, it has to be temporary.



It is even better when couples plan and work together.

What I mean is we don't procrastinate in everything.

O di ka o Mgbe nwaanyi si she no want wetin go stress her, o wu nu onye guy..

If na so, I ga agbara marriage oso...Maka stress ya na ya so wu a must.

No mata how you see it, ofu partner will always come with lackadaisical attitude towards some things..I am talking from experience with the women av been with...Then, my parents and some married friends.

In all, just don't marry a push and start partner..It will drain the energy in the union.

PlayMaker14:
Senior Man Munzy...

Seun na sense man.. he no go like put this one up for shares purchase..

Mariangeles:
That is too much responsibility for one person, and I don't like it. (It'll stress me out, and I hate being stressed out)
Spouses should ease the stress for one another by doing their part.



I'll definitely do what is expected of me.

Not in all aspects.

Exactly.

I wu onye shakara? ..

One thing you must know, marriage changes a lot, and kids changes everything..Positive adjustment

So your hubby cannot leave some of his business in your hands to manage and handle proceeds and payments? ka m nukwa na ikwe hu..lol

It is fun for some women when oga leave a lot in their hands..Or they leave more in their hubby's hand.

Again what you see as stress, might be fun to the next woman/man..

A couple have what makes their union move sweetly.

Lol...Why the emphasis of not all in all aspect?

Johnnycastro18:
I tire for some of this our leaders, see the old man APC elected as there chairman with white hairs all over his eyebrows. Keep recycling old men and we expect new result in the country. Is really pathetic

Very pathetic o.

Johnnycastro18:
he does not even look physical healthy and fit for that post. Wonder why old men won't give themselves rest and enjoy there old age

Some old men like Tinubu have lost their conscience, they are driven by Inordinate ambitions..

Even Buhari knows Tinubu is not the man for the job..A job he messed up.

Nigeria needs a well read, younger technocrat with clear vision to lead..

Ndipe:
It's very embarrassing for any law abiding parent to have a wayward child out of fear that their good name would be dragged in the mud by their actions. Back in Nigeria, the adult son of a high ranking church official was suspected of breaking into my alma mata's chapel and looting items, much to the consternation of my relatives, who wondered breathlessly, "What of his parents"? I simply brushed his involvement aside because of his notorious reputation on campus. It got so worse that according to one of my school mates, his father had threatened to disown him, much to his wife's chagrin (the guy's mom) who cried. Not long ago, a prominent man's daughter recently got a divorce and one of my friends said something to the effect that since her father holds a prominent position in the Church, then perhaps, he ought to have done something (I have forgotten exactly how he paraphrased it, but he sort of held her father accountable particularly since the girl gave birth while she was still a teenager. I disagreed with him.

And my question is this: Should parents be held accountable for the bad actions of their adult children?

Yes...Backed by Proverb 22:6

Johnnycastro18:
am amazed

Tinubu is not pure..

Mariangeles:
I don't find that cute or romantic at all.
I see people who do that as financially lazy/irresponsible.

Lol, well the best manager is handling the resources for both.

You may condemn it now, you won't know when you will find yourself doing as a married woman.

O kwa i ma ihe zodiac gi wu? unu ji a procrastinate ofuma...That alone could lead to such.

But, I think everyone is best to manage their money, and comes in when the other partner calls for help, verbally or by non-verbal actions.

Mariangeles:
Is violence common in a marriage?

I think spouses should have control of their own money they worked for. Right?

Well sometimes, unserious things might be reason for violence..Based on unhappy situation.

Some partners are extravagant, so they on their own will want the other partner to be in charge.

When I was in school, my guy gets tipsy easily, so he had an agreement with his babe to act whenever he comes near alcohol..Then we get pissed when the babe humiliate him in Public...But it is what works for them..

They are married today...So imagine who will flex muscle pass..And the babe was recently commissioned as an officer with the customs..So power don add.

Mariangeles:
Chineke e kwela ihe ojoo!

Either way, it's not right.

Lol..

What if it prevents violence?

I just checked the first page, see comments attesting to the fact some couples operate like that.

Some women do the same, even 50naira worth of goods , Oga go do transfer

I know one ghan ghan, rich couple o, but na her baby the handle Any thing money and purchase.

Johnnycastro18:
How can Tinubu and oshoimole be the same Age.?

Lol..Inside life

Iyaebe:
lol I’m their online chairperson

Na so...fear fear

Iyaebe:
lol na me be their register

Taa...them the talk bad gang you come dey make noise..

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Na so!

Una no dey tire na..Market must sell.

Iyaebe:
You want to join us in our bad gang abi

Reverend sister who carry you go bad gang.